

The Enneagram Journey
Suzanne Stabile
Using the wisdom of the Enneagram, and ongoing discussion and conversation, we will grow compassion for ourselves and others, as well as a better understanding for why we do what we do!
Episodes
Mentioned books

Oct 24, 2023 • 1h 7min
Jason Miller (5) - Promiscuous, Non-Anxious, When The World Breaks
Guest Jason Miller, Enneagram 5 pastor, discusses being non-anxious, church planting, and redefining promiscuity. They explore relationship dynamics with Sevens, embracing curiosity in church practices, and themes of suffering and growth in his book 'When the World Breaks'.

Oct 4, 2023 • 1h 3min
Brian Lee (1) - Security Line, Perfect/Correct/Right, Broken to Beloved
Enneagram Ones, have you named your Inner Critic?
In this episode, Brian Lee shares his relationship with his Critic, as well as his journey from Broken to Beloved. Suzanne and Brian talk about Ennneagram One's relationship with Perfection and it what that my mean, and a great discussion about the line that Ones and Sevens share. This episode also includes a special appearance from Enneagram 8, Joey Schewee!
PLUG TIME
The Road Back to You has sold over 1 Million copies! If you or someone you know needs a fresh copy, during the month of October LTM is selling personalized/signed copies of The Road Back to You for $13 (a Stabile lucky number). Visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com and let Suzanne know who to sign it for and we'll get it headed your way. Early Christmas present?!
Also, join LTM, Suzanne, and The Enneagram Journey for a celebration and live podcast recording at The Ivey Tavern in Dallas near Love Field airport on Friday, October 20th. The celebration is free to attend, but if you want to lock in a reserved seat, LTM has some available at lifeinthetrinityministry.com. Hope to see you there!
TODAY'S INTRO:
The Critic, FOX 1995
The Wedding Singer, New Line Cinema 1998
One, Sleeping At Last, 2019
Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban, Warner Bros. 2004

Sep 19, 2023 • 1h 18min
Mallory Wyckoff (3) - Curiosity, Imaginative Prayer, God Is
Channeling our inner Jeff Foxworthy... If you've ever thought to yourself, "How can I make sure people already know that I know the Enneagram and that I'm not new to it like they are?", you might be an Enneagram 3!
Welcome Mallory Wyckoff to The Enneagram Journey!
Mallory Wyckoff (DMin, MTS) is a writer, speaker, spiritual director, and peacemaker. She also serves as key relationships officer with Search for Common Ground, the world’s largest organization dedicated to peacebuilding. Having completed her dissertation on the impact of sexual trauma on survivors’ theological perception and spiritual formation, Mallory has a DMin in missional and spiritual formation.
Today's episode includes talk about Curiosity, the difference between an Enneagram 1 and 3, Shame, Imaginative Prayer, and discussion about her newest book, God Is.
You can find out more about Mallory at mallorywyckoff.com
TODAY'S PLUG:
The 4 Mantras and The Holidays with Suzanne Stabile
Saturday, December 9th in Dallas and Online
Show Up, Pay Attention, Tell the Truth, Don’t attach to the Results.
How hard can it be? For different Enneagram numbers, some of these can prove to be difficult enough, but then add the pressures of the holiday season?! No worries though, because this year Suzanne Stabile is going to give us some tools to help us adhere to the 4 Mantras, and have a healthier and happier holiday season.
CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND TO REGISTER
Thank you for your support of The Enneagram Journey podcast and of Life in the Trinity Ministry! To learn more about LTM, programming, and to donate visit lifeinthetrinityministry.com/about
TODAY'S INTRO:
Shame, The Avett Brothers
Laura Addis (E3 on The Enneagram Journey Podcast, June 2022)
Barbie (Warner Bros. 2023)
Ted Lasso (S1, E8)

