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sarah pan
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Dec 5, 2025 ⢠44min
habits that completely changed my 20s
Explore the transformative habits that shaped one person's 20s. Discover how building organized systems can streamline life. Learn why valuing deeper friendships over superficial 'coolness' creates more meaningful connections. Saving money is highlighted as a path to freedom and risk-taking. Shifting perspectives to see limitations as opportunities opens doors. Embrace a learner's mindset and overcome the fear of doing things alone for personal growth. Tune in for practical insights that inspire thriving in your twenties!

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Nov 27, 2025 ⢠29min
5 things we're grateful for this year
This Thanksgiving special is packed with competition and heartfelt gratitude. The hosts share quirky picks, from newfound loves like Costco trail mix to bonding over recipes. One reflects on personal growth and the supportive online community, while the other navigates life updates involving their cat, Moose. They dive into nostalgic moments sparked by Christmas music and remember the joy of torrenting for cultural treasures. It's a celebration of simple comforts and meaningful connections, all while sipping lemon soju with cream soda!

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Nov 21, 2025 ⢠53min
the pros and cons of dating an âartistâ type
Dive into the chaotic world of dating creatives! Explore the delicate balance of passion vs. structure, with artists' emotional depths adding complexity to relationships. Hear about the joys and struggles of mutual creative growth, late-night work marathons, and the blurred lines between work and personal life. Discover how shared dreams can lead to insular bubbles, while the risk of losing relatability looms large. Through it all, hope and partnership shine as navigating this messy journey fosters deeper connections.

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Nov 14, 2025 ⢠53min
brutally honest reflections 6-months after quitting my job
In this engaging discussion, Sarah shares her journey six months after quitting her corporate job. She candidly reveals the challenges of self-employment, including the struggle of asking for help and managing personal weaknesses. The exhaustion that comes with newfound freedom is explored, as well as the pressure to prove herself. Embracing imperfection, she highlights the importance of iterative progress over perfection. Finally, Sarah reflects on the loneliness of entrepreneurship and her plans to seek support, reminding listeners that they don't have to do it all alone.

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Nov 7, 2025 ⢠57min
rebuilding family dynamics as an adult
Dive into the complexities of adult family dynamics! Discover how roles shift as parents age, transforming from authority figures to peers. Hear heartfelt stories about reconnecting with parents and the challenges of unrecognized family labor. Explore the emotional impact of a pet's illness and the lessons of presence and grief. Plus, travel tales with three generations highlight the nuances of familial bonds. It's a journey that emphasizes the importance of open communication and strengthening ties with loved ones.

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Oct 31, 2025 ⢠56min
what does your jealousy really say about you?
Dive into the complex world of jealousy, an emotion we all feel but rarely discuss. Discover how it can reveal our true desires and trigger self-reflection. The hosts share personal stories and examples, exploring the fine line between benign and malicious envy. Together, they examine jealousy in relationships, the impact of social comparison, and whether happiness can exist alongside envy. Plus, practical tips on navigating jealousy transform it into motivation, all served with a festive Halloween twist!

Oct 24, 2025 ⢠28min
a quick life check-in
anybody else feeling kinda overwhelmed by the end of the year? today we chat through it all and catch up a little on life updates, small businesses, the struggle of figuring out consistent self-care, and the big question: am i actively participating in my own life? so grab your mugs and... let's check in!today's specialty drink on the menu: iced lattechapters(00:00:00) intro(00:00:59) new here? welcome!(00:01:49) seasonal depression got handsâŚ(00:02:54) drink of the day(00:04:41) biweekly check-in(00:09:12) (not our) wedding storytime(00:11:59) the small business owner life(00:14:53) am i actively participating in my own life?(00:17:56) life audit(00:20:07) we want your feedback!(00:20:49) new pawducer?(00:22:02) small business launch(00:25:42) closing thoughts

Oct 17, 2025 ⢠47min
my stalker is writing me poems⌠| reading your halloween horror stories
welcome back ~ghouls & goblins~ this time, our special guest for our second halloween special is...you! today we're delving into your horror stories involving creepy men, roomate dramas, and a lot more things that now keep us awake at night (jk). so grab your mugs, dim your lights and get ready to be (slightly) horrified.at least we were.today's specialty drink on the menu: english breakfast teachapters(00:00:14) intro & life updates(00:05:52) our costumes(00:07:56) drink of the day(00:09:09) pregnancy scare đł(00:12:21) mean manager story(00:14:25) i have a stalker who writes poems?(00:17:50) no dignity, no bra & no explanationâŚ(00:21:33) âwhere my hug atâ guy (scary)(00:23:47) men are scary(00:25:48) moose is now a male podcaster(00:26:13) tea gathering (except no one is coming)(00:31:53) surprise family trip breakup(00:35:52) friend roommate drama(00:37:33) our horror roommate experiences(00:41:10) marital drama & childhood stories(00:43:53) parting words(00:46:02) bloopers

Oct 10, 2025 ⢠57min
are you humble or just holding yourself down?
james is back once again and looking BALDER than ever đ¨â𦲠to start of our halloween series we bring you one of the scariest topics of all: pride & humility. today weâre diving into family beliefs on being humble, our experience with pride in social situations, how the workplace mindset might be holding us back and why it is so scary to sometimes justâŚbe proud about yourself!today's specialty drink on the menu: pumpkin spice cream sodachapters(00:00:18) intro(00:03:59) our costumes(00:07:40) drink of the day(00:08:00) the pant mug!(00:09:00) pride vs humility(00:10:41) jamesâ background on humility(00:11:45) corporate talk(00:14:53) sarahâs first commission(00:17:02) is pride just a social thing?(00:19:44) how prideful are you âallowedâ to be?(00:22:08) sarahâs background on humility(00:23:52) do you sometimes not want to be seen?(00:25:37) being âfake humbleâ(00:27:56) performance anxiety(00:30:45) tiptoeing around accomplishments(00:32:11) intermission(00:37:48) your circle really matters(00:42:53) linkedin talk(00:43:37) trying to find the balance(00:47:05) being strategic (the summary)(00:53:00) outro(00:56:09) bloopers

Oct 3, 2025 ⢠35min
I quit my tech job to make pants (update)
james is back!! today we chat with our favorite co-host about his brand launch, how quitting his job is going 1 year later, and what we missed this summer after being away ~ so strap in, grab your mugs & let's chat! :)today's specialty drink on the menu: soy milkchapters00:00:00 preview & intro00:03:54 drink of the day 00:04:57 james's career backstory00:09:27 navigating multiple interests 00:12:29 speed of execution00:13:32 moose intermission00:14:14 james's spiritual awakening00:16:00 a chat about confidence00:18:42 james got a mullet!00:20:41 summer: the turning point00:27:37 sarah's personal growth00:30:20 long term direction00:33:59 bloopers


