

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.
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Nov 11, 2024 • 27min
Healing Toxic Patterns in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into some tough but necessary topics that can impact any marriage. We’re talking about toxic behaviors—like swearing and physical abuse—that can creep into relationships, even when love is strong. We’ll unpack how verbal abuse can leave invisible scars and why creating a safe, nurturing space is essential for both of you to thrive. We also share a powerful story of transformation, showing that healing is always possible. Plus, we tackle a listener’s question about how erotic literature affects intimacy, underscoring the importance of open, honest conversations. Let’s get real, learn, and grow together!-----------Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast01:57 Toxic Behaviors in Marriage: Swearing and Physical Abuse09:55 Understanding Verbal Abuse and Its Impact15:10 A Story of Hope: Overcoming Toxic Communication17:54 Q&A: Navigating Issues with Erotic Literature Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 6, 2024 • 17min
Living with Unresolved Resentment // Hump Day Q&A
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Nov 4, 2024 • 33min
The Power of Words, Boundaries, and Respect
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the power of words in marriage and how negative conversations can sneak in and hurt our connection. We dive into what it means to truly guard our words with kindness and respect, fostering positive communication that builds up instead of tearing down. We’ll also share some personal stories about handling family dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and addressing those tough intimacy hurdles we all face. Join us as we unpack these insights with biblical wisdom and a lot of honesty—because building a strong, supportive marriage takes real talk and a lot of heart!----------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to Toxic Behaviors in Marriage00:32 The Power of Words in Relationships03:21 The Impact of Negative Conversations06:40 Responding to Anger with Kindness09:59 Building a Positive Communication Dynamic12:50 Healing from Past Wounds14:11 Navigating Family Dynamics21:34 The Importance of Setting Boundaries22:30 Addressing Intimacy Issues in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 30, 2024 • 15min
How can we reconcile different love languages?
Welcome back to our favorite day of the week, HUMP DAY Q&A!!--------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 28, 2024 • 33min
A Guide to Deepening Your Most Important Relationship
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving into why a second honeymoon can be a game-changer for your relationship. From our personal experiences and stories (yes, we've had some unforgettable ones!), we’re sharing practical ways to carve out time for each other amid the busyness of parenting and everyday demands. It’s all about building trust, setting healthy boundaries, and creating space to reconnect. Join us as we explore why prioritizing each other doesn’t just benefit your marriage but refreshes every part of your life together. So, grab your earbuds, get comfy, and let’s talk about keeping love strong and building an unbreakable bond.--------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Naked Marriage Podcast01:59 The Importance of a Second Honeymoon04:06 Planning and Budgeting for Getaways10:10 Finding Reliable Childcare for Getaways12:02 The Value of Prioritizing Your Marriage15:46 Overcoming Challenges in Marriage19:59 Navigating Boundaries in Relationships24:12 Addressing Trust and Communication in Marriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 23, 2024 • 13min
My Spouse Is in a Mid-Life Crisis // Hump Day Q&A
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Oct 21, 2024 • 43min
Why We Hurt the Ones We Love—and How to Fix It
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest relationship killers: contempt. We talk about how constant criticism and negativity can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage, creating resentment and emotional distance. But don’t worry—we’re also sharing some powerful ways to recognize and stop this cycle, with practical advice and faith-based tools to help you build a stronger, more loving connection. If you’ve ever felt like criticism is taking over, this episode is for you!------------Chapters00:00 Understanding Contempt in Marriage10:14 The Importance of Seeking Help20:49 The Cycle of Negativity and Its Impact30:03 Transforming Contempt into Connection39:13 The Role of Faith in Healing Relationships Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 16, 2024 • 12min
Am I Enough For my Spouse // Humpday Q&A
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Oct 14, 2024 • 34min
Building Your Own Love Story, Not Someone Else’s
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the myth that all great marriages look the same. It’s easy to get caught up in unrealistic expectations from social media or TV, but every couple’s journey is different. We talk about how important it is to celebrate those differences, communicate openly, and create your own unique love story. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of a blended family or just wanting to feel more connected, this episode is all about finding your own path and embracing the real beauty in your marriage.------------------Chapters00:00 Debunking the Myth of Perfect Marriages02:53 The Reality of Marriage Challenges06:10 Finding Unique Paths in Marriage11:50 Celebrating Differences in Relationships17:58 Navigating Unique Family Dynamics23:57 The Importance of Connection and Communication Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 9, 2024 • 14min
I'm Struggling With My Faith and It's Hurting My Mariage // Hump Day Q&A
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