Origin Story with David McIntosh Jr

Nina Nesbitt is a world touring Scottish Singer and song-writer. Shot in Edinburgh before her BBC recording, Nina joined me to share intimate details about her early life, career beginnings, and her love for Scotland. We explore the impact of her move to London, and the challenges of navigating fame at a young age. She opens up about the highs and lows of signing to a major label but how it feels to be dropped by them. And, how she independently pioneered her way to 1 billion streams. Nina bravely talks openly about her struggles with body-image and how she found self-compassion and self-love. She chats to me about supporting Stevie Knicks, being recognised by Taylor Swift, her duet with Coldplay and her public relationship with ex-partner Ed Sheeran. Lastly, she shares her personal growth that has shaped her latest album, "Mountain Music." Join us for an honest, introspective conversation about identity, creativity, and the power of staying true to oneself in the ever-changing landscape of the music industry. Pre-save Nina's amazing new album: https://found.ee/NNMountainMusic Follow Nina on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ninanesbitt/ Get in touch with me: https://www.instagram.com/davidmcintosjr/ Shot at Monkey Barrell Comedy Club Edinburgh. Edited by Andres McNeill   Sponsor: West Coast Motors - The best place for used cars in Scotland. West is Best! Get a good deal on your new ride - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Tell them David McIntosh Sent you!

Dr. Robert Glover is a renowned therapist, coach, and author with over 40 years of experience in relationships. He wrote the bestselling book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and has helped thousands of men worldwide improve their relationships, careers, and sex lives. Dr. Glover opens with addressing the problem of being a Nice Guy, providing a raw and honest perspective on the challenges and triumphs of breaking free from this toxically ashamed pattern. He defines modern masculinity and femininity and addresses common misconceptions about attraction across the sexes. This episode promises to be a game-changer for men seeking to improve their relationships and live more authentic lives. Whether you're a man grappling with Nice Guy tendencies or simply curious about relationship dynamics, this conversation with Dr. Glover is sure to provide valuable insights and actionable advice. And is a hell of a good laugh too. Dr Glover is just an A star guest. A total expert in his field and has story for days. He will be back on the show no doubt. We went for nearly 2 hours and only stopped because his lawyer chapped his door. Find Dr Robert Glover, and his support, at - https://drglover.com Find me - www.instagram.com/davidmcintoshjr Support the podcast - patreon.com/developmentbydavid

David Robson is an award-winning British science writer and author who specializes in exploring the extremes of the human brain, body, and behavior. He has written extensively for publications like the BBC and The Guardian, covering topics in medicine, psychology, and neuroscience. Robson is the author of the books "The Intelligence Trap" and "The Expectation Effect," the latter of which won a British Psychological Society Book Award and was a Financial Times Best Book of 2022. With a background in mathematics from the University of Cambridge, Robson brings an analytical and in-depth approach to his writing on the human mind and behavior. "Social connection is more important than obesity, smoking, and exercise combined!" Are you tired of feeling lonely and disconnected? Discover the shocking truth about how being social can boost your health, creativity, and even finances! In this groundbreaking podcast, David reveals: ⚡️ The "Liking Gap" that's sabotaging your relationships (and how to fix it!) ⚡️ Weird conversation mistakes you're making that kill rapport ⚡️ The gratitude gap: Why you're not getting enough compliments (and how to change that) ⚡️ The powerful "Benjamin Franklin Effect" to make anyone like you ⚡️ Mindblowing reasons you should brag about your successes ⚡️ Simple tricks to overcome ego-centric thinking And reveals the #1 most important law of connection that can transform your life. Follow Me: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/ Follow Nathaniel. - https://www.instagram.com/nathanielcollins/ Sponsor - West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Patreon - www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid

