

The Family Teams Podcast
Jefferson Bethke & Jeremy Pryor
A place to get equipped and encouraged as you opt out of the western family experiment and say yes to building a multi-generational family team on mission.
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Aug 29, 2024 • 52min
Motherhood vs. The Infertile Cult of Self-Expression
Jeremy and April Pryor are joined by Annalisa Barraza, Holly Worley, and Jess Gonyea to discuss two topics surrounding motherhood and femininity, all through the Family Teams lens. First they react to whether there's a place for women to "be" in the family, when compared to working outside the home. Our culture has put "self-expression" as the highest virtue, but can we as Christians really buy into that? Next, they comment on the reality of a woman's biological clock (in reaction to a Brett Cooper video). Even in Christian circles, nobody is talking to young women about the reality of fertility, aging, and the process leading up to having kids, and it's creating a tragic epidemic of "unplanned childlessness". These are the conversations we need to be having to point people back to Truth, Reality, and Christ in a world that's absolutely bent on distorting it all in order to do violence to the family as a vehicle for God's will. On this episode, we talk about: 1:34 Does the "Christian right" need more of a vision for women than being a wife and mother? 5:34 Moms react...is there a place for women to "be" in a family setting? 20:23 The cultural lie that "self-expression" is the ultimate goal 22:48 The Proverbs 31 woman as a vision for mothers and wives 30:35 Brett Cooper on The Reality of a Woman's Biological Clock 40:54 The pill, society's view of children, and "babymoons" 47:40 Integrating your entire life Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Brett Cooper Video --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

Aug 22, 2024 • 47min
Responsible Inheritance for Christian Fathers: How To Make It A Blessing, Not A Curse
In this insightful discussion, Chris Cirullo, an expert on Christian inheritance, and Reilly Pilgrim, who explores inheritance's cultural impact, tackle the question: is inheritance a blessing or a curse? They emphasize the necessity of integrating adult children into family businesses for lasting success and critique modern parenting's influence on family legacies. The duo underscores the vital role fathers play in instilling ambition and nurturing spiritual values while advocating for a cooperative family environment that values both financial and character legacies.

Aug 15, 2024 • 55min
Are Our Kids "Good Inside"? Christian Moms React To Dr. Becky Kennedy's Parenting Advice
Jeremy is joined by his wife April, Kristin Netting, and Jess Gonyea to talk motherhood and parenting advice, specifically in reaction to some of the ultra-popular mainstream parenting influencers giving their opinions out there. Can the advice of parenting "experts" like Dr. Becky Kennedy be reconciled with a Biblical worldview? Is it helpful? How do we know what parts are helpful and which are harmful? On this episode, we talk about: 0:49 Processing Dr. Becky's parenting advice through a Biblical lens 2:18 The difference between making a request and setting a boundary 11:00 Women react to "turning up the volume" when there's an issue in the family and both spouses need to get on board 17:41 The framework issue between modern, Western marriages and Family Teams 21:13 Parenting from the belief that your child is innately good 36:57 Are our kids destined for shame and failure if we don't believe they're "good inside"? Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Dr. Becky Kennedy on The Knowledge Project Podcast Family Revision by Jeremy Pryor --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

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Aug 8, 2024 • 46min
Ancient Wisdom That Heals The Modern Family
Jeremy Pryor, a passionate advocate for revitalizing family dynamics, delivers a powerful Father's Day sermon, unraveling the modern family's struggles. He emphasizes the importance of understanding God's ancient design for family. Topics include the essence of fatherhood and its crisis today, the need for multi-generational connections, and the call to embrace spiritual parenthood. Pryor urges listeners to redefine family as a legacy-oriented mission, highlighting the hope that comes from nurturing strong, faith-rooted family ties.

Aug 1, 2024 • 48min
How Rumpelstiltskin Can Save You From Getting Into Debt And Ruining Your Life
Jeremy Pryor is joined by his children Jackson, Sydney, and Elisa to talk about debt, and how young people today are getting so easily sucked into making horrible financial decisions that often lead to LITERALLY giving up their first born child as payment. They do all this by dissecting the fairy tale Rumpelstiltskin, which is absolutely packed with symbolism that we can use to glean wisdom from for today. Learn the sad reality of why most young people get into debt, the various forces out there looking to "get" us (and our future earning years...and even our sense of meaning), and what we can do about it. On this episode, we talk about: 1:56 How to get the most out of fairy tales (and why they're not irrelevant today) 5:34 The story of Rumpelstiltskin 6:48 The point of the story...how and why debt starts 17:00 The vulnerability of young people entering into adulthood 20:06 The most brilliant symbol in the story...what happens when you run out of things to give? 33:31 The happy ending that requires you knowing the name 42:57 The gratitude your children will have if you train them and teach them about the traps of the world Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Family Revision by Jeremy Pryor --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

Jul 25, 2024 • 1h 5min
Dads React To Elon's Vow To Destroy The Woke Mind Virus
Jeremy Pryor is joined by Chris Cirullo and Phil Cotnoir to react to the recent interview between Jordan Peterson and Elon Musk, specifically focusing on Elon's personal experience with the woke transgender mind virus, and his vow to destroy it. This is a must-listen interview for all dads, because it is fathers who have the responsibility to stand up to these demonic attacks on our culture and our children and our neighbours. Jeremy, Chris, and Phil discuss awareness, counterattacks, the importance of giving an identity to your children, and why we need to expand the conversation from the cultural arena to the faith arena. On this episode, we talk about: 0:45 Intro to today's guests 3:04 Clip of Elon Musk and Jordan Peterson 9:47 The main lenses to look at this problem through 11:23 Does good Christian fatherhood inoculate our kids against these woke mind viruses? 15:54 Family and fatherhood identity 19:59 The post-modern teardown of externalized identities in favour of internalized identities 34:53 Navigating the Bible's narrow sexual ethic 40:04 Elon's vow to crush the woke mind virus 47:41 How do we come up with strategies to counterattack and defend our families? 56:28 Low hanging evangelism fruit Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: MissionFit.co PhilCotnoir.com Jordan Peterson Interviews Elon Musk Family Revision by Jeremy Pryor The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self by Carl Trueman --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

