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Jan 19, 2023 • 25min
Episode 194: Drive Better Decisions Through Team Leadership
Most of us accomplish our work on teams. But is your team effective? As a leader, you play a key role in engaging team members and making your teams more effective. Join me on the podcast to learn how to have a more effective team.
This podcast will help you:
Identify why it’s imperative to lead your team
Bring more discipline to decision-making
Understand the power of effective team decisions
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Jan 12, 2023 • 27min
Episode 193: 4 Takeaways for Better Teams
Today I want to help you assess your team size and effectiveness. Because when it comes to teams, size does matter.
This podcast will help you:
Understand the value of team-based work
Identify the ideal team size for better decisions
Organize your teams based on effectiveness, not status
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Jan 5, 2023 • 30min
Episode 192: Task 3 of Conflict Management: Effective Problem Solving
For the past few weeks, we've been talking about conflict management. We all have conflict, whether at work or home. And, let me tell you, it's not a great thing if you don't have conflict. Conflict can be healthy and necessary to get to better solutions, tackle big challenges, and strengthen teams. Today, in Part 3 of this series, we're going to focus on the 3rd task of conflict management–problem-solving
This podcast will help you:
Identify a problem-solving plan
Learn how to take accountability for your part in conflict
Gain skills to navigate conflict effectively
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Dec 29, 2022 • 22min
Episode 191: Book Review - Favorite Reads of 2022
Tune in for my favorite reads of 2022. I hope you find something on the list that captures your imagination, shifts your understanding of yourself or others, and offers you an escape that is connecting.
5 favorite books of 2022:
The Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles
Radical Compassion by Tara Brach
Burial Rites By Hannah Kent
The Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis
The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O'farrell
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Dec 22, 2022 • 26min
Episode 190: Task 2 of Conflict Management: Seek Understanding
When it comes to conflict with others, it is a human tendency to jump to the defense. Last week we talked about how the stress response kicks up during conflict. Today, we're going to focus on the second task of conflict management, seeking understanding.
This podcast will help you:
Understand why you feel threatened in conflict situations
Decrease defensiveness in conversations
Learn three ways to seek understanding
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Dec 15, 2022 • 21min
Episode 189: Task 1 of Conflict Management: Take Responsibility for Yourself
Last week we learned about the importance of healthy conflict. This week will tackle the most challenging part of conflict, managing yourself.
This podcast will help you:
Learn how to take responsibility for yourself
Understand when you’re in a stress response
Slow down challenging conversations for better coping
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Dec 8, 2022 • 27min
Episode 188: Embrace Healthy Conflict
Do you go along just to get along? Join me for the first episode of a 3-part series to help you take a stand on the things that matter most to you.
This podcast will help you:
Learn about healthy conflict
Aim for conflict transformation, not conflict resolution
Get better at navigating conflict
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Dec 1, 2022 • 38min
Episode 187: Practical Parenting with Kimball Lewis
Learning to parent with challenges can be tricky. Join me as I interview Kimball Lewis, CEO of Empowering Parents. He gives us practical skills to help bring success to your home.
This podcast will help you:
Take a practical approach to parenting
Develop skills to address challenging parenting issues
Identify choices and consequences for effective behavior change
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Thanks again to Kimball for joining the podcast! Check out his links down below for more info on him and the great work he does!
Free PDF: 5 Ways to Fix Disrespectful Behavior Now
Empowering Parents Website
The Total Transformation Program
Parent Coaching
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Twitter

Nov 24, 2022 • 20min
Episode 186: Book Review - Bittersweet
Join me on the podcast as I review Susan Cain's book, Bittersweet, to help you understand the value of the bittersweet in your life.
This podcast will help you:
Understand the meaning of bittersweet
Learn why life needs a balance of light and dark
Identify how being bittersweet can help you understand others
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Nov 17, 2022 • 21min
Episode 185: How’s your Relationship with Work?
How’s your relationship with work? Maybe you love it, maybe you hate it, maybe you are totally clueless about the impact work has on you.
Join me this week as I help you get curious about your relationship with work.
This podcast will help you:
Identify your relationship with work
Understand how work is impacting you
Learn why your relationship to work matters
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