

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Aug 28, 2022 • 1h 2min
In Relationships, You Need To Be The Crazy One ft. Nicole Pellegrino
On today’s episode, I sit down with Nicole Pellegrino, the host of Betches Brides podcast. We discuss fighting with our husbands, why you want to be the “crazy one,” how she got involved with Betches, the absurd stories she has heard on Betches Brides, pre-marital counseling, her advice for content creators, a fight I had on my wedding day, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss being in a date to marry mindset, how no one is ever “ready” for a next step, what comes out of you when you’re dating the right person, and more. Sponsors: Hannahflorman.com/contact to book your complimentary call with Hannah Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Hungryroot.com/acme for 30% off and free veggies for life Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 21, 2022 • 1h 11min
Why I Don’t Have A Prenup ft. Divorce Lawyers Vikki and Brian
On today’s episode, I sit down with Vikki Zeigler and Bryan Krauss, divroce lawyers and hosts of Naked Encore Podcast. We discuss the pros and cons to having a prenup, why I don't have a prenup, all the things you need to consider before getting married, why you need to keep your own bank account, the most common professions that get divorce, and our thoughts on Brooklyn Beckham and Nicola Peltz’s prenup. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why you don’t need to love yourself before a relationship, how to stop calorie counting, and my spending habits. Sponsors: Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 14, 2022 • 1h 2min
Stop Telling People What They Want To Hear ft. Whitney Goodman
On today’s episode, I sit down with Whitney Goodman, licensed marriage & family therapist, and author of Toxic Positivity. We discuss toxic positivity and why we're all guilty of it, why we need to stop thinking about what "could have been,” best ways to move on, differentiating loneliness and regret, how to be happy for an ex when you've moved on, dealing with a low sex drive in a relationship, how to handle with a partner with depression, switching up the day to day conversation with your SO, and so much more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss my recent trip, having different vacation styles with your partner, patience during sex, and my obsession with my husband’s past. Read Whitney’s book https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-Positivity-Keeping-World-Obsessed-ebook/dp/B094VCFSZW Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Liquidiv.com code ACME for 15% off Hannahflorman.com/contact to book your complimentary call with Hannah Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 7, 2022 • 1h 15min
On Thursday’s We Have Sex ft. Jennifer Fisher
On today’s episode, I sit down with Jennifer Fisher. Jennifer is a jewelry designer, a clean eater, a mom, a wife, and a major boss. We discuss dating Matt LeBlanc, how she went from TV wardrobe stylist to jewelry designer extraordinaire, keeping it interesting in the bedroom when you’re married, surviving a tumor (that she still has!), raising kids in NYC, eating clean but never restricting, grieving, and so much more! The episode starts with a solo where I discuss reasons it never worked out with exes and siblings with toxic partners. Sponsors: Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Beistravel.com/acme for 15% off your first purchase Theouai.com code ACME for 15% off Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 31, 2022 • 1h 3min
Manifesting Everything We Want ft. Haley Hoffman Smith
On today’s episode, I sit down with manifesting coach Haley Hoffman Smith. We discuss manifesting and why she swears by it, what she has manifested for her own life, how to change your vibrations to attract better people into your life, how to know if better things are coming for you, attracting (and keeping) great people, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss running into an ex, live shows, getting attacked by a past guest in my DM’s, engagement pressure, the first time I went home with Steven, and tips for meeting the parents. Sponsors: Saje.com code ACME20 for 20% off Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Hannahflorman.com/contact to book your complimentary call with Hannah Thrivecausemetics.com/acme for 15% off Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 24, 2022 • 59min
Why We’re So Afraid Of Sober Dating ft. Amanda White
On today’s episode, I sit down with Amanda White, a licensed therapist and the author of Not Drinking Tonight. We discuss - why she got sober, social anxiety when drinking, what to say on a date if you're not drinking, our relationships with alcohol, alternative date ideas without alcohol, how to be sober at your wedding, times we were f***ed up and regret it, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss feeling lost in your late 20s, boosting confidence when you have acne, making new friends later on, and how to nudge towards a second date. Sponsors: Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Starface.world code ACME15 for 15% off Gldn.com code ACME for 15% off Liquidiv.com code ACME for 25% off Ritual.com/acme for 10% off your first 3 months Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 21, 2022 • 46min
I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To
On today’s bonus episode, I have scoured the internet for all of the best TikTok dating advice. I discuss what to say when someone asks what you’re looking for, the one word that means a guy isn’t interested, why you should NEVER end a conversation, how to have attractive energy when dating, why you need to date someone who disagrees with you, and more! Sponsors: Saje.com code ACME20 for 20% off Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Wealthfront.com/acme to get a bonus $50 when you start investing Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 17, 2022 • 58min
How To Approach Someone IRL ft. Ruben
On today’s episode, I sit down with Ruben, founder of the YouTube channel Social Animal. Ruben and I discuss people’s biggest fears when approaching others in person, what to say when you go up to someone, the reason we don’t meet IRL anymore, why we connect with some people and don’t connect with others, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss friendship insecurity, the problem with the chill girl, how to get a player to simp for you, and more. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME for a free account or 50% off your premium account Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app Theouai.com code ACME for 15% off Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 10, 2022 • 59min
Insight Into The Male Mind When Newly Dating ft. Dan Perlman
On today’s episode, I sit down with comedian, writer, and star of Flatbush Misdemeanors. Dan and I discuss how first dates are not a good representation of someone, why it’s important to see someone in their element, the level of stalking a guy does when newly seeing a girl, what makes a guy have an emotional block , telling someone they smell, why waiting to respond to someone is pointless, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my grandpa’s near death experience, Steven’s “surprise” birthday, why I hate music these days, and more. Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Starface.world code ACME15 for 15% off Gldn.com code ACME for 15% off Saje.com code ACME20 for 20% off Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 3, 2022 • 53min
Stop Dating Like You’re Single ft. Corporate Natalie
On today’s episode, I sit down with the one and only Corporate Natalie. Natalie and I discuss getting dumped because of your passion, dating in SF and how it’s different, why you should act like you have a boyfriend when dating, making new friends later on, how her boss feels about her tiktok, why the gym community came for her, and so much more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss my thoughts on Roe vs. Wade, the pressure to have summer plans, more birth control woes, and how to get men to plan. Sponsors: Starface.world code ACME15 for 15% off Squarespace.com/acme code ACME for 10% off your first purchase Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.