

Evolving Love
Evolving Love Project
Conversations exploring Non-Monogamy, Conscious Relationships & Sexuality. Join Abbey and her husband Liam, as they share from their own lived experiences, and chat with special guests. evolvingloveproject.substack.com
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Jan 27, 2025 • 54min
Naked on Brooklyn Bridge
In today’s episode we discuss one of our favourite New York experiences… a photoshoot that was impossible to forget… on the Brooklyn Bridge with Kenn Lichtenwalter. Kenn Lichtenwalter Links:InstagramBSkyDive Deeper This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Jan 20, 2025 • 1h 15min
Cuckolding & Chastity with Shy
Today we're diving headfirst into the taboo world of cuckolding with Shy.We'll be exploring the psychological and emotional complexities of this relationship dynamic through an intimate interview with Shy - a ‘cuckoldress” who is in a 24-7 cuckolding dynamic.Get ready for an honest and insightful conversation that may challenge your understanding of love, sexuality, and the boundaries of relationships.Shy is also a passionate relationship and intimacy coach specialising in open relating and kink.In this episode we cover what cuckolding actually is, common misconceptions, the ideal cuck, chastity cages, female led relationships, communication and kink, common mistakes in cuckolding, how to share deep fantasies and kinks with your partner, the distinctions between hotwifing and cuckolding, and so much more…Guest Links:WebsiteInstagramEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Jan 13, 2025 • 57min
Things Are Hard Right Now
In today’s episode we share about what has been happening for us recently. It is a different kind of episode, with a tone that is different to our usual discussions. This conversation covers how we approach conflict, the importance of space, external stresses on the relationship, communication styles and so much more*.*We also manage to pivot the conversation at the end away from the heaviness and turn our attention to our obsession with F1 & Drive to Survive.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Jan 6, 2025 • 1h 6min
Body Image, Self-Acceptance & Non-Monogamy with Kate Gordon
Today we are joined by Kate Gordon. Kate competed at the Cross Fit Games in 2015 and 2019 and has since become a certified Cross fit trainer and certified nutrition coach. In 2021 she started CFK nutrition and also hosts two podcasts - Gone Rogue which explores her journey in non-monogamy, and the CFK nutrition podcast.In this discussion we discuss the impact of Kate’s Crossfit journey on body image, shifting perspectives on fitness and aesthetics, influences of external relationships on body perception, finding lifestyle compatibilities with future partners, body acceptance at sex parties, social media, self-acceptance and so much more.Kates’ Links:WebsiteAthlete InstagramNutrition InstagramEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Jan 1, 2025 • 1h 8min
Best of 2024
We handpicked some of our 2024 guest highlights to round out a big year for 2024 and Evolving Love.This episode features Andrew Gurza, Chris Ryan , Alex Alberto , Molly Roden Winter , Lina Dune , Multiamory, Dr. Constantine R. Campbell, Casey Calvert, Kyron Kruger & Normalizing Non-Monogamy.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | SubstackGuest Links:Andrew GurzaChris RyanAlex AlbertoMolly Roden WinterLina DuneMultiamoryDr. Constantine R CampbellCasey CalvertKyron KrugerNormalizing Non-Monogamy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Dec 21, 2024 • 1h 1min
We Are Not Coaches
In today’s episode we discuss why we are not interested in becoming coach, the importance of good therapists and coaches, and we test Gemini AI to see if it could replace the role of a traditional coach.During the episode we refer to three wonderful coaches and therapists:Kathy LabriolaDr Joli HamiltonDr. Marie ThouinLina Dune a.k.a AskASubEvolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Dec 7, 2024 • 1h 1min
Dear Margaret
Abbey and Liam discuss a podcast listener (Margaret), who has been leaving comments throughout the year on Spotify. We discuss the comments, her critiques, hypothesise a “theory of mind” and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Nov 26, 2024 • 49min
Our Recent Getaway
In today’s episode we discuss our recent getaway to Sydney for the Australian Podcast awards, metamour gifts, chance encounters and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Nov 16, 2024 • 48min
When Liam Broke My Trust
In todays episode we respond to a listener question asking us:“Have you ever broken each others trust? How did you navigate it?”Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | Substack This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Nov 9, 2024 • 57min
Polycule Practicalities with Laura Boyle
Laura Boyle is an educator, podcast host of “Ready for Polyamory” and author of the book “Monogamy in this Economy?” You may have seen this book recently featured in the New York Times Article titled “6 Books About Non-Monogamy, Recommended By Therapists”.In today’s conversation we discuss common polyamorous living arrangements, Conflict resolution tools, blended families, the rental market for polyamorous people, parent teacher interviews when polyamorous, de-escalating relationships and so much more.Evolving Love Links:Website | Instagram | SubstackGuest Links:Website | Instagram | TikTok This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe