

Lessons from a Quitter
Goli Kalkhoran
It is never too late to start over. No matter how much time or money you've spent chasing degrees and jobs to get to your current position, if ultimately you're unhappy, then it is time to quit. Each week, Goli Kalkhoran, a fellow quitter, will interview inspiring guests who have quit lucrative careers to forge their own path and create a life they love. Get insight, inspiration, tools, and resources to help you quit what you hate and figure out what it is that you love.
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Aug 6, 2024 • 21min
How to Love Your Job Even if You Don't Like it
In this episode of "Lessons From A Quitter," we tackle the daunting task of learning to love your job, even when you don't like it. I share four practical tips to shift your mindset and improve your work life. I also emphasize finding aspects of the job you appreciate, understanding the balance of good and bad in any role, distinguishing between short-term and long-term goals, and recognizing the different seasons of life. This episode is packed with actionable advice to help you manage your current situation while planning for a fulfilling future.

Jul 30, 2024 • 30min
How to Change Your Life in 5 Years
In the latest episode of "Lessons From A Quitter," the focus is on the power of long-term planning and gradual change. I emphasize that significant life transformations, such as career shifts or personal development, can realistically be achieved within five years rather than in a rush. Drawing from personal experience, I highlight the importance of overcoming all-or-nothing thinking and leveraging the compound effect of small, consistent actions. Also, I encourage listeners to create five-year plans, break down their dreams into manageable steps, and allow time for growth and adaptation, ultimately leading to sustainable success and fulfillment.

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Jul 23, 2024 • 27min
Why You Shouldn't Try to Be Happy All the Time
Exploring the concept of life's 50-50 balance of emotions, the podcast discusses societal pressures for constant happiness and the pursuit of fleeting pleasures. Embracing the natural ebb and flow of feelings leads to a more content existence, focusing on personal growth and mindset management.

Jul 16, 2024 • 21min
Why You'll Never Feel Ready
The discussion tackles the illusion of feeling 'ready' to chase new dreams. Embracing uncertainty is portrayed as essential for personal growth. Fear and perfectionism are unveiled as common barriers to action. Practical advice encourages listeners to step outside their comfort zones. Personal anecdotes highlight the importance of taking imperfect action as a pathway to success.

Jul 9, 2024 • 20min
How Mindset Shapes Success
In this episode of "Lessons from a Quitter," I focus on the crucial role of mindset in achieving your career and personal goals. While strategy and steps are important, the true barrier to success is often your own thoughts and limiting beliefs. I share insights from my journey of quitting a legal career and helping others overcome their fears and self-doubt. I explain how mindset impacts our ability to take action and stick with our goals, offering strategies to manage negative thoughts and build confidence.

Jul 2, 2024 • 39min
Why I quit being a lawyer & how I changed my life
In this episode, I revisit my journey from a successful yet unhappy lawyer to founding this podcast and building a thriving six-figure business working part-time from home. I share how I navigated societal expectations, pursued a legal career without questioning it, and eventually realized it wasn't for me. Through quitting Big Law and finding fulfillment as a federal public defender, I discovered my passion for helping others navigate career transitions. Join me as I reflect on overcoming burnout, embracing change, and empowering listeners to design lives they truly love.

Jun 25, 2024 • 28min
Replay: Self Trust
Welcome to the latest episode of Lessons from a Quitter, where we explore self-trust and its critical role in our lives. This episode is a replay of a foundational topic about developing self-trust, essential for those contemplating significant life changes or struggling with decision-making. Host Goli, discusses the importance of self-trust, why many of us lack it, and how our upbringing and societal norms often undermine our confidence in our own decisions. Goli also shares exciting news about the podcast's new YouTube channel, aiming to reach a broader audience with visual content. Tune in to learn how to rebuild your self-trust and confidently pursue your passions.

Jun 18, 2024 • 23min
Mastering Self-Perception: How to Recognize and Own Your Competence
In the latest episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we delve into building self-confidence in the workplace. Many professionals struggle with imposter syndrome, doubting their abilities despite their accomplishments. This episode explores how to overcome these doubts by recognizing your true competence. We discuss the detrimental effects of perfectionism ingrained from the education system and how to shift focus from failures to successes. Practical tips include creating a list of your achievements and changing your internal narrative. Join the Quitter Club for personalized support in transforming your mindset and pursuing a fulfilling career.

Jun 11, 2024 • 25min
Reclaiming Your Time: Embracing a Life You Love Beyond the Rat Race
Reflecting on societal expectations and the importance of prioritizing joy and intentional living over constant productivity. Encouragement to set boundaries, embrace work-life balance, and overcome perfectionism to create a fulfilling life.

Jun 4, 2024 • 23min
Math vs Mental Drama
In this episode, I delve into a common issue I see in the Quitter Club: the mental anguish caused by our fears and imaginations. Our brains have a habit of creating worst-case scenarios that often never come to pass. Listen to learn the importance of distinguishing between the "math" (the actual facts) and the "mental drama" (our fears and what-ifs). We'll talk through how to figure out your financial runway and why knowing your numbers can turn the daunting task of quitting into a manageable, even exciting, plan. Let's break free from the mental drama and get you moving towards a life you love!