My guest this week is Nathaniel "The Nightmare" Collins, the British, Commonwealth, and European Champion Featherweight boxer. Ranked number 4 in the UK by the WBC, Nathaniel shares his journey from humble beginnings to becoming a top-tier athlete. In this episode we cover: Tyson Fury vs Oleksander Usyk: We kick off with Nathaniel’s thoughts on last night's epic fight where Usyk won by split decision. Recent Victory: Fresh from his win for the European Featherweight Title, Nathaniel discusses the highs and lows of the fight, including battling through a broken nose and the road to recovery. Upbringing and Beginnings: Was Nathaniel a violent child? He opens up about his early days, reasons for getting into boxing, and the amateur scene in Glasgow. Transition to Professional Boxing: From the changes in lifestyle to hypnotherapy, Nathaniel shares insights into his professional journey and what lies ahead. Personal Reflections: The impact of boxing on relationships, being a dad, and the intense lifestyle of a professional boxer. Health and Safety: We delve into injuries, CTE concerns, and the role of violence in sport. Dream Matchup: Who does Nathaniel want to face next? -- Follow Me: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/ Follow Nathaniel. - https://www.instagram.com/nathanielcollins/ Sponsor - West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/ Patreon - www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid

Will Storr is a Journalist and Award-Winning Author of The Status Game, Selfie, The Heretics and the Science of Story Telling. If you are low-status, you are more 4x more likely to die early. Status is proven to be more important than diet or exercise for health outcomes.. Status is not just a modern phenomenon; it's a fundamental part of the human experience, existing long before our current society. As writer Will Storr explains, the need for status and respect from others is not merely a luxury—it's an essential psychological and biological requirement for humans to thrive. He calls it the original currency. Throughout history, status hierarchies have existed in animal societies, serving as a means to organise social life and prevent constant conflict. From our tribal ancestors to modern civilization, the desire for status has deeply shaped human behavior and social structures. But despite its importance, the topic of status often makes people feel uneasy. While discussions about connection and belonging are more comfortable, status remains a somewhat taboo subject. It's this discomfort that has perhaps led to fewer books being written about this universal human drive. However, Storr's work aims to shed light on this fundamental aspect of the human condition, unraveling its complexities and unveiling its significance in our lives. Also, join us to hear about the psychology of cults, why architechts are the most illusive modern day cult, Will’s experience from going undercover following Neo-Nazi’s to understand the madness of groupthink and his experiences of David Irving the infamous holocaust denier. Will’s books: The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It https://amzn.to/41R6rsL Selfie: How the West Became Self-Obsessed https://amzn.to/41cJ2BL The Science of Storytelling: Why Stories Make Us Human, and How to Tell Them Better https://amzn.to/3ohtxKo Signup to my Patreon: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠ SPONSORS: Vybey (code DBYD for 15%) - https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=fd5d5aab-fd5f-48d9-bf37-b58aa4317f25West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/

Jimmy Carr is an world-touring comedian, writer, author, TV host for shows including, ‘8 Out Of 10 Cats’, ‘Roast Battle’, and ‘Big Fat Quiz Of The Year’. He is a hero of mine. For this episode, headed from Glasgow to London to have a conversation with the deepest thinker, hardest worker, and kindest soul in comedy. Beyond the dark mask you've seen on stage and on TV, Jimmy's origin story is complex, and his thinking is philosophical. I was blown away by how he has turned his remarkable life story into a set of lessons for us all to take onward. Despite how he presents himself, Jimmy’s story is one that begins as a working-class Irish immigrant in Slough and will inevitably end with him being cemented as a legend when his physical being is no longer around. But, the path there has not always been as straightforward as it seems. Jimmy shares with me the intimate details of grieving his mother, facing the wrath of public cancellation, and wrestling with dyslexia. He also astounded me with novel ideas around comedy’s role in society, how to serve your future self, and the importance of experiential learning. Filmed in the very basement where I first fell in love with stand-up, this episode is a full-circle moment. And with stunning cinematography by the talented Andres, it's a visual feast. My sister and I used to watch Jimmy in our miserable tiny house in a council estate in Ayrshire, and now I had the opportunity to bring her to meet her hero too. Jimmy was my gateway drug to comedy. And, as Jimmy professes, comedians are drug dealers. But, the drug prescribed by Jimmy in this episode isn’t one of laughter (despite there being plenty) but a drug that allows you to become the future you, today. You can become a Patreon here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠ You can watch Jimmy’s new Netflix stand-up special, ’Jimmy Carr: Natural Born Killer’, out on the 16th April 2024. You can purchase tickets for Jimmy’s brand-new international tour, ’Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny’, here: ⁠https://bit.ly/49u9iex⁠ Follow Jimmy: Twitter - ⁠https://bit.ly/4awtUEe⁠ Instagram - ⁠https://bit.ly/3PULKbt⁠ YouTube - ⁠https://bit.ly/3xrXsEc

Ruari Fairbairns is co-founder of One Year No Beer, a subscription-based platform promoting an alcohol-free lifestyle with over 100,000 global members. Quickly, GET THIS EPISODE AND EVERY EPISODE EARLY BY SIGNING UP TO PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid This episode explores the gradual transformation of society's relationship with alcohol, highlighting the need for heightened awareness of its negative impacts on mind and body. It delves into discussions on stress, trauma, ADHD, emotional sobriety, and the pivotal role of community in the transformative journey towards an alcohol-free lifestyle. The insights stem from Ruari’s turbulent and emotionally challenging childhood on the Isle of Mull in Scotland whcih saw him attempt suicide as early as 14. Who would know a letter to Richard Branson, who he then later met in Barbados, would change and save his life. This episode dives deep on the effects on alchohol and what it does to our body in mind. We expose the risks of casual drinking and show that alchohol by no means results in stress management. We also talk about the sober curious lifestyle which acts as a far better way to to reap the rewards of a sober lifestyle without the need for abstinence. 94% of people surveyed want to have a better relationship with alcohol do not want to quit. So, how do we have a more booze conscious culture. What are some of the low hanging fruits to reeping a time rich life in a time poor economy. How can you have a better relationship with your family, body and mind. Join Ruari and I who will give you the tools you need.

Dr Meg Jay is back. Dr Meg Jay is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author and TED talk phenomenon. Her new book "The Twenty Something Treatment" is a lifeline for a demographic who are struggling most with over diagnosis and over prescription. Dive into the intricacies of the twentysomething experience with Dr. Meg Jay as she unpacks vital topics on mental health, relationships, and personal growth in this engaging podcast episode. From the impact of societal causes on young minds to the challenges of navigating love and intimacy, Dr. Jay offers practical insights and strategies for thriving in the tumultuous journey of adulthood. Join me as I explore key questions surrounding identity, purpose, and emotional maturity, providing listeners with invaluable guidance for navigating life's complexities. Send this to a 20-something year old or someone who is close to one! If you enjoyed this follow me on Instagram and get in touch: www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid Buy Dr Meg Jays New Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twentysomething-Treatment-Revolutionary-Remedy-Uncertain/dp/1668012294

Tracy Garrad is CEO of Aviva Canada and has held CEO positions at HSBC, First Direct and AXA Health. She is a board member of Progress Together. Tracy Garrad joins us to share her remarkable journey from a working-class upbringing in Blackpool to becoming a successful leader in the financial services industry. Tracy reflects on the lessons learned from caring for her siblings, the challenges she faced as a female leader, and the importance of diversity and inclusion in leadership. She discusses the difference between leadership and management, her experiences with education, and the evolving landscape of the C-suite. Tracy also delves into the role of transparent storytelling in leadership, the importance of mentorship, and the ongoing quest for work-life balance.

Jacob Hawley is a stand-up comedian, podcaster, football pundit and Arsenal fan. You might know him from Russell Howards Hour, True Geordie’s The Kick Off, BBC Sounds Jacob Hawley on Drugs or Talksport. In a new age where opinions carry more weight than deeds, whose job is it to change the course of public thought toward a healthier society? Comedians are under more pressure than ever to portray the role of modern day activists. We find comedians being cancelled as their jokes are being taking as beliefs and their characters being portrayed as villians. We cover: Politics for idiots, feminism for lads, love stories for louts and self-care for those who don’t care. In this episode, hear Jacob’s thoughts on: The evolving role of comedians in shaping societal norms Effective communication of ideologies across diverse demographics Creating inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ and non-gender-conforming individuals The transformative power of comedy in sparking empathy and understanding Aesthetics, Appearance and Stereotypes in Comedy & Jacob’s new tour “Space” which covers the nuances of Gender Identity and how we can become a more compassionate society. I am opening for Jacob on the Glasgow date of his tour and you can buy tickets here: https://www.whatsonglasgow.co.uk/event/129914-jacob-hawley:-space/