

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Dec 14, 2025 • 57min
Love Is Better In Your 30s ft. Lindsi Lane
Lindsi Lane, a fashion and motherhood influencer, shares her compelling journey of finding love and navigating fertility challenges in her 30s. She opens up about her first encounters with her partner Aaron, candidly discussing the ups and downs of modern dating. Lindsi elaborates on her IVF experience, from heartbreaking setbacks to the joy of her daughter's successful transfer. Additionally, she reflects on the delicate balance of sharing personal struggles on social media and the importance of support systems in motherhood. Her insights blend humor with heartfelt wisdom.

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Dec 7, 2025 • 54min
I Found The Best Dating Advice On TikTok So You Don’t Have To Part 2
In this insightful discussion, the hosts delve into quirky dating advice from TikTok. They emphasize picking a partner like you would choose a puppy, focusing on genuine kindness. The importance of mutual accountability and maintaining individuality in relationships is underscored. They argue against overcomplicated relationships and stress the need for clear, in-person communication over ambiguous texting. A method of evaluating if your partner would make a good friend or a suitable partner for your child adds a unique perspective. Trust your instincts and set personal boundaries!

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Nov 30, 2025 • 49min
It All Comes Down to Communication ft. Tay Lautner
Tay Lautner, a registered nurse and mental health advocate, shares her journey from nursing burnout to finding love with Taylor Lautner. She dives into the significance of relationship communication and the transformative power of therapy. Tay recounts their playful game night introduction, the whirlwind of early romance, and the thoughtful details of her engagement. She emphasizes navigating love languages, the benefits of couples therapy, and the importance of mutual respect. Her insights remind listeners that successful relationships are built on understanding and clear communication.

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Nov 23, 2025 • 40min
Your Sleep Habits Are Hurting Your Love Life ft. Andy and Katie Mant
Andy and Katie Mant, co-founders of Bon Charge, dive into the intriguing link between sleep and relationships. They highlight the significance of sleep compatibility and share clever hacks to enhance your nighttime routine. Discover how blue light impacts sleep, and get tips on circadian lighting to improve both rest and romance. They also explore the dynamics of running a business together, the decision to stay childfree, and how friendship strengthens their bond. Better sleep equals better love life!

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Nov 16, 2025 • 51min
Manifesting A Partner Into Your Space ft. Nate Berkus
Nate Berkus, a renowned interior designer and author, dives into the connection between love, design, and home. He shares his heartwarming love story with his husband Jeremia and discusses the importance of communication in maintaining a healthy relationship. Nate reveals how personal taste can shape attraction and identifies green and red flags in dating based on someone's living space. He offers insights on manifesting love through intentional design and critiques modern trends, advocating for settings that tell personal stories.

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Nov 9, 2025 • 58min
The Loneliness Between Life Stages
Explore the intriguing dynamics of loneliness as we navigate life stages from post-college to parenthood. Discover the emotional void many face after graduating and the isolation of living at home. Dive into the challenges of shifting relationships in your mid-20s and how they affect social dynamics. Hear tips on dating around the holidays, including boundary-setting and texting habits. Finally, learn how to build community as a new parent and understand the health risks of chronic loneliness.

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Nov 2, 2025 • 1h 20min
The Work That Makes Love Work ft. Mosheh Oinounou and Alex Sall
In this engaging talk, married duo Mosheh Oinounou, a journalist and founder of Mo News, and Alex Sall, a designer and entrepreneur, dive deep into modern relationships. They explore breaking generational molds in parenting and the importance of vulnerability and patience in love. The couple shares insights on navigating different conflict styles, the significance of early travel for compatibility, and the challenges of balancing careers while raising their daughter. They also reflect on the milestones of their own relationship journey, from dating norms to family planning.

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Oct 26, 2025 • 1h 9min
What Everyone Hates About Dating Right Now ft. Davide De Pierro
Davide De Pierro, an attorney-turned-social-media creator known for his candid perspective on dating, dives into the complexities of modern romance. He shares his thoughts on why religious couples might have stronger bonds and discusses the pitfalls of dating apps that commodify connections. Davide emphasizes the importance of authenticity and hopes for a return to more in-person interactions. He reflects on his own dating preferences and offers advice to younger individuals about the value of being loved over merely being interesting.

Oct 19, 2025 • 41min
The Difference Between A Boyfriend And A Husband
In today’s solo episode, I’m talking all about the difference between a boyfriend and a husband. I also discuss if we are all having enough sex. Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Start your love story on Bumble. #bumblepartnerUse code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.Simplify your kids' mealtimes. Go to: littlespoon.com/ACME and enter our code ACME at checkout to get 50% OFF your first Little Spoon order.Start your free online visit today at forhers.com/acmeChapters:00:30 Celebrating Eight Years of We Met at Acme01:32 Boyfriend vs. Husband: Key Differences04:25 Real-Life Examples and Anecdotes07:47 Listener Insights and TikTok Discussion19:54 Are We Having Enough Sex?Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 12, 2025 • 54min
We Need To Talk About Sex ft. Jamie Norwood
Winx co-founder Jamie Norwood is on the podcast and we are discussing all things sex-ed, UTIs, when to discuss sex with the next generation, what a man’s role in sex should look like, and so much more. Winx Health is now nationwide at Walgreens! Visit hellowinx.com/acme for 25% off.Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACMEHead to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Give yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeChapters:06:32 Sexual Health and Business Ventures21:48 Insecurities and Societal Pressures on Women's Bodies25:42 The Orgasm Gap and Sexual Education34:07 Business Challenges and Personal GrowthProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


