Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Send us a textSeason 5, Episode 585: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 2: Writing and Self-Acceptance with Author Jacques Gerard. In this episode of Oh F*ck Yeah, I welcome back for the fourth time, the charismatic Jacques Gerard for a deep dive into the healing power of writing smut, erotica, and erotic romance. As we explore personal journeys of self-acceptance, the conversation flows from the importance of honesty in writing to the liberating experience of embracing one's unique desires. Jacques shares his experiences with foot fetishism and how writing has been a pivotal part of his healing process. We discuss the societal pressures that often stifle individuality and the joy of discovering a community that celebrates diverse preferences. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to love themselves and embrace their true identities through creativity and expression.Topics discussed:Healing Power Of Writing, Healing Through Reading, Self-Acceptance, Creativity As Healing, Midlife Empowerment, Personal Growth, Writing Journey, Spiritual Awakening, Honesty In Writing, Overcoming Societal Norms, Individuality In Literature, Emotional Well-Being, Self-Discovery, Foot Fetish Acceptance, Artistic Expression, Mental Health, Writing And Self-Love, Breaking Free From Expectations, Creative Process, Self-Validation Through Writing, writing about foot fetishes, indie author, self-publishing, publishing platforms, self-discovery in sexuality, mental health, sexual health, wellbeingSummary Outline:1. Introduction and Podcast Platforms2. The Healing Power of Writing3. Embracing Individuality4. Personal Stories of Acceptance5. The Role of Creativity in Healing6. Conclusion and Future PlansShownotes created with the assistance of Headliner ai.Jacques Gerard's writing:As Jacques Gerard on Substack, Medium, Ream, Amazon "The Barefoot Burglar" (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4hurCIj Listen to the full series:Listen to The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16787440 Part 3: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16876985Part 4: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16918387Part 5: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16963478Part 6: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17002841Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 583: Sally's Fantasy: An Orally Pleasuring Story by Matt Lake, An erotic short story with the tropes MF, FF, MFF, Threesome, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. The FF fun is all the pleasure in this excerpt! Sally sees all the red!About the Author Alex Lake: Matt Lake writes stories that explore the freeuse kink, usually with a normal person being thrown into an unusual situation. About the Charity Anthology:the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy this erotica excerpt, storytelling via erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 581: The Healing Power of Smut, Part 1: Mental Health and Relief from Depression with Tanya Cienfuegos. Part 2: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/16836959Topics discussed include: Healing Power Of Smut, Erotica Author, Sexual Wellness, Mental Health, Benefits Of Reading Smut, Writing Erotic Fiction, Censorship In Literature, Cultural Attitudes Towards Sex, Erotica And Horror, Subversive Literature, Self-Publishing, Female Pleasure In Erotica, Exploring Desires, Therapeutic Benefits Of Writing, Indie Authors, Erotic Fiction For Mental Health, Stigma Around Smut, Erotic Storytelling, Relationship Dynamics In Erotica, Erotica GenresSummary:  The Healing Power of Smut, Exploring Erotica's BenefitsIn this episode, we explore the fascinating topic of the healing power of smut with Tanya Cienfuegos, a self-published erotica author. Join us as we delve into how erotic fiction can serve as a tool for mental well-being, to enhance sexual wellness, provide a distraction and/or relief from depression, and provide a safe space for exploring desires. From discussing the stigmas around smut to the therapeutic benefits of reading and writing erotic content, we chat about it all!Guest Bio:Author Tanya Cienfuegos self-publishes erotica. She writes m/f contemporary and historical short stories.  She was born and raised in Southern California. When she's not writing, she's either scrolling through tumblr or playing solitaire.https://www.tumblr.com/tanya-cienfuegoshttps://www.bookbub.com/profile/tanya-cienfuegosLinks for buying books. https://books2read.com/ap/nmjW2z/Tanya-Cienfuegoshttps://www.amazon.com/stores/Tanya-Cienfuegos/author/B0BNGWKVHBChapters:(01:30) Tanya Cienfuegos writes erotic short stories(07:11) Reading can distract you, but it also makes you feel alive(12:29) I think our culture is very shaming of it. There seems to be this idea specifically with sex...(18:37) There is a strong connection between erotica and horror(24:00) Not having a good enough distinction between, like Fiction and reality(28:44) The only thing I get up in arms about is if something's abusive(29:41) Do you ever write about kinky stuff or what kind of stuff(35:03) It's a way to explore these things in a safe way(35:42) So what, what brought you to want to include sex in your writing(40:56) I do prefer happy endings over sad endings(44:28) People have been trying to censor stuff since the beginning of the written word(47:39) You've self published eight books altogether. What else would you like to tell us about your writing(51:36) ThSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEpisode 580: Good Boy Femdom Humiliation Erotica by Sean Geist. She's coming home from work. and she needs to work him over, work off that lusty energy, and she wants what she wants and that's a good oral lashing. What he gets, he doesn't expect, but the spice doesn't stop there, he gets what he's been waiting for! About the Author:An erotic author who specializes in Cuckold / Hotwife stories, but dabbles in other kinds of smut.Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 579: Ria Bentley's Journey in the Adult Entertainment World: Exploring Identity, Gender, Kinks, and Sex Work. In this episode, Ruan Willow sits down with the talented Ria Bentley, a multi-award nominated trans performer. They discuss Ria's unique journey into the adult industry, Ria's experiences with OnlyFans, and the importance of safety and testing in such work. Ria shares personal insights, career trajectory, and the challenges of navigating relationships while being a performer. Tune in for a candid conversation about identity, creativity, and the evolving landscape of adult entertainment!Chapters:(01:38) How did you get into your current work? What was your trigger?(09:02) I obviously was bottoming for these guys. Um and so I was like I need to start finding some girls to work with(09:40) Are you attracted to both males and females or ...(11:14) When you're getting ready for a shoot, do you use music?(16:08) Admitting this, I still watch porn. Do they actually watch...(23:20) Do you have a lot of people pirating your stuff?(27:34) Do you think AI is going to affect the adult industry?(31:11) Do you think books are going to become obsolete, like, physical books(36:45) I moved from Texas to Las Vegas six months ago to transition(39:19) Do you share with your family what you're doing, or is it kind of secret(44:10) Speaking of safety, do you ever worry about HIV in sex work(51:16) Do you like to do kinky videos or are you more staying away from kinky(55:03) Ria was nominated for multiple awards this year(01:00:05) How do you choose what you're gonna wear when you shoot a scene(01:03:36) This has been so interesting. Is there anything we haven't talked about that you wanted to mention🗣️ Quotes from Ria Bentley"I never dreamt that I'd be doing this just a few years ago.""The type of content I filmed, I never set out to film interracial stuff.""I have to really think about it and watch or know the co performers sort of what they’re like on their scenes.""I still watch porn for both pleasure and to keep up with trends in the industry.""I do what I can and don't work with people that don't have the proper testing within this 14 days."Created with assistance from headliner aihttp://riabentley.com/https://x.com/TheRiaBentleyRuan's book Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures  Available in ebook, paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventures Discreet Cover paperback https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginningAudiobook Support the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 577: Home Alone Neighbor BJ, Girlfriend Share by Cyra Wilde. When he's away, he wants her to play...but he's still gonna watch and enjoy! Erotica Excerpt written by Cyra Wilde and Narrated by podcast host and voiceover narrator Ruan Willow.About the Author: Cyra Wilde enjoys manipulating words to create heart-pumping, blush-inducing stories that are achingly good and deeply satisfying. She likes experimenting with multiple tropes and crafting erotic fiction with heart. https://linktr.ee/cyrawildeGet the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling erotic audio about spicy romance relationships, swingers, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Check out the winners of the Golden Pigtails Smut Awards! https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024/Audiobook mentioned in the episode: Filthy Fiction by Casey Donatello, narrated by Ruan Willow (affiliate link, podcast may earn a commission on sales, thanks for the support) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/dirtydaydreamsFree trial and book: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0D6H1345N/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-401780&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_401780_pd_usSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 576: A Deep Dive into Female Empowerment and Sexual Liberation with Suzannah Weiss. Join host Ruan Willow as she welcomes back the brilliantly eloquent Suzannah Weiss, author of the groundbreaking book "Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject."  Get the book (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/41G86TxIn this episode, Suzannah shares her transformative journey from objecthood to embracing her identity as a sexual subject, exploring the complexities of female desire, societal expectations, and the importance of sexual autonomy. Listen as she reads a powerful excerpt from her book, reflecting on her experiences with body image, eating disorders, and the societal pressures that shape women's perceptions of their bodies. Ruan and Susanna engage in a candid conversation about the normalization of women's pain, the orgasm gap, and the need for women to reclaim their sexuality for themselves. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the intersection of feminism, sexuality, and personal empowerment. 00:00 - Suzannah Weiss is the author of Subjectified Becoming a Sexual Subject06:23 - My eating disorder was fueled by the perception that my body existed for others13:21 - As I began college that fall, I took part in a few hookups17:48 - What did that look like for you? Like, having sex to please other people22:50 - When you were writing this book, was it very emotional to go through28:30 - I think we need to do things for ourselves. I think we should explore our sexuality first32:16 - The book is called Eve's Blessing, Uncovering the Lost Pleasure behind Female Pain34:14 - I think some women don't realize they're having orgasms39:26 - Other thing I want to ask you is if you ever thought about this. I think I have41:12 - The second chapter is called the Size of My Body48:00 - Are you finding men are willing to read your book about consent50:09 - Susanna Weiss is working on a third book about sex and GodOther topics discussed:Mental health, sexual health, Feminism, Body Positivity, Sex Education, Sexuality and Religion, personal growth.Show notes created with assistance by headliner dot appConnect with Suzannah Weiss: www.suzannahweiss.comOrder my bookFollow me on TwitterFollow me on InstagramAdd me on LinkedInPodcast Host Ruan Willow's new Spicy Open Door Romantasy Book, Rejecting Queendom https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/rejectingqueendomRequest an ARC https://boSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEp 574: Back Door, Taken at the Beach, A MFMMM Why Choose Erotica Excerpt by Darcy Winters, narrated by podcast host and audiobook narrator Ruan Willow. Triggers: this excerpt contains an anal sex scene, explicit sex and language. About the Author Darcy Winters: Darcy Winters writes dark, reverse harem romance. She also writes small town romance as Eliza Black.https://books.darcywinters.com/Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthologyFeatured Indie Bookstore: Booked and Hooked https://bookedandhooked.com/product-category/romance/Ruan's Audiobook on Sale for $1.77 Never Say, Never SwingApple ($1.99 on Apple) https://books.apple.com/audiobook/id1788656407Nook Barnes and Noble Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. by Ruan Willow, Motorboatin' Matt, Eric Weinstein | 2940194461844 | Audiobook (Digital) | Barnes & Noble®Chirp Never Say, Never Swing by Ruan Willow - Audiobook (No Subscription)Spotify Never Say, Never Swing: Friends to Lovers, Couples style. A First Time Swingers Story. | Audiobook on SpotifyIndie AudSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEpisode 573: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career.Connect with Dani: https://linktr.ee/dani.synclairIn this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world.Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own boundaries and desires.Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection.Quotes from Dani from the interview:"The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry.""It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked.""Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever."Timeline:00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish?06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do48:42 - The future50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do itShow notes headliner dot appRuan's new open door Romantasy novella, Rejecting Queendom, Book 3 in the ArSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423

Send us a textEpisode 571: MFM Big Junk at the Gym Hotwife Erotica Excerpt by Max Sebastian. Author Bio:Max Sebastian has written more than 20 novels in two decades, specializing in the thrilling erotic adventures of insatiable couples seeking to challenge the conventions of monogamy. Max is originally from London, in the UK, but now lives with his family in the United States. https://maxsebastian.net/Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology (any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!Golden Pigtails FINALS VOTING INFO and VOTE HERE:  https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-finals/The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthologyOther links from the episode:Heart of the South Crafting Company bookstore https://heart-of-the-south-crafting-co.square.site/aboutBookshop Org Indie Bookstores https://bookshop.org/Servicing the Work Men Spicy Hotwife Fiction by Ruan Willow (excerpt at the end of the episode) Book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresSFW book cover version: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenthebeginningAudiobook https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobookSupport the showExclusives https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribeNewsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliates Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow BeeDee dating app https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeahThe Fantasy Box DATE30 for $30 OFF 1st box https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423