Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Ruan Willow

Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.

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Jul 26, 2022 • 28min

Shedding Sexual Shame and Enhancing Intimacy with Dr. Kristie Overstreet, Sex Therapist and Sexologist

Ep 172: Shedding Sexual Shame and Enhancing Intimacy with Dr. Kristie Overstreet, Sex Therapist and Sexologist. Dr. Overstreet is also a psychotherapist, author, speaker, and podcast host at Fix Yourself First. She teaches people how to get emotional and physical intimacy; yes, she gets to talk about sex all day! Dr. Kristie and I discussed shedding sexual shame to promote pleasure. We chatted about fantasies and how to share fantasies with your partner. She talked about how to enhance intimacy and the different kinds of intimacy. We discussed sexual boundaries, how to communicate those boundaries, and what happens when a partner crosses a boundary. She talked about the Dom/sub dynamic and relationship/lifestyle, and we also talked about how our libidos and sexual interests change over time, and how to navigate that. She also talked about the types of orgasms and the role of sex toys/ masturbation in relationships. She also helps healthcare providers give respectful and dignified care for LGBTQIA+ individuals. She offers a quiz to help people find out their needs. Check out her courses and therapy offerings on her website (link below). To connect with Dr. Kristie on her website: https://drkristieoverstreet.com/ Listen to my interview on Dr. Kristie's Fix Yourself First Podcast: https://drkristieoverstreet.com/podcast/164-exploring-sexuality-through-erotica/ On Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3pTpdxVeznW0PWpkoxAbfI?si=HbxBoHkySUyOIRElQJPIpA Thank you for being on my show, Dr. Kristie! Podcast Merch! Get Oh F*ck Yeah on a t-shirt or tank top! https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Ruan's Books!Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews wit Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 15, 2022 • 1h 42min

Sapphic Erotic Tale Unwrapping Santa. It's Christmas in July with light BDSM! And Author Chat with Emily S Hurricane

Ep 171: Sapphic Erotic Tale Unwrapping Santa. It's Christmas in July! And stay for the Author Chat with Emily S Hurricane. Listen to me narrate Emily's very sexy Santa story with light BDSM, a woman-loving-woman story (WLW) with a very intriguing and sexy twist! Then stick around for the amazing author chat where Emily and I talk about all things writing, writing erotica, and in other genres, plus we talk about indie publishing, successes and challenges, and the writing process. Emily is an accomplished writer who has authored many works in multiple genres as a ghostwriter and for herself under her own pen names. She also works as a freelance editor. This Canadian author was a delight to chat with and she shared many tips for those venturing onto the indie publishing path. She's just totally amazing! To connect with Emily: https://www.emilyshurricane.com/ Emily's Bio: Emily is an east-coast Canadian thirtysomething mom of two humans and a furbaby. Her lumbersexual husband doesn't actually work in lumber anymore, but he still wears the plaid and the beard. As well as authoring, she's a freelance editor and ghostwriter. Her books range in genre from Romance and Erotica to Horror and Science Fiction, and everything in between. When she's not writing and/or momming, she's sipping espresso, crocheting, and listening to audiobooks. You can find Emily and her collected works at emilyshurricane.com. Emily's Books: https://books2read.com/BloodlinesVol1 The Beginning of the End: Bloodlines 1 (Affiliate) https://amzn.to/3yMsGTs Southern Ice: Bloodlines 2 https://amzn.to/3O8o2F3 Podcast Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Ruan's Books!Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 12, 2022 • 30min

Friends to Lovers Foursome Erotic Excerpt Never Say Never Swing By Ruan Willow

Ep 170: Friends to Lovers Foursome Erotic Excerpt Never Say Never Swing By Ruan Willow. My new book is in presale! And live on Apple! What's it about? It's sexy fun! A great fantasy of many to have multiple partner sex, to swing, to experience and live out an alternative lifestyle. Ethical nonmonogamy is when members of a couple both agree on having sex with others, but their relationship stays intact, so it's about sharing sexual experiences rather than cheating. Here's the book blurb: Never Say, Never Swing by Ruan Willow Two couples have been friends for years. Their families have hung out, but they've spent many evenings alone as just couples, without the kids. They are comfortable together as a group and they've always enjoyed each other's company. So, Miranda and Kyle wonder why not enjoy each other more on a whole deeper level? One evening when the two couples are enjoying dinner, the topic of sex comes up. They fall into a flirty discussion that launches the foursome into a new topic they've never explored. Much to Karley and Dean's surprise, their friends are secret swingers. As they get entangled more into their flirtations, Miranda and Kyle decide to trek into new territory with their friends Karley and Dean and bring up the often-called taboo topic of swinging. The foursome launches into a negotiation discussion that might just propel them from friends to lovers, couples style. With this new exhilarating adventure brewing, each person may just get to saunter down a new path and experience the pleasure of living out a fantasy they've never had the chance to enjoy. Will their new foray into swinging explode Karley's and Dean's sexuality as it did for Kyle and Miranda, or will it leave them devastated they dared to venture into this new alternative lifestyle? Get the book here! (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3z9P4b7 Universal link to the book: https://books2read.com/u/4NjJPz Apple books: https://books2read.com/u/mg7OR7 Review: https://storyoriginapp.com/reviewcopies/991b7ac2-ffd4-11ec-aa32-0fba9846ae75 Show Merchandise: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Ruan's Books! Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, & enjoy! On my podcast Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 8, 2022 • 52min

Sexual Energy, Empowerment, and Healing with Natasha Edwina

Ep 169: Sexual Energy, Empowerment, and Healing with Natasha Edwina. Natasha is an LMFT, an alternative and holistic coach, a hypnotherapist, and a consultant with a focus on pleasure, spirituality, and healing through pleasure. She highlights female sexuality topics that attend to states prior to dysfunction or problems occurring. She also teaches how diet affects both our sexuality and our mental health. She zones in on the significance of the breath to connect with yourself first before sexual relations. She discusses how women experience pleasure and orgasms differently than men in that they have rolling hills of bliss rather than the hard and fast route to climax and enjoyment. She says, "Don't miss the subtle energy" of the rise of pleasure to orgasm (or not orgasm, but always pleasure). Heterosexual couples: She talks about the importance of foreplay and how it's not just about touch. It begins way before the sexual encounter. She discusses how the different brain chemistry between the sexes is something to pay attention to and that women are more circular, whereas men are more direct with the hard and fast path, and often compartmentalized. Both men & women would do well by slowing down to understand each other's sensual processes. We talked about why couples should make a fantasy list which includes boundaries that should not be crossed, the devastation that occurs if boundaries are not respected, & the extensive healing needed if a boundary is crossed. We talked about squirting and how sexuality is taught & treated around the world. We spent time talking about how erotica is beneficial, especially to women, and how it can be used for sexuality but also remembering that we are all different in this area. Natasha pointed out that in relationships, we all need sexual connection and a charge, that desire, otherwise it's just a pleasant relationship without passion. She explained how sex is basic to a couple-relationship, it's integral. Communication is key and knowing things change for all people is something we should all recognize, so our sexuality is not static but ever-evolving & changing over time. She also taught us about how nutrition and sugar impact libido and how sugar is a boner and sex drive killer. Learn more about Natasha and her offerings here: https://linktr.ee/natasha.edwina Find Natasha on Instagram http://instagram.com/natasha.edwina Website https://www.natashaedwina.com/ Connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New book in presale: Never Say, Never Swing (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3nNQBgn Topics about this podcast include discussion around advice, sex, psychology, spirituality, women's health, self help, self care, & sexuality. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 5, 2022 • 1h

Female Sexuality and Sexual Help for Women with Jordan D'Nelle

Ep 168: Female Sexuality and Sexual Help for Women with Jordan D'Nelle. This is a very epic and amazingly informative episode for women and men too! Jordan D'Nelle is a Physician Associate, Women's Sexual Health Educator, Intimacy Coach, and speaker. She is the founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators Podcast. Her goal is to raise awareness about conditions, sexuality, sexual intimacy and relationships that specifically affect women. She wants to help normalize women's health and create a safe space for women to feel validated. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan magazine, Women's Health Magazine, and many other podcasts. She is a resident blogger for ForPlay films. She has helped many woman overcome shame and have better intimacy with themselves and their partners. Jordan and I shared an amazing discussion. We chatted about how erotica is a tool, a resource to improve your sex life, as are sex toys. She addressed how poor sex ed is in the US because it has always focused on the male and ignores the female, and shame starts there. We need to rewrite these stories as we create more comprehensive and thorough sex ed now and include both sexes in all discussions. Educators need talk about the real purpose for sex, which also can lead to decreasing shame around sex. She explained how squirting is not pee. Get a squirt blanket! Yes! It's a thing! She also elaborated on the types of orgasms females have and that pleasure should be the focus. I loved how our discussion went when Jordan and I talked about ethical porn, erotic blueprints, and kink, and how kink can be used to heal past trauma by rewriting it. Other fantastic topics we hit on are that there is no "normal" when it comes to sex and kink and how the BDSM community really does it right in terms of consent and communication. It's a great model all relationships should adopt whether they are into kink or not. She talked about how we are all way kinkier than we are lead to believe by society and culture. She also talked about the benefits of daily masturbation for females, period sex, and taking the time to learn what turns us all on. She highly recommends the book (affiliate) Pussy Reclamation: https://amzn.to/3nEUeF8 Connect with Jordan here: https://jordandnelle.com/menu/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan P.S. Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6- Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 4, 2022 • 24min

Sex at the Coffee Shop, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Part 5 of 5 in the Podcast Miniseries

Ep 167: Sex at the Coffee Shop, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Final installment: Part 5 of 5 in the Podcast miniseries. We've made it to the final episode in this sexy steamy story of exhibitionism, voyeurism, hooking up, and sexual satisfiaction! This little spicy story hits the ahhhh!!! button on the sexual kinks of many people. It's a fantasy for some, and a reality for others, but here, you get to experience it and enjoy and imagine all you want! This installment is the final hot sex scene between Lana the barista and the male customer. They share a mutual instant attraction and find they have similar kinks. They both experience delicious climaxes and sexual satisfaction. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 5 of the story. This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Ruan's Books! https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon affiliate: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Jul 3, 2022 • 10min

Spanking the Barista, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Story Part 4 of 5 A Podcast Miniseries

Ep 166: Spanking the Barista, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Story Part 4 of 5, A Podcast Miniseries. Welcome to installment 4 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. This installment is a part of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. They both enjoy the impact play of sexual playful spanking in this episode. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 4 of the story. This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care, intimacy, for adults only, interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment. Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

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