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Sep 13, 2023 • 1h 20min

How To Tell If It’s A One-Sided Setup

J&J are back in the studio and it’s Jordana’s birthday eve! Before they jump right in, Jared shares a recent text exchange between him and a woman he dated years ago so Jordana can give her impartial opinion. Next, they read an email questioning why a neighbor gave his info and expressed interest if he never intended for anything to happen. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets messy. Then, the second emailer is trying to get out of the “family zone” with her best friend’s brother. The episode ends with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about Instagram Stories, wedding dates, and stealing date ideas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 10, 2023 • 33min

Nothing Good Comes From Keeping Your Ex Around

This Sunday Special has Jared heated! The episode starts with a “Petty or Prudent?” submission about an ex’s mom asking for her gift back. Then, a listener reaches out about a difficult choice: should she marry her boyfriend who could give her the life she wants, or should she give life a second go with her ex-husband? Jared and Jordana talk through the messy situation, including a message directly to one of the people involved–and it’s not the listener. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 6, 2023 • 1h 10min

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want Kids, But He’s A Father

Before solving dating again, J&J are catching up after a short break. Jordana gives the rundown of her week in Italia, and Jared talks about the big star he got to meet after his Netflix debut. The first emailer is debating whether they should use dating business cards to market themselves to potential singles. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets too hot to handle. Then, the second emailer wonders what say she has in her boyfriend’s lack of involvement in his toddler’s life. The episode ends with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about lying about height, holding hands on a first date, and STI test results. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Sep 3, 2023 • 32min

Sometimes, You’ve Got To Take The “L”

We’re ushering in September with a Sunday Special, and J&J are dubbing fall as the better season to be in the dating game. We know all too well that communication is a core element in dating successfully, and this episode focus on getting lost in translation. They play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about a misplaced passport. Then, a listener questions if she’s been doing dating all wrong after she called out a fizzled dating prospect, and he fired back. If it seems like they both ghosted, who's at fault? Jared and Jordana read the texts and take sides. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 30, 2023 • 1h 20min

Lightning Round: How Do I Know If They’re “The One”

Jared and Jordana are celebrating summer’s end with a Lightning Round episode, but first, Jordana has a surprise for Jared. Still reeling from his special’s Netflix debut, Jared shares his appreciation for the outpouring of support he’s received from all of you. Then, J&J get back to saving dating with a range of topics from sex talks and whether you should be dating at all to long-distance relationships and how to keep cultural differences from impacting your parents’ first impression. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 27, 2023 • 29min

Does Cheating Once Make You A Cheater For Life?

Jared and Jordana are back for another Sunday Special, and this week, they’re starting with a round of “Petty or Prudent?” that pissed Jared off the more he thought about it. Next, an emailer asks if she should be worried about the past indiscretions of a guy she’s seeing. Can a cheater be reformed or is she at risk of the same fate? J&J discuss her worries, red flags, and how to address the elephant in the room. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 23, 2023 • 1h 10min

Who’s Responsible For Texting After The Date?

J&J are back in the studio and, this week, they’re both on a high! Jordana is fresh off her biggest move to date and Jared is mere hours into his Netflix debut. The first emailer is questioning whether his ghosting habit got him banned from Hinge. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a case of mistaken identity. Then, our second emailer wants to start a family in the next few years, but her boyfriend is a few years younger and unsure of where he's at. Should a mismatch of timelines be an immediate deal breaker, or is there time to figure things out? The episode ends with a round of “Thirsty or Nah?” about overzealous pickup lines, canceling a date due to a cold, and helping with a move. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 20, 2023 • 40min

My Exes Don’t Exist To Me Ft. Sasheer Zamata

Comedian and actress Sasheer Zamata joins J&J for this Sunday Special. She and Jared both released comedy specials this month, so they trade insights from the comic’s perspective. Then, Sasheer shares elements of her comedy background. Next, they play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about exes’ pics on dating apps, keeping gifts, and returning cards.Guest: Sasheer Zamata, @thesheertruth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 16, 2023 • 1h 18min

The Unspoken Rules Of Arguing With Your SO

This week, we’re talking big life moments professionally and personally! Jordana is officially a homeowner and moving into her new house. Meanwhile, Jared is showing up on Netflix streams worldwide. Then, our first email asks about etiquette in couples’ quarrels. Is it a red flag to curse at your SO in the heat of the moment? The Awkward Sexual Encounter will have you wary of nosy neighbors. Next, our second emailer needs clarity on whether she’s really met her match or if the little things are worth a deal breaker. The episode ends with a round of “Thirsty or Nah?” about song lyrics, wingmen, and love letters. Become a UUp? With Benefits subscriber today at: subscribe.betches.comCheck out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promo24/7 line for Emotional Abuse: Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a volunteer Crisis Counselor Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Aug 13, 2023 • 33min

Should I End My Situationship Before It Gets Serious?

This Sunday Special marks the start of a big week for the OKPs! We’re only a couple days away from Jared’s special release on Netflix. Plus, our new game has J&J reflecting what kind of person they become post-breakup. They jump into a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about giving your ex a joke gift. Then, a listener worries that her current situation is setting herself up for heartbreak. Should she call it quits while they're still having fun, or is it possible to avoid catching feelings? J&J discuss her predicament and how they would handle it.Become a UUp? With Benefits subscriber today at: subscribe.betches.comCheck out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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