This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn this weeks Premium Episode, Abbey reflects on her recent Salsa dancing night, drawing parallels between the world of dance and non-monogamy. Dancer Daddies, power dynamics, vulnerability, a dance with a lover and so much more…Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

Alex Alberto is a queer and polyamorous storyteller and educator. They grew up in Montreal and currently live in upstate New York. Alex is the author of the genre-blending memoir, Entwined: Essays on Polyamory and Creating Home. They co-founded Quilted Press, a collective of independent authors who reshape traditional narratives of love, family, and identity. You can connect with Alex on Instagram and TikTok (@thatalexalberto), and learn more about their work at alexalberto.com In today’s discussion with Alex we talk intimately about Alex’s journey with identity, their upstate NY polycule, weaponizing metamour relationships, their journey into parenthood Alex’s unique and special bond with their partner Don, the concept of feeling “de-countried”, growing up French speaking and how it impacted their gender identity and the powerful Thanksgiving story of coming out as polyamorous to Don’s parents.Guest Links:InstagramWebsiteTik TokEvolving Love Links:26th July 2024: Evolving Love Live at National Film & Sound Archives of AustraliaWebsite This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays episode we answer your “Would You Rather” questions that were submitted on Instagram.* “Be monogamous for the rest of your life or have to eat a bowl of worms every morning?”* “You never date someone again…. or Liam never date someone again?”* “Date someone with a hot body or a great personality?”Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

Casey Calvert is an award-winning Adult director, writer, performer, and content creator.  An eleven-year veteran of the industry, she won Director of the Year and Best Screenplay at the 2023 XBiz Awards - the "Golden Globes" of porn.In today’s wide ranging conversation we discuss Casey’s own journey in non-monogamy and polyamory, porn stars’ approaches to monogamy, parasocial relationships, dating as a famous adult actress, the recent shifts in her marriage and the process of disentanglement, directing realistic porn, controversy with the title “Primary”, expressing eroticism in her personal life and so much more.Guest Links:Casey's InstagramCasey’s TwitterCasey’s WebsiteGuest Links:Evolving Love Project Links:Live Podcasthttps://www.evolvingloveproject.com/https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays Premium “Ask Us Anything” episode we answer your questions and discuss Hillsong, “The Idea of You” and so much more.Questions include:* “Does it ever get tiring making the ENM thing your whole world?”* “Do you actively look for people to connect with, or does it happen organically?”* “How do you communicate you want more than friends with benefits?”* “How do you and Liam get back into dating other people, after you have had a break from it?Evolving Love Project Website

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comIn todays episode we take the Love Languages Test LIVE on the podcast and discuss the questions and our answers in real time…To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!Show Links:Take The Love Languages Test!Evolving Love Podcast Live Tickets

To celebrate the re-release of her cult classic Queer novel, “WOMEN”, we are overjoyed to be joined by writer Chloe Caldwell.Named one of Cosmopolitan UK's Best Erotic Novels of All Time, WOMEN intimately explores one young writer’s whirlwind and whiplash affair as she falls deeply in love with a woman for the first time.In WOMEN, Caldwell lays bare the fierce obsession of addictive love, and asks the question: what, if anything, can who we love teach us about who we are?Chloe’s essays have appeared in the New York Times, Vice, New York Magazine’s “The Cut”, Nylon and more.Originally published by Short Flight/Long Drive books in 2015 on a limited print run, WOMEN quickly found a wide and dedicated audience. Emily Ratajkowski and Lena Dunham have cited it as one of their favorite books of all time, and Cheryl Strayed has called the book “magic.”In this discussion we discuss Chloes own experiences with non-monogamy, Chloe navigating her Queer identity, pre menstrual dysphoric disorder, power play and dynamics and so much more…Guest Links:Website:https://www.chloesimonne.com/Buy WOMEN-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/Extra Resources:Menstruality Podcast ft. Chloe Caldwellhttps://www.redschool.net/podcast/32Couplets: A Love Storyhttps://www.maggiemillner.com/ This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

Dr. Eli Sheff is one of a handful of global academic experts on polyamory, and the foremost academic expert on children in polyamorous families. Specializing in diversity and underserved populations, Sheff is an expert witness, relationship consultant, public speaker, and author.Her first book,  The Polyamorists Next Door: Inside Multiple-Partner Relationships and Families was released in 2014 and details Sheff’s findings from the first 15 years of the Polyamorous Families Study. Stories from the Polycule: Real Life in Polyamorous Families (2015), Sheff’s second book, is an edited collection of stories from people in polyamorous families. Sheff’s third book, When Someone you Love is Polyamorous: Understanding Poly People and Relationships, is a brief introduction to polyamory using empirical evidence to start a conversation.Dr. Sheff has given scores of radio, podcast, print, and television interviews with sources from The New York Times,  ABC News and CNN to The Atlantic, New York and Shape magazines.You can find Dr. Sheff’s work here:Guest Links:Website:https://elisabethsheff.com/-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/ This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe

This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.comOn today’s Premium Video episode, Abbey and Liam reflect on Ashley Madison, the ethics of cheating, what constitutes infidelity in a non-monogamous relationship & more.Premium Episodes are now Video Episodes!!!To Unlock the Full Video episode, become a Premium subscriber!

To celebrate the Australian release of her New York Time’s Best Selling Memoir “More”, we are joined once again by Molly Roden Winter. With her today, we also have the fortune of being able to speak with her husband Stewart!Since Molly joined us on Episode 23 of the Evolving Love podcast, she has quickly become a leading voice in non-monogamous discourse. “More” and Molly have appeared everywhere from the New York Times, Time Magazine, Savage Lovecast, The Washington Post, Wall St Journal and The Guardian.As you will hear from this candid and at times raucous interview, Molly and Stewart have a remarkable connection and ability to deeply interrogate the way they move through the world.We discuss parenting, the mixed receptions to the book, privilege, humour & sex, and Stewart and Liam’s upcoming polyamorous music soundtrack collab.Guest Links:https://www.mollyrodenwinter.com/Buy “More” in Australia here:Buy “More” Worldwide here:-Evolving Love Project Links:Website:https://www.evolvingloveproject.com/Podcast & Writing:https://evolvingloveproject.substack.com/-Episode Cover Photo by Caroll Taveras for Telegraph Magazinehttps://www.carolltaveras.com/ This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit evolvingloveproject.substack.com/subscribe