
Origin Story with David McIntosh Jr
Sharing Origin Stories. Guests include Jimmy Carr, Seth Godin, Example, Founder of Reebok, Rory Sutherland and 100+ more.
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Jul 29, 2024 • 57min
#117 Luke Kidgell - Weird Heckles, World Tours and Deep Fried Mars Bars
Luke Kidgell is world-touring Australian Comedian and Podcaster. With over 3 million fans and five national tours, Luke combines humour, relatable experiences and crowd-work which makes him a viral sensation on TikTok and Youtube.
Luke was in Glasgow for his world tour Happy Hour. He stopped by the studio the night after his show at the Pavilion Theatre.
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Jul 16, 2024 • 1h 15min
#116 Campbell McLaren - UFC’s SECRET Founder
Campbell McLaren is the Creator and Co-Founder of the UFC, Current CEO and Founder of Hispanic MMA Franchise Combate Global and TV Executive.All the way from the US, McLaren joins me in Glasgow, Scotland to share insider stories about the birth of the UFC, the evolution of MMA, the creation of the Octogon and his strategies for reaching untapped audiences in the sport.He shares why the UFC became the BIGGEST threat to the U.S in the 90s, his story of hiring Joe Rogan as the UFC’s commentator and Arnold Schwarzenegger’s key involvement in the creation of the sport.He also opens with his struggles that include being forced out of the UFC, the takeover by Dana White and Zuffa and his battles with health - including being granted 4% chance to live.With his unique perspective and wealth of experience, McLaren offers invaluable insights into the business of combat sports and building superstars. Follow Campbell: instagram.com/campbellcombateFollow Me: instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr Support the podcast: patreon.com/developmentbydavid Join my mailing list: developmentbydavid.substack.com SPONSOR:NewLifeMMA Glasgow: https://www.newlifeglasgow.com/

Jul 10, 2024 • 45min
#115 Nina Nesbitt - What They Didn't Tell Me About Fame
Nina Nesbitt is a world touring Scottish Singer and song-writer.
Shot in Edinburgh before her BBC recording, Nina joined me to share intimate details about her early life, career beginnings, and her love for Scotland.
We explore the impact of her move to London, and the challenges of navigating fame at a young age.
She opens up about the highs and lows of signing to a major label but how it feels to be dropped by them. And, how she independently pioneered her way to 1 billion streams.
Nina bravely talks openly about her struggles with body-image and how she found self-compassion and self-love.
She chats to me about supporting Stevie Knicks, being recognised by Taylor Swift, her duet with Coldplay and her public relationship with ex-partner Ed Sheeran.
Lastly, she shares her personal growth that has shaped her latest album, "Mountain Music."
Join us for an honest, introspective conversation about identity, creativity, and the power of staying true to oneself in the ever-changing landscape of the music industry.
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Shot at Monkey Barrell Comedy Club Edinburgh. Edited by Andres McNeill
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Jun 28, 2024 • 1h 46min
#114 Dr Robert Glover - Being a Nice Guy is Killing Your Love Life
Dr. Robert Glover is a renowned therapist, coach, and author with over 40 years of experience in relationships. He wrote the bestselling book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and has helped thousands of men worldwide improve their relationships, careers, and sex lives.
Dr. Glover opens with addressing the problem of being a Nice Guy, providing a raw and honest perspective on the challenges and triumphs of breaking free from this toxically ashamed pattern.
He defines modern masculinity and femininity and addresses common misconceptions about attraction across the sexes. This episode promises to be a game-changer for men seeking to improve their relationships and live more authentic lives. Whether you're a man grappling with Nice Guy tendencies or simply curious about relationship dynamics, this conversation with Dr. Glover is sure to provide valuable insights and actionable advice. And is a hell of a good laugh too.
Dr Glover is just an A star guest. A total expert in his field and has story for days. He will be back on the show no doubt. We went for nearly 2 hours and only stopped because his lawyer chapped his door.
