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Exploring bis-xual identity, challenges, and celebrations. Navigating bivisibility and straight privilege. Handling grief in monogamous relationships. Discussing dating norms and self-acceptance in the bisexual community.

Kamil and Casey discover that they both have been watching Gilmore Girls on repeat since high school! Amazing timing! Lorelei and Luke provide the perfect archetypal case study of avoidant and anxiously attached partners and the common conflicts that arise in this dynamic. As always, your fearless hosts answer your amazing questions on Relationship Conflict. They share tips on conflict avoidance, healthy conflict, conflict as a turn on and share their own wild adventures with conflict.

In this live recording, Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, answer all your questions on your secret turn ons and turn offs. They talk you through ways to tell a partner what's on your yes/no/maybe pleasure lists. They answer other questions on solo kinkiness, the secret turn ons of a s-x therapist, the relationship between our fantasies and what we want in reality, and so much more.

In this episode, Casey and Kamil address your thoughtful questions on trauma and sex, and share pieces of their own survivor stories. This episode addresses the pain and grief of sexual trauma, as well as the discomfort, hope and pleasure found in healing. Please engage with this episode at a pace that feels safe for your system, pausing or stopping when you need to.

Kamil and Casey help us navigate the wild rollercoaster we call NRE a.k.a. New Relationship Energy, and the very different by also wild LRE a.k.a Longterm Relationship Energy. The transition from from one to the other can be bumpy and daunting. That's why your hosts are here to tell you their own messy times and also what has worked for them. This episode is not actually sponsored by Costar ;)

To kickoff Season 2, Casey and Kamil answer your questions on breaking up, getting back together and everything in between. They address the pain of breakups, the lure of break-up s-x and how to address resurfacing issues with a partner. Also they share about their own experiences with messy break-ups, loving more than one person, and non-monogamy.

For the Season 1 Finale, Casey and Kamil take on your questions about cheating. They let themselves get more real and messy than before and open up about their cheating experiences. Turns out your sex therapist is human too! They also educate on how cheating is often the distraction from another issue in the room... Check out the rest of Season 1! We'll be back in September 2022 with Season 2.

Guest Alex Lui discusses recovering from a bad sex education experience. Topics include a Handmaid's Tale summer camp, throwing out birth control packets, and overcoming a homophobic, biphobic, sex-negative world.

Masturbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey rewatches Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. This week, we talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless it's not. Which is more than okay. What does masturbation with a partner look like? Is masturbation ever a waste of time? Should parents buy a sex toy for their tween? All this, plus kegals, and more in our fifth episode.

From dating app burnout to the ethics of having Tinder while monogamous, Casey and Kamil swipe through all your dating app dilemmas quicker than it takes to type out “hey there!”. It’s brutal out there, from choosing an app to wondering if you'll ever meet up in person - but misery loves company, so tune into our fourth episode where we talk it all through.