

soju with sarah
sarah pan
a safe space to explore adulthood, relationships, life in our 20s, careers & finance :)
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Jul 5, 2024 • 1h 6min
(the reality of) making friends in your 20s
let’s talk about one of the biggest challenges of adulthood — making friends! in my 20s i’ve learned that making friends is even more confusing, complex, and questionable than it was as a kid. from the different types of friends to *how* to actually make friends, things just somehow seem more challenging… so grab your mugs & let’s chat about friendship in adulthood!
today’s speciality drink on the menu: strawberry milk 🍓🥛
chapters
(00:00:00) preview
(00:00:20) intro, thank you’s, & drink of the day!
(00:04:40) my first adult friendships after graduating
(00:07:12) why making friends in your 20s is hard
(00:12:49) the cringiness of putting yourself out there
(00:20:40) types of adult friendships
(00:26:42) how to actually make friends
(00:32:42) intermission
(00:34:19) juices with james
(00:49:53) the importance of communication
(00:51:24) comparing my friendships in early vs late 20s
(00:52:33) why friends in your 20s are so important
(00:54:24) friendships come in cycles
(00:57:06) quality over quantity
(00:59:57) “well-networked” is the adult version of being “popular”
(01:04:35) outro & finishing notes

Jun 28, 2024 • 1h 26min
the ups & downs of a 7 year relationship
todays episode is one about love! and all the trials & tribulations that come with it ~ we have a very special guest @jung.garments on the pod to chat about his (almost) 7 year relationship with our very own host, sarah! so grab some soju & popcorn because this episode’s a long one :)
today's guest: ‪@jung.garments‬
today’s speciality drink on the menu: lychee melon milkis soju
chapters
(00:00:00) preview
(00:00:30) intro & get to know us!
(00:05:15) how we met
(00:17:57) the 1% story
(00:23:07) the first long distance
(00:29:09) the second long distance
(00:38:27) intermission
(00:40:09) the pandemic: our biggest breakup
(00:52:00) favorite presents!
(00:57:07) family & culture
(01:04:15) why we moved in together
(01:07:19) struggling with codependency
(01:10:01) maintaining individuality
(01:11:48) parenthood & moose
(01:16:41) the ~hustle & grind~ phase
(01:21:17) marriage & beyond
(01:26:00) bloopers

Jun 21, 2024 • 50min
getting older & uglier (sucks)
*birthday special* an episode about aging and getting older, embracing changes in your aesthetics, my experience with plastic surgery, and all the superficial and non-superficial!
today's specialty drink on the menu: strawberry yakult soju
chapters:
(0:00) preview
(0:24) intro & podcast topic!
(3:10) my birthday this year :)
(4:22) childhood & physical changes as you grow older
(7:45) starting social media & self-image
(9:50) my first influencer event & influencer culture
(17:53) plastic surgery in your 20s
(19:41) my experience with botox
(26:16) intermission *birthday cake*
(31:10) new segment idea!
(34:15) so true with sarah
(42:49) how to age gracefully
(46:48) the reddit thread that made me cry
(49:27) bloopers

Jun 14, 2024 • 37min
the opportunity cost of your 20s
Discover the origins of a relatable journey through the 20s, full of reflections on opportunity costs. The discussion dives into decision-making dilemmas and the balance between passion and profitability. Delight in stories from college reunions and the unique challenges of balancing two jobs while exploring creative pursuits. A surprise guest adds flair, as laughter flows with fun bloopers sprinkled throughout the conversation. It's a lighthearted yet profound exploration of choices that shape our lives.

Jun 8, 2024 • 22sec
welcome to soju with sarah! (trailer)
Get ready for a refreshing blend of drinks and dialogue! The host reveals a unique twist on crafting soju cocktails while diving into the intriguing challenges of adult life. Topics range from navigating careers to relationships, all wrapped up in a relaxed and engaging atmosphere. Listeners are invited to join this exciting journey as insightful conversations mix with delicious drinks, setting the stage for an enjoyable experience.