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May 31, 2024 • 1h 21min
#113 David Robson - 13 Strategies To Improve Your Social Life
David Robson is an award-winning British science writer and author who specializes in exploring the extremes of the human brain, body, and behavior.
He has written extensively for publications like the BBC and The Guardian, covering topics in medicine, psychology, and neuroscience. Robson is the author of the books "The Intelligence Trap" and "The Expectation Effect," the latter of which won a British Psychological Society Book Award and was a Financial Times Best Book of 2022. With a background in mathematics from the University of Cambridge, Robson brings an analytical and in-depth approach to his writing on the human mind and behavior.
"Social connection is more important than obesity, smoking, and exercise combined!"
Are you tired of feeling lonely and disconnected? Discover the shocking truth about how being social can boost your health, creativity, and even finances!
In this groundbreaking podcast, David reveals:
⚡️ The "Liking Gap" that's sabotaging your relationships (and how to fix it!)
⚡️ Weird conversation mistakes you're making that kill rapport
⚡️ The gratitude gap: Why you're not getting enough compliments (and how to change that)
⚡️ The powerful "Benjamin Franklin Effect" to make anyone like you
⚡️ Mindblowing reasons you should brag about your successes
⚡️ Simple tricks to overcome ego-centric thinking
And reveals the #1 most important law of connection that can transform your life.
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May 24, 2024 • 1h 3min
#112 Nathaniel Collins - How to Make Sacrifices and Build an Athlete's Mind
My guest this week is Nathaniel "The Nightmare" Collins, the British, Commonwealth, and European Champion Featherweight boxer. Ranked number 4 in the UK by the WBC, Nathaniel shares his journey from humble beginnings to becoming a top-tier athlete.
In this episode we cover:
Tyson Fury vs Oleksander Usyk: We kick off with Nathaniel’s thoughts on last night's epic fight where Usyk won by split decision.
Recent Victory: Fresh from his win for the European Featherweight Title, Nathaniel discusses the highs and lows of the fight, including battling through a broken nose and the road to recovery.
Upbringing and Beginnings: Was Nathaniel a violent child? He opens up about his early days, reasons for getting into boxing, and the amateur scene in Glasgow.
Transition to Professional Boxing: From the changes in lifestyle to hypnotherapy, Nathaniel shares insights into his professional journey and what lies ahead.
Personal Reflections: The impact of boxing on relationships, being a dad, and the intense lifestyle of a professional boxer.
Health and Safety: We delve into injuries, CTE concerns, and the role of violence in sport.
Dream Matchup: Who does Nathaniel want to face next?
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May 6, 2024 • 1h 19min
#111 Will Storr - The Dark Psychology of Status, Cults and Neo-Nazis
Will Storr is a Journalist and Award-Winning Author of The Status Game, Selfie, The Heretics and the Science of Story Telling.
If you are low-status, you are more 4x more likely to die early. Status is proven to be more important than diet or exercise for health outcomes..
Status is not just a modern phenomenon; it's a fundamental part of the human experience, existing long before our current society. As writer Will Storr explains, the need for status and respect from others is not merely a luxury—it's an essential psychological and biological requirement for humans to thrive. He calls it the original currency.
Throughout history, status hierarchies have existed in animal societies, serving as a means to organise social life and prevent constant conflict. From our tribal ancestors to modern civilization, the desire for status has deeply shaped human behavior and social structures.
But despite its importance, the topic of status often makes people feel uneasy. While discussions about connection and belonging are more comfortable, status remains a somewhat taboo subject. It's this discomfort that has perhaps led to fewer books being written about this universal human drive.
However, Storr's work aims to shed light on this fundamental aspect of the human condition, unraveling its complexities and unveiling its significance in our lives.
Also, join us to hear about the psychology of cults, why architechts are the most illusive modern day cult, Will’s experience from going undercover following Neo-Nazi’s to understand the madness of groupthink and his experiences of David Irving the infamous holocaust denier.
