

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Sep 14, 2025 • 57min
Dating is a Marathon, Not a Sprint ft. Brett Chody
Brett Chody is on the pod today! Brett is a creator, runner, Swiftie, and popcorn expert. Her account is @brettsbites on Instagram and she has grown an amazing and loyal following over the years. Brett and I talk about how she got into running, meeting her boyfriend on a dating app, rules she’s broken, friendship changing in your 20s, wedding guest etiquette, and so much more. Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACMEGive yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeStart your free online visit today at forhers.com/acmeChapters:00:00 Introduction and Gen Z Lingo00:20 Romantic Gestures and Dating Stories06:18 Taylor Swift and Relationship Goals23:26 Journey into Running25:13 Music and Motivation for Running27:56 Dating Stories and AdviceProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 7, 2025 • 1h 3min
Life After Living Together ft. Joey Graziadei & Kelsey Anderson
I sat down with Joey Graziadei and Kelsey Anderson, the most adorable bachelor couple to ever exist. We discuss their normal day-to-day life, how they handle disagreements, what they’ve learned from couples therapy, how they balance each other out in their dynamic, and so much more!Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Try David today – buy 4, get the 5th free at davidprotein.com/acmeUse code ACME on rhoback.com for a generous 20% off your first order through the end of this week.Visit womanizer.com and use code ACME at checkout for 20% off sitewide.Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit article.com/ACME and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout.Head to coterie.com and use code ACME20 at checkout for 20% off your first order.Chapters:01:44 Romantic Gestures and Moving In Together12:53 Couples Therapy and Daily Life27:57 Sharing Favorite Traits29:13 Family Updates and TV Shows31:32 Relationship Insights and Fun QuestionsProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 31, 2025 • 1h 1min
Bonded Through The Trenches Of Motherhood ft. Dale and Annabel
Dale and Annabel are the creators of We Are More Than Moms, a mom community, a brand, and a podcast. We discuss everything from their origin story, to meeting their husbands, raising kids in NYC vs. LA, how babies change friendship, the hardest stages of motherhood, and so much more. Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:To learn more about therapy with NOCD go to nocd.com and schedule a free 15 minute call with their team.Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACME01:13 Parenting Challenges and Insights06:43 Friendship and Personal Growth31:37 Balancing Motherhood and Friendship34:47 Navigating Life with Two Under Two45:19 Rapid Fire Fun and Final ThoughtsProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 24, 2025 • 1h 6min
Qualities You Need For A Great Friendship ft. My Best Friend Fallon
My friend Fallon Lieberman is on the podcast today! We talk about how we became friends, how we’ve managed (or struggled) with maintaining that friendship throughout the years, keeping things interesting with her partner of 20(!!!) years, and so much more.Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeSponsors:Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeStart your free online visit today at forhers.com/acmeHead over to meritbeauty.com and get their Signature Makeup Bag free with your first order.Use code ACME at monarchmoney.com for 50% off your first year.Use code ACME on rhoback.com for a generous 20% off your first order through the end of this week.00:51 Romantic Gestures and Relationships02:49 College Memories and Friendship28:06 Navigating Friendship Dynamics35:52 The Journey to Motherhood42:14 Travel Tales and TipsProduced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 17, 2025 • 57min
Are You Trusting Your Gut Or Self Sabotaging?
Today’s solo episode is all about the difference between your gut and intuition telling you something vs. your anxiety and fears trying to self sabotage. I also answer your listener submitted questions!Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacme01:09 Trusting Your Gut vs. Self-Sabotage in Dating09:30 Red Flags and Practical Dating Advice24:46 Navigating Relationship Beginnings27:08 Setting Boundaries and Red Flags32:14 Deep Dive into Relationship DynamicsSponsors:Try David today – buy 4, get the 5th free at davidprotein.com/acmeGive yourself the luxury you deserve with Quince! Go to quince.com/acme for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.Get 25% off your first month of Ritual at ritual.com/ACMETo learn more about therapy with NOCD, to go nocd.com and schedule a free 15 minute call with their team.Visit prolonlife.com/ACME to claim your 15% discount and your bonus giftProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Aug 10, 2025 • 48min
New York Isn’t What It Used To Be ft. Carole Radziwill
Carole Radziwell, an American journalist, bestselling author, and former cast member of RHONY, shares her insights on the changing landscape of New York City. She nostalgically compares the vibrant nightlife of the 90s to today’s structured social scenes. Carole opens up about her dating life, her cherished friendship with JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy, and reflects on the unique bond that blossomed with her late husband. The conversation also touches on modern dating dynamics and the complexities of personal choices.

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Aug 3, 2025 • 1h 6min
Why He Isn’t Saying I Love You ft. Niko Emanuilidis
Niko Emanuilidis, founder of The Daddy Academy, shares his insights on modern dating dynamics. He tackles the topic of toxic masculinity and reveals overlooked red flags in relationships. Niko's taxi cab theory adds a humorous twist to discussions about when men feel ready to say 'I love you.' He also dives into the complexities of attraction and societal expectations, emphasizing the importance of emotional connection and financial transparency in romantic partnerships. Plus, he recommends insightful dating books to enhance relationship skills.

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Jul 27, 2025 • 55min
How To Balance Families And Deal With In-Laws
Discover the art of blending families while handling in-laws with grace. From first encounters during engagements to navigating postpartum dynamics, practical communication tips abound. Learn how to set boundaries and maintain harmony through those awkward family moments. Insightful advice on managing personal finance within relationships also emerges, underscoring the importance of open dialogue and kindness. Embrace the journey of family life with laughter and support!

Jul 20, 2025 • 59min
Stop Judging People Who Use A Surrogate Ft. Carly Joseph
Carly Joseph is a mom and a surrogacy concierge. We discuss her own journey to surrogacy, why there is such a stigma, what people don’t know about trying to conceive, and so much more. Get More Carly:https://www.carlypjoseph.com/Get More We Met At Acme!Youtube: @wemetatacmeIG: @lindzmetz @wemetatacme @wemetatbabySubstack: @wemetatacme + @wemetatbabyWebsite: @wemetatacmeVisit orchidhealth.com/WMAA to order Orchid's couple's report for you and your partner to get early insight into genetic risks your future children may have.Start paying rent through Bilt and take advantage of your Neighborhood Benefits by going to joinbilt.com/acmeFor flavor that pops, WMAA chooses Simply Pop. Go to cokeurl.com/simplyPOP to find out where you can try it.07:07 Journey to Parenthood: IVF and Surrogacy22:19 Starting Fresh in LA: New Hopes and Challenges24:54 Exploring Surrogacy: A New Path Forward28:34 Navigating the Surrogacy JourneyProduced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Jul 13, 2025 • 52min
What Does It Mean To Be A Man Today? Ft. Myles and Carter from Cerca Dating
Myles Sladen and Carter Rocket Monk, co-founders of the Cerca Dating app, dive into the challenges of modern dating from a Gen Z perspective. They share personal anecdotes about navigating post-college romance and the hilarious mishaps at Bar Pity. The duo discusses the evolution of masculinity, emphasizing emotional intelligence and societal expectations for men today. Exploring the pitfalls of the dating app culture, they offer insights on fostering genuine connections while tackling rejection fears in an increasingly digital landscape.