
Evolving Love
Conversations exploring Non-Monogamy, Conscious Relationships & Sexuality. Join Abbey and her husband Liam, as they share from their own lived experiences, and chat with special guests. evolvingloveproject.substack.com
Latest episodes

Apr 19, 2024 • 17min
Ep. 35 - Ask Us Anything - Vetoes, Parenting & Therapy
On this episode, Abbey and Liam tackle questions on non-monogamy in relationships, balancing desires, therapy, and navigating parenthood while practicing non-monogamy. They share insights, humor, and personal anecdotes, making the discussion both enlightening and entertaining.

Apr 12, 2024 • 55min
Ep. 34 - Andrew Gurza on Disability, Queerness & Acceptance
Andrew Gurza is an award winning Disability Awareness Consultant whose written work has been featured on BBC, CBC, Daily Xtra, Gay Times UK & Huffington PostAs a host, Andrew presents the award winning “Disability After Dark” which shines a light on Disability stories and sexuality. He was nominated for a Canadian Podcast Award, a Queerty Award and was chosen as an honouree at the 2020 Webby Awards.Andrew has appeared on Dan Savage’s Savage Love and Cameron Esposito’s Queery. He has spoken all over the world on sex, disability and what it means to be Queer and Disabled.-Guest Links:Website:https://www.andrewgurza.com/Podcast:Disability After DarkInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/andrewgurza6Twitter:https://twitter.com/andrewgurza6Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/disabilityafterdark-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Apr 5, 2024 • 20min
Ep 33 - Body Counts, Anniversaries & Podcast Bros
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam reflect on their nine year wedding anniversary, the emergence of “podcast bros”, the concept of “body counts” and more!www.evolvingloveproject.comInstagram

Mar 28, 2024 • 1h 13min
Ep. 32 - Tyson Yunkaporta on "Right Story, Wrong Story" and Indigenous Approaches to Relationships
In today’s episode we talk with Tyson Yunkaporta. Tyson is an Indigenous scholar who belongs to the Apalech Clan from Far North Queensland. He is the founder of the Indigenous Knowledge Systems Lab at Deakin University in Melbourne, and author of the acclaimed book “Sand Talk – How Indigenous Thinking Can Save The World”, and most recently “Right Story, Wrong Story”. His work focuses on applying Indigenous methods of inquiry to resolve complex issues and explore global crises.Our conversation with Tyson is a wide ranging journey and flows in many different directions. We talk about the relationship structures of Indigenous communities, his honest reflections and critiques on his own award- winning books. He also shares personal reflections on his own relations hip structure, age gaps within relationships and power dynamics, and much more.You can buy Tyson’s books at this link below:Right Story, Wrong Storyhttps://www.textpublishing.com.au/books/right-story-wrong-story-adventures-in-indigenous-thinkingSand Talkhttps://www.textpublishing.com.au/books/sand-talk This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Mar 22, 2024 • 10min
Ep. 31 - Is Non-Monogamy "Hard Work"?
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss whether non-monogamy is “hard work”, open phone policies and secrative monogamous behaviours, Abbey accepting a role starring opposite Theo James, Liam touring with Emily Ratajkowski, and much more!

Mar 15, 2024 • 1h 25min
Ep.30 - Kyron Kruger - Fetish Wear, Masculinity & Authenticity
Kyron Kruger is a fetish model and kinkster. He is known widely for his creative work that explores latex fetish wear, and he is seen collaborating with Australia’s best photographers & creatives.In this episode we talk to Kyron about how he found his way into the world of BDSM, his ability to honour his fetishes alongside his masculinity, assumed compatibilities, the future of the sex industry and AI, the economics of being a creative in the sex industry, and so much more.You can find Kyron’s work here:Instagram: @King_kruger_ This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Mar 7, 2024 • 18min
Ep. 29 - Jealous Rage
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode Abbey and Liam discuss the story featured in Abbey’s most recent article. To unlock full access to this episode you can upgrade at the link at the bottom of this post.

Mar 1, 2024 • 1h 18min
Ep.28 - Elle McAlpine - "Poor Things" Intimacy Coordinator on Consent, Boundaries & Holding Space
In this episode we talk with Intimacy Coordinator Elle McAlpine.Elle is fresh from working on the 11 x Oscar-nominated film “Poor Things” which stars Emma Stone in the leading role. We discuss how she became an intimacy coordinator, all things consent, boundaries and holding space for actors, cast and crew on Movie and Television sets.You can find out more about Elle’s work at:https://www.ekintimacy.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Feb 23, 2024 • 21min
Ep. 27 - You Asked...We Answered
This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium episode we asked the Evolving Love Project community to submit anonymous questions to Instagram.Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com

Feb 16, 2024 • 1h 16min
Ep. 26 - Dr. Christopher Ryan on "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized to Death" and Non-Monogamy
In this episode we talk with New York Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Christopher Ryan.We discuss "Sex at Dawn", "Civilized To Death", psychedelics, the current state of Polyamorous discourse, Ryan's appearance on Australian TV & being invited to the 100th Birthday of the creator of LSD.Guest Links:https://chrisryan.substack.com/https://chrisryanphd.com/Premium Episodes:To gain access to the Premium feed and full episodes, you can subscribe at:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Contact Us:To get in contact, reach out to us at evolvingloveproject@gmail.com This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe