

Art of Consulting Podcast
Andy Fry, Cat Lam
You'll learn our top strategies to improve your career, confidence, lifestyle from us and other crazy successful seasoned consultants in IT and Management. Engage in the conversation as we discuss everything that brought us longevity and success over the years in the consulting industry.
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Jul 15, 2022 • 12min
179 | Why It's Important To Respect Other's Work & Service
In this episode, Andy speaks about the importance of respecting others’ work and service. We need to be responsible and frugal with our money and resources but there is a balance we need to recognize where we also need to acknowledge the value of the product or service we want to have and pay for it accordingly. Take a quick break, listen in, and learn why it’s important to respect others’ work and service. Quotes: “The Universe Is Really A Reflection Of Ourselves. So, If We're Looking For Cheap Stuff, Or We're Looking Not To Pay For Something, If We're Looking For Freebies, Other People Are Going To Do The Same Thing For Us.” “I Think It's Really Important That People Pay For The Things That We Consume.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Who Do You Think Are The Best Tippers? (02:49) Recognizing The Work That Has Been Put In By Other Individuals (07:17) Searching For Quality Information And Services And Paying Properly For It (08:55) Respecting Other's Work & Service As Well As Our’s (10:32) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Jul 8, 2022 • 24min
178 | The Constant Impacts of Time Management
In this episode, Cat and Andy talk about time management and what it looks like especially with the self-employed. They established the importance of having non-negotiables for the present and for your future. Tune in now and know the top 3 things you can do to level up your time management skills and become more effective in reaching your professional and personal goals. Quotes: “There are The Non-Negotiables That Are Today, The Things That We're Doing, Current State, But There Are The Things For The Future That We Have To Plan For.” “To Keep A Promise To Yourself Is Hard Because Nobody Will Know The Difference Otherwise. And So, If You Can Do That, You Are Actually Building Up The Integrity That You Have With Yourself, And Then It Shows When You Interact With Others.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Managing Time As Self-Employed (04:30) Having Your Non-Negotiables For The Present And For Your Future (10:10) How To Put Your Foot Down For Your Non-Negotiables (15:01) Avoiding Internalizing The Stress (19:34) Top 3 Things You Can Do To Level Up Your Time Management Skills (23:08) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Jul 1, 2022 • 26min
177 | Using Tech To Access and Improve Communication
In this episode, we have Cat and Andy discuss the use of technology to help improve our communication skills. They talked about how our time has made more room for authenticity, but we still need to have it according to our role. Listen in now and learn three things you can immediately do to improve your communication. Quotes: “It's okay to show vulnerability in your speech, it just has to come from a place of authenticity.” “Watch the conversations we have in our private lives.” “It's just being patient with other individuals and realizing that they're working through, they're doing their best.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Phrases we use as fillers becoming a habit (04:16) Vulnerability in a place of authenticity (07:26) Using Tech To Access and Improve Communication (13:19) Three things you can immediately do to improve your speech (19:32) Authenticity in accordance with the role we’re playing (24:24) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Jun 24, 2022 • 16min
176 | Learning Based On Ability to Admit We May Be Wrong
In this episode, Andy shares his experience where he had to learn to go back and validate his past assumption and acknowledge the value of fixing the facts gathered. He explains why we tend to avoid this especially in consulting and in business and showed its importance and the value it can add to your service and to the business. So, give this episode a listen and practice it as you seek to always improve your skill and service. Quotes: “There's a cost to not validating our decisions, as well as the decision-making process.” “The need to be right paralyzes our learning muscles.” “Our value as consultants may be how we validate assumptions of facts and deliver that new information to our clients.” “I’d rather be correct in my assumption, and correct my assumption than to hold on to an invalid truth.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Why do we think something is real? (06:38) Analysing past decisions (09:07) There's a cost to not validating our decisions (10:55) Validating assumptions of facts (13:40) The ability to admit that we might be wrong (15:05) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Jun 17, 2022 • 13min
175 | Our Intentions Are Not Always Conscious To Us
In this episode, we are with Andy as he talks about intentions and how they are not always conscious to us. Listen in now and learn how to look into your intentions and apply strategies that develop yourself to your full potential. Quotes: “Interestingly Enough, Intent Is Not Always Conscious To Us, But It Is Made Visible Through Our Behavior.” “We Will Never Fully Meet Our Full Potential Without Mature Intentionality Towards External Contribution.” “How We Define The Community We Serve Determines Our Intent.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Intent Made Visible Through Behavior (05:51) Ways That Intent Becomes Clear (08:21) Developing Our Full Potential By Serving Others (09:11) The Challenge Of Dealing With Daily Distractions (09:43) Who Do We Serve? (12:13) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Apr 22, 2022 • 13min
174 | Looking for Big Problems
In this episode, Andy explains how big enough problems can fuel consultants and keep them going. Know the power questions to ask yourself and identify if you are set for the next big challenge, so tune in now and learn how to take the next step that will keep you going. Quotes: “We Should Be Challenged Enough That We're Tired. We Shouldn't Be Exhausted.” “When You Go To Live Out Your Consulting Career, You're Gonna Go Through All Kinds Of Ebbs And Flows. You're Gonna Have Peaks And Valleys. You're Going To Be An Expert In A Particular Area And That Area Is Going To Be Boring, And You're Going To Need To Look For The Next Challenge.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Consultants Want The Challenge (05:03) Look For Big Enough Problems To Keep You Challenged (07:58) Have Confidence In Yourself (10:02) Run On Those Plateaus (11:31) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Apr 15, 2022 • 19min
173 | Battle the Elements Not Each Other
In this episode, we have andy share insights on elements we, as human beings, face and how important it is to recognize that in the challenges that we experience, we need to battle the elements and not each other. He also points out that in times where elements are being dealt with by technology or other enhancements, it is important to think of productive ways to use our available time instead of creating other conflicts with each other. Click play now and listen to this episode’s nuggets of wisdom. Quotes: “As A Human Being When You Get Exposed To The Elements Of The World, The Elements Are In Charge.” “When We Are Faced With Real Challenges. There's No Time To Fight Each Other.” “Let's Seek Out Those Elements And Battle Them. They're Good Challenges.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Recalling And Remembering Are Two Different Things (03:35) When We Are Exposed To Harsh Elements (06:26) Every Day Is A Battle Against The Elements (08:10) No Time To Fight With Other People Over Trivial Matters (10:03) What Are We Doing With Our Available Time? (15:50) What Elements Should We Be Battling Rather Than Each Other (17:30) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Apr 8, 2022 • 16min
172 | How to Deal with Defiance
In this episode, Andy shares tips on dealing with defiant people. We all need a little bit of defiance to keep us pushing for what we aim for but knowing how to deal with solid defiance that goes against what you think is best for the situation is vital to be able to manage the relationships involved and to protect yourself as well. So, listen in now and learn these helpful tips. Quotes: “We All Have To Have A Little Bit Of Defiance In Us To Really Achieve Anything Significant In Our Lives” “When You're Dealing With Defiant People, This Goes In A Business Setting And A Home Life, It's Important That You Do All You Can To Not Be At Risk From Their Decisions.” “Many Of Us Have Defined People In Some Ways In Our Lives, And We Need To Be Able To Manage Those Relationships, And Protect Ourselves.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) The Naysayers And The People Who Give Unsolicited Advice (03:11) Talking About Defiance (04:08) Defiant People (06:02) How To Deal With Defiant People In Your Work Life (10:49) How To Deal With Defiant People In Your Personal Life (13:35) Protecting Yourself From Very Defiant People (14:57) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Apr 1, 2022 • 13min
171 | What Goes Around Comes Around
In this episode, we have Andy discuss how building relationships with relevant connections brings opportunities and growth. He explains what you can do to build these relationships especially when you are in a position of strength and not only when you need to build it because of lack. Tune in now and gain practical tips that you can do to effectively build your network. Quotes: “It's An Important Thing That We Are Constantly Building Relationships Because This Is Really A Relationship Business.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) Building Good Relationships With Recruiters And Relevant Connections (03:46) Build That Relationship Now (05:37) Building When You Are In A Position Of Strength (07:51) We Are In A Constant Relationship Business (08:52) Have The Conversations And Effectively Manage The Calls (11:21) Keep Networking (11:47) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers

Mar 25, 2022 • 15min
170 | Why Commenting Doesn't Always Add To The Conversation
In this episode, we are with Andy sharing about the importance of learning to hold back comments that do not add to the conversation. He talks about some reasons why people tend to give opinions even on things they may not fully understand. Listen in now and learn insights on how we can avoid getting into this situation and enjoy the results it brings to us as a professional and as a person. Quotes: “Even If We Are An Authority On The Topic, There Is Always Information That We're Missing.” “It's Not Our Thoughts, Judgments, And Conclusions That Define Us But It's Our Ability To Create Thoughtful Conclusions That Defines Us.” Show Notes: (00:00) Podcast Intro (00:27) If You Need Help Creating A Set Of Values, You’re Welcome To Sign For A Complimentary Course At https://theconsultingplaybook.com/values (01:19) An Illustration Of A Building Demolition (03:25) People Weigh In On Any Topic Regardless Of How Much They Know (04:54) There Is Always Information That We’re Missing (06:28) Holding Back Opinions Knowing That We Don’t Have All The Information (07:02) Reasons Why We Give Opinions Even On Things We May Not Fully Understand (09:47) Take A Moment To Think About Our Judgment Of Others (10:35) The Ability To Thoughtful Conclusions (12:45) What Sets Consultants Apart And Stand Out (13:28) Andy’s New Book The Trust Paradigm Is Available On Amazon And Other Book Retailers