Pursue What Matters

Hello! I hope you've had a wonderful summer while I've been away! I'm excited to get back into a new season of the podcast with you. One thing that's been a theme for this podcast, and my life, is that we should always be learning. So on this episode, I wanted to share 5 things I've learned since last season. Thanks for listening!

It's been a long road to get to 252 podcast episodes, and all I can say is thank you! It's been a great journey, and there's plenty more journey ahead of us. Our journey is going to look a little different moving forward: I'm excited to announce that I'll be releasing podcasts in seasons, just like many of your other favorite podcasts.  Follow along with me on Instagram at @dr.melissasmith for updates on the new seasons, and daily posts about the latest in leadership research.  So long for now, and remember: love and work, work and love, that's all there is. 

What do the most successful couples do, and what do they avoid? Join me today as I review The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD, who’s taught us the most about making marriage work.    This podcast will help you: Learn the secret weapon of successful marriages Understand the 7 principles to making marriage work Identify one key way to strengthen your relationship 

Attachment style is based on attachment theory, a very useful theory of human development that psychologists have been utilizing to better understand how humans function in relationships. Join me today for a review of attachment style, learn more about your attachment adaptation, why attachment matters in work and love.    This podcast will help you: Identify attachment styles  Learn how attachment theory applies to love and work Understand how early attachment relationships impact present-day functioning 

We all want deep, enduring love, but how many of us actually achieve that? Today, we're talking about true intimacy, what it is, and how to get it in your life.    This podcast will help you: Understand what whole love is Learn healthy selfishness Find true intimacy in your relationships

Do you have a quiet ego or a noisy ego? We all know people whose ego walks into the room before they do. A quiet ego is self-assured but always makes room for others.    This podcast will help you: Understand what ego means Identify different components of an ego Learn how a quiet ego doesn't mean a silent ego

As we step into February, the month of love, here's a thought to ponder: do you consider yourself a loving soul or a bit of a prickly pear? More importantly, what do others perceive, and can you see yourself clearly?   Join me today as we kick off the month by taking a moment to look in the mirror. This podcast will help you:   Discover that the key to well-being is the ability to love others unselfishly Reflect on how loving you are Learn why loving people are high in both agency and communion

Have you ever wondered if you're living up to your full potential or just sliding by? How can you even tell? Join me as I review Hidden Potential by Adam Grant, packed with the latest research on discovering your hidden potential. It's an eye-opener that might reshape your perspective.   This podcast will help you: Discover that everyone has hidden potential Learn how to unlock your hidden potential Identify key character skills to fulfilling potential 

Curious about what happens during Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy? Wondering how it works and how it addresses mental health concerns?    Join me as I continue the conversation into the process of Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, unraveling its intricacies and exploring its impact on mental well-being.   This podcast will help you: Learn what to expect during ketamine therapy  Understand what treatment looks like Identify common experiences during ketamine treatment

There's been a lot of talk about ketamine therapy in addition to talk of psychedelic medicine. The face of psychiatry is changing dramatically, and while it's not a magic bullet, these therapies can help individuals get traction where they've felt stuck before.   Join me today as I talk about Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy and whether it could benefit you or someone you care about.   This podcast will help you: Learn what Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy is Understand how it works Identify when this treatment can be helpful