Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Ep 268: Pleasure, Power, & Fellatio with Sex, Love, Relationship Coach Carla Crivaro. Carla had so many amazing things to share! We started out talking about how men have a lot of pressure during sex, and it in part has to do with whether they have an erection or not. We talked about how porn gets misused as education when it really is just entertainment, but our sex ed is so poor that many people turn to porn because there are no other valid options. Carla talked about the need to talk about sex very early on in dating relationships to see if the people are sexually compatible. It's hard to talk about but she suggested using a yes/no/maybe game. She discussed busting the misconception that men are unemotional and how men can feel and express feelings. They may need to unlearn things learned from cultural influence and relearn things. We discussed how our culture really messes us all up in that women are taught to not talk about sex and men are taught not to feel. This messes up our relationships! She shared her blow job course for women and how women need to connect with and be ok with their inner slut. Women can find their inner sex Queen and enjoy blow jobs, and how this really resonates and heightens oral sex for men. She discussed her history of sexual shame, which included that females were either a virgin or a whore, and there was no in-between. Women need to shed shame and embrace their sluttiness. We chatted about sex toy usage... and if women are afraid of this to examine why...such as is it really about shame? She shared about penis massage and how it's a sensual journey for both partners that may end up in a sexual act, but may not...and to be okay with whatever happens. She explained why penis massage is penis worship, that it should include compliments and how the shame of a flaccid cock can be eliminated with penis massage. She discussed ways to improve confidence. Plus, how the wide range of the desired intensity of touch varies widely amongst people. She has a sexually empowered playlist for women (Spotify). Carla Crivaro is a trauma-informed & certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach. She works internationally with men and women helping them understand themselves & each other, sexually, relationally. Carla has a new course for women called The Queen Of Blowjobs. It is designed to release your shame around giving head to unlock confidence in the bedroom which ripples out into all areas of your life. Experience pleasure as power and build a deeper and more intimate connection with your partner. Course access: https://www.carlacrivaro.com/queen-of-blowjobs Instagram: @the.sexuality.sanctuary Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlacrivaro Website: www.carlacrivaro.com Thank you to this episode's sponsors! Affiliates: Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Ruan Willow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 267: 2 Erotic Stories of Power Play Exchange Male Daddy Dominant and Femdom Her Good Boy. Ruan narrates two of her power play power exchange stories where the male is the dominant in the first story, and the female is the dominant one in the second story. Both stories are full of juicy sex, sexy consensual acts, and erotic romance. The first story is about a couple that had to wait to be together and then they finally are, and they enjoyed their intense sexual interactions in ways that blew their minds. The second story is Ruan's short story from the 3rd book in the Femdom anthology trilogy, written by multiple authors, writing in dominant female style. The third book is called Hearts and Flowers, Whips and Chains (affiliate links in this post, purchases made through the affiliate links go to support this podcast and are at no added cost to the purchaser). Get the book here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/9eff2f2a-aa5f-11ed-8d0f-07c8e0217098 Get the other books in the trilogy He Will Obey: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 The Femdom Coven: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8d4dfe86-7492-11ec-b3ef-dbe2da85bf64 A huge thank you to this episode's sponsors and be sure to use these codes below to get discounts on their products for natural male enhancement and male manscaping and grooming, and sex toys: Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 The Zumio Clit sex toy (affiliate links): https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1558338&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Wylde Erotic Cravings Publication on Medium https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings Join Medium through Ruan's affiliate link, which goes to support Ruan and this podcast: (current rate $5 a month) with affiliate link: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Blow Job at the Restaurant Date Night Story... just as it says... immerse yourself into this story and enjoy! Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Free trial of Audible Plus (affiliate links where podcast receives advertising funds at no added cost to the consumer): https://amzn.to/41UddyI 2 FREE Audiobooks with a FREE trial of Audible: https://amzn.to/3SY4uHn View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and where she is across the internet, including exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 265: Your Nightly Desires Erotic Audiowork, Fantasy Role Play, and NSFW Animation. Enjoy our chat as we discussed creating erotic audios: the joys of creation, the fun, the satisfying parts, and the challenging, and painful, chores of editing. We talked about how he got started and how he has grown with regards to creating audio, which he publishes on Pornhub and YouTube. He talked about his experiences posting to the two platforms...and he's got me beat with how many attempts he's made to be on