Sep 8, 2023 • 48min
Change, Change, Change
Very cool episode of The Enneagram Journey podcast today.
In the Spring of 2023 Suzanne and Joe taught a 2 day workshop on Change. Change and Spirituality, Change and the Enneagram, Change and Me, Change and You, CHANGE!
The conversation today between Joe and Suzanne is the second segment of that workshop after the Reverend's opening. You can find that opening teaching here on the LTM website.
The entire workshop will be available beginning September 12th in the LTM store.
PLUG TIME
Suzanne is teaching in Dallas September 23rd, in Houston September 30th, and in Porterville, CA October 13-14. We hope you can make it for one of these events! You can find all of the information and links for registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/events
TODAY'S INTRO
Early Mornin' Stoned Pimp, Kid Rock
Anchorman: The Legend of Ron Burgundy (2004 DreamWorks Pictures)
Changes, David Bowie
Scrubs (S2.E14)
Changes, 2Pac

Aug 29, 2023 • 54min
August 2023 Q&A
Its your monthly Q&A session with Suzanne!
I'm struggling between knowing if I'm a 1 or a 2
Question from a 6 and 9 in relationship and new to the enneagram
Several questions about Enneagram 4s and relationships
How can a 5 and 9 get stuff done?
A parenting question
AND MORE
"It's never really a matter of the withdrawing stance not knowing what to do. It's a matter of wanting to do what needs to be done."
PLUG TIME
Its a quick plug, but a great one! The Road Back to You has sold over 1 MILLION copies!!! Join LTM and The Enneagram Journey podcast in celebrating on Friday, October 20th at The Ivy Tavern in Dallas. There will be a live recording of the podcast and you'll get to be around the LTM community as well as other enneagram enthusiasts in a really fun cool atmosphere. You can find all of the information as it is made available at lifeinthetrinityministry.com
Congratulations Suzanne!!
TODAY'S INTRO:
Family Guy (S16, E12)
"Just Breathe", Pearl Jam (2009)
The Office (S9, E18)
Just Friends (New Line Cinema, 2005)

Aug 18, 2023 • 1h 14min
Jasmine Miller (6) - Layered Thinking & Doing Things Afraid
Jasmine Miller, Enneagram 6, discusses fear, anxiety, parenting, church planting challenges, decision-making processes, and confronting uncomfortable situations. They analyze a scene from Lost and share personal experiences. They also emphasize the importance of teaching children their address and prioritizing personal and professional growth. Plus, a friendly conversation and a preview of the next episode.

Aug 8, 2023 • 1h 46min
Back to School with the Enneagram Parents
It is that time!
Joey and Billy Schewee ,aka the Enneagram Parents, join Suzanne and Joel at The Micah Center to talk about this magical time of the year that is: BACK TO SCHOOL TIME!
They're going to share some of their experiences, what they've learned from others on The Journey and help us to better understand our children during this transitional period as well as help us make some better parenting choices. After listening, we're sure you'll want to find them on social media. They're most active on Instagram and Facebook @enneagramparents.
PLUG TIME
2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating was so wonderful. You can still register to watch the replay of all 3 days of teaching at lifeinthetrinityministry.com.
Apply today for the 2024 LTM Cohort Program! In 2024 LTM will offer 4 Cohorts: The Enneagram Cohort, The Contemplative Cohort, The Family Systems Cohort, and the Deconstruction/Reconstruction Cohort. Click here to find the dates, descriptions, and expectations as well as the application. LTM is a place for solitary work that cannot be done alone!
Lifeinthetrinityministry.com
TODAY'S INTRO
South Park (Season 24, Episode 1)
Big Daddy (1999, Columbia Pictures)
Billy Madison (1995, Universal Pictures)
"What I Go To School For", Jonas Brothers

Jun 5, 2023 • 1h 3min
June 2023 Q&A
A lot packed into today's episode!
This Q&A conversation was recorded in front of a live audience on The Table. Suzanne answers questions that have been sent in via the voicemail app on theenneagramjourney.com as well as some that were submitted live during the recording.
What is her experience with twins and enneagram numbers?
Comparing a 7 in stress vs. an 8 in low space
Mistyping between a 1 and 4
2s and altruistic giving
aaaaand more!
PLUG TIME!
Kansas City, June 23-24, The Enneagram with Suzanne Stabile.
Find your enneagram number and explore the role it plays in your life and in your relationships.
Tickets are only $30 at Resurrection UMC. Click here for more information and registration.
2023 Enneagram Bootcamp: Naming and Navigating, August 3-5
The flagship event each year for LTM. This 3 day teaching event is for everyone no matter where you are on your Enneagram Journey. Suzanne will be combining Enneagram Triad teaching with Enneagram Stance wisdom to help participants better name and navigate their way in the world. Join us in Dallas for an incredible opportinity of growth and community, but if you cannot be with us in person, join online from where you are in the world!
lifeinthetrinityministry.com/23bc
Todays INTRO:
"Nobody Like Me (Think I'll Go Eat Worms)" ABC Kids
The Office - S6: E4
Daily Affirmations with Stuart Smalley, SNL (NBC)

May 17, 2023 • 1h 12min
Sandra Van Opstal (8) & Karl Ostroski (1) - Getting Things Done
A groundbreaking show! TEJ's first 8 and 1 conversation!
You probably know Sandra from the Enneagram Daily Reflections Series, she authored 40 Days on Being an 8. If you don't know her yet, get to meet her and her husband Karl in today's episode.
Don't get distracted by the frog talk in the start of this conversation, it's going somewhere...
The importance of Intentionality
"Let's make it happen."
Justice
Parenting
“I have a motivation of how do I make sure no one can scold me for anything.” - Karl (1)
“Rest feels like a choice to me, and I’ve had to undo that.” - Sandra (8)
PLUG TIME!
Know Your Number with Suzanne in Kansas City at Resurrection UMC this June!
June 23-24 at their Leawood Campus, tickets are only! $30!!! What a great weekend vacation getaway! CLICK HERE for all the information and to get your tickets. Looking forward to seeing you there!
Is it time for you to join an LTM Cohort? While you're discerning, click on the link below for all of the info, dates, expectations, and the application. Don't wait until it is too late to apply for the De/Re-Construction Cohort! The deadline is June 30th!
Apply for the LTM Cohort Program
TODAY's INTRO:
Wedding Crashers (2005 New Line Cinema)
Sandra Van Opstal on TEJ podcast (January 2022)
Brooklyn 99 - S3: E13
The Office - S5: E15

May 8, 2023 • 1h 20min
Kendra Adachi (1) - The Lazy Genius
"How can we 'Lazy Genius' this?"
Find out in this episode of The Enneagram Journey with enneagram 1, Kendra Adachi!
Kendra and Suzanne talk about:
their perspectives as a 1 and a 2 in the world
The Dependent Stance and their relationship with Childhood Wounds
is Joel a man-child? (Spoiler: his is)
Anger, Connection, and Acceptance
After today's show you'll be wanting to visit thelazygeniuscollective.com
And be sure and subscribe to The Lazy Genius podcast!
PLUG TIME!
Enneagram Bootcamp registration is OPEN!!!
August 3-5 in Dallas, TX join Suzanne and LTM as we learn how to best Name and Navigate our experience. This three day weekend is the flagship event for Life in the Trinity Ministry each year where members of the growing LTM and enneagram community, both new and old, come together to grow compassion and understanding.
You can find all of the important information and registration at lifeinthetrinityministry.com/23bc
We're thrilled this year that Courtney Perry (yennneagram.com) will be leading a preconference workshop on Yoga and the Enneagram. Space is limited for the preconference workshop, so don't delay! For all of the teaching of the weekend there is a virtual option if you cannot attend in person in Dallas.
2023 Enneagram Bootcamp - August 3-5, 2023 - Naming and Navigating
TODAY'S INTRO:
"Just Breathe", Pearl Jam
"No. 1", Nelly
Super Troopers, 2001 Fox Searchlight
Family Guy, S5: E7
The Office, S6: E4
The Sopranos, S5: E13


