Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls

Recording of Live call in the Masculine Underground FB Group [forum.masculineunderground.com]The Joker Movie shook me quite a bit. Many people don't understand masculine depression/low status outcastment. The movie embodied it in a way more real than I was expecting.Most people don't understand masculine depression and vulnerability. That's why so many of the messages to men come off as condescending and further alienating. I talk about that, and how men can "rise up the chain" in a constructive and empowering way, instead of a cowardly one.1:45 Joker movie & male experience6:11 Depression as a different reality8:01 Risking failure, dominance hierarchy16:47 Delusion around female affection20:00 the Winner Effect on hormones20:45 Steps out of depression21:50 Constructive failure25:45 Letting go of 'Failure Identity'27:20 Dropping recurring self-sabotage21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: https://bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit youtube.ruwando.com.'The Masculine' (testosterone-fueled characteristics) exists to handle material reality. Men who don't recognise the Sunday being weak partners and don't give women the opportunity to be women.If you want to create the environment where a woman feel emotionally safe to surrender into the joys of love and softness, you must understand her emotional reality.Men who have power, take responsibility. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Frank teaches sexual shamanism and recently retired from sensual entertainment events. He and I speak from his home in Montreal on layers of reality perception, sexual polarity, post-metoo masculinity, and more.See his work at frankmondeose.com.#Masculinity #Dating #Tantra #SacredSexuality #SexualPolarity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Repost-- the Wrong recording was published last week. Sorry about that!FB Live from the Masculine Underground group: http;//forum.masculineunderground.comFree course: arousalcontrolsecrets.com2:07 Sexual Shame in boyhood6:11 Chemical drivers/rewards in sex8:12 Mental atrophy from porn habits11:40 destruction of young males by pharmasociety13:01 predator vs. prey chemicals14:02 pros and cons of NoFap14:44 problems with the 12 Step approach 17:06 Mantak Chia: Is it okay to come?18:16 Arousal as a currency23:37 dealing with the anger and grief the comes up27:33 compulsion and self-loathing See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Guy Shahar is the founder of the Tantra Institute of NY that teaches workshops around the world and runs Tantra Speed Date. We go way back and talk about man-woman stuff. Check out his events at: https://www.tantrany.com/?aff=1rupod#Dating #Tantra #Psychology #Masculinity #RedPill #Feminism #MeToo #Consent See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

1:32 Paying for women on dates, providing, screening golddiggers, what to look for8:32 Text game, communication tempo, how to know what to text, subcommunication, leading vulnerability17:02 Sexual Performance Psychology23:34 Overcoming Shame ShameThis is from the FB Live in the Masculine Underground Forum.To ask questions and attend live join the free FB Group: forum.masculineunderground.comLearn about Archetypal Masculinity: https://archetype.ruwando.com/21 Day Masculine Archetype Challenge: http://bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Brittnee and I talk about man-woman stuff outside of South Africa's parliament.BrittneeBond.comRemoteCollective.com#Feminism #Gender #SouthAfrica #MasculineFeminine #RedPill #Relationships #Masculinity #Psychology See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Recording of the FB live in the Masculine Underground FB Group.There was a delay on the comments so I didn't see the questions that came in... But I discussed the recent Puer Aeternus video on YouTube. It seemed to have touched a lot of guys who still see themselves as 'boys' in their mind.Catch the next AMA in the group 10/11am every Sunday: https://www.facebook.com/groups/569093646766486/See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata and men’s coach. We go deep into attachment theory for men in dating, the spirituality of beauty, and some of the inevitable “magical” experiences when a man reaches advanced levels with women.Find his work at ArsAmorata.com & JordanLukeCollier.com.Ruwando.com/Podcast#Archetype #Psychology #Dating #Relationships #RedPill #Feminism #Masculinity See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

The second weekly discussion in the Masculine Underground Facebook Group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/569093646766486/)(I'm a week late posting it.) We discussed Topping vs. Bottoming and answered some questions on being seen/heard/felt.Join the group to catch the next ones live, every Sunday at 10/11am EST. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe