Sex for Saints

I get a lot of questions concerning sex toys. What ones are best, are they appropriate, what materials should I be looking for. . and much more.  Tune in and I will give you a basic beginning course on all of this- as well as how using them in your marriage can add an element of novelty, playfulness, and eroticism to your sexual experience.  

Discover the fascinating concept of the five gears of touch, from affectionate gestures to intercourse. Learn how different levels of touch can deepen intimacy in relationships. The importance of slowing down and communicating with your partner is emphasized. There's also a call to embrace community support through upcoming webinars, designed to enhance sexual relationships and boost self-esteem. Tune in for valuable insights on transforming your intimate experiences!

When your head hits the pillow exhausted - the last thing you might want is sex. But your partner may have other ideas.  Now what?  Give in with resentment and exhaustion? Reject your spouse. . .again?  Today I am going to offer you a third option.  I will share some ways to better communicate and I will walk you through how your body can actively respond to willingness. This episode will be a game-changer in the bedroom.  

Join us on the podcast today to hear about Zach and Darcy Spafford’s journey to regain intimacy after Zach’s 25 year battle with pornography. They will take you on a beautiful journey of forgiveness, change, each owning their own sexuality, loving themselves and one another. They are fun, energetic and real. It is a podcast you will want to share with others. Get full show notes and more information here: https://amandalouder.com/135

The podcast dives into the evolving relationship between masturbation and church teachings. It highlights how historical perspectives have shifted from condemnation to a more understanding approach. Listeners are encouraged to contemplate their own beliefs and seek personal discernment. The conversation also addresses the complexities faced by new converts and emphasizes the importance of discussing sexual health within marriage. Notably, it advocates for open communication between partners to enhance intimacy and understanding.

Is your spouse feeling overlooked? Discover how to navigate competing desires for a more fulfilling relationship. Learn to identify true versus false desires and the power of your higher brain over lower instincts. Explore practical strategies to align choices with long-term goals. Embrace personal growth and tackle emotional hurdles with the help of a coaching program. Small sacrifices, like a few minutes of sleep, can lead to significant improvements in love and connection!

Today’s podcast looks at how to deal with grief, intimacy and fear after losing a baby.  My guest, Amy Watson, is a life coach who helps mom’s who have had pregnancy or baby loss at any point.  Amy shares how she and her husband grieved differently and how they worked together to be intimate even when it felt terrifying.  Join me in this heartfelt story of carrying on through the challenge of loss.

I am excited to spend some time today with Sadie Banks.  Sadie is a photographer and owner of “Good Grief” journals.  Her company was born in the midst of - and due to the grief she was dealing with during her own infertility journey.  She shares how she came to understand the real meaning of intimacy and how to separate pleasure sex from clinical sex.  She shares insight into how to keep your marriage a priority - even during the most difficult times.

Pregnancy can be a magical time- but it can also be a scary time. There are so many unexpected changes, added hormones and a changing body. This can have an impact on not only the woman, but to her spouse and their relationship.This podcast is packed full of information. I will go through what you might expect concerning sex surrounding each trimester, myths and warning signs of when intercourse needs to be cleared with your doctor. Even if pregnancy isn’t in your future or it’s come and gone, this might be helpful to someone you know. It’s a good one to share.

Do you find yourself trying to be in control of situations or others? If you stop and question the emotion that is riding along with you. . .it is fear?  For some, having control makes them feel powerful.  This week I hope to teach you different ways you might be exerting control and what emotion it is stemming from.  I will also teach steps to work on overcoming this tendency.  If you are new to the podcast or if you have been here before - welcome!