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May 6, 2024 • 1h 19min

#111 Will Storr - The Dark Psychology of Status, Cults and Neo-Nazis

Will Storr is a Journalist and Award-Winning Author of The Status Game, Selfie, The Heretics and the Science of Story Telling. If you are low-status, you are more 4x more likely to die early. Status is proven to be more important than diet or exercise for health outcomes.. Status is not just a modern phenomenon; it's a fundamental part of the human experience, existing long before our current society. As writer Will Storr explains, the need for status and respect from others is not merely a luxury—it's an essential psychological and biological requirement for humans to thrive. He calls it the original currency. Throughout history, status hierarchies have existed in animal societies, serving as a means to organise social life and prevent constant conflict. From our tribal ancestors to modern civilization, the desire for status has deeply shaped human behavior and social structures. But despite its importance, the topic of status often makes people feel uneasy. While discussions about connection and belonging are more comfortable, status remains a somewhat taboo subject. It's this discomfort that has perhaps led to fewer books being written about this universal human drive. However, Storr's work aims to shed light on this fundamental aspect of the human condition, unraveling its complexities and unveiling its significance in our lives. Also, join us to hear about the psychology of cults, why architechts are the most illusive modern day cult, Will’s experience from going undercover following Neo-Nazi’s to understand the madness of groupthink and his experiences of David Irving the infamous holocaust denier. Will’s books: The Status Game: On Human Life and How to Play It https://amzn.to/41R6rsL Selfie: How the West Became Self-Obsessed https://amzn.to/41cJ2BL The Science of Storytelling: Why Stories Make Us Human, and How to Tell Them Better https://amzn.to/3ohtxKo Signup to my Patreon: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠ SPONSORS: Vybey (code DBYD for 15%) - https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=fd5d5aab-fd5f-48d9-bf37-b58aa4317f25West Coast Motors - https://www.wcmotors.co.uk/
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Apr 19, 2024 • 1h 5min

#110 Jimmy Carr - How to Live a Better Life

Jimmy Carr is an world-touring comedian, writer, author, TV host for shows including, ‘8 Out Of 10 Cats’, ‘Roast Battle’, and ‘Big Fat Quiz Of The Year’. He is a hero of mine. For this episode, headed from Glasgow to London to have a conversation with the deepest thinker, hardest worker, and kindest soul in comedy. Beyond the dark mask you've seen on stage and on TV, Jimmy's origin story is complex, and his thinking is philosophical. I was blown away by how he has turned his remarkable life story into a set of lessons for us all to take onward. Despite how he presents himself, Jimmy’s story is one that begins as a working-class Irish immigrant in Slough and will inevitably end with him being cemented as a legend when his physical being is no longer around. But, the path there has not always been as straightforward as it seems. Jimmy shares with me the intimate details of grieving his mother, facing the wrath of public cancellation, and wrestling with dyslexia. He also astounded me with novel ideas around comedy’s role in society, how to serve your future self, and the importance of experiential learning. Filmed in the very basement where I first fell in love with stand-up, this episode is a full-circle moment. And with stunning cinematography by the talented Andres, it's a visual feast. My sister and I used to watch Jimmy in our miserable tiny house in a council estate in Ayrshire, and now I had the opportunity to bring her to meet her hero too. Jimmy was my gateway drug to comedy. And, as Jimmy professes, comedians are drug dealers. But, the drug prescribed by Jimmy in this episode isn’t one of laughter (despite there being plenty) but a drug that allows you to become the future you, today. You can become a Patreon here: ⁠https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid⁠ You can watch Jimmy’s new Netflix stand-up special, ’Jimmy Carr: Natural Born Killer’, out on the 16th April 2024. You can purchase tickets for Jimmy’s brand-new international tour, ’Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny’, here: ⁠https://bit.ly/49u9iex⁠ Follow Jimmy: Twitter - ⁠https://bit.ly/4awtUEe⁠ Instagram - ⁠https://bit.ly/3PULKbt⁠ YouTube - ⁠https://bit.ly/3xrXsEc
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Apr 15, 2024 • 1h 6min

#109 Ruari Fairbairns - There is NO HEALTHY level of Alcohol Consumption

Ruari Fairbairns is co-founder of One Year No Beer, a subscription-based platform promoting an alcohol-free lifestyle with over 100,000 global members. Quickly, GET THIS EPISODE AND EVERY EPISODE EARLY BY SIGNING UP TO PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/developmentbydavid This episode explores the gradual transformation of society's relationship with alcohol, highlighting the need for heightened awareness of its negative impacts on mind and body. It delves into discussions on stress, trauma, ADHD, emotional sobriety, and the pivotal role of community in the transformative journey towards an alcohol-free lifestyle. The insights stem from Ruari’s turbulent and emotionally challenging childhood on the Isle of Mull in Scotland whcih saw him attempt suicide as early as 14. Who would know a letter to Richard Branson, who he then later met in Barbados, would change and save his life. This episode dives deep on the effects on alchohol and what it does to our body in mind. We expose the risks of casual drinking and show that alchohol by no means results in stress management. We also talk about the sober curious lifestyle which acts as a far better way to to reap the rewards of a sober lifestyle without the need for abstinence. 94% of people surveyed want to have a better relationship with alcohol do not want to quit. So, how do we have a more booze conscious culture. What are some of the low hanging fruits to reeping a time rich life in a time poor economy. How can you have a better relationship with your family, body and mind. Join Ruari and I who will give you the tools you need.
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Apr 7, 2024 • 1h 12min

#108 Dr Meg Jay - How Overdiagnosis is Stealing Young Adults

Dr Meg Jay is back. Dr Meg Jay is a clinical psychologist, best-selling author and TED talk phenomenon. Her new book "The Twenty Something Treatment" is a lifeline for a demographic who are struggling most with over diagnosis and over prescription. Dive into the intricacies of the twentysomething experience with Dr. Meg Jay as she unpacks vital topics on mental health, relationships, and personal growth in this engaging podcast episode. From the impact of societal causes on young minds to the challenges of navigating love and intimacy, Dr. Jay offers practical insights and strategies for thriving in the tumultuous journey of adulthood. Join me as I explore key questions surrounding identity, purpose, and emotional maturity, providing listeners with invaluable guidance for navigating life's complexities. Send this to a 20-something year old or someone who is close to one! If you enjoyed this follow me on Instagram and get in touch: www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid Buy Dr Meg Jays New Book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Twentysomething-Treatment-Revolutionary-Remedy-Uncertain/dp/1668012294
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Mar 31, 2024 • 52min

#107 Tracy Garrad - "Can Nice Girls Get The Corner Office?" - Aviva CEO on Gender and Socioeconomic Background

Tracy Garrad is CEO of Aviva Canada and has held CEO positions at HSBC, First Direct and AXA Health. She is a board member of Progress Together. Tracy Garrad joins us to share her remarkable journey from a working-class upbringing in Blackpool to becoming a successful leader in the financial services industry. Tracy reflects on the lessons learned from caring for her siblings, the challenges she faced as a female leader, and the importance of diversity and inclusion in leadership. She discusses the difference between leadership and management, her experiences with education, and the evolving landscape of the C-suite. Tracy also delves into the role of transparent storytelling in leadership, the importance of mentorship, and the ongoing quest for work-life balance.
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Mar 20, 2024 • 1h 2min

#106 Jacob Hawley - What Can You Joke About These Days?

Jacob Hawley is a stand-up comedian, podcaster, football pundit and Arsenal fan. You might know him from Russell Howards Hour, True Geordie’s The Kick Off, BBC Sounds Jacob Hawley on Drugs or Talksport. In a new age where opinions carry more weight than deeds, whose job is it to change the course of public thought toward a healthier society? Comedians are under more pressure than ever to portray the role of modern day activists. We find comedians being cancelled as their jokes are being taking as beliefs and their characters being portrayed as villians. We cover: Politics for idiots, feminism for lads, love stories for louts and self-care for those who don’t care. In this episode, hear Jacob’s thoughts on: The evolving role of comedians in shaping societal norms Effective communication of ideologies across diverse demographics Creating inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+ and non-gender-conforming individuals The transformative power of comedy in sparking empathy and understanding Aesthetics, Appearance and Stereotypes in Comedy & Jacob’s new tour “Space” which covers the nuances of Gender Identity and how we can become a more compassionate society. I am opening for Jacob on the Glasgow date of his tour and you can buy tickets here: https://www.whatsonglasgow.co.uk/event/129914-jacob-hawley:-space/
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Mar 8, 2024 • 1h 3min

#105 David Pinsof - Status: How to Use it, Choose it, Lose it and Abuse it

David Pinsof, co-creator of Cards Against Humanity and a researcher at UCLA Mind Labs, dives into the complexities of human behavior and status. He unpacks the cultural phenomenon behind his game and the relationship between authenticity and social status. Discover how wealth influences perception and how humor acts as social currency. Pinsof also distinguishes between lying and bullshitting, navigating the fears associated with mortality. His insights address mental health, social dynamics, and how personal fulfillment can clash with societal expectations.
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Feb 18, 2024 • 1h 17min

#104 Example - My UK #1 Changed My Life

Example is a Singer and Songwriter with two #1 UK hits - Changed the Way You Kissed Me and Stay Awake. He is also a hero of mine. He has had a 15+ year career with sold out UK tours spanning his career. He’s currently on his 2023 UK Tour and has joined me in my Glasgow Studio. If you wish to watch the 4K cinematic episode, watch on Youtube. Buy tickets to the remaining tour dates here: https://www.bandsintown.com/a/3869-example Follow Example here: https://www.instagram.com/example/ Follow Me here: https://www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid/?hl=en Sponsors: Vybey: Enjoy the one stop shop for all your health and wellness needs. Vybey Brancare has you covered. https://vybey.co.uk/?shpxid=8fd86afd-6feb-46d5-84d6-05f7347a8d7a Zero Gravity: Zero Gravity, the online mentoring programme, is a lifeline that connects untapped talent in low-opportunity areas to a world of possibilities. Zero Gravity is packed with features designed to take talent to the top – from mentoring, masterclasses, internships and scholarships to personalised career opportunities. https://www.zerogravity.co.uk/
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Feb 13, 2024 • 1h 2min

#103 Rob Henderson - Care Crisis: Parenting and the Dark Side of Foster Homes

Rob Henderson is an Author, Cambridge PhD recipient, Yale Graduate, a US Air Force Veteran and a popular writer on Substack. Going to school is far less important than having a parent who cares enough to make sure you get to class every day. 60% of boys in foster care are later incarcerated, while only 3 percent graduate from college. Children raised in a wealthy but unstable home are more likely to engage in harmful adult behaviors than a child raised in a low-income home yet stable home. How a child raised in a wealthy but unstable home is more likely to engage in harmful adult behaviors than a child raised in a low-income home yet stable home These are harrowing facts that Rob has devoted his lift to researching. In this emotive episode, Rob unveils the stark realities of growing up in a system that often fails its most vulnerable members - the care system. Rob Henderson's remarkable journey from foster care to elite academia is a testament to his resilience and determination. From his turbulent childhood in foster homes to his academic achievements at elite universities, Henderson sheds light on the challenges faced by foster children, highlighting the staggering statistics that reveal the harsh realities of their outcomes. Through personal anecdotes and insightful analysis, he delves into the concept of "luxury beliefs" embraced by the upper class, exploring how these ideologies can perpetuate inequality and harm the very individuals they aim to uplift. As Rob reflects on his own experiences and those of his peers who fell victim to the cycle of incarceration and despair, he challenges societal norms and redefines the meaning of success. With raw honesty and unwavering determination, he underscores the importance of stability and parental support in shaping one's future, emphasizing that true prosperity goes beyond external accolades. This is a podcast episode close to my heart and I am so proud to be part of a choir of voices bringing this to light. Order Rob’s Book “Troubled: A Memoir of Foster Care, Family and Social Class” here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Troubled-Memoir-Foster-Family-Social-ebook/dp/B0C6CFDNGH Follow Rob on X: https://twitter.com/robkhenderson?ref_src=twsrc^google|twcamp^serp|twgr^author Extra Stuff: Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/developmentbydavid
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Jan 12, 2024 • 1h 34min

#102 Rory Sutherland - How to Avoid Being Cancelled: Marketing Genius Warns Us of Comedy and It's Enemies

Rory Sutherland, Vice Chairman of Ogilvy and author of "Alchemy," shares his insights on the tricky world of cancel culture and comedy. He explains why society has become overly sensitive and how humor evolves with it. The conversation takes wild turns, including a near-miss with comedy and the Queen's doctor and a fascinating chat about the Concorde's infamous failure. Sutherland also touches upon the role of AI in the job market and reflects on the themes of class and creativity in the film 'Saltburn.'

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