

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jun 28, 2020 • 1h 6min
What A Matchmaker Looks For When Matching Two People ft. Emily Holmes of LastFirst
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Emily Holmes, the founder of LastFirst matchmaking. We discuss what makes a match compatible, breaking out of your type, time limits for a first date, do opposites really attract, talking about exes on dates, match- ing people with opposite political views, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I dis- cuss what rules can be broken, dating app rules, what to do when one partner isn’t a local, and moving in with my boyfriend. www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 21, 2020 • 50min
The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets For Capturing the Heart Of Mr. Right ft. The Author herself
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Sherrie Schneider, the co-author of the famous “The Rules” book, published in 1995. We discuss what the rules are, and why it is so important to follow them. Sherrie explains how important it is for a woman to be someone that a man chooses, and not the other way around. Definitely some controversial opinions, so I’m excited to hear your responses! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss age differences, how I met my bf, manifesting someone, saying ILY first, and how to spot fuckboy behavior. www.functionofbeauty.com/acme for 20% off your first order www.drinkhydrant.com/acme for 25% off your first order www.issuu.info/acme to set up your free account today Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 14, 2020 • 45min
What Comes Up When Interracial Dating, Jobs In Your Early 20s, And Training Men For Other Women ft. Baylie Robinson
In this episode, I virtually sit down with published author and blogger Baylie Robinson. Baylie and I discuss the “no-contact rule,” the difference between dating a Black woman and a White woman, interracial relationships, what we need in our friendships, how to become self aware without therapy, how to talk to your Black friends, training guys to date other women, stories of us getting fired, and more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss how mental health issues affect relationships, PTSD from toxic exes, discussing BLM with your partner, people who aren’t posting on social, and more. www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 7, 2020 • 57min
An Easy Way For Women To Orgasm And How Important Your Friend Group Is ft. Adam Lyons
This episode starts with a solo with my friend Brihanna where we have an open conversation about what it’s like to be a Black woman in America. The episode continues with Adam Lyons, a dating coach who also happens to be in a polyamorous relationship. Adam and I discuss how to get a woman to achieve an orgasm, dealing with low testosterone, monogamy vs. polygamy, how your friend group affects your dating life, and more. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 31, 2020 • 46min
Why Couples Get Divorced And The Unsexy Conversations You Should Have To Avoid It ft. Laura Wasser
In this episode, I virtually sit down with divorce attorney Laura Wasser. We discuss why couples get divorced, crucial conversations you need to have with a partner, if a pre-nup is necessary, what to look out for when dating, how much a divorce costs, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss friendship/friend groups, watching ex’s stories on Instagram, insecurities when single, and the Call Her Daddy drama. . www.drinkhydrant.com/acme or use code ACME at checkout for 25% off your first order! www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 24, 2020 • 41min
Going Through A Break Up During Quarantine, Virtual Dating Tips, And How We Were As Teenagers ft. Kay Brown
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kay Brown (of @Betches). We dis- cuss her break up during quarantine, tips for virtual dating, why women think the men we date are the one, what we were like as teens, our insecurities, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss masturbating, signs a relationship is going well while apart, body changes in relationships, and pressure on women to take birth control. “The Feeling Is Virtual” - Coming Soon. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 17, 2020 • 39min
How To Get Them To Define Things, Dressing For Dates, And The Power Of Social Media ft. Danielle Bernstein
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Danielle Bernstein, the founder of WeWoreWhat. We talk about her new book, feeling confident in your body, quarantining with a boyfriend, what to wear on a first date, haters, what is off-limits to share online, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my mental health struggles, quarantine activities, and dating post quarantine. Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 10, 2020 • 53min
There Is No Such Thing As Sexual Incompatibility ft. Ian Ferguson
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Ian Ferguson, an intimacy coach and teacher of the Erotic Blueprint BreakthroughTM platform, designed to radically transform how we talk about and experience sex. We discuss the 5 different types of erotic personas, how people give and receive love, how you can meet someone halfway when it comes to sex, different kinks, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Mother’s Day, sharing phone passwords, the law of attraction, and watching porn together. www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! www.Causebox.com/ACME and use code ACME for 30% off Plus FREE shipping! www.FunctionofBeauty.com/ACME to take your 4 part hair profile quiz and save 20% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 3, 2020 • 47min
Ending Friendships, Starting New Relationships In Quarantine, and Vanderpump Rules Gossip ft. Kristen Doute
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Kristen Doute from Vanderpump Rules. We discuss her friendship with Stassi and Katie, her book, what she would tell her 20 something self, how therapy has helped her, her new quarantine buddy, how she is portrayed in the show, her thoughts on the Vanderpump couples, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss getting broken up with out of nowhere, how to increase sex drive during quarantine, and keeping your cool being quarantined with family. Visit www.Storyworth.com/ACME for $10 off your first purchase! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 26, 2020 • 59min
Men Want Sex, Women Want Security ft. Rob Kowalski
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Rob Kowalski. Rob is a best-sell- ing author and speaker who is best known for his views on waiting to have sex before marriage. We discussed why it’s good to wait, how men and women view sex differently, what sex can do to a relationship dynamic, living together before marriage, and more. As you can prob- ably imagine, Rob and I had many debates on this subject and did not see eye to eye. However, we did find a common ground at the end of the episode. The episode starts with a solo where I discuss Too Hot To Handle, saying I Love You in relationships, enneagrams, and how my behavior in relationships has changed from my early 20s. Causebox.com/ACME for 30% off your order Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.