Will’s books:
The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It
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Selfie: How the West Became Self-Obsessed
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The Science of Storytelling: Why Stories Make Us Human, and How to Tell Them Better
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Apr 19, 2024 • 1h 5min
#110 Jimmy Carr - How to Live a Better Life
Jimmy Carr is an world-touring comedian, writer, author, TV host for shows including, ‘8 Out Of 10 Cats’, ‘Roast Battle’, and ‘Big Fat Quiz Of The Year’. He is a hero of mine.
For this episode, headed from Glasgow to London to have a conversation with the deepest thinker, hardest worker, and kindest soul in comedy.
Beyond the dark mask you've seen on stage and on TV, Jimmy's origin story is complex, and his thinking is philosophical. I was blown away by how he has turned his remarkable life story into a set of lessons for us all to take onward.
Despite how he presents himself, Jimmy’s story is one that begins as a working-class Irish immigrant in Slough and will inevitably end with him being cemented as a legend when his physical being is no longer around.
But, the path there has not always been as straightforward as it seems.
Jimmy shares with me the intimate details of grieving his mother, facing the wrath of public cancellation, and wrestling with dyslexia.
He also astounded me with novel ideas around comedy’s role in society, how to serve your future self, and the importance of experiential learning.
Filmed in the very basement where I first fell in love with stand-up, this episode is a full-circle moment. And with stunning cinematography by the talented Andres, it's a visual feast.
My sister and I used to watch Jimmy in our miserable tiny house in a council estate in Ayrshire, and now I had the opportunity to bring her to meet her hero too.
Jimmy was my gateway drug to comedy. And, as Jimmy professes, comedians are drug dealers.
But, the drug prescribed by Jimmy in this episode isn’t one of laughter (despite there being plenty) but a drug that allows you to become the future you, today.
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Apr 15, 2024 • 1h 6min
#109 Ruari Fairbairns - There is NO HEALTHY level of Alcohol Consumption
Ruari Fairbairns is co-founder of One Year No Beer, a subscription-based platform promoting an alcohol-free lifestyle with over 100,000 global members.
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This episode explores the gradual transformation of society's relationship with alcohol, highlighting the need for heightened awareness of its negative impacts on mind and body.
It delves into discussions on stress, trauma, ADHD, emotional sobriety, and the pivotal role of community in the transformative journey towards an alcohol-free lifestyle.
The insights stem from Ruari’s turbulent and emotionally challenging childhood on the Isle of Mull in Scotland whcih saw him attempt suicide as early as 14. Who would know a letter to Richard Branson, who he then later met in Barbados, would change and save his life.
This episode dives deep on the effects on alchohol and what it does to our body in mind. We expose the risks of casual drinking and show that alchohol by no means results in stress management.
We also talk about the sober curious lifestyle which acts as a far better way to to reap the rewards of a sober lifestyle without the need for abstinence. 94% of people surveyed want to have a better relationship with alcohol do not want to quit.
So, how do we have a more booze conscious culture. What are some of the low hanging fruits to reeping a time rich life in a time poor economy. How can you have a better relationship with your family, body and mind.
Join Ruari and I who will give you the tools you need.

Apr 7, 2024 • 1h 12min
#108 Dr Meg Jay - How Overdiagnosis is Stealing Young Adults
Dr Meg Jay is back. Dr Meg Jay is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author and TED talk phenomenon.
Her new book "The Twenty Something Treatment" is a lifeline for a demographic who are struggling most with over diagnosis and over prescription.
Dive into the intricacies of the twentysomething experience with Dr. Meg Jay as she unpacks vital topics on mental health, relationships, and personal growth in this engaging podcast episode.
From the impact of societal causes on young minds to the challenges of navigating love and intimacy, Dr. Jay offers practical insights and strategies for thriving in the tumultuous journey of adulthood. Join me as I explore key questions surrounding identity, purpose, and emotional maturity, providing listeners with invaluable guidance for navigating life's complexities.
Send this to a 20-something year old or someone who is close to one!
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