

The Enneagram Journey
Suzanne Stabile
Using the wisdom of the Enneagram, and ongoing discussion and conversation, we will grow compassion for ourselves and others, as well as a better understanding for why we do what we do!
Episodes
Mentioned books

Mar 14, 2022 • 1h 50min
TEJTW Houston! with Aaron Edwards (4) and Kelly Hall (4)
The podcast's first stop on The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour finds us in Tomball, TX at The Renewal Center with friends of LTM, Aaron Edwards and Kelly Hall.
Both Enneagram Fours, Aaron and Kelly are the directors of the Renewal Center and they share in this episode how they make that work, why their ministry benefits from being led by two 4s, and a lot more!
You can find out more about The Renewal Center and RE:Bar at therenewalcenter.org
PLUG TIME!
Big events in Dallas and beyond!
Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren is March 31-April 2 in Dallas or online
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego
The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness podcast and teaching tour continues! Austin is coming up, Richmond is on deck, and Portland is in the hole!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22
Today's Intro:
1. Parks and Recreation, Season 5: Episode 4
2. Emily P. Freeman on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, May 16, 2019
3. This Is Where I Leave You, 2014 Comedy/Drama

Mar 1, 2022 • 57min
Shauna Niequist (7) - Extroverted, Journaling, Bucket Lists
Shauna Niequist joins the show! You enneagram fans may remember her from an early episode of The Road Back to You podcast, yup, that is a deep cut.
Enneagram 7, and the author of, "I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet", (what a great title) joins Suzanne to talk about being married to a 4, her new book, journaling and so much more.
PLUG TIME
Where Will We Go From Here with Rev. Joseph Stabile, Brian D. McLaren, and the Enneagram Godmother is March 31 - April 2. Join online or in person in Dallas!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego
The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness tour continues! Upcoming stops include Houston, Austin, Denver, Portland, and Dallas!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22
Today's Intro:
1. Sean Connery in Finding Forrester (2000)
2. Ed Helms and Jason Segal in Jeff Who Lives at Home (2011)
3. Jamie Grace on TEJ Podcast, June 2020

Feb 14, 2022 • 56min
Tara Beth Leach - 40 Days on Being a 6
Suzanne says that enneagram sixes are the people that hold our communities together, so it seems fitting that 40 Days on Being a 6 author Tara Beth Leach will put a nice bow on our Daily Reflections Series! Tara Beth Leach is a pastor, preacher of the Word, and a writer. She speaks widely at conferences, retreats, and universities across America on Women in Ministry, Church Leadership, and the call to be a Radiant Witness. She is a pastor at Christ Church of Oak Brook in the western suburbs of Chicago. She previously served as senior pastor of First Church of the Nazarene of Pasadena (“PazNaz”) in Southern California. She is a graduate of Olivet Nazarene University and Northern Theological Seminary. She is the author of Emboldened, Radiant Church, and Forty Days on Being a Six. She has two beautiful and rambunctious sons, and has been married to the love of her life, Jeff, since 2006.
PLUG TIME!
Where Will We Go From Here? with Suzanne, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren is coming up March 31 - April 2. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for information and registration!
The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming to the Houston, TX area on March 5th! Sign up today at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22
Today's Intro:
1. "So Many Questions" by Side A
2. Will Ferrell as George W. Bush from Full Frontal on TBS, May 2017
3. Jamie Ivey on The Enneagram Journey podcast, Nov. 2018

Jan 27, 2022 • 55min
Sandra Maria Van Opstal - 40 Days on Being an 8
The series of Enneagram Daily Reflections authors continues today with Enneagram 8, Sandra Maria Van Opstal! "Fósforito! The explosion happened so quickly there was no stopping it. My mother called me 'tiny match' when she would see this fire exploding from me." This is how Latina pastor, activist, and worship leader, Sandra Maria Van Opstal, describes her experience as an Eight. There came a point in her life when she saw how her fiery explosions were undermining her leadership. A wise spiritual director helped her discover how the Enneagram could reveal more about both her gifts and her weaknesses. Sandra offers insight from her ethnic journey alongside Enneagram wisdom.
You can get your copy of 40 Days On Being an 8 at ivpress.com, Amazon.com, or lifeinthetrinityministry.com!
PLUUUUG:
March 31-April 2, Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne Stabile, Rev. Joseph Stabile, and Brian D. McLaren! Join in Dallas or online from anywhere in the world! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego for more information and registration.
Today's Intro:
1. From Frozen (2013)
2. Christine Min from The Enneagram Journey (August 2020)
3. Rogue from X-Men The Last Stand (2006)

Dec 28, 2021 • 1h 1min
Danielle Coke (7) - Setting The Table, What Is Mine To Do, Thinking Process
Oh Happy Dani, aka Danielle Coke, joins the show today!
Earlier in the year we asked you the listeners to tell us some guests you wanted to hear from, and Dani's name came up over and over, and we can see why. Dani, an enneagram 7, shares about how what started as a hobby blossomed into a journey of using art and words to make complex social justice-related issues more digestible and easy to understand for people around the world.
Find her online at ohhappydani.com and on instagram @ohhappydani
PLUG TIME!
Get your LTM New Year's Raffle tickets before the drawing on January 2nd! Win a $100 gift card, books, prayer beads, a private Zoom call with the Enneagram Godmother, and more!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/store/raffle
AND! Don't forget to get your tickets for Where Will We Go From Here with Suzanne, Joe, and Brian D. McLaren while the early bird price is still available! Join in Dallas in person, or online from home anywhere in the world March 31 - April 2.
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego
Today's Introduction:
Scene from Bob's Burgers, Season 3: episode 21 "Boyz 4 Now"
Patrice Gopo on The Enneagram Journey podcast October 9th, 2020

Dec 20, 2021 • 59min
Answering Your Enneagram Questions with Suzanne
Suzanne's favorite way to teach! Questions and responses today with the Godmother of the Enneagram. Today's show includes a call to the Reverend to help an aggressive couple who is dealing with leaving their church community, a heavy dose of relationship talk, and how many attempts does it take an enneagram six to leave a message?
The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness Tour!
Richmond, Birmingham, and Houston are filling up quickly and Austin and Portland will be opening up soon! Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 today to lock your seat up and join Suzanne in growing understanding and compassion.
Today's Introduction
Emily P. Freeman from the May 16, 2019 episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast
Dinner Scene from Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby (2006)
Thank you for your support of LTM, Suzanne and Joe, and The Enneagram Journey podcast!

Dec 10, 2021 • 2h 2min
The Enneagram Holiday Journey
What a special episode!!
In today's show you'll get to hear from some of Suzanne's grandkids, some of her children, some of their spouses, from Carolyn K. Teel, and it can't be a family episode without the Reverend!
Joel took a couple of microphones to the Stabile Family Thanksgiving, and collected some audio. We hope you'll enjoy some of their memories and conversation around the holidays, and then hear from Joe and Suzanne as they discuss what the holidays have meant for them, and how they've evolved over the years.
Then! Listen to some of Suzanne's teaching from Holidays and the Enneagram. This recording was taken in December 2019 at the Micah Center and you can find the entire recording on the LTM website.
And if you're checking the show notes for where to sign up to join Suzanne for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness teaching and podcast tour you are looking for this link!:
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22
Have a wonderful holiday season, and we hope to see you on the road and have the opportunity to continue the Journey with you in 2022!

Dec 1, 2021 • 58min
Lindsay O’Connor (6) - Phobic? Counter phobic?, Making Connections, Being Heard
LTM's own Lindsay O'Connor joins the show!
Lindsay is an enneagram six, married to a nine, in seminary, parenting 2 beautiful girls, and self proclaimed "wannabe contemplative."
Lindsay and Suzanne talk about the role books have played in her life, the similarities and differences between the two of them in the dependent stance, and more!
You can find Lindsay on Instagram @lindsayloconnor and catch her at The Micah Center and upcoming LTM events!
PLUG TIME!
Where Will We Go From Here featuring the Reverend, Suzanne, and the incredible Brian McLaren! March 31 - April 2 in Dallas, TX or join online from anywhere in the world. For more information visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/wherewillwego
And, be sure to check out the upcoming book and podcast tour! The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness is coming your direction and we hope you'll join us one weekend!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22
Today's Introduction:
1. A clip on meerkats from Nat Geo Wild, March 4, 2013
2. "What do trees have to talk about" from The Lord of The Rings: Two Towers
3. Enneagram 6, Heather Mustain speaking on The Enneagram Journey podcast, 3-6-9 Panel, May 12, 2020

Nov 17, 2021 • 1h 9min
Juanita Rasmus - 40 Days on Being a 1
The Enneagram Daily Reflections series marches on today with enneagram 1, Juanita Rasmus!
The show starts today with Juanita getting us all grounded before jumping into some good enneagram teaching and background on wings and stress and security. Then let's hear about how ones take care of themselves, and how we can better take care of them (tip 1: don't touch their food).
You can find out more about Juanita by visiting juanitarasmus.com and you can find your copy of 40 Days on Being a 1 at Amazon.com, ivpress.com or LifeInTheTrinityMinistry.com!
PLUG!
The holidays are just around the corner and there is no better tool than Holidays and the Enneagram with Suzanne. Over two hours of teaching to help you better take care of yourself and love those around you that you're spending the holidays with.
Click here to download today!
Today's Introduction:
1. Suzanne talking with Heather Mustain about her relationship with husband and enneagram 1 Chad Mustain. Taken from the introduction in episode 94 of The EnneagramJourney.
2. Joey Tribbiani from the show F.R.I.E.N.D.S. talking about food
3. An excerpt from Others On The Journey, released on August 13, 2020 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast.

Nov 4, 2021 • 58min
Your Enneagram Stances Questions
Suzanne traveled to Tennessee in September 2021 for an incredible Enneagram Stances workshop. The questions asked were fantastic, but we didn't have enough time to answer them all, so Joel tucked the cards away in the ol' backpack and broke them out for today's episode of TEJ podcast!
Resentment and the dependent stance. What about the other 2 stances?
Orientation to time
Fives and feeling
How to help the doing repressed....do?
Parenting a 1
and more
Plug time!
The Journey Toward Wholeness is released and available! Get your copy today, and please take the time to review it on Amazon and Goodreads. You can find it anywhere you get your books, and of course at lifeinthetrinityministry.com
Teaching Tour!
Suzanne is hitting 10 cities across the country for The Enneagram Journey Toward Wholeness book and podcast tour. Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/tour22 for information and registration. The first 3 cities registration is up already: Richmond, VA, Birmingham, AL, and Houston, TX. See you on the road for the journey!
Today's introduction:
Suzanne talking on stances from episode 50 of The Enneagram Journey podcast
Clip from "Zoolander" the hilarious (according to Joel) 2001 movie with Ben Stiller and Jon Voight
Ann Willet (4) from episode 60 of The Enneagram Journey podcast