

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Mar 17, 2023 • 26min
What it Means to Be a Real Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the definition of a “real man” and discusses the 3 key areas where men should focus. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Definition of a man: A real man is an adult male who who is on the path to effectively protect, provide, and preside. To Protect: A man protects his family, his possessions, and his community Be on the path to health Be on the path to defend To Provide: Provide for basic needs, but also to provide emotional support and be emotionally stable Be on the path to building skill sets Keep emotions in check To Preside: Have a vision and communicate that vision Lead by example Get back on the path when you falter The IRON COUNCIL is now open for a limited time. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 15, 2023 • 1h 2min
Solve Your Own Problems, Sobriety and Ego, and Controlling the Controllables | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (12:10) How has your relationship with your own ego changed in sobriety? (17:10) Have you ever thought of creating a similar program to the IC for businesses to implement to increase employee satisfaction and productivity? (26:15) When someone close to you is being negatively impacted by their own ego, what’s the best way to get them back on track? (33:20) Have either one of you got dizzy after a intense day of BJJ? (37:40) I see building trust and rapport like a house of cards. When one simple slip seems to crash the whole thing. How do you get the will to start building that house again rather than walking away from the table? (44:18) What are your daily non-negotiables and how do you handle being flexible with them when outside circumstances are impacting your ability to execute on them? (48:20) How would you recommend someone keep moving forward in all areas of their life when one quadrant of life has seasons which require 90 - 100% of their attention? (51:50) What is the most powerful shift in mindset you guys have experienced/embraced in your lives and how has that played out in your lives? Can you offer recommendations on how others could implement these mindsets? (56:50) What is your take on 3 banks folding in the past week? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto The Iron Council is now OPEN, for a limited time: For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

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Mar 14, 2023 • 1h 3min
DEWAYNE NOEL | Timeless Wisdom in Disturbing Times
It’s been said that there isn’t a whole lot of new information under the sun, just new ways of saying it. I don’t know if that’s necessarily true but one thing I know is that my guest today shares some of the most practical and life-transforming messages out there. And, he does it in a way that cuts through the noise and nonsense of modern times. His name is Dewayne Noel and he is the founder of Dry Creek Wrangler School. Today, Dewayne and I talk about the power of genuineness, building yourself into a person you like, not hate, why the “right to be wrong” is so powerful and liberating, dealing with insecurities, operating in reality, the concept of “cowboy energy,” and other timeless wisdom in disturbing times. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why a simple, timeless message resonates so strongly Sometimes you have to change how you are sharing the message in order to be effective Change starts with us We have to get to the point where we like ourselves Cost/benefit analysis of relationships in our life Loyalty is not a one-way street Staying loyal to the “idea” of a relationship can be destructive The market determines what is valuable Rodeo energy vs. cowboy energy Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 10, 2023 • 22min
Emotional Intelligence 101 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 strategies that we can use, as men, to recognize and processes our emotions in a healthy and effective way. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Don’t stifle your emotions Understand your emotions by externalizing them (e.g., journalling, talking to people) Express yourself in a healthy way Allow your emotions to serve you Ask how your emotions are serving you Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 8, 2023 • 1h 12min
Gratitude vs. Grinding, Caring for a Sick Spouse, and Dealing with a Narcissistic Father | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man, and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (7:50) Can you provide some time on how to deal with my wife getting too invested in her friends? (14:20) How do you make a judgment call between stability and gratitude for what you have vs the concern you're settling or playing small? (25:40) Do you have any advice for someone who has become a caretaker for their spouse due to cancer? (33:10) What would you personally recommend in dealing with a narcissist father? (40:40) I am torn between having a “man to man” conversation with my new pastor or biting my tongue, out of respect, after he said some insulting things about our church and congregation, where my family has deep roots. (46:00) How do you deal with fighting and picking and bickering between your kids? (55:50) What is/was your stance with the whole mask thing in churches during Covid? (1:04:20) How do we tackle cognitive dissonance? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 7, 2023 • 1h 13min
CHRIS ELISE | Is The American Dream Alive or Dead?
Is the American Dream alive or dead? It’s a question that begs asking but more importantly, how can we each, individually carve out our own piece of it if possible? These are all questions my guest today, Chris Elise, and I address. Chris was born in France and has since become an American citizen following his dreams as a young boy. Today, we talk about channeling anger for productive outcomes, how to develop a personal renewal of faith, why you need to be cautious of betraying yourself, not getting yourself stuck in a bubble, investing in brotherhood, and pursuing your version of the American Dream. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: What is the American Dream? The media pushing a racist narrative across the country We are more similar than different Being involved in change, but not getting caught up in it Walking away from on argument Finding healthy outlets The importance and power of brotherhood Transitioning from photographing the NBA to the PBR Differences between NBA and PBR culture Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 3, 2023 • 23min
Mind Your Tongue | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares 5 tips to help you be more intentional with the words you use to become a more effective communicator. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Know what our intent is with our language (and know our audience) Think about the information you consume Slow down your pace Take inventory of your previous communication Expand your vocabulary Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Mar 1, 2023 • 1h 23min
Finding the Third Alternative, When to Pop the Question, and Establishing Work 2 Home Boundaries | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (5:00) I am currently working in the family business but I do not enjoy it or see a future there. Should I switch industries for an uncertain job and possibly have to move in with my wife’s parents, or should I look for another company and start something on the side where I can use my skills? (11:00) What questions should you ask yourself to determine if you are ready to propose to your girlfriend and move toward marriage? (16:40) How important is it for you to have a partner that challenges you? (25:00) How to encourage our wives to work on their mindset around anxiety and depression without giving the impression that we think there is something wrong with them? (41:00) How do you assess how you are performing in certain areas that are hard to measure? (49:20) I was looking for a woman who is career oriented but found a great girl who has different goals. Am I sacrificing my standard by going out with this girl or is it ok to compromise on this? (54:20) Do you have any book recommendations for a season of transition that isn’t to “heavy” reading? (58:00) Any recommendations for setting boundaries when working from home and trying to be an engaged and involved father? (1:01:40) Is there a happy medium for sacrificing current comfort for future satisfaction? (1:07:20) How should I deal with rumors in the workplace that aren’t true? Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Feb 28, 2023 • 1h 10min
IAN WENDT | Become a Man of Conviction
As men, we’re hardwired to look for problems we see with the environment around us. Unfortunately, too few of us are willing to take the next step and do something about the issues we identify. My guest today is not that kind of man. His name is Ian Wendt and he’s taking a stand against some of the most polarizing social issues of the day. Today, Ian and I talk about overcoming the opinions of others, when to compromise and when not to, how excellence is the ultimate rebellion, how a man ought to show up in his community, and, ultimately, becoming a man of conviction. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Why talk about cultural and societal issues Who is trying to divide us? The ultimate agenda of evil is to take away freedom I’ll respect your freedom, you respect mine Have we compromised too much? Many people feel the same way but are afraid to speak up Our abundance is our challenge Don’t give people power over you How men can influence culture Stack little wins every day Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Feb 24, 2023 • 19min
Treat Your Family Like Your Business | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men tend to have an easier time focusing on success in business rather than family and how we can implement some of these “business” systems into our family routine. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Mission statement Meetings Goals Dedicated time Delegation and roles Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.