

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Nov 15, 2020 • 1h 5min
The More You Communicate, The More They Communicate ft. Shaun Galanos
In this episode, I virtually sit down with love coach Shaun Galanos! We discuss how honest a therapist should be, why you don't owe anyone an explanation for why you're not into them, how it's scarier for a woman to reject a man, why men are not that simple, how important relationship check-ins are, and how “what are we” doesn’t have to be so scary. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss talking about political differences, the ego when rejected, The Undoing, when to tell your them you go to therapy, independence in a good relationship, and if your partner loves receiving head but you don’t love giving it. www.FunctionofBeauty.com/ACME to save 20% on your first hair care order! www.dipseastories.com/ACME to get your free 30 day trial! www.blublox.com with code ACME for 15% off plus free shipping worldwide! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 8, 2020 • 53min
How Upfront Should We Be About What We’re Looking For? ft. Chinae Alexander
In this episode, I virtually sit down with fellow podcaster Chinae Alexander! We discuss meeting her boyfriend on tinder, why opposites are good in dating, where you should be 1.5 years in, how often you should have sex with your SO, her experience getting COVID19, wanting something serious but not wanting to push someone away, when to tell someone what you're looking for, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss post hookup anxiety, deleting dating apps, running out of things to talk about in therapy, when to discuss family drama, dating with a chronic illness, and running into an ex. www.DailyHarvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box! www.Mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! www.LiveFeather.com with code ACME and you'll receive your first month FREE up to $500! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 1, 2020 • 1h 8min
Needing A Boyfriend vs. Needing A Good Boyfriend For You ft. Jared Freid
In this episode, I virtually sit down with comedian Jared Freid again! We discuss his current relationship, how when you’re with the right person you don’t feel like you’re missing out, his opinion on my dating rules, what our partner’s need to feel fulfilled, how it’s important to know your partner will be okay without you, the glitz and the glam of having a relationship on social media, why my boyfriend isn’t on instagram, guys not getting credit for emotional intelligence, normalizing therapy for guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the average time you should date before getting engaged, how to point out a ring you like, the importance of voting, how my ex weaponized my nudes, and more. www.Sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! www.Blublox.com with code ACME for 15% off and free shipping on your order! www.issuu.com/podcast with code ACME to get started for Free or get 50% off your premium account Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 25, 2020 • 51min
Stop Dating The Bare Minimum Guy ft. Violet Benson
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Violet Benson, the mastermind behind @DaddyIssues. We discuss Call Her Daddy, if guys care about their instagram, overly simplifying men, your online persona vs social media persona, guys who do the bare minimum, if girls really like when guys cum on their face, being single during quarantine, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss splitting things when you live together, boundaries with acquaintances, job searching in COVID, first kisses during corona, and big friend groups vs. smaller ones. www.functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! www.hellorory.com/ACME to get your first order for $5! www.dailyharvest.com with code ACME for $25 off your first box! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 18, 2020 • 60min
Dating App Prompts, Anti-Ghost Texts, And What Matters When Sliding Into DMs ft. Hunter March
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Hunter March, co-host of E!’s Nightly Pop. We discuss what to put on your dating app prompts, why relationships need 90% security and 10% insecurity, getting to a breaking point in a relationship, dating someone who is very sure about you, a woman he dated that didn’t say thank you, the simple reason people ghost, anti-ghost texts, what matters when DM sliding, if turning your phone off is sociopathic, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss not being sexually compatible at first, bringing trust issues into a new relationship, losing a parent, and your partner having only single friends. www.dipsea.com/ACME for your free 30 day trial! www.mejuri.com/ACME for 10% off your first order! www.blublox.com with code ACME for 15% off! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 11, 2020 • 54min
Let’s Analyze Your COVID Date ft. Harry Hill
In this episode, I virtually sit down with Harry Hill, aka @VeryHarryHill. We discuss his COVID date, cancel culture, TikTok stars, leaving dates early, talking about kids on dates, unfollowing people after a bad date, online personas vs. real ones, WAP, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss pressure to couple up in the pandemic, how to know if you want to marry your partner, being aggressive with guys, dating multiple people during COVID, friends who keep coming back that you want to phase out, how to start convos on dating apps, tips for moving in together, and first trips together. www.issuu.com/podcast with promo code ACME for 50% off our premium account! www.sakara.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! And use code ACME for 20% off your first order with the Caviar app! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 4, 2020 • 47min
Why Do You Send A Thank You Text After A Date? ft. Real Housewives of NY’s Elyse Slaine
In this episode, I virtually sit down Elyse Slaine, Ramona’s ex friend from Real Housewives of NYC. We discuss what wasn’t working in her first marriage, why people cheating is a symptom of a bad marriage, dating rules we agree and disagree on, slow-playing texts, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss all things college dating. Visit www.hellorory.com/ACME for a Free consultation and $5 for your first treatment! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 27, 2020 • 54min
Is Watching Porn Ruining Our Sex Lives? ft. Frank Rich
In this episode, I virtually sit down with ex-body builder and podcast host Frank Rich. We discuss how addictive porn can be, the difference between how men and women masturbate, if the porn you watch is directly related to what you’re into IRL, how depression feels for men, toxic masculinity and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my 30th birthday, what it’s like living with my SO, adjusting back to NYC life, and not feeling behind when all your friends are having babies. www.dailyharvest.com with promo code ACME for $25 off your first box! www.mejuri.com/acme or use code ACME10 for 10% off your order! www.dipseastories.com/ACME for a free 30 day trial! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 20, 2020 • 39min
My Relationship Trauma, and How To Heal From Rejection and Cheating
Is rejection trauma a real thing? In this full solo episode, I talk about relationship trauma. Specifically, we discuss rejection trauma and how that can affect us in the long-term. Trauma around rejection is no joke, but luckily there are ways to treat the psychological wounds rejection inflicts. I discuss my past relationships in this episode and those wounds, being cheated on repeatedly, big T trauma and little t trauma, your own rejection stories, and how important self-awareness is in choosing a partner. www.sakara.com/ACME to get 20% off your first order! www.issuu.com/podcast and use code ACME for your FREE account or 50% off your premium account! and download the Caviar app and use offer code ACME for 20% off your first order! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 13, 2020 • 56min
How Two 25-Year-Old Guys Think About Dating ft. David and Jake
In this episode, I virtually sit down with David and Jake from “How The F*** Did You Get That Job” Podcast. We discuss tips for an LDR, how 25 year old men think about dating, is anyone ever really single, getting a guy to define things, meeting on dating apps vs. in person and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss trauma, the early stages of dating, things to overcome in relationships, stalking SO’s followers on Insta, and cheating. www.functionofbeauty.com/ACME for 20% off your first order! www.hellorory.com/ACME to try out Nightly Defense for just $5! and download SHIP in the App store to start swiping today! Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.