YouTube! I'm impressed! He also shared about how he creates NSFW animations and how he focuses on what he loves, boobs, asses, and thighs, oh my! Oh, yeah baby, oh my! Sounds like the wizard of oz but sexual! LOL! But with fucking... We are going to narrate some audiobooks together, he's got a scrumptious voice, so stay tuned for those releases and check him out at the links below! Oh, and we talked about porn, what men versus women want to see in porn, and how same sex porn can and does appeal to many people. We chatted about how we both feel about others enjoying and reacting to our erotic sexual content. Listen up and enjoy! Check out his content at: Your Nightly Desires on Twitter https://twitter.com/NightlyDesires On Pornhub: https://www.pornhub.com/model/yournightlydesires A huge thank you to this episode's sponsors and be sure to use these codes to get discounts on their products for natural male enhancement and male manscaping and grooming: (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Free trial of Audible Plus (affiliate links where podcast receives advertising funds at no added cost to the consumer): https://amzn.to/41UddyI 2 FREE Audiobooks with a FREE trial of Audible: https://amzn.to/3SY4uHn View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Ruan's NSFW erotica books and audiobooks and where she is across the internet, including exclusive subscription content on some platforms: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Episode 264: Titty Fucked by Satan, an erotic fiction short story by Ruan Willow, erotica author, NSFW erotic audiobook narrator, podcaster (well you already know that!), and sex blogger. Louis was a good man, hardworking his whole life, sure he'd committed some sins, but who hadn't? He woke in a perfect bed in a perfect atmosphere, with a perfect body with sculpted abs...his lifelong dream had come true. In walked the sexiest big busted woman he'd ever laid eyes on with lush long curly blond hair and curves delicious as sin itself... and she's there for Louis because he deserves her. She came to pleasure Louis to the greatest extent of his wildest, most erotic intense sexual dreams, but she claimed to be Satan. Louis knew this wasn't possible, not someone who looked like her! Enjoy this pleasure-filled, lust-infused, satisfying sexual fantasy adventure, but as you all know, Satan isn't all about pleasure, now is he? Read this story on Medium: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/titty-fucked-by-satan-f6c524a15f7a Wylde Erotic Cravings Publication on Medium https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings Join Medium through Ruan's affiliate link, which goes to support Ruan and this podcast: (current rate $5 a month) with my affiliate link: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Intrigued by the Cannabis Man blurb in the podcast? Check his podcast out here: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VhPKCae6raaoisQKrx9Mw?si=sqU4FXvdRwKgHvxS4v_4Tg Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Free trial of Audible Plus (affiliate links where podcast receives advertising funds at no added cost to the consumer): https://amzn.to/41UddyI 2 FREE Audiobooks with a FREE trial of Audible: https://amzn.to/3SY4uHn View all the sex toys and pleasure products deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ Ruan's erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 263: Sexy Gritty Gothic Dystopian High Heat Omegaverse Romance Author Marlowe Roy Interview and Book Excerpt Narrated by Ruan. What a fabulous conversation with Marlowe! We chatted about her writing, her books, her writing process, and how she came to write dark Omegaverse fiction books. We discussed heat levels in romance books and how hers is "high heat" with explicit juicy sex scenes. We discussed age diversity in fiction and how often older women are portrayed as not sexy, but not in her books! The older women characters are rich, seasoned, sexy, and experienced; they are layered, complex, and beautiful! We explored the historical trends of authors writing about young people/characters with older mentalities and sensibilities and how this does ring true to the middle-aged and older readers. We both agreed there needs to be more age diversity in books for middle-aged readers to identify with and enjoy the stories. She touched on how there is extra liberty for kink and consent in the Alpha, Beta, and Omega realm of fiction which just aren't there as accessible to those writing contemporary romance, which allowed her to really use her imagination and explore the dynamics of domination and submission with her characters, both in and out of the bedroom. Age gap is often a theme in her books as well and we explored that aspect in our chat too. I narrated a section from her book The Alpha's Seduction. It's a very sexy intense spicy sex scene that explores the characters' domination and submission dynamic. It was such a fun writer's chat! Connect with Marlowe Roy here: http://marloweroy.com/ Links in this post are affiliates. If purchases are made through the links, the owner of this podcast (me!) might receive an advertising monetary value that supports this podcast. This comes at no added cost to the purchaser. Thank you for your support! The Alpha's Salvation Book 1 https://amzn.to/41tq3D8 The Alpha's Seduction Book 2 https://amzn.to/3KYIkBd Instagram as marlowauthor, Twitter at http://twitter.com/AuthorMarlowe She is also on Facebook. Thank you Marlowe for coming on the show! I had a great time talking with you! Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Ruan's erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Discounts on self care products: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

