
Sex for Saints
As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life!
In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.
Latest episodes

Jan 6, 2023 • 49min
Episode 246 - What is a Covenant Marriage? - An Interview with Aimée Gianni
In this episode, I am talking to my friend and mentor, Aimée Gianni, about how to have a covenant marriage. So often we stay in our broken marriages because we made a covenant. But what if doing that is actually breaking your covenant? Aimée offers some amazing things to think about if we are at the point where we are thinking about divorce. Even if we’re happy in your marriage, her advice can help us progress along the path. You can find Aimée Gianni at: https://aimeegianni.com/ Instagram: @aimeegiannims Love Notes Sign Up: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/63925632df727ca7117b05f5

Dec 30, 2022 • 41min
Episode 245 - How Conflict in Marriage Builds Intimacy: An Interview with Crystal Hansen
In this episode, I’m talking with fellow coach and my real life best friend, Crystal Hansen, all about how conflict actually builds intimacy in your marriage. I know this sounds counter intuitive, but it really does work. We all want to feel connected and when we try to avoid conflict, that creates a wedge in our relationships. Crystal shares with us Gottman’s Four Horsemen of conflict and the antidotes for each one. This episode is a great way to start thinking about who we want to be in our marriages next year. You can find Crystal Hansen at: http://crystalhansencoaching.com/ Instagram: @crystalhansen_ New Podcast: Couples in Conflict

Dec 23, 2022 • 37min
Episode 244 - How My Spouse’s Faith Journey Affected Our Sex Life - An Interview with Lisa Frehner
Often in marriage, if there is disconnect in one part of the relationship, there is also disconnect in the bedroom. That’s how I came to know my guest today, Lisa. After getting married in the Temple, Lisa’s husband had a faith crisis and left the Church. Lisa was angry at him for changing the future that she had envisioned for them. She and her husband found therapy and that really has helped her marriage, but she still didn’t want to have any sort of intimacy in their relationship. That’s what brought her to coaching. I love what Lisa shares about hope and love and joy in this episode. Even if you are not going through the same thing, you will love her message.

Dec 16, 2022 • 18min
Episode 243 - Masturbation Within Marriage
Delve into the intriguing dynamics of masturbation within marriage. Discover how it can strengthen intimacy and connection when approached healthily. The conversation emphasizes the importance of open communication and establishing sexual agreements to respect individual desires. This exploration challenges traditional views and encourages couples to embrace their sexuality.

Dec 9, 2022 • 13min
Episode 242 - How To Flirt
I recently had a client tell me that she has forgotten how to flirt. She wanted to find a way to make her marriage feel like more of a partnership rather than a business relationship. So, here is Flirting 101. Maybe it’s been awhile, maybe you have never been too good at flirting, but flirting is a great way to connect with your husband on a deeper level. Let me show you how!

Dec 2, 2022 • 16min
Episode 241 - Why Women Don’t Reach Orgasm
I often have women come to me wondering why they’ve never had an orgasm. I realize how frustrating it is for both the wife and the husband. I want to help! Why? Because pleasure is important! In this episode, we’ll talk about the 3 things to rule out physically that could be stopping you from having an orgasm. Then we’ll talk about the mental issues that could be keeping you from enjoying orgasms. These are things I help women with all the time. Maybe there’s something you haven’t thought of before.

Nov 25, 2022 • 27min
Episode 240 - How Believing You Are a Good Mom Can Help in the Bedroom: An Interview with Emily Wardrop
You may look at the title of this podcast and think, “What does being a good mom have to do with the bedroom?” My guest, Emily Wardrop of Drop the War Life Coaching, shares with us how your thoughts about how you’re doing as a mom affects your whole life, including in the bedroom. Listen to this episode to hear what you can do to not only KNOW that you are a good mom but also KNOW that you are a good lover. You can find Emily at: Her website: www.dropthewarlifecoach.com/ Her podcast: Believe you are a Good Mom with Emily Wardrop Facebook Instagram Download her masterclass on Believing you ARE a Good Mom at: www.dropthewarlifecoach.com/believe Download her training specifically for T1D Moms at: www.dropthewarlifecoach.com/T1D

Nov 18, 2022 • 40min
Episode 239 - Talking to Teens about Sex Shame Free: An Interview with Crystal Bowman
“How can I teach my kids about sex?” I get this question all of the time. As we are learning and growing, we want to help our kids have a different experience with sex that we had. I get it. So when I heard about Crystal Bowman and her method of talking to kids about sex, I just knew I needed to have her on the podcast. She shares a better way to explain sex to our children than the way most of us were taught. I absolutely love this method of teaching our preteens, teens, and even young adults, and I know you will too.

Nov 11, 2022 • 18min
Episode 238 - Coaching Amelia || Embracing You! Podcast Teaser!
I have an exciting announcement! On December 6, I am debuting a brand new private podcast called Embracing You! In this new podcast, I will be sharing coaching sessions with women or couples who have signed up to be coached on their relationship. Because I know the power of coaching. I know that while you listen to someone else being coached, you will learn things that will help you in your life. So, in this episode, I am sharing a teaser of the new podcast, Embracing You! As you listen to this coaching session, watch for things that you can use in your relationship. If you’d like to subscribe to my new podcast, do so before December 6 to get the introductory price of $69 for a year. After December 6, the price will be $99 for the year. Don’t miss out on this screaming hot deal! Go to www.amandalouder.com/embracingyoupod to subscribe today!

Nov 4, 2022 • 56min
Episode 237 - Modesty & The For Strength of Youth: A Collaboration with Zach Spafford
In this episode, I talk with my good friend and fellow life coach Zach Spafford about modesty and the new For the Strength of Youth guide. We talk about why this new guide is a step in the right direction when we’re speaking to our youth about modesty and living the Gospel. How we need to let go of some of the old traditions we were raised with when it comes to modesty and embrace a new way of looking at things. With examples from our own lives, this is a very interesting episode that you won’t want to miss! You can find Zach at: His website: zachspafford.com On Instagram: thrivebeyond_forcouples His podcast Thrive Beyond Pornography Email him to request a Fireside: zach@zachspafford.com