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Jul 18, 2024 • 43min
Why Mature Dads "Coach" (Not "Babysit") Their Kids
Jeremy Pryor reacts to 2 recent videos on topics important for Christian dads to consider, joined by fellow dads Phil Goodwin and Phil Cotnoir. Today's discussion includes attachment theory, what the "ideal" or "mature" version of masculinity and fatherhood really looks like, how to become a coach (not a babysitter) as a father, and how to balance being like Jesus with an intellectual belief in Jesus. On this episode, we talk about: 2:38 Attachment theory and what it means for fatherhood 11:01 The difference lifespan makes to multigenerational family 16:01 Rediscovering masculinity and the role of a father 22:45 "Rediscovering" Scriptural truth through science...and the limitations of research 28:59 The first step to recovering the role of "coach" as a father 34:12 Jordan Peterson and Russell Brand on the mistake of faith as mouthing a set of presuppositions --- Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com --- Resources Mentioned: jamm.co philcotnoir.com How To Raise A Securely Attached Child with Adam Lane Smith video Family Plan Calendar Family Revision Take Back Your Family by Jefferson Bethke The Moment Jordan Peterson CONVERTED Russell Brand to Christianity video --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

Jul 11, 2024 • 55min
Hope for Multigenerational Families
Jeremy and April are joined by 5 members of the Steward family to talk about how Jim and Jennifer built a tight-knit, successful multi-generational family team with 8 kids, 22 grandkids, and counting! This is an episode for anyone out there who feels like nobody gets your vision for a family team... For anyone who needs HOPE that the hard work you're putting in is worth it. This is an incredible, inspiring, and insightful conversation with a family who built a family team their way by following and honoring God first. On this episode, we talk about: 0:37 How the Steward's built a multi-generational family team with 8 children 13:01 The delicate balance between legalism and unintentionality 19:00 The impact of working out your challenges and conflict lovingly but openly in front of your kids 23:53 The kind of family where siblings always have each others' backs 26:46 How to ensure every generation grows up with close relationships 34:19 Welcoming in-laws into such a tight-knit family 41:04 Breaking the cultural myth that life just gets harder and less meaningful as you age 47:20 How to keep the vision of multi-generational family going through each generation Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Family Revision by Jeremy Pryor --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

Jul 4, 2024 • 48min
A Mom's Unique Role In Helping Her Husband Lead Well
Jeremy and April Pryor are joined by friends Donna, Brittany, and Kristin to discuss a mother's role within the family team. They react to Zuby's recent comments on feminism, and just how different a family team that values feminine motherhood really looks (even in Christian circles), then talk about how April has intentionally turned her kids' hearts toward Jeremy as their father. This is a highly practical discussion from experienced mothers who are still "in the thick of it", to give you hope to persevere and build a well-ordered, God-honouring family! On this episode, we talk about: 2:07 Zuby's feminism conversation with Lila Rose 9:08 Identity and longing for what we can't have 10:47 Stark contrasts learned from high school graduation and the importance of the ceremony 20:29 Embracing counter-cultural roles within marriage 26:24 "Men won't do anything until they have to, then they can do anything" 30:14 How a mother can turn the hearts of her children toward their father 45:50 Fighting for the family team first Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: Zuby's Interview on Lila Rose Family Inc --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!

Jun 27, 2024 • 53min
Raising Masculine, Christian Boys
Jeremy Pryor is joined by Chris Cirullo, father of 5 boys, to talk about raising boys well. They react to a couple of topical and recent videos about how school feminizes boys, and whether to judge masculinity by the amount of "surplus value" you create in the world, then provide commentary and personal anecdotes on raising boys from their own lives. Chris Cirullo is a former Army ranger, now coach and consultant who focuses on both individuals and organizations of impact. This includes health, fitness, and lifestyle optimization coaching with Christian fathers, as well as sales consulting for impact-driven Christian organizations that want to facilitate positive change in the world. Chris has been married for 12 years and he’s the father of 5 boys. On this episode, we talk about: 1:14 Directing our boys onto a masculine path 1:59 Reacting to Dad Saves America clip on how school feminizes boys 6:20 The ideal environment for boys 9:48 The consequence of thinking masculinity is just a social construct 15:43 Getting the balance right between order and chaos when raising children 23:38 How to build your environment and location around what's best for your kids 31:28 Reacting to Scott Galloway talking about masculinity 44:09 The importance of self-awareness 47:47 How to keep building value without burdening our kids with impossible expectations Follow Family Teams: Facebook: https://facebook.com/famteams Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familyteams Website: https://www.familyteams.com Resources Mentioned: School Feminizes Boys and Traumatizes Girls Video Family Revision by Jeremy Pryor The Single Biggest Point of Failure in a Man's Life Video Of Boys And Men by Richard V. Reeves --- Hi, welcome to the Family Teams podcast! Our goal here is to help your family become a multigenerational team on mission by providing you with Biblically rooted concepts, tools and rhythms! Your hosts are Jeremy Pryor and Jefferson Bethke. Make sure to subscribe on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube so you don't miss out on future episodes!