
We Met At Acme
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
Latest episodes

Jun 4, 2025 • 48min
Can You Love Someone Who Eats Differently Than You?
In this engaging conversation, Vanessa Rissetto, a registered dietitian and CEO of Culina Health, shares her expertise on food compatibility in relationships. She candidly discusses her cancer journey and the emotional reconnection with her husband. Vanessa also tackles the complexities of dating when partners have different dietary habits and sheds light on the societal pressures surrounding body image. Plus, she emphasizes the importance of personalized nutrition care over generic approaches, making for a thought-provoking listen.

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Jun 1, 2025 • 44min
How To Set Them Up To Win + The 90/10 Rule
Learn how to support your partner at every stage, from dating to parenthood. Discover the importance of clear communication and creating a non-judgmental space. Explore practical tips for enhancing relationship dynamics, like thoughtful gestures and collaboration. The discussion highlights the significance of empowerment and personal growth, especially in parenting. Plus, uncover the fascinating '90/10 rule' that balances security and independence for a thriving relationship. Tune in for insights that can transform your connection!

May 25, 2025 • 52min
The Self Work That Led To A Husband ft. Elizabeth Endres
Elizabeth Endres is a friend and now repeat guest of the pod! Elizabeth recently started her own podcast The Wellness Process. Eliz and I talk about her love story with her fiance, the inner work she did to attract her person, chronic illness and how to discuss it when dating, the Hoffman process, and so much more.SponsorsFor flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeChapters00:00 Struggling with Online Dating22:15 Burnout and Taking a Pause22:25 Focusing on Self-Care22:37 A New BeginningProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 18, 2025 • 1h 13min
When You Know You Know ft. Eden Grinshpan
Eden Grinshpan aka Eden Eats is a chef, author, and host of Top Chef Canada. We go way back and we are talking all about her quick engagement with her husband, how she keeps things hot and fresh after kids, her philosophy on what to share online, how she got into cooking, and so much more!Buy Eden’s new book Tahini Baby https://www.tahinibabybook.com/Sponsors:For flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Sign up now and join the over 14 million all-time customers who have already saved and invested over $25 billion with Acorns. Head to acorns.com/acme or download the Acorns app to get started.Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Chapters06:55 Fan Moments and Early Days29:35 Postpartum Anxiety and Therapy41:58 Cooking Disasters and Date Bark47:11 Encouraging Kids to Cook48:54 Middle Eastern and Mediterranean Cuisine55:19 Dating in the Modern World01:00:55 Keeping the Spark Alive After KidsProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 11, 2025 • 1h 10min
My Fertility Update And Busting IVF Myths ft. Dr. Catha Fischer
Today’s episode is a raw and real one where we get into an update on my current fertility journey. I am then joined by my amazing doctor Catha Fischer from Spring Fertility. Dr. Fischer helps us bust some common misconceptions around IVF and beyond!Sponsors:For flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Start earning points on rent you're already paying by going to joinbilt.com/ACMEArticle is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit article.com/ACME and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout.Get 25% off your first month for a limited time at ritual.com/ACME04:55 IVF Journey and Challenges32:38 IVF Myths and Facts35:43 Understanding Chromosome Testing in Embryos37:03 Choosing the Best Embryo39:57 The Reality of IVF Cycles42:07 IVF and Family Planning01:02:50 The Influence of Social Media on Fertility PerceptionsProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 4, 2025 • 1h 11min
How To Show Up For Your Friends ft. Anna Goldfarb
Anna Goldfarb is a friendship expert and author of the book Modern Friendship. We discuss the different types of friends we come across, how to show up for your friends, friendship break ups, how to show up for friends as their lives change, and so much more.Sponsors:For flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Go to helixsleep.com/ACME for 20% off sitewide during the Spring Savings Event.01:57 Defining a Good Friend11:40 Memorial vs. Active Friendships29:12 Friendship Breakups and Mutual Friends40:37 Memorial Friends vs. Active Friends44:51 Navigating Friendships and Infertility01:05:25 Making New Friends in Your Thirties01:11:21 The Power of Vulnerability in FriendshipsProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 27, 2025 • 1h 1min
I Wish More People Knew This About Men ft. Benny Hart
Benny Hart is a dating strategist and he’s got some strong opinions! We’re taking it to the microphone to discuss why women should listen to his dating advice, subtle mindset shifts that help, red flags he used to ignore, toxic dating trends, and so much more.Sponsors:Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.For flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.Sign up now and join the over 14 million all-time customers who have already saved and invested over $25 billion with Acorns. Head to acorns.com/acme or download the Acorns app to get started.05:10 Debating Dating Strategies17:08 The Concept of Being a 'Leaf' in Dating19:09 Challenges in Modern Dating32:37 Misconceptions and Communication in Dating34:52 The Concept of 'Men Love Bitches'37:13 Avoiding Pedestals in Relationships43:05 Living Together Before Marriage?45:55 Mindset Shifts and Green Flags in DatingProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 20, 2025 • 45min
Is Who You Marry The Biggest Decision You'll Ever Make? ft. Sahil Bloom
Sahil Bloom is an inspirational writer, content creator and author who captivates millions of people every week through his popular newsletter the ‘Curiosity Chronicle’. Sahil and I discuss what relationship wealth looks like, having friends for different functions, if the person you marry should be the biggest decision you make, growing with a partner, why your wife takes priority over your family, the “life dinner,” and so much more. Order Sahil’s book www.the5typesofwealth.comStart earning points on rent you're already paying by going to joinbilt.com/ACMEGive yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.05:32 The Five Types of Wealth06:08 Defining Relationship Wealth14:27 Growing in Love19:04 Understanding the Fixer Mentality21:14 Rethinking the Biggest Decision26:01 Prioritizing Your Partner34:50 The Life Dinner ConceptProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 13, 2025 • 50min
The More Ambitious The Woman, The Harder It Is To Date
The podcast explores how ambitious women often face unique challenges in dating due to societal expectations. It raises questions about whether men are intimidated by women's success and the impact of traditional gender roles. Listeners hear firsthand experiences of navigating relationships amid ambition, with lively debates on marrying into wealth and the dynamics of modern femininity. Insights into balancing career aspirations with personal connections reveal the complex emotional landscape for women today.

Apr 6, 2025 • 47min
How To Get Your Relationship Ready For A Baby ft. Emily Oster
Emily Oster is THE REAL DEAL. She is the CEO of ParentData, a mom of two, a best-selling author, a PhD graduate in economics from Harvard, and a professor of economics at Brown University. You may know her from her book Expecting Better. We discuss getting your relationship ready for a baby, what kind of mom she was, the myths of what you can and can’t do when you’re pregnant, what messes up your kids the most, and so much more. Sponsors:Go to helixsleep.com/ACME for 20% off sitewide during the Spring Savings Event.02:53 Family Time Priorities06:05 Deciding to Have Kids10:27 Academic Parenting11:37 Sleep Training Controversy23:25 The Botox Debate24:04 Pregnancy Preparation: To Know or Not to Know25:25 Top Tips for Relationship Readiness Before Baby27:26 Making New Mom Friends42:52 Rapid Fire Pregnancy Q+A/Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.