Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Ep 204: Slutty Activism and Pleasure with Sex & Dating Coach Sarah Martin. Sex and Dating Coach Sarah Martin joined me to discuss slutty activism, being a dignified hedonist, and pleasure. She helps people build dream relationships, gives dating and hookup advice, and helps people communicate better and more efficiently. She's a podcaster at the Slutty Activism Podcast so you can listen to her show on podcast apps. We had an amazingly epic conversation! It was fabulous! We talked about how we should all focus on pleasure, live a life led by our desires, and about female dating strategy. We discussed how we all receive toxic messaging from society and how society demonizes sex, sexuality, and pleasure. We talked about how inadequate our sex education is in America. She gave ideas and suggestions about how to combat fascism even on a small level in our own lives. We can practice connecting with others and connecting with pleasure in our lives, thereby making us more present. We chatted about how big powers try to make us feel isolated and control us all via social media, what is allowed culturally, on websites, and what isn't, and how this is not benign, but highly intentional. We talked about how sexual communities are all around us and we should not feel alone in seeking out sexual lifestyle alternatives, and once we start to seek these communities and experiences, we will see we are definitely not alone. There are communities everywhere, but we are made blind to them by society. So go out and seek what you want! We talked about jealousy versus envy in relationships as well as jealousy versus compersion, and how this also works in ENM. We also talked about sex toy usage, masturbation, and the death grip phenomena in self-pleasuring. To connect with Sarah, visit here: Listen to the Slutty Activism Podcast: https://slutty-activism.captivate.fm/listen Join the Union of Slutty Activists: http://sluttyactivism.com/ Check Out the Slutty Activism Podcast Community: http://sluttyactivism.group/ More from Sarah: https://dignifiedhedonist.com/links Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dignifiedhedonist Twitter: https://twitter.com/HedonistDating Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dignified.hedonist/ All Sarah's links: https://dignifiedhedonist.com/links/?fbclid=PAAaZyyYQcF_T4CRpOe4I9EJPvW3JHLaCDKIKj71Oe0v4y9X8LgcNbvp2lQ9o Connect with host Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Check out Ruan's new audiobook Magic In Her Kisses: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 You can be a part of the launch team and listen and review for free: https Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Episode 203: How to Dirty Talk with Sexpert Susan Bratton. 18+. Susan is a beautiful and vivacious author and sex/relationship educator. She's the intimacy expert to millions! I was so honored to chat with this fantastic woman! She shares all her juicy tips on how to talk dirty to your lover. It's sexy fun, and easy to dirty talk with her advice. The author of 44 books and programs, including the mega popular book Sexual Soulmates: The Six Essential for Connected Sex (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3zqZNgM Susan teaches lovemaking techniques, bedroom communication skills, gives intimate wellness advice, and instructions on shame-free sexuality. In this episode, she shares with us how to dirty talk. She gives concrete examples, techniques, and ideas that can help a person get out of that performance mode in the bedroom and into the enjoying mode. She says we can practice dirty talk and tells us how. She teaches that men like acknowledgment and women like encouragement, and how we can cater to each other needs, wants, and desires to make our sex life the best it can be. She talks about how we should be verbal with our lovers, both moaning and with our words. She also shares tips for enhancing post-coital afterglow. You can find her free Dirty Talk ebook here: http://dirtytalkbook.com/ Her website: http://betterlover.com/ Follow her on Instagram at http://instagram.com/susanbratton Follow her on YouTube as well. Get Ruan's new book Decadent Erotica, an anthology of 10 tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, and Submission. At online sellers (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Newly released audiobook In the Dark for the Dark Web https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b135d608-4bdc-11ed-903b-03926d999719 Get it with a free trial of Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BHZY97WS/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-325657&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325657_pd_us Connect with podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Leave a voicemail and Ruan will answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow More Books! Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Never Say, Never Swing, friends hooking up for a first-time swinging story where long-time fantasies get fulfilled! https://storyoriginapp.com/un Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Episode 202: Threesome Hide & Seek Sex Game Erotic Story. Ruan does erotic improv, spinning an erotic tale right off the top of her head. A threesome story, two divorced people and a man who broke off his engagement to another because he realized she wasn't right for him, are forming a polycule. They found each other online because each of them was searching on their own for a multiple-partner relationship. They are now living as roommates as they explore the possibility of becoming a threesome couple... a thruple. They just enjoyed dinner and are horny. One of them suggests a hide-and-seek sex game and so they all are off and running with this fun sex-at-home date night. Get Ruan's new book Decadent Erotica, an anthology of 10 tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, and Submission. Available at online sellers (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Newly released audiobook In the Dark for the Dark Web https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b135d608-4bdc-11ed-903b-03926d999719 Get it with a free trial of Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BHZY97WS/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-325657&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_325657_pd_us Connect with podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= More Books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Never Say, Never Swing, friends hooking up for a first-time swinging story where long-time fantasies get fulfilled! https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8771f0ec-ffa9-11ec-950a-8f0d44267c5d Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 201: Helping Women Become Sexually Empowered with Emily Young. My guest for this episode is Sex & Love Coach Emily Young. Emily helps women. Women are her main focus and she seeks to empower women sexually, in their lives, and in their relationships. She's an epic resource for women! She shares tips for how to keep the boringness out of your sex life. She also talks about removing shame. She shares about her own journey in how she learned to remove shame, express her sexuality, and embrace her full sexual self. She grew up in a very conservative Christian home as the daughter of a preacher, so she has walked the path she's teaching about. She emphasizes how we can all shed our oppressive pasts. She also shared how she deals with spiraling and triggers with self-love. This is really helpful stuff! She desires to help women feel comfortable talking about sex by doing breath work, dropping into their bodies to feel safe, and she does this by meeting them at their comfort level. She said it's hard to share our body if you aren't comfortable it in to begin with... so very true! She teaches us as women how to shed obligation duty bound sex patterns and how to shed the people-pleasing mode. She instructs on ideas for exploring sexual fantasies and experiences for both single people and those in relationships. She shares about what to do with a partner who may be shaming you for any aspect of your sexuality. She helps women become sexually empowered in a way that fits them as individuals. A few of my favorite things she said are: how that if people can't love you for who you authentically are, maybe those aren't your people and it's time to go find your people, and... if it's not a hell yes, it's a f*ck no! Plus, we call all life a "oh f*ck yeah" life! Great lines from this interview with Emily! Check it out by listening and follow Emily Young on Instagram for more! http://instagram.com/emily_young_co and https://linktr.ee/_emilyyoung_ Connect with me, Ruan Willow, the podcast host at: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow The anthology releases October 22! Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission. Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Online sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Leave a voicemail https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow More books: Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway: Online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 200: Kinky Sex at Home Erotic Story Part 2 of 2 narrated and written by Ruan Willow. This sex-filled intimate tale is part 2 and the conclusion of the Kinky Sex at Home in a sex fort. If you missed part 1, you can go back to the previous podcast episode and listen to how they started their sex date at home. In this episode, Jenna and Tom continue their sex games in the sex tent in their living room. They enjoy their games with sex toys, sensory cold sensation play, role-playing prisoner play, light BDSM, and oral sex before the big finale act. It gets hot! It gets spicy and intense! And they end up soaked and happy, ready for dinner. Listen to part 1 of this story here: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11500900-kinky-sex-at-home-in-a-sex-fort-erotica-story-part-1-of-2 Connect with the host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Hi, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! My new audiobook is live! It's a dark NSFW title written by Benson E. Wolf called In the Dark for the Dark Web. I had a blast narrating this story! Book blurb: Lisa, a nice young southern girl accepts an offer that she thinks only trashy Alabama redneck trailer park whores would, and do, die for. But it's a lot of money. It is unemployment that pushed her into the dark web. Will she become a missing person or leave the dark, hot and sweaty, like the south? Check out In the Dark for the Dark Web here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b135d608-4bdc-11ed-903b-03926d999719 Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission. Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Online sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= More Books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 199: Kinky Sex at Home in a Sex Fort Erotica Story Part 1 of 2 written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Jenna is waiting for Tom to come home from work. She has a new lace-up bodysuit on to surprise him. As part of her surprise for their at-home date, she has made and stocked a sex fort for them to enjoy intimacy together. She calls it a f*ck fort. She loads the homemade sex hut with alcoholic beverages, sensual foods to enjoy together during foreplay, sex toys, and their new sex wedge pillow. She's wearing stockings too as she greets him at the door. They engage in flirtatious foreplay and Jenna removes a stocking to use as a sexual prop and the sexual play is underway! Their fun begins with a blow job and that's only the beginning of their hot sexy fun! This is part 1 so come back for the next episode for part 2 where this yummy story will conclude in a delicious climax for both! Learn more about the podcast host, Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Hi, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! My new audiobook is live! It's a dark NSFW title written by Benson E. Wolf called In the Dark for the Dark Web. I had a blast narrating this story! Book blurb: Lisa, a nice young southern girl accepts an offer that she thinks only trashy Alabama redneck trailer park whores would, and do, die for. But it's a lot of money. It is unemployment that pushed her into the dark web. Will she become a missing person or leave the dark, hot and sweaty, like the south? Check out In the Dark for the Dark Web here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/b135d608-4bdc-11ed-903b-03926d999719 Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission. Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Online sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= More Books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qB A couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues. Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 198: Sex is Messy, Dirty, & Pleasurable, Understanding Our Sexuality with Dr. Joe Kort. "Sexuality and erotic interests are not clean. They are messy, nuanced, smelly, dirty, prideful, pleasurable, shameful, and we have to make room for all of that and not try to clean it up and try to make it a textbook thing," said Dr. Joe Kort. This is the last sentence he said in the interview and I think it's so very right, poignant, and definitely an accurate statement. Sex is all of those things, and even more! And it's certainly not cookie-cutter or so-called "normal". There is no normal. And why should there be? We are all individuals, as is each of our sexualities. Listen to and learn from our amazing discussion! He has years and years of experience, he's so knowledgeable about sex and relationships. We chatted about all things sexuality. He shared about his journey coming out as a gay man in the seventies, how his mom was enlightened enough to get him help, but how he also fell into the trap of being labeled with a sexual addiction, which he later learned was false as with time he learned more about sexual health and reframed his mindset to a much healthier one. He became a therapist in response to his journey. He counsels predominantly heterosexual couples, and he shared some very interesting stories from his practice. He talked about how our sexual orientation is not in the acts we do, but rather it's who we are. He talked about how we need to shed shame, and how the worldviews have changed regarding gay/lesbian people. We also chatted about how trans people are being stigmatized now. We talked about sexual orientation, masturbation, erotic compassion, cracking our erotic code, and how what's driving it isn't even about sex at all. He highlighted the importance of shedding shame for healthier sexuality and how couples really need to harness the mindset of having erotic compassion for one another, and not judge each other for their fantasies. Connect with Dr. Joe Kort for his website, books, and podcast here: https://joekort.com/ Find all his links here: https://linktr.ee/drjoekort Joe's book Erotic Orientation (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3RT5v1m Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? https://amzn.to/3VkwJkl 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives https://amzn.to/3VfixcF Thank you Joe for coming on my show! Check out his podcast Smart Sex Smart Love on podcast apps. Learn more about the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission. Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Online sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Welcome to my podcast! Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumi Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 197: Dark Erotica for Halloween The Femdom Coven erotica excerpt. Ruan narrates a part of her story, The Genie's Wish, from The Femdom Coven anthology book. This is the second book in the trilogy of anthologies. The final one will release Valentine's Day 2023. The first anthology with this group of authors was He Will Obey (see below for links to these books). The Genie's Wish is a dark erotic story of witch seduction and enchantment. Hanson is a college student. He is mesermized by the sexy coffee shop owner Goddess and under her spell, but he wants to be with her. More than anything he wants to have sex with Goddess, but sex with Goddess means something will be forever. What will Hanson choose? Get The Femdom Coven anthology here (Amazon affiliate): https://amzn.to/3ehqBsC The universal link to the book is here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8d4dfe86-7492-11ec-b3ef-dbe2da85bf64 The He Will Obey anthology (Amazon affiliate): https://amzn.to/3rCbBsk The universal link to the book is here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 About Ruan To connect with podcast host Ruan Willow, visit here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get Ruan's Anthology, releasing October 22, 2022: Decadent Erotica An Anthology: 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, and Submission affiliate universal book link to Amazon https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Universal book link to other online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Book Blurb: Decadent Erotica is an anthology to please your deepest desires. It's a book of ten erotic stories to quench your fantasies and will also satisfy, intrigue, and enflame your passion. This sexy book includes stories about a pleasure Dom with his sub where he's addicted to making her climax, a couple who succumbs to dark alley impromptu intimacy, naughty office oral fun between coworkers, sneaky and intense nighttime passion between a husband and wife, and a scorching hot coffee shop that pushes all the limits. Not only will those steamy tales light up your yummy alone reading time, but so will the short stories about taboo female domination, a morning filled with surprise skin-on-skin rubs, but also thong panties plucked from the kitchen cabinet as inspiration for intimate relations, and a threesome rendezvous in a dressing room where female-female-male means extreme pleasure taken while in semi-public. And last but not by any means least, excite yourself with an extremely hot orgy party story. Short story titles in this anthology: Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 196: Sexy Sweet & Hot Nothings by Ruan. Lots of little snippets of sexy hot micro erotic scenes. Enjoy the yummy ride with me! Listen and imagine, enjoy and satisfy, all the hot delicious sexy fun! Delve into the thick swollen ride with me as I spin little hot nothings for you, or maybe they are everythings! Ruan's Beach Getaway Erotic Romance Novella: In this erotic romance, which is filled with lots of sex between MILF Ruan and her younger lover, Sebastian, book 2 in the Ruan's Getaway Series finds our sexually experimenting couple at the ocean. This book contains spicy age-gap heterosexual sex scenes and softcore BDSM acts. Listen to an excerpt of this book here where Ruan gives Sebastian a blow job: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/10787371-milf-ruan-her-younger-lover-at-the-beach-in-ruan-s-beach-getaway Get a copy of Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Podcast merchandise! Get shirts with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. September is sexual health month so buy one get one free. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= My pick for cleanliness for being intimate with wipes, click through the affiliate link and search for Before and After Wipes from Promescent: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1516999&u=3101443&m=93613&urllink=&afftrack= Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow My website: Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 195: Girl Sex, Communication & Sex, and Sexual Culture with Allison Moon. Allison is an author and sex educator. She focuses on female sexuality, queer women, and communication tools and strategies for better sex and sexual relations. Her popular books Girl Sex 101 and Getting It are great tools to help people communicate about sex with others, shed shame, and rock a partner's sexual world. Allison is very knowledgeable about sexual culture, queer sexuality, sexual citizenship, and sexual techniques/communication and has traveled around the US and Canada teaching people. Today she shares all her incredible insights on my podcast! Allison's books are also great for heterosexual men who want to learn how to pleasure a woman like a lesbian, for those who wish to know about female pleasure and sexual anatomy, and how to best communicate about (and during) sex. Allison talked about how there is power in normalizing eroticism and sex, and that talking about sex is a great way to do that. Our society is currently trying to hide sex, so in talking about sex, we can combat this. Allison gave some fabulous tangible tips and scripts for ways to do sexy and hot communication and provide advocacy of our needs during sex. We also talked about when a partner crosses sexual boundaries and what ensues. Allison and I talked about how female sexual anatomy is not only ignored but hidden from the public, even in medical settings and with medical providers. The clit and the penis are the same, even in size, it's just that the clit is primarily an internal organ and the clitoral head is the only external part. Education, which includes anatomy, is essential for better sex for clit owners and reaching climaxing pleasure. She also talked about how feminist sex stores/sex-positive sex stores, are great resources for people for not only products but in talking with and learning from sex store retail and teaching staff. Find a store near you to visit! Check her website for a guide to finding one. Allison's Books (affiliate links): Girl Sex 101 https://amzn.to/3CmTM6R Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame Free Sex https://amzn.to/3RqmurC Connect with Allison and learn more at: https://girlsex101.com/ Learn more about the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, & Submission. Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f Online sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Welcome to my podcast! Leave a voicemail for me I'll answer you on the podcast: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow One of my favorite sex toys is the Zumio. I'm an affiliate for them. September is sexual health month so buy one get one free. Find out why this is one of my top toys by getting more info on this sex toy here: https: Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow