Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls

“Sex is the poor man’s meditation.” ~ Leslie SeleneLeslie Selene is a spiritual medium, meditation teacher, and author. She was introduced to me many years ago as a ‘Witch Doctor’ when I was in a cult... Many things she told me back then finally clicked in my head five years later. We speak about her take on mysticism from different cultures, trauma and spirituality, sex work, and her various initiations in sexuality and mysticism. You can find Leslie on Facebook. Her books, Inviting Her In: diary of a witch and The Ariadne Dreamtime Network of Psychic Assassins can be found on Amazon. Her next book, Decolonizing Mysticism: a Book of Shadows, will be available from Hexenhammer Press next summer.#Mysticism #Witchcraft #Orishas #Voodoo #BlackMadonna #Paganism #PracticalMagic #Cult #Occult #SexMagic See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Melanie Curtin is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships.She shares some of her interesting data points on male-female sexuality, tips for increased intimacy, and the importance of cougars for younger male sexual education..."God bless cougars" said Melanie. (And I agree. :))You can get $200 off her course at http://www.PleaseHerInBed.com/ with the discount code: RUWANDOhttps://www.MelanieCurtin.com/#Sexuality #SexResearch #Intimacy #Neuroplasticity #Dating #Relating #Cougars #ArchetypalPsychology #RelationshipPsychology See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

One the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-driven, it's actually a great goal as it forces you to grow as man. Here's what you need to know.21 Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetypehttp://forum.masculineunderground.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Audio version of this week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotions. When I was a Libido and Relationship Counselor I found one key cause in BOTH individual psychogenic sexual dysfunction (erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, anorgasmia) AND when couples can't enjoy sex with each other.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Audio version of last week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Does jelquing work? Kind of, but not in the way you may expect. Here what you really need to know about the quest for enlargement.Learn more about ninja bedroom skills at ArousalControlSecrets.comJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

We got some seemingly disparate topic requests in the forum.masculineunderground.com this week: finding life direction, psychogenic premature ejaculation, traversing from non-sexual to sexual communication. But they actually have similar principles that are foundational to masculinity:1:11 Finding your life direction11:41 psychogenic sexual dysfunctions/ premature ejaculation20:10 escalating from nonsexual to sexual communication27:09 Embodying the dark masculine/dominance in the bedroom in love relationshipsFree training on ejaculation control at ArousalControlSecrets.comArchetype Class: http://bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Summer is my former radio co-host, business partner, and a long time friend. Last time she was on the podcast (Ep. 050) she shared some enlightening perspectives on relationships. Now she’s engaged, so I had her and her fiance on to talk about it in practice.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc)I took some of the tactics I learned as a "party goer" and employed them as a "party thrower". In a sense I became a mini-cult leader. My intentions, as most peoples' were good... but power corrupts.In this video I share a little more of group reality creation, some basic brainwashing "techniques" used on and by me, and what I believe are the useful nuggets for everyone. I also answer all the questions that were asked after the recording of Part 1 in my FB group. If you're a guy and want to participate in the interactive live recording, join here: http://forum.masculineunderground.comArchetype Class: http://archetype.ruwando.com See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions or saying a particular thing. Often people aren't actually being vulnerable when they think they are. If you're watching this, I assume you already understand the benefits of vulnerability. This video will help you become aware of actual vulnerability. It might not be what you think, but it is within your control.Join the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype#ArchetypalMasculinity #DominancePsychology #JordanPetersonJungianArchetypes #WhatisMasculinitytoYou See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Solla Pizzuto teaches about healing and sexuality from both Taoist and Tantric perspectives. She coordinates the Meeting of the Masters retreat in Chiang Mai, Thailand (which is what had me move to Thailand 2 yrs ago.) She and I speak on Taoist and Tantric practices, “dark room enlightenment”, and male sexual performance. You can find out more about the retreat at the link below. (P.S. I’ll be around.)MeetingofMasters.com SollaWellness.com@sollatao on IGJoin the Men's FB Group: Forum.MasculineUnderground.com21 Day ♂Archetype Challenge: bit.ly/21archetype See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe