Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls

I had COVID this week. It wasn't too bad.But in my feverdom I had an old recurring dream where I am forced to accept my death.And it reminded me of an essay I read about how “primitive man” didn't fear death nor aging, because at every stage of his life he felt so fulfilled.This episode explores this idea of Ultimate Fulfillment drawing from an essay by a Mr. Kaczynski, Into the Wild, and other ponderings.133 Ultimate Fulfillment & Welcoming DeathAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Your default tendencies when it comes to Status/Power, Deservingness, sense of Connection/Belonging, Trust is a function of your pre-conscious nervous system. Its the part of your brain that almost identical to that of a dog...This episode goes into how to understand your "Dog Brain" and recondition yourself from low status perception to high status perception, distrust to trust, and not deserving to deserving.Brought to you by KUDRA - a herbal adaptogen to help you become more resilient against stress.Get 10% off for life for a limited time >>> drinkkudra.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

When things aren't ideal in a relationship it's normal to wonder, "should I try to make this work, or move on and look for something better?"Jeff had this question some months ago at a critical point in his relationship. In this episode he shares his experience in finding clarity and peace and happiness in his relationship life. Jeff is a friend and former client.Brought to you by KUDRA: herbal adaptogen, nootropic, SuperFood. Now offering free shipping in the US. www.drinkkudra.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

It's one thing to be confident and secure when everything is going your way. But if you're challenging yourself that won't always be the case."How do you win the Inner Game when your Outer Game has yet to catch up?"Miiska Van Renterghem is a coach and former client. We discuss his question along with masculine responsibility, self worth, and some other topics.Brought to you by KUDRA-- An adaptogen tea that improves your body's response to stress, lowering cortisol, and improving focus. Get 10% off for a limited time at www.drinkkudra.com.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

"Peace is hard earned."Patrick is a friend and former client. We speak about my recent Dark Night of the Soul, fatherhood, Socrates, and how language creates reality.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

The Dark Night of the Soul is a stage in the individuation process where one gets the opportunity to re-align with the unconscious.It's often associated with "feeling down" but is not the same thing. This episode hits on the "Dilemma of Honor", Kiekegaard's Knights of Faith and Infinite Resignation, Carl Jung's Red Book, and how to transform through your Dark Night process.'Sponsored' by KUDRA, an adaptogen beverage that can lower your cortisol, mitigate caffeine, and help you enter the Present. Get 10% off at https://www.drinkkudra.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Polarity and harmony tend to be at odds in relationships — Obviously, the more different you and your partner are, the more likely there will be misunderstandings. But does that mean a polarized relationship needs to be a chaotic one? Absolutely not. Here's how to ensure harmony while maintaining polarity in your relationship.#relationshippolarity #unifyyourhousehold #mastermoralityAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

'Inner Game' is often synonymized with confidence, but its original usage refers to a game you can play... and win. And winning the inner game is the key to dropping shame, welcoming peak performance, and perhaps even existential fulfillment.#virtueofcuriosity #howtowintheinnergame #increaseenthusiasmAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

Last week I spoke about why I've stopped using "vulnerability"... and why being truthful is a prerequisite for control of your reality. But if you have a history of "low fidelity" (anything from compulsive lying to being vague), becoming more truthful is easier said than done.>> Join a circle of high fidelity men at MasculineUnderground.com/mastermind#howtogetgoodattellingthetruth #highfidelityreality #howtobeanhonorablemanAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe

"Goodness is something to be chosen. When a man cannot choose he ceases to be a man." (Anthony Burgess, A Clockwork Orange)Noelfry and I discuss Master vs. Slave consciousness in both society and in one's personal life. We cover the foundational actions of "owning your reality'. I reference some fictional examples from the Lion King, A Clockwork Orange, and Shantaram.Want to discuss philosophy with me and other smart dudes?Check out >>> the Masculine Underground {mastermind} group#beyondgoodandevilmorality #nietzsche #howtoownyourrealityAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Get full access to Ruwando Substack at ruwando.substack.com/subscribe