

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Nov 23, 2025 • 40min
Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant
Andy and Katie Mant, co-founders of Bon Charge, dive into the intriguing link between sleep and relationships. They highlight the significance of sleep compatibility and share clever hacks to enhance your nighttime routine. Discover how blue light impacts sleep, and get tips on circadian lighting to improve both rest and romance. They also explore the dynamics of running a business together, the decision to stay childfree, and how friendship strengthens their bond. Better sleep equals better love life!

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Nov 16, 2025 • 51min
Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
Nate Berkus, a renowned interior designer and author, dives into the connection between love, design, and home. He shares his heartwarming love story with his husband Jeremia and discusses the importance of communication in maintaining a healthy relationship. Nate reveals how personal taste can shape attraction and identifies green and red flags in dating based on someone's living space. He offers insights on manifesting love through intentional design and critiques modern trends, advocating for settings that tell personal stories.

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Nov 9, 2025 • 58min
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
Explore the intriguing dynamics of loneliness as we navigate life stages from post-college to parenthood. Discover the emotional void many face after graduating and the isolation of living at home. Dive into the challenges of shifting relationships in your mid-20s and how they affect social dynamics. Hear tips on dating around the holidays, including boundary-setting and texting habits. Finally, learn how to build community as a new parent and understand the health risks of chronic loneliness.

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Nov 2, 2025 • 1h 20min
The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall
In this engaging talk, married duo Mosheh Oinounou, a journalist and founder of Mo News, and Alex Sall, a designer and entrepreneur, dive deep into modern relationships. They explore breaking generational molds in parenting and the importance of vulnerability and patience in love. The couple shares insights on navigating different conflict styles, the significance of early travel for compatibility, and the challenges of balancing careers while raising their daughter. They also reflect on the milestones of their own relationship journey, from dating norms to family planning.

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Oct 26, 2025 • 1h 9min
What Everyone Hates About Dating Right Now ft. Davide De Pierro
Davide De Pierro, an attorney-turned-social-media creator known for his candid perspective on dating, dives into the complexities of modern romance. He shares his thoughts on why religious couples might have stronger bonds and discusses the pitfalls of dating apps that commodify connections. Davide emphasizes the importance of authenticity and hopes for a return to more in-person interactions. He reflects on his own dating preferences and offers advice to younger individuals about the value of being loved over merely being interesting.

Oct 19, 2025 • 41min
The Difference Between A Boyfriend And A Husband
In today’s solo episode, I’m talking all about the difference between a boyfriend and a husband. I also discuss if we are all having enough sex. Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerUse code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.Simplify your kids' mealtimes. Go to: littlespoon.com/ACME and enter our code ACME at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon order.Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acmeChapters:00:30 Celebrating Eight Years of We Met at Acme01:32 Boyfriend vs. Husband: Key Differences04:25 Real-Life Examples and Anecdotes07:47 Listener Insights and TikTok Discussion19:54 Are We Having Enough Sex?Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 12, 2025 • 54min
We Need To Talk About Sex ft. Jamie Norwood
Winx co-founder Jamie Norwood is on the podcast and we are discussing all things sex-ed, UTIs, when to discuss sex with the next generation, what a man’s role in sex should look like, and so much more. Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACMEHead to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeChapters:06:32 Sexual Health and Business Ventures21:48 Insecurities and Societal Pressures on Women's Bodies25:42 The Orgasm Gap and Sexual Education34:07 Business Challenges and Personal GrowthProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 5, 2025 • 48min
The Motherhood Journey No One Talks About ft. Savannah Simon
Savannah Simon is an incredible friend, new mom, and fitness trainer at PUSH, a pre and postnatal fitness and functional training studio. Sav and I discuss everything from meeting her husband, to experiencing loss, postpartum, supporting our friends, the “bounce back,” and so much more.Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerHead to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeChapters00:57 Romantic Gestures and Meeting Noah04:08 Motherhood and Dealing with Loss20:40 Navigating Early Parenthood25:17 Balancing Career and Motherhood32:30 Marriage and Personal Growth Post-BabyProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 28, 2025 • 47min
35 Things I've Learned In 35 Years
Happy 35th birthday to me!!! I had so much fun making this list and recording this solo episode on all the important lessons on dating, life, friendship, family, and more. I hope you enjoy it! Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerUse code ACME on rhoback.com for a generous 20% off your first order through the end of this week.Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit article.com/ACME and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout.Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Chapters:01:01 Love, Relationships, and Personal Growth11:14 Family, Friends, and Life's Inevitable Challenges20:55 Defining Personal Success22:06 Embracing Change and Self-Forgiveness24:25 Life Lessons and Final ThoughtsProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 21, 2025 • 1h 2min
The Taxi Cab Theory For Men: Real or BS? ft. Harry Jowsey
Harry Jowsey is on the pod today! Harry is the host of Boyfriend Material and you’ve definitely seen him in a few of your favorite reality tv shows. His upcoming show “Let’s Marry Harry” is going to be so much fun. We discuss the taxi cab theory, when to trauma dump, celebs he’s DMed with, dating with grief, what he’s worked on in therapy, and so much more!Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Head over to meritbeauty.com and get their Signature Makeup Bag free with your first order.Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.Visit prolonlife.com/ACME to claim your 15% discount and your bonus giftChapters:00:00 Meeting Harry's Wife42:53 Perceptions and Realities43:00 Different Perspectives43:16 Striving for Positivity43:20 Balancing Coolness and Warmth00:33 Conclusion: Who's Cooler?Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


