

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Feb 9, 2020 • 48min
But Like Maybe Don’t… Do Any Of These Things ft. Arianna Margulis
In this episode, I sit down with my friend and talented cartoon artist Arianna Margulis of But Like Maybe. We talk about what not to do when you’re dating in your early 20s, her favorite passage from her new book, our own personal mistakes, a bad date I went on, why set-ups don’t work, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to attract people IRL, rebounds, dating again without alcohol, how you know if they’ll be a good parent, and more! But Like Maybe Don't - Now available everywhere books are sold! Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 2, 2020 • 52min
How Much Men Care About Looks, Putting Yourself Out There, And The Difference Between A First And Second Date ft. Harrison And Brandon from The UpDating Show
In this episode, I sit down with the creators of UpDating Brandon Berman and Harrison Forman. We discuss everything from how they match couples for blind dating, if people who like to talk need other people who like to talk, how much people care about looks, the law of attraction, putting yourself out there, date horror stories and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to know if a relationship isn’t working even if it’s healthy, what to get for Valentine’s Day, and being friends with an ex. Visit Sakara.com/ACME or use promo code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 26, 2020 • 52min
My Break Up, What Men Need To Fall In Love, And Why You Should Tell People You Like Them ft. Jonathon Aslay
In this episode, I sit down with author and dating coach Jonathon Aslay. We discuss everything from why you can never assume anything in dating, leading with love, why it’s okay to tell people you if you like them, guys in their 20s vs guys in their 40s, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my break up and what to say and not say to someone who is going through one. http://www.jonathonaslay.com/love for free chapter's of Jonathon's book! FunctionofBeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 19, 2020 • 43min
Getting Financially Naked: When You Should Ask A Partner What They Make And Why Prenups Are Crucial ft. Shannon McLay
In this episode, I sit down with Shannon from The Financial Gym. We discuss everything from when you can ask a partner about money, why prenups are necessary, getting “financially naked,” who should pay for what based on their salary, and our past lives! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss whether or not you should break up if you’re unsure, living together after a LDR, and a roommate’s partner who stays over every night. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 12, 2020 • 32min
What Isn’t Attractive To Guys, Wishing Your Ex A HBD, and Dating Someone With Addiction
In this first solo episode of 2020, I answer your questions that came in via email and Instagram DM. I discuss what I keep hearing from single guys, dating anniversaries, wishing your ex a happy birthday, telling someone you meet if you’ve slept with their friend, if your SO doesn’t post you on Insta, dating an alcoholic, dating post break up, and more! Visit Sakara.com/ACME or use promo code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 5, 2020 • 1h 39min
Live Podcast at Bowery Ballroom (ft. Nick Viall, Tori Piskin, Alyssa Coscarelli, and Justin McLeod)
In this live podcast episode, we discuss everything from sex on the first date, to long distance relationships, why hinge took away the height feature, embarrassing trends we participated in, and more! Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 29, 2019 • 40min
Why Men Sleep With You On The First Date Because They’re Insecure, Being A Player In The Age Of Feminism, And Getting Divorced By Age 26.
On this week’s episode, I talk to author Josh Raab about avoiding red flags, his divorce, signs you’re in a toxic relationship, why Josh thinks it’s a bad idea to sleep together early on, open relationships, and more. This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss growing up in NYC, wanting to get back with an ex, if you know they’re the one but you’re 21, if it’s harder to get a partner if you compare them to friends of your desired sex, and more! Josh’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Player-Age-Feminism/dp/1733133410/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&linkCode=sl1&tag=podcast0f2-20&linkId=7668b2b4eba17a696adef106702f2a80&language=en_US Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 22, 2019 • 41min
Breaking Off Engagements, Body Image, And Not Bringing Out The Best In Each Other ft. Anne Mahlum
On this week’s episode, I talk to CEO Anne Mahlum about meeting her partner in the DM, breaking off her engagement, body image issues, if abs are really made in the kitchen, taking responsibility in your relationships, having a high work and sex drive and more! This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss dealing with a broken heart, bringing up exes, phone call anxiety, and running into old flings at a party. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 15, 2019 • 43min
Living With A Partner For The First Time, Stigmas About Working For Your Parents, And Not Getting Married Until You’re Financially Set ft. The Zabar Twins
On this week’s episode, I talk to twins Oliver and Sasha Zabar about dating with no pressure to get married, stigma’s about working for your parents, what it’s like being twins, how living with a partner can actually be easier, and more! This episode starts off with a solo where I discuss dating older guys, and tips on taking things slow vs. letting things fizzle. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 8, 2019 • 32min
Settling vs. Compromising, Emotionally Abusive Relationships, And My Parents Love Story
On this week’s solo episode, I answer your submitted questions about how my parents met, settling vs. compromising, emotionally abusive relationships and parents, different sex drives, tips to get to a second date, my dating rules, if you ever really know if someone is “the one,” partners who struggle with mental health, and more! This episode is sponsored by Ritual, head to ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.