

soju with sarah
sarah pan
a safe space to explore adulthood, relationships, life in our 20s, careers & finance :)
đź’Ś JOIN THE COMMUNITY! đź’Ś
send us your advice column questions, life advice tips, or podcast feedback! âž https://tally.so/r/mV85KM
join our newsletter! âž https://sojuwithsarah.substack.com
send us an email! âž hello@sojuwithsarah.com
đź’Ś JOIN THE COMMUNITY! đź’Ś
send us your advice column questions, life advice tips, or podcast feedback! âž https://tally.so/r/mV85KM
join our newsletter! âž https://sojuwithsarah.substack.com
send us an email! âž hello@sojuwithsarah.com
Episodes
Mentioned books

Nov 22, 2024 • 43min
the art of networking in your 20s
Unpacking the true essence of networking, the discussion explores its often misunderstood nature. It delves into networking in college, addressing the stigma surrounding it, and the switch from social climbing to wholesome connections. Tips for building genuine relationships, like showing gratitude and nurturing connections, are shared. The evolving dynamics of mentorship and the significance of providing value in your interactions are highlighted. Finally, the power of hosting events emerges as a unique way to cultivate meaningful connections.

Nov 15, 2024 • 38min
wtf is a winter arc??
Curious about winter arcs? This discussion dives into how the colder months inspire introspection and self-improvement. From cozy nights in to setting meaningful goals, the hosts share their thoughts on finding joy amidst solitude. They also explore the benefits of journaling, especially with AI tools like ChatGPT. Balancing social life and self-care during the holiday season adds another layer of richness, while lighthearted film recommendations spark laughter. Get ready to make your winter arc meaningful!

Nov 8, 2024 • 32min
don't wait for 2025; just start
With just two months left in 2023, the discussion centers on the pitfalls of waiting for the perfect moment to start fresh. They reveal how overthinking can lead to stagnation and encourage taking immediate action instead. The concept of anti-goals is introduced, helping listeners identify what to avoid in their lives. Task prioritization and delegation take the spotlight, showcasing strategies to enhance productivity. The conversation also touches on reconnecting with creativity and personal identity, urging everyone to embrace change now.

Oct 31, 2024 • 1h 9min
what no one tells you about adulthood… *halloween special*
Join a fun and spooky exploration of adulthood's fears, especially in your 20s. The hosts tackle the anxiety of outgrowing friendships, the comparison game, and the overwhelming responsibilities that come with growing up. They share laughs over Halloween memories and discuss the complexities of career challenges and managing finances. There's a humorous take on how true crime influences our perceptions of safety too. Grab a drink and enjoy this candid reflection on the scariest era of life!

Oct 25, 2024 • 48min
when life feels overwhelming, watch this.
Feeling overwhelmed? You're not alone! Explore how too many choices can paralyze us, and learn to let go of the weight we carry. Discover tips for tackling life's challenges one step at a time, as well as the importance of leaning on others for support. Embrace positive mindsets and simple breathing exercises to find calm amid chaos. Plus, indulge in the whimsical nostalgia of childhood Halloween candies as favorites are debated. Grab a cozy drink and get ready for a refreshing perspective!

Oct 18, 2024 • 1h 24min
the self-perception gap
Dive into a whimsical discussion about the self-perception gap, with laughter and insightful anecdotes. Explore how individuals perceive their intelligence and looks, and the humorous effects of mentorship influences. Young adulthood brings its own challenges as they reflect on self-discovery and the Dunning-Kruger effect. Sip on spicy apple cider margaritas while they tackle societal beauty standards and the impact of social media on self-image. Plus, enjoy entertaining tangents about quirky snacks and playful banter that keep it light and engaging!

Oct 11, 2024 • 1h 10min
navigating codependency in a 7 year relationship
Get ready for a fun yet introspective ride! The hosts dive into the nuances of codependency in relationships, blending humor with vulnerability. They explore love languages and how these evolve over time. Personal anecdotes shed light on their own co-dependent tendencies, while tips for maintaining independence offer valuable insights. Expect laughter amidst serious discussions as they tackle attachment styles and relationship dynamics. Plus, enjoy playful Halloween antics that keep the mood light and relatable!

Oct 4, 2024 • 1h 3min
the worst people to travel with *vacation special*
hello from spain :) today we have a fun episode where we discuss the different stereotypes of travelers ~ so grab some vino and get ready for a fun conversation. also let us know which type of traveler you are in the comments!
today's specialty drink on the menu: vino de naranja (orange wine)
chapters
(00:00:00) preview
(00:00:41) intro & traveling in spain
(00:02:58) episode topic!
(00:05:32) our thoughts on spain
(00:08:38) the "planner"
(00:16:30) our travel styles
(00:21:11) james thanks the audience
(00:22:10) the "documentarian"
(00:27:35) the "foodie"
(00:30:28) the "historian"
(00:32:08) the "independent" traveler
(00:33:43) the "content creator"
(00:34:27) the "anti-tourist tourist"
(00:37:47) the "deadweight"
(00:39:48) the "navigator"
(00:43:26) the "working" traveler
(00:45:27) the "google maps list" traveler
(00:46:26) intermission
(00:53:09) extreme planners vs hotel bums
(00:57:53) traveling as a compatibility test
(01:00:58) outro
(01:02:20) bloopers

Sep 27, 2024 • 1h 3min
the fear of growing older
Delve into the relatable fears of growing older, punctuated by humor and heartfelt anecdotes. The hosts explore the chaos of adult life, celebrating the privilege of aging while reflecting on familial support. Themes like mentorship, the nature of charisma, and career pressures are unpacked with candid insights. Join them as they navigate the emotional landscape of adulthood, embracing the uncertainties and joys that come with each new chapter. It's a lighthearted yet profound discussion on the journey of growing up.

Sep 20, 2024 • 54min
the life advice you need to hear
thank you soju shotties for submitting your BEST life advice! in this episode, we read through some of them and talk about mindsets & tips to navigate topics from personal growth to career, relationships to self worth ~ so strap in for a thoughtful episode about the best life advice our soju shotties have heard :)
The first 500 people to use my link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare! https://skl.sh/sojuwithsarah09241
today's specialty drink on the menu: citron pink lemonade
chapters
(00:00:00) preview
(00:00:26) intro & weekend recap
(00:05:13) looking to the future
(00:08:06) quality or quantity?
(00:11:15) change vs. rest
(00:14:02) intermission
(00:16:27) skillshare! :)
(00:17:32) juice with james (worst life advice)
(00:31:49) taking life too seriously
(00:35:14) drink of the day!
(00:35:35) setting yourself on fire
(00:40:19) cats (meow)
(00:41:01) what do you deserve?
(00:45:50) how to look at failure
(00:47:44) authenticity
(00:49:33) intro
(00:51:25) making daily improvements
(00:52:28) outro
(00:53:11) bloopers