

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.
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Sep 2, 2024 • 46min
Our Guide to Talking (and Really Hearing) Each Other
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the importance of communication in marriage. We’re sharing some of our own struggles and how those tough moments impacted our relationship. Honestly, it wasn’t always easy, and sometimes, we needed professional help to get back on track. We’ll talk about practical steps like making eye contact, starting conversations gently, and really listening to each other—plus why it’s so important to assume the best in your partner. We hope this chat encourages you to keep those lines of communication open and build a marriage that thrives.----------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage----------------Chapters00:00 The Importance of Communication in Marriage01:00 The Challenges of Communication in Marriage08:40 Addressing Communication Patterns Learned from Childhood13:49 The Role of Counseling in Improving Communication17:59 Recognizing Red Flags and Seeking Help19:25 Setting Boundaries and Learning Healthy Communication Techniques22:16 The Importance of Effective Communication in Marriage25:09 Practical Tips for Improving Communication28:47 Assuming the Best and Prioritizing Open Communication33:27 The Role of Listening and Avoiding Assumptions in Communication Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 28, 2024 • 11min
How do I get past the broken promises in our marriage // Hump Day Q&A
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Aug 28, 2024 • 37min
Bonus: A Second Chance at Love: Trusting God with Anthony & Shannen
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this heartfelt episode, Anthony Braswell and Shannen Fields-Braswell share their incredible journey of finding love again after losing their spouses. They open up about the power of putting Jesus first, the importance of honest communication, and how laughter keeps their marriage strong. Together, they inspire us to trust God's plan, embrace joy, and build a legacy of love. If you're navigating tough times or loss in your marriage, this conversation will bring you hope and encouragement.--------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage--------------Chapters00:00 Introduction: Anthony and Shannen's Inspiring Love Story11:08 First Date: Waffle House and a Hug23:00 Believe, Pray, and Trust: Finding Hope in Difficult Times25:23 Trusting and Surrendering: Letting God Take the Wheel29:10 Finding Strength in Each Other: Leaving a Legacy34:07 Conclusion: Spreading Hope and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 26, 2024 • 48min
Tackling Tough Topics for Stronger Intimacy
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of marital intimacy, exploring how emotional connection lays the foundation for a thriving sex life. Dave and Ashley get real about the challenges couples face, from navigating dry seasons to understanding lopsided sex drives, and even the impact of a hysterectomy. With candid stories and practical tips, they guide you on fostering open, honest conversations and prioritizing each other's needs, ensuring your marriage stays strong and connected.------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and the Popularity of Sex Episodes07:06 The Importance of a Healthy Mindset about Sex10:44 Building Emotional Intimacy for Better Sex13:02 Serving Each Other's Needs in the Bedroom19:03 The Art of Initiating Sex21:16 Spicing Things Up: Trying New Things in the Bedroom23:07 Navigating Surprises and Embarrassment in Sexual Intimacy24:25 Addressing Dry Seasons and Discomfort with Lubrication25:20 The Impact of a Hysterectomy on Sexual Health28:08 Navigating Lopsided Sex Drives with Curiosity and Communication37:41 How Often Should Couples Have Sex?43:55 Exploring Sexual Intimacy Beyond Intercourse Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 21, 2024 • 14min
How can we Rebuild Intimacy and Trust in our Marriage? // Hump Day Q&A
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Aug 19, 2024 • 26min
Dreaming Again: Finding Hope and Healing from Burnout
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of burnout—something we all face at times. We share personal insights on how to care for yourself, lean on your faith, and dream together as a couple. You’ll walk away feeling inspired to trust in God and stay strong in your relationship, knowing you’re not alone in this journey. Don’t miss out on our heartfelt conversation and the uplifting reminders that will keep you connected and ready for what’s next! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 12, 2024 • 40min
Strengthening Your Marriage Through Honest Conversations
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation on burnout. We'll dive into how to recognize and prevent burnout while keeping your marriage strong. We share practical advice on how to openly communicate with your spouse about what’s weighing you down and why involving each other in the journey is crucial. we also break down the three Cs that contribute to burnout—what you consume, what's on your calendar, and who’s in your community—and offer personal tips on how to manage these areas and set healthy boundaries together.------------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Recap01:28 Opening Up the Conversation about Burnout03:22 Overextending Ourselves and People-Pleasing08:04 Setting Boundaries on Your Calendar13:30 Saying No to Avoid Burnout22:01 Managing What You Consume28:32 Surrounding Yourself with Positive Influences35:20 Taking Time for Self-Care37:15 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 7, 2024 • 10min
I Love My Husband and Sex, but I'm Grossed Out by Semen // Hump Day Q&A
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Aug 5, 2024 • 36min
Burnout, Boundaries, and Balance in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we'll open up about burnout in marriage and life. we share our personal experiences, offering insights on how to recognize and tackle burnout. Discover practical tips on finding rest, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding the link between burnout and depression. Join us for an honest conversation about self-reflection and the importance of communication in overcoming burnout.------------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Burnout Series03:50 Defining Marriage Burnout08:32 Personal Experiences with Burnout14:30 Recognizing and Addressing Burnout19:13 Finding Rest and Seeking Refuge23:00 Embracing God's Rhythm of Rest29:01 Recognizing Burnout in Yourself and Your Spouse32:59 Conclusion and Invitation to the Anxious for Nothing Series Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 2, 2024 • 31min
Navigating In-Law Relationships in Interracial Marriages
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis, this is a special bonus episode! Today we will chat with Eric and Chanel Penn about their journey navigating in-law relationships and interracial marriage. Eric and Chanel open up about the challenges they faced, sharing their personal experiences of love, forgiveness, and grace in building healthy family dynamics. Despite rejection and hurtful comments, they chose to embrace difficult conversations and extend love and understanding. Their story beautifully showcases the power of healing, redemption, and the transformative nature of love.--------------For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage--------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background07:34 Dealing with Rejection and Hurt16:07 Taking Steps Towards Reconciliation21:14 Continuing the Journey of Healing and Growth25:30 Encouragement and Hope for Others Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices