
Sweet Bobby
Kirat and Bobby have an unusual relationship. The circumstances of their individual lives mean it’s difficult for them to meet face to face but, despite everything, they end up falling in love.Their romance might play out online but in many ways it’s a traditional love story. Until Kirat discovers the disturbing truth. Sweet Bobby is the #1 chart-topping, award-winning series about a sophisticated ten year scam that almost destroyed one woman’s life, and the investigation into the catfisher behind it all.If you want to listen to more thought-provoking investigations, head to Tortoise Investigates - the home of all our investigative podcasts. To find out more about The Observer:Subscribe to TheObserver+ on Apple Podcasts for early access and ad-free episodes. Head to our website observer.co.uk Download the Tortoise app – for a listening experience curated by our journalists Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Latest episodes

Oct 4, 2024 • 1min
Return to...Sweet Bobby
Three years ago, we released our chart-topping investigative podcast Sweet Bobby. And now, Netflix are releasing the documentary Sweet Bobby on 16th October. Catch up with the original story across all 6 episodes by searching for Sweet Bobby wherever you get your podcasts. To listen to the exclusive ad-free and bonus episode with Kirat, the woman at the heart of this catfishing story, subscribe to Tortoise+ on Apple Podcasts or Spotify or become a Tortoise member. You can find out more about Tortoise:Download the Tortoise app - for a listening experience curated by our journalistsSubscribe to Tortoise+ on Apple Podcasts for early access and ad-free contentBecome a member and get access to all of Tortoise's premium audio offerings and moreIf you want to get in touch with us directly about a story, or tell us more about the stories you want to hear about contact hello@tortoisemedia.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 4, 2023 • 42min
Motive
In a gripping twist, Kirat faces the emotional fallout of her catfishing ordeal while returning to radio. The impact of her legal battles stirs up complex community reactions and a controversial apology. Themes of empathy and societal stigma emerge as the conversation challenges perceptions of gullibility in scams. Kirat navigates family betrayal and craves her father's support amidst painful revelations. The episode dives into accountability in impersonation and the profound significance of personal voice and identity in healing.

Sep 4, 2023 • 33min
(In)justice
Kirat's quest for justice takes a dark turn as she faces bureaucratic challenges and skepticism from police after reporting her case. The discussion dives into the emotional toll of catfishing and the societal implications it carries. Features include a deep look at coercive control and its legal recognition in the UK, exposing the inadequacies in police response. Kirat's journey is intertwined with moments of empowerment and support, all set against the vibrant backdrop of shared conversations that illuminate her ongoing struggles.

Sep 4, 2023 • 39min
Dark triads
Dive into a tangled web of betrayal as the investigation into Simran Bogle unfolds. The psychological dynamics of manipulation reveal the dark triad traits of catfishers. Listen as motivations behind decade-long deceptions are unraveled, showcasing the emotional aftermath of deceit. Explore the enigma of Simran, where her timid persona clashes with obsessive behaviors, and reflect on the complexities of identity in modern connections. Discover the unsettling world of catfishing, linking it to classic literature through the lens of psychology.

Sep 4, 2023 • 43min
Confession
A gripping tale unfolds as Kirat confronts Bobby, revealing the emotional turmoil of navigating a deceptive long-distance relationship. Tension peaks during a pivotal drive to Brighton, leading to shocking revelations about betrayal and trust. In an unexpected twist, Simran Bogle confesses her role in the catfishing saga, exposing the motivations behind the online deception. The interplay of emotions and the quest for truth highlight the unsettling impact of deceit on personal connections, making for a powerful listen.

Sep 4, 2023 • 40min
Witness protection
Bobby, a cardiologist grappling with deception and a tumultuous relationship, reconnects with Kirat, who faces emotional turmoil as they confront his past. Meanwhile, Alexi, an investigator, exposes the intricacies of a catfishing scam affecting their lives. The complex dynamics of love and coercive control unfold, revealing the psychological impacts of manipulation in their relationship. The fascinating discussions delve into modern romance against a backdrop of twisted realities, highlighting the risks of online interactions.

Sep 4, 2023 • 31min
Sliding doors
In this engaging discourse, Kirat, a savvy marketer and radio presenter, recounts her whirlwind connection with Bobby, a man she barely knows yet becomes pivotal in her life. They delve into the dark side of online relationships, focusing on Bobby’s manipulative grip over Kirat, impacting her career and friendships. Kirat's vibrant personality shines as she shares insights from her experiences in her Sikh community. The narrative weaves in themes of trust, betrayal, and life's pivotal 'sliding doors' moments, all culminating in a dramatic revelation.

Aug 23, 2023 • 1min
Introducing: Sweet Bobby
How much do you know about the person you love? Sweet Bobby is the #1 chart-topping, award-winning investigative series in search of the world's most sophisticated catfishers.All 6 episodes are available to listen now.To get exclusive access to the bonus episode, subscribe to Tortoise+ on Apple Podcasts.To find out more about Tortoise:Download the Tortoise app - for a listening experience curated by our journalistsSubscribe to Tortoise+ on Apple Podcasts and Spotify for early access and ad-free contentBecome a member and get access to all of Tortoise's premium audio offerings and moreHost and reporter: Alexi MostrousProducer: Gary MarshallAssistant producer and reporter: Claudia WilliamsExecutive producer: Basia Cummings Sound design: Karla PatellaArtwork: Jon Hill Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.