
Safeword
Hosted by sex therapists Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, Safeword is sex therapy, unhinged! Because instead of being a blankslate that’s just here to support you, we are telling you the details on our own sex lives, relationships, identities and more. Each week we tackle a theme related to sex, gender, and relationships. Safeword is produced by The Expansive Group and launched following the success of @queersextherapy on Instagram and TikTok.
Latest episodes

May 16, 2024 • 39min
Bonus Ep: Attachment & Sexuality
Casey Tanner, author of 'Feel It All' and founder of @queersextherapy, breaks down the stigma around sex with an attachment-based approach. They discuss how attachment styles shape relationships, unravel nervous system responses, and explore the intersection of attachment and sexuality.

Jul 25, 2023 • 41min
Fan Fav: The Lives of S-xual Health Professionals with Dr. Emily Morse
Back by popular demand, on @safewordpod, we get to hear from special guest @sexwithemily! Dr. Emily Morse hosts the longest running s-x and relationship podcast, where she challenges cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Kamil, Emily, and Casey share their years of wisdom about living as s-xual health professionals. *Special discount for Safeword Listeners*Enigma Cruise and Soraya Wave are double stimulators by LELO that pleasure the clitoris and the g-spot! Use the discount code, SAFEWORD, for 25% off your purchase from lelo.com.

Jul 18, 2023 • 47min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Should I Stay or Should I Go?
Back by popular request, Kamil and Casey are talking about the age-old question: should I stay or should I go? No strangers to anxious attachment styles, our fearless hosts talk about the ways that the urge for leaving and the need for staying are always in tension.

Jul 11, 2023 • 49min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Dom/Sub dynamics with Yaz Harris
In this fan favorite, Yaz Harris generously taught Kamil and Casey about Dom/Sub dynamics. Along with being a professional dominant (Mx. Aerys), Yaz is also the @queersextherapy Social Media Manager. In this interview, you will learn so much! The hosts was feverishly taking notes the whole time Yaz was talking. Not only was Yaz an amazingly competent and thorough D/S educator, they were also so gentle and patient with the hosts—a couple of subs learning the ropes ;)

Jun 29, 2023 • 39min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Threesomes and More-somes
In this fan favorite rerun, Casey and Kamil help break down the intimidation factor around group s-x that many people feel. They bring a human-centered, relational approach to all your amazing questions on threesomes and beyond.Season 3 will be out in Fall 2023!

Jun 20, 2023 • 29min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Secret Turn Ons and Guilty Pleasures
In this fan favorite, Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, answer all your questions on your secret turn ons and turn offs. They talk you through ways to tell a partner what's on your yes/no/maybe pleasure lists. They answer other questions on solo kinkiness, the secret turn ons of a s-x therapist, the relationship between our fantasies and what we want in reality, and so much more.

Jun 14, 2023 • 35min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Permission to Come
On this favorite episode of Safeword revisited, Kamil is making hot use of office space and Casey gives the gift of being told what to do over Zoom. This week’s theme is fantasies, so ~imagine~ a dreamy conversation about your favorite type of bedtime stories. Can you fantasize about something you’d never do IRL? Are any fantasies ever “wrong”? Will we have a tangent about anal? Plug in and find out!

Jun 6, 2023 • 27min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Head, Shoulders, Knees, Toes, and Pelvic Floor
Back by popular demand: the Masturbation Episode!Masterbation is a go-to client topic for Kamil and Casey. Our hosts rewatch Brookback Mountain for the first time since being a teenager. They talk about how self pleasure is always a vibe! Unless it's not. Which is more than okay. What does masturbation with a partner look like? Is masturbation ever a waste of time? Should parents buy a sex toy for their tween? All this, plus kegals, and more.Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.

May 30, 2023 • 55min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Learning Gender Through the Body w/ Ev’Yan Whitney
Back by popular demand! We're bringing you a rerun of Learning Gender Through The Body from Safeword, a fan favorite that sparked fascinating discussions. Join us as we revisit Kamil and Casey's captivating discussion with s-xuality doulah, sensualist and author Ev’Yan Whitney, offering fresh perspectives and inspiring anecdotes that will leave you entertained and enlightened.The trio discussed gender and answered all of your amazing questions, addressing topics like gender dysphoria in the bedroom, the construct of straightness, the power of breath and much more!Safeword Season 3 will be back in September of 2023.

May 23, 2023 • 30min
Fan Favorite Revisited: Your Bisexual Era
Relive the magic of our most popular episode! In this rerun of Safeword, we revisit Episode 12 called Bisexual Era, where we delve into the joys of bis-xuality and the challenges of living in a biphobic world. Whether you're a longtime fan or new to the show, join us as we explore bisexuality. Throughout the summer, we are sharing our most popular Episodes.Kamil and Casey dive into all of your quandaries about bisexuality. Get ready! This is Kamil’s playground. They reflect on, what Kamil calls, “Casey's powerful bis-xual era.” It is still a challenging world for people with bisexual identities, and we get real about that. We also celebrate all of the ways bi folks are thriving! Check us out at @safewordpod on IG and Instagram.