

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jan 4, 2026 • 51min
What No One Tells You About Your Fertility ft. Samantha Diamond
Samantha Diamond, co-founder and CEO of Bird&Be, opens up about her battle with PCOS and the emotional journey of her miscarriage. She sheds light on common fertility misconceptions and emphasizes the importance of lifestyle changes and preconception health. Samantha advocates for a naturopathic approach to reproductive wellness, discussing the role of supplements like inositol and the need for emotional support during fertility challenges. She also shares practical tips for improving fertility and navigating the healthcare system.

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Dec 28, 2025 • 1h 11min
Why You’re Not Having Good Sex ft. Caitlin V
Caitlin V, a sex and relationship coach specializing in pleasure-focused education, dives into the complexities of modern sexuality. She unveils tips on discussing fantasies without awkwardness and navigating mismatched libidos. Caitlin addresses the emotional roots of erectile dysfunction and debunks myths about size and performance. With practical advice on exploring pleasure, tackling insecurities, and enhancing intimacy, she emphasizes the importance of mindset over technique in achieving great sex.

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Dec 21, 2025 • 1h 23min
How We Should Handle Modern Dating ft. Mel Robbins
Mel Robbins, a renowned author and motivational speaker, shares her expert insights on modern dating and relationships. She opens up about her own love story with Christopher, highlighting the importance of communication and the 'Let Them Theory' in fostering healthy connections. Mel emphasizes the need to combat dating anxiety using her Five Second Rule and advocates teaching essential life skills to future partners. With practical tips on nurturing relationships, she encourages listeners to prioritize empathy and kindness while navigating love.

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Dec 14, 2025 • 57min
Love Is Better In Your 30s ft. Lindsi Lane
Lindsi Lane, a fashion and motherhood influencer, shares her compelling journey of finding love and navigating fertility challenges in her 30s. She opens up about her first encounters with her partner Aaron, candidly discussing the ups and downs of modern dating. Lindsi elaborates on her IVF experience, from heartbreaking setbacks to the joy of her daughter's successful transfer. Additionally, she reflects on the delicate balance of sharing personal struggles on social media and the importance of support systems in motherhood. Her insights blend humor with heartfelt wisdom.

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Dec 7, 2025 • 54min
I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To Part 2
In this insightful discussion, the hosts delve into quirky dating advice from TikTok. They emphasize picking a partner like you would choose a puppy, focusing on genuine kindness. The importance of mutual accountability and maintaining individuality in relationships is underscored. They argue against overcomplicated relationships and stress the need for clear, in-person communication over ambiguous texting. A method of evaluating if your partner would make a good friend or a suitable partner for your child adds a unique perspective. Trust your instincts and set personal boundaries!

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Nov 30, 2025 • 49min
It All Comes Down to Communication ft. Tay Lautner
Tay Lautner, a registered nurse and mental health advocate, shares her journey from nursing burnout to finding love with Taylor Lautner. She dives into the significance of relationship communication and the transformative power of therapy. Tay recounts their playful game night introduction, the whirlwind of early romance, and the thoughtful details of her engagement. She emphasizes navigating love languages, the benefits of couples therapy, and the importance of mutual respect. Her insights remind listeners that successful relationships are built on understanding and clear communication.

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Nov 23, 2025 • 40min
Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant
Andy and Katie Mant, co-founders of Bon Charge, dive into the intriguing link between sleep and relationships. They highlight the significance of sleep compatibility and share clever hacks to enhance your nighttime routine. Discover how blue light impacts sleep, and get tips on circadian lighting to improve both rest and romance. They also explore the dynamics of running a business together, the decision to stay childfree, and how friendship strengthens their bond. Better sleep equals better love life!

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Nov 16, 2025 • 51min
Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
Nate Berkus, a renowned interior designer and author, dives into the connection between love, design, and home. He shares his heartwarming love story with his husband Jeremia and discusses the importance of communication in maintaining a healthy relationship. Nate reveals how personal taste can shape attraction and identifies green and red flags in dating based on someone's living space. He offers insights on manifesting love through intentional design and critiques modern trends, advocating for settings that tell personal stories.

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Nov 9, 2025 • 58min
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
Explore the intriguing dynamics of loneliness as we navigate life stages from post-college to parenthood. Discover the emotional void many face after graduating and the isolation of living at home. Dive into the challenges of shifting relationships in your mid-20s and how they affect social dynamics. Hear tips on dating around the holidays, including boundary-setting and texting habits. Finally, learn how to build community as a new parent and understand the health risks of chronic loneliness.

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Nov 2, 2025 • 1h 20min
The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall
In this engaging talk, married duo Mosheh Oinounou, a journalist and founder of Mo News, and Alex Sall, a designer and entrepreneur, dive deep into modern relationships. They explore breaking generational molds in parenting and the importance of vulnerability and patience in love. The couple shares insights on navigating different conflict styles, the significance of early travel for compatibility, and the challenges of balancing careers while raising their daughter. They also reflect on the milestones of their own relationship journey, from dating norms to family planning.


