Not Real Men

We're joined this episode by friend, musician, writer Tony Gonzales, and Colin, Laser, and Tony all have to accept compliments. We also talk about body image, religious trauma, and some very ignorant dwarfism commentary all across this great internet of ours. Tony also tells us about the matriarchy that raised him, and Laser talks about an anime he recently watched. Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham. Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at @notrealmenpod to stay up to date on new episodes!Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question here!  Hosted by Laser Webber and Colin BuckinghamEpisode 1 Edited by Laser WebberEpisodes 2-6 Edited by  Tracy BarnettTheme Song by TJ Norton Social Producer Morgan PetersThanks to Aubrey Turner

On our fifth episode, hosts Laser and Colin reflect on how the past year since recording began has shaped them and their views on masculinity, and how vital these conversations feel in our current political climate. Also the verdict is in: Boys kissing? Yay. Cards Against Humanity with the cis-hets? Nay. We've also got hot takes on justice, autism, eye contact, executive dysfunction, Dungeons & Dragons, barber etiquette, bro-talks, perceived helplessness, The Pink Tax, nerd revenge power fantasies, Loop Earplugs, and embracing your role in activist spaces.  Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham.   Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at @notrealmenpod to stay up to date on new episodes!Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question here! Hosted by Laser Webber and Colin BuckinghamEpisode 1 Edited by Laser WebberEpisodes 2-6 Edited by  Tracy BarnettTheme Song by TJ Norton Social Producer Morgan PetersThanks to Aubrey Turner

This week, Colin and Laser answer YOUR questions regarding the relationship between testosterone and libido, the link between communication, consent and pleasure... and add in some truly awful puns for good measure! It's a very sexy episode over here on Not Real Men!Other topics include: Kurt Cobain, broccoli, bottom growth, safety words, stereotypes, Salt-N-Pepa, unlearning, nosy politicians, pronouns, drug-store contraceptives, and how to be supportive of your transitioning friend no matter where they are on their journey. Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham.   Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at @notrealmenpod to stay up to date on new episodes!Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question here! Hosted by Laser Webber and Colin BuckinghamEpisode 1 Edited by Laser WebberEpisodes 2-6 Edited by  Tracy BarnettTheme Song by TJ Norton Social Producer Morgan PetersThanks to Aubrey Turner

Travis McElroy, a bestselling author and acclaimed podcaster, joins the conversation to explore the nuanced intersections of masculinity and neurodivergence. They delve into the challenges of embracing self-expression against societal norms, share hilarious anecdotes, and unpack why men’s fashion often lacks flair. Key discussions also cover the dynamics of men’s restrooms, the empathetic side of masculinity, and even the role of peacocks in self-presentation. With insights on kindness and authenticity, it’s a lively, thought-provoking dialogue!

Join actor and storyteller Dan Prevette, known for his insightful views on gender and masculinity, as he dives into the wild world of puberty and the complex emotions that come with it. The conversation tackles height stereotypes in attraction, revealing the male perspective on dating taller women. They also explore primal instincts versus emotional responses and the societal pressures surrounding masculinity. With humor and authenticity, Dan shares personal stories that challenge traditional notions of manhood and vulnerability.

Dive into a lively conversation about the diverse landscapes of masculinity through the eyes of a trans man and a queer non-binary individual with dwarfism. Expect deep insights on identity and societal expectations, plus humorous takes on dating dynamics and vulnerability. The hosts tackle media representation, reflecting on films like Barbie and the emotional resonance of characters like Gonzo from the Muppets. With candid discussions on self-acceptance, flirting, and the power of open dialogue, this podcast blends humor and heartfelt narratives.

Hosted by Laser Webber and Colin Buckingham Episode 1 Edited by Laser Webber Episodes 2-6 Edited by  Tracy Barnett Theme Song by TJ Norton  Social Producer Morgan Peters Thanks to Aubrey Turner