

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Aug 30, 2024 • 45min
Depression-Proof Your Life | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
The podcast tackles the rising issue of depression among men, discussing the feelings of sadness and loneliness stemming from life challenges. It distinguishes between temporary emotional struggles and clinical depression. Eight practical strategies for enhancing emotional well-being are shared, including the importance of physical activity and social connections. There's a strong emphasis on embracing hobbies and avoiding isolation, while also recognizing the need for professional help when necessary. The conversation encourages productivity as a means to overcome adversity.

Aug 28, 2024 • 1h 10min
Overcoming Insecurities and Preparing for Parenthood | ASK ME ANYTHING
The conversation dives into preparing for parenthood, emphasizing flexibility and communication. Personal insecurities are explored, shedding light on fears of abandonment and the journey to self-awareness. They share insights on starting a family, discussing the benefits of early parenting. Tips on navigating work-life balance and fostering relationship intimacy are highlighted, alongside proactive strategies for managing sexuality and emotional expression. Practical advice for teaching children essential skills rounds out this insightful discussion.

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Aug 27, 2024 • 1h 15min
JAKE HAMILTON | Every Man Must Be Initiated
Jake Hamilton, an advocate for male initiation and ancient traditions, delves into the crisis of masculinity. He discusses the importance of accountability and mentorship in redefining manhood. The conversation touches on harnessing sexual desires productively, understanding personal trauma, and navigating the complexities of self-worth. Hamilton emphasizes the significance of legacy and the lasting impact it has on future generations. He also explores emotional sensitivity and deeper connections in relationships, urging men to embrace their potential.

Aug 23, 2024 • 25min
How a Man Avoids the "Friendzone"| FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler, a speaker and author dedicated to helping men build real connections, discusses the fine line between being nice and being kind. He explains how overzealous niceness can lead to manipulation instead of attraction. Ryan shares practical strategies for stating intentions clearly and understanding what women genuinely desire in partners. He also offers insights for those feeling stuck in the friend zone or distant in their marriages, emphasizing the importance of confidence, assertiveness, and personal boundaries to foster authentic intimacy.

Aug 21, 2024 • 1h 4min
Ask, Act, Achieve | ASK ME ANYTHING
In a candid discussion, Ryan and Duane dive into the Olympics' meritocracy debate, questioning balance between inclusivity and rigorous standards. They urge men to engage in political discourse and community involvement, emphasizing the need for a strong work ethic and purpose. The conversation touches on the evolution of masculinity, honesty in relationships, and the importance of assertive communication. They inspire listeners to trust their instincts and act on righteous impulses, framing discipline as the path to freedom.

Aug 20, 2024 • 1h 12min
JOHN DAILEY | Becoming a Tough, Rugged B*stard
John Dailey, a retired Marine and former leader of the elite Marine Raiders, shares his insights on what it truly means to be a tough, rugged individual. He discusses the future of combat and the challenges of recruitment in modern military forces. Delving into his experiences, he highlights the significance of mental toughness and addresses issues of moral injury and PTSD. Dailey also reflects on the evolution of military operations post-9/11 and the development of leadership protocols that shape today's elite units.

Aug 16, 2024 • 23min
Passivity is the Antithesis to Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler, a thought leader on masculinity, dives into the pivotal role of assertiveness in redefining what it means to be a man. He argues that passivity is harming men and society alike, pushing for a blend of courage and respect in all interactions. Michler shares actionable steps to foster assertive behavior while maintaining ethical boundaries. His insights on upholding moral responsibility and embracing accountability challenge listeners to confront injustices and grow through personal sacrifice, ultimately promoting a more fulfilling life.

Aug 14, 2024 • 59min
Self-Talk and Supporting Spouses | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into a thought-provoking discussion on masculinity and personal responsibility. Explore the power of positive self-talk and its impact on relationships. Discover strategies for parenting young men amid conflicting societal messages. Unpack evolving ideas around leadership that blend emotional and spiritual support. Learn how to effectively support your partner through challenges. Plus, get insights into the journey from corporate life to entrepreneurship and the importance of ownership in family dynamics.

Aug 13, 2024 • 50min
RICK TRIMMER | Get Out of Your Comfort Zone | Recorded in Africa
Rick Trimmer, an adventurous spirit settled in South Africa, shares his insights on embracing the unknown and stepping outside one's comfort zone. He recounts thrilling experiences from hunting to spontaneous travels, emphasizing the joy of relinquishing control. The discussion highlights the value of deepening relationships, tackling fears, and making financial decisions that align with one's passions. Rick also offers a glimpse into a new travel venture aimed at inspiring others to explore the world and create unforgettable memories.

Aug 9, 2024 • 32min
8 Masculine Political Positions | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Dive into a discussion on masculine political positions as the election season approaches. Explore the significance of 'peace through strength' and the value of national sovereignty. The conversation touches on the Second Amendment, emphasizing personal responsibility and family unity. There's a critical look at capitalism's role in community upliftment and the importance of individual accountability. This insightful analysis encourages meaningful political discourse, urging listeners to reflect on their beliefs and responsibilities.