This isn't just audio, it's an experience. Relaxation, arousal, rising excitement, and release yourself to stress relief. Enjoy the ride men... she does. Embark on Ruan's soothing voice, arousing sounds, and relaxation guidance in the end. Find all of Ruan's books, audiobooks, other subscription sites, and access to all her links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 261: Writers chat! Author Interview with Erotic Romance Author Natasha Carter and Discussion of Sexuality in the Media. Natasha reads chapter 1 of her erotic romance book Unfinished Business for us. Then she and I chatted about writing, the writing process, and what we like about it, and what we don't. She shared her views about how regular romance books are missing all the juicy goodness of relationships because they are vanilla or limited in their delve into the sexuality of relationships. We both believe romance lit needs sex in it! Sexuality is a part of being human and in our society, we aren't allowed to live it freely. We discussed sexuality in books and the media and how society suppresses women with regards to sex--if women like sex they are a slut and if they don't, they get labeled a prude. There's no safe space for women along that gradient, it's chocked full of shame all along the spectrum. We talked about self-publishing versus traditional publishing, and how people should self-publish. She shared how she wanted to create a character in charge of her sexuality and owning it and felt strongly that her story needed to be in the world. She also shared about her WIP books. Thank you, Natasha! Post contains affiliate links where purchases made through the links go to monetarily support the podcast. Thank you for your support! Natasha's book Unfinished Business: https://amzn.to/3mJW62O Connect with Natasha on her website: https://www.booksbynatasha.com Natasha on Twitter: http://twitter.com/NatashaCL7 Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 Sex toy deals for MEN & WOMEN: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with Ruan and gain access to her erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Recommended Sex Toys:Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's newest book: The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge, Book 4 of 6 https://amzn.to/3Jifk87 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 260: Kinky Hot Short Sexy Snippets and a Braingasm, Let's go! This episode contains little sexy sex-filled mini-stories to get you hot! It also includes elements of ASMR of arousal and relaxation. Sit back and enjoy me reading sexy scenes and sex scenarios for you. Immerse yourself in it and enjoy. Get that braingasm! How many orgasms have you had in a day? I spill my number inside this episode. Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Get the newly released age gap erotic romance MILF book Ruan's Beach Getaway Get the audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 ARC: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/5335a25c-db91-48d8-a025-a4edd2fe1432 Get Book 1 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Audiobook: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/2f0243b8-b354-11ec-86e1-abe0590a9831 Sex toy deals for MEN & WOMEN: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with Ruan and gain access to her erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Recommended Sex Toys:Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's newest book: The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge, Book 4 of 6 in The Sex Challenge Series https://amzn.to/3Jifk87 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

Ep 259: The Making of an Erotic Audiobook Ruan's Beach Getaway Narrator Chat with Ruan Willow, Motorboatin' Matt, and Eric Weinstein. We had a very hot, fun, sexy, and interesting chat! Narration is a personal and emotional journey as acting out the parts triggers the narrator into a myriad of emotions. We talked about what turned us on while we narrated, what we found challenging, and what we enjoyed/fave parts. We shared about what went against our true natures as we acted out our roles, what we found very difficult to voice appropriately as well as what resonated and what was enjoyable. We also discussed sex topics and kinks for book 3 of the trilogy, Ruan's Lake Getaway. We also hit on hot topics including kinky play IRL and we got some wild knife and preacher's daughter stories from Eric. Eric also shared naughty erotic anime ideas as well as giving tips on various kinks with edge play and rope. Get the audiobook (affiliate links, purchases made through the links may go to support the podcast as advertising fees): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/20e63e16-d3d2-11ed-a719-07551925a6c3 ARC: https://storyoriginapp.com/audiobookreviewcopies/5335a25c-db91-48d8-a025-a4edd2fe1432 Get Book 1 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Audiobook: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/2f0243b8-b354-11ec-86e1-abe0590a9831 69 Whiskey Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/0QOMFNw8EH0yRWKTtSbHkn?si=lmVbIVXVS0qm9ZXRubef1Q https://linktr.ee/69whiskeypodcast Thank you to this episode's sponsors Malehanger https://www.malehanger.com/ where you can use the code OFY10 for 10% off. Manscaped where listeners can get 20% OFF @manscaped + Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ ad manscapedpod Sex toy deals for MEN & WOMEN: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with Ruan and gain access to her erotica and NSFW audiobooks: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Recommended Sex Toys:Kiiroo Sex toys for women & men: get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/ https://feelrobotics.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=992&url_id=557 Ruan's newest book: The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge, Book 4 of 6 in The Sex Challenge Series https://amzn.to/3Jifk87 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow