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Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

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Apr 23, 2024 • 25min

Case Study: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child

How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don't align with your child's temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but these did not work for Jack. As a result, Danielle and Neal sought alternative approaches and eventually discovered Peace and Parenting.Danielle and Neal share the significant role that working on their childhood issues played in their journey. They also discuss which techniques worked for them, the impact of setting limits without punishments, and the importance of understanding your child and parenting style.In this Episode:Challenges and Traditional Parenting FailsDiscovering a New Approach to ParentingThe Impact of Coaching on Parenting and Personal GrowthThe Evolution of Parenting: From Struggles to SuccessReflections on Parenting Techniques and Setting Limits🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Apr 18, 2024 • 17min

The Time-Tested Strategy for a More Peaceful Home

Expert Pam Leo discusses the transformative power of connective parenting, prioritizing emotional needs over behaviors. She explores navigating sibling rivalry with empathy and play, investing in long-term connection, and provides tools for embracing connective parenting. The podcast highlights the benefits of building strong relationships through empathy and understanding children's needs, promoting harmony and resilience in the family.
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Apr 16, 2024 • 12min

Case Study: My Toddler Won’t Stop Screaming in Public

Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face.It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son's screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child's unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction.In this Episode:Responding to a toddler's screams with playThe stigma around public outbursts in childrenReflecting on parental reactions to yellingUsing affection to address behavioral issuesHow to use playful interaction as a parenting tool🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Apr 11, 2024 • 15min

Obedience vs. Genuine Respect: You Can’t Have Both

When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach. From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children.In this Episode:• Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear• Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy• How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect• How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships• Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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Apr 9, 2024 • 26min

Case Study: Can You Really Discipline With Love Instead of Fear

Explore how to discipline with love instead of fear in parenting. Learn about setting boundaries without punishment and building authentic relationships with children. Discover strategies for handling difficult transitions with compassion and turning challenges into growth opportunities. Also, delve into the concept of 'special time' to foster connection and cooperation in parenting.
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Apr 4, 2024 • 16min

Are We Ruining Our Kids? The Truth About Parenting Imperfections

Exploring the impact of parental mistakes, breaking generational trauma cycles, and embracing imperfection for growth in parenting. Focusing on self-compassion, recognizing unresolved issues, and seeking help as courageous steps. Discussing the importance of building trust through positive parenting approaches and navigating personal growth in the journey of parenting.
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Apr 2, 2024 • 20min

Case Study: How to Break Free from the “Perfectionist” Mindset

Guest Erica discusses the challenges of transitioning into motherhood, the pressure to be a perfect parent, and overcoming guilt and self-judgment in parenting. She shares her journey of prioritizing connection over control, embracing vulnerability, and creating a nurturing environment for her family.
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Mar 28, 2024 • 15min

Does Your Child Have a Love-Hate Relationship with School

Exploring the struggles of traditional schooling and the impact of generational trauma on parenting. Discussing the importance of validating children's feelings and finding alternatives to conventional education. Delving into the balance between empathy and worry, and the power of coaching for transformation.
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Mar 26, 2024 • 22min

Case Study: How to Cut Bedtime Chaos in Half

Karla, experienced a transformation in her family's bedtime routine by fostering a deeper bond with her children. They discuss strengthening family bonds through bedtime routines, switching off parental duties to build connections, integrating 'special time' for child cooperation, and the importance of continuous parenting education for improvement.
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Mar 21, 2024 • 17min

Are We Unknowingly Pushing Our Teens into Lying

Today I'm diving into a recent eye-opening experience with my teenage daughter, Pia. Picture this: it's a typical evening until I receive a text that sends my heart racing. Pia and her friend have taken an Uber to the ice cream shop, leaving me puzzled and anxious. What unfolds next reveals a deeper layer of trust, peer pressure, and the delicate balance of parenting teens.Join me as I navigate the complexities of teenage autonomy, parental trust, and the blurred lines between protection and freedom. We'll uncover the significance of dialogue, understanding, and reevaluating our parenting strategies. How do we balance trust and safety? How can we empower our teens while keeping them grounded? Tune in as we unravel these questions and more because in the world of parenting, every moment is teachable.In this Episode:Navigating trust and peer pressureImportance of open communication with teensBalancing autonomy and parental guidanceUnderstanding the teenage developmental stageReevaluating parenting strategies for teen safety🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupInterested in learning how to balance parenting and technology? Join my Plugged in Parenting seminar on April 29-30: https://peaceandparentingla.com/event-understanding-kids-technologyOur Sponsors:* Check out Blueland: https://blueland.com/peace* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: https://happymammoth.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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