Order of Man

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into the week’s top questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:20) What does it mean to be a man? (38:40) What is the difference between “performative” masculinity and being a good man? (45:20) Once I have paid off all debt except the mortgage, should I start putting more money toward my mortgage or invest that money elsewhere? (1:00:20) Do you think Oppositional Defiance Disorder is an appropriate diagnosis for my child or is she just being disrespectful and defiant? (1:10:00) How do you lead your wife who seems perfectly content with how things are and has no desire to improve herself?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Terry Crews joins me on the podcast today to talk about some very powerful topics focused on developing masculine power. I believe that you’d all agree that Terry embodies what we typically think of when we think about masculinity. But today we dive deep into his true sense of power, his struggles with past anger issues and pornography, how to not only be physically strong but build mental and emotional strength, avoiding being baited in uncontrollable situations, what it means to “misuse masculinity,” and overcoming shame, insecurity, and fear.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Forgiveness is needed for true reconciliation You can either have success or revenge True power is the ability to control your own emotions Using motivation as revenge leaves scars You have to challenge your own thinking Hollywood doesn’t care if you lose your family Loving your family vs. controlling them Traits of masculinity Toxic masculinity is really just abuse of power Masculinity is about being a servant and providing Intimacy is more satisfying than just sex Being the “bigger man” vs. being a little bitch Power is exercising restraint An effective movement must start with reconciliation We are more alike than different   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about femininity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Women have to be more like men in order to be strong women Femininity is weak Femininity is just about bringing children into the world Femininity is no longer needed in society   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos respond to your top questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:30) As a social person, I often allow conversations to pull me off task. What are your strategies for staying focused on the task at hand to ensure my “to-do” list gets completed? (15:40) I just got engaged yesterday! Tell us your proposal stories. (23:00) What is your answer when someone says this movement, Order of Man, is all about toxic masculinity and nothing about family? (30:30) How do I handle people who enjoy pointing out my flaws? (33:00) Where does a man draw the line between sharing relevant personal mental health struggles and oversharing?  (41:40) Do you have any advice for a husband and wife who are simultaneously starting their dream jobs and also maintaining our relationship with both ourselves and our four kids? (50:40) What are some strategies to introduce the concept of ownership to people in my organization who desire to succeed, but are having trouble embracing this concept?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

You guys have heard me talk a lot about our role as protectors, providers, and presiders not only within the walls of our home but in our communities as well. Not only do we have the opportunity to give back to those in need, we have a moral obligation to do so, especially if we have the means to do it. My guest today is a man who is doing exactly that. His name is Victor Fontanez (you may know him as Vic Blends) and he has made a name for himself through offering practical life advice for the young men he gives haircuts to as he serves his community in Atlanta. Vic is 22 years old but you’re going to hear so much incredible wisdom come from him. I was honestly taken back by how much this man inspired me to do and be better myself.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Don’t take your blessings for granted Do what you believe in and everything else will handle itself What to look for in people in your inner circle Always practice gratitude Differentiating between your plan and God’s plan Find your part and play it well Learning lessons in the barber shop Education and reform in the prison system The importance of having conversations to change perspective Being able to communicate your message effectively   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the FOUR great lies about masculinity that pervade society today.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Masculinity is toxic Masculinity is virtuous Masculinity is earned Masculinity is no longer needed in society   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen are back together to respond to the week’s top questions from the Iron Council.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (8:00) What is your battle plan this quarter? (18:30) How do you go about finding the right coach/mentor? (26:00) Do you have any advice for someone transitioning to a new position at work focused on training and development? (44:00) How do you choose or prioritize your goals and objectives? (49:40) How do you communicate to your spouse that you want to be more successful in your life and business, when your wife expresses that she is perfectly content with how things are? (57:40) How do I take full ownership of something when it’s not clear that it was ever supposed to be my responsibility?     Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

We live in the single greatest time in the history of the human species but that’s not to say we’re without our fair share of challenges and struggles. It seems to me that the path we’re on is leading us to a path of destruction and the pace of our demise seems to be rapidly increasing. My guest, Dave Rubin, would agree and, although we don’t see eye to eye on everything we discuss today, I think it will serve as a reminder that we can – and should – learn to have these crucial conversations before it’s too late. Today, we talk about the seeming futility of trying create positive change in the world, what “wokeism” is and how to root it out of our society, big tech and how it’s working in overdrive to subjugate us, capitalism vs. socialism, homosexuality and transgenderism, and, ultimately, how to thrive in our ever-increasing woke dystopia.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   We had largely “solved” racism before bad policy brought it back The “woke” revolution is eating its own Humor is a great release valve The strength of liberalism is also it’s weakness Having feminine characteristics doesn’t make someone a woman We all live outside of our ideals and values at times How do you reason with unreasonable people? Go to school to learn things that matter   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler outlines a FIVE-part framework for developing the “X-factor” in your own life.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   You have to know what you want Start formulating a plan Execute the plan Don’t deviate from the path Analyze your performance and repeat the process   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler is flying solo and tackling the top questions of the week.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (2:10) Why aren’t friends great choices to hold you accountable? (6:10) How do you deal with wanting more for your kids than they want for themselves? (10:00) Do you have any advice for a happy divorce? (13:30) How do you establish healthy boundaries with a narcissistic mother? (18:10) Can you try to get Tim Ballard on the podcast? (19:30) How do you guide sons through difficult conversations about sex? (26:10) What do you do on days when you don’t feel the motivation to perform at a high level? (28:30) What would you suggest doing to gain better access to men of purpose who are worthy of being role models? (33:20) When do you apply discipline vs. compassion and empathy as a single parent? (38:20) What does the average “just getting by” man waste the most money on that the successful man does not? (40:55) What steps could I take to help my wife in the event that I die suddenly?   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.