Man Within Podcast

Sathiya Sam
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Apr 15, 2022 • 13min

261 - How Do I Know If I Am Sober or Actually Free?

We know that sobriety and freedom are not the same thing. Sobriety is behaviorally focused, freedom is inner focused. One can be sober, but not free. Yet one who is free will eventually become sober. But when you start to have some success – how do you tell if you are sober or free? Today's episode answers this question in-depth while providing markers that indicate which side you have landed on as you pursue healing and recovery. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 14, 2022 • 1h 1min

260 - Helen Taylor on Why Watching Porn Fuels Sex Trafficking, The Importance of Protective Legislation, and Redefining ”Consent” In The Digial Age

Helen Taylor is the Vice President of Impact for Exodus Cry, an organization committed to abolishing sex trafficking and commercial sexual exploitation. They are known for their award-winning documentaries and wildly successful activism campaigns against exploitation in pornography. On today's episode, Helen and Sathiya discuss the intrinsic link between pornography and sex trafficking, detailing 4 specific ways that even the slightest porn consumption feeds sex trafficking around the globe. They also discuss the importance of protective legislation, especially for children and women, and redefining consent in today's modern era of smartphones, tablets, and 24/7 internet access. Sign The Petition To Protect Children From Porn Make A Donation Find our more about Exodus Cry   Get a FREE copy of my bestselling blueprint for porn addiction recovery, The Last Relapse
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Apr 13, 2022 • 15min

259 - What If I Secretly Enjoy Watching Porn Just A Little Bit?

Many men who want to be free of porn also simulataneously enjoy it. In this odd paradox, many men accuse themselves of being "perverted" or "messed up", when in reality, this is a very normal experience. Today's episode explains WHY this dynamic exists and how embracing it can actually lead to healing and strength along the way. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 12, 2022 • 16min

258 - Having Trouble Comitting? Try this.

In a culture and social climate that is daily conditioning us for instant gratification, we are finding it harder and harder to embrace the uncomfortable and inconvenient. Today's episode explains the less-discussed underbelly of instant gratification and the way it is wreaking havoc on our overall quality of life. It also outlines a very simple practical step you can exercise on a daily basis that will re-condition your mind to delay gratification and make better decisions. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 11, 2022 • 16min

257 - Extinguishing The Flaming Arrows of The Enemy

We know that the enemy lies and accuses us to pull us away from the truth. We know that he regularly bombard us with thoughts, schemes, and reasonings that oppose the truth of God. So instinctively, we try to identify the inciting events and heal from them. This may be trauma recovery, inner healing, etc. Today's episode explores why sometimes we can heal from traumas of our past, have moments of breakthroughs, and then fall back to where we were before. The secret sauce is in the text of Ephsians 6. Enjoy! Check out my interview on CTV Your Morning!  Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 8, 2022 • 16min

256 - This Question Makes Grown Men Cry

In today's episode, Sathiya gives rare insight into how he vets clients for DeepClean, including a question he typically asks applicants that often evokes a strong emotional response – including tears sometimes! While it is an evocative question, it must be answered if you are a man who is serious about overcoming compulsive sexual misbehavior. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 7, 2022 • 56min

255 - Dr. Tamara Rosier on The ADHD Brain, Practical Ways To Manage ADHD, and Why Those With ADHD Are Not Second-Class Christians

Tamara Rosier, PhD, is the founder of the ADHD Center of West Michigan, where she and her staff work with individuals with ADHD (and their families) to learn strategies and develop new skills to live effectively with ADHD. Dr. Rosier is also the president of the ADHD Coaches Organization (ACO). Her book, Your Brain’s Not Broken, discussed strategies for managing the emotional aspects of ADHD. In today's interview, she discusses the inextricable link between ADHD and addiction, why you must slow down and become emotionally aware before you begin the healing process, and insight into how someone with ADHD experiences Church (absolutely fascinating). She also provides practical steps that you can take if you think you might have ADHD or if you have ADHD but are still struggling to regulate it. If you're looking for more guidance, I highly recommend checking out Dr. Tamara Rosier's book, Your Brain's Not Broken. For more updates, visit her website https://www.tamararosier.com/   Get my blueprint to experience lasting freedom. Order a copy of The Last Relapse Join DeepClean Inner Circle, a free, private community of men from around the world pursuing freedom just like you.
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Apr 6, 2022 • 15min

254 - Do Not Make This Mistake In Conflict Resolution

Relational conflict is an inevitability – as long as there are people on the planet, there will be conflicts too. Building skills to resolve conflict is one of the most preventative ways to quit porn. Many men choose to watch porn because they cannot resolve conflicts in their key relationships. Other times, it is simply the distress of ongoing on conflicts that drive compulsive sexual behavior. Today's episode explores these dynamics, and explains why resolving conflict with the intent to let the other person know how you feel is a futile endeavor. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 5, 2022 • 17min

253 - Three Questions That Will Reveal Your Purpose

The million dollar question for most Christians today is, "What's my purpose?" This episode is designed to give you an overarching concept of how to define purpose, and three critical questions that will help you acknowledge or refine the call God has placed on your life. This is a challenging subject for many, but one that must be addressed head on to experience fulfillment and freedom in life. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse
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Apr 4, 2022 • 15min

252 - Why Everything DOESN’T Happen For A Reason

You may have heard the statement "Everything happens for a reason" as consolation for a difficult experience or to provide some optimism that things will work out even though they look bleak. While this statement is typically made from a good place, it implies intent, usually on God's part. This is not only a dangerous way to think, it is wrong, and it can often leave parts of our past unresolved. Today's episode explores an alternative way to settle difficult moments and why it is so critical in furthering your recovery journey. Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse

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