

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Nov 26, 2024 • 1h 12min
SATHIYA SAM | How Porn Destroys Masculinity
Sathya Sam, an expert helping men tackle pornography addiction, shares his journey and insights. He discusses the negative impact of porn on masculinity and intimacy, emphasizing the difference between shame and guilt in promoting change. Sathya explains why traditional tracking methods falter and highlights the importance of community support for recovery. He also explores the role of technology in shaping modern relationships and stresses the need for open conversations about pornography, particularly in parenting.

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Nov 22, 2024 • 34min
Why So Mad? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Anger can be a powerful tool for growth if approached correctly. The discussion dives into why anger arises and provides strategies for managing it effectively. Discover the importance of bridging the integrity gap and aligning actions with values. Learn how to transform negative emotions into positive influence, and the significance of maintaining emotional control in relationships. The focus on internal accountability and realistic expectations paves the way for lasting personal and professional impact.

Nov 20, 2024 • 1h 1min
Being the Mean Dad, Networking for Work, and Dealing with Difficult Conversations | ASK ME ANYTHING
This discussion dives into the art of navigating tough conversations, particularly regarding finances and family dynamics. Learn how meaningful commitments can enhance self-esteem and strengthen relationships. Parenting is likened to gardening, showcasing the need for kids to face challenges for their growth. Strategies for building professional networks and balancing ambitions in relationships are also explored. Discover tips for balancing discipline with emotional investment to enrich family life.

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Nov 19, 2024 • 1h 11min
What’s The Deal With Men’s Mental Health? With John Delony
In this discussion, mental health expert John Delony sheds light on the pressing issues surrounding men's mental health today. He explores the paradox of toughness and empathy, emphasizing the need for emotional resilience in parenting. Delony highlights the significance of father-son bonding through activities like hunting. The conversation delves into redefining masculinity in modern relationships, the impact of shared experiences, and the importance of vulnerability. Ultimately, it fosters a message of connection and authenticity as essential for men's well-being.

Nov 15, 2024 • 24min
Lessons Learned in Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Recognizing relationship red flags early can be vital for saving a marriage. Minor issues, if ignored, can escalate into major challenges. The importance of proactive communication and personal growth is emphasized. Strategies for navigating divorce gracefully focus on personal responsibility and self-care, steering clear of spite. Inspiring insights on male empowerment and collective growth offer hope and resilience for a thriving future.

Nov 13, 2024 • 1h 7min
External Validation, Liberals and Conservatives, and the Void in Leadership | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this engaging discussion, the hosts delve into the meticulous preparation required for bow hunting, using personal stories to highlight the importance of seizing opportunities. They explore recent political shifts, examining leadership and the need for understanding diverse perspectives. The balance between external validation and self-worth is analyzed, emphasizing self-reliance in personal growth. Additionally, they address the complexities of navigating political ideologies and encourage critical thinking over blind allegiance.

Nov 12, 2024 • 1h 4min
RICKSON GRACIE | The Art and Science of Invisible Jiu-Jitsu
Rickson Gracie, a ninth-degree red belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and bestselling author, dives into the art of 'invisible jiu-jitsu'—the lessons from combat that apply to life. He discusses fear management, transforming obstacles into motivation, and the importance of purpose. Gracie also shares insights about maintaining identity despite challenges like Parkinson's disease, emphasizing mental strategies and intuition in decision-making and relationships. His powerful anecdotes inspire resilience and personal growth beyond the mat.

Nov 8, 2024 • 33min
"Toxic Masculinity” Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Traditional masculinity is often misunderstood, but it doesn’t have to be toxic. The discussion challenges harmful stereotypes and highlights the positive aspects of masculine traits. Concepts like 'righteous aggression' advocate for assertive action for good, while stoicism is reframed as emotional resilience rather than suppression. Real masculinity is about protection, provision, and leadership. Male role models are encouraged to redefine strength through positive actions and foster a culture that celebrates authentic masculinity.

Nov 6, 2024 • 1h 1min
Non-Traditional Men’s Therapy, Leaders Getting Out of The Way, and Why Consequences Matter | ASK ME ANYTHING
The discussion kicks off with Hickson Gracie's monumental influence on MMA and the strategic choices of the Gracie family. The hosts advocate for alternative therapies like jiu-jitsu and hiking for men’s mental health. They dive into effective parenting techniques that build resilience and respectful behavior in children. Leadership is also a key focus, emphasizing empowerment and collaboration over mere compliance. The talk wraps up with insights on personal sovereignty and the importance of critical thinking in belief systems.

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Nov 5, 2024 • 1h 8min
ROBIN DREEKE | Forging Unbreakable Alliances
Robin Dreeke, a former FBI behavioral analyst and spy recruiter, dives into the art of forging unbreakable alliances. He emphasizes the importance of non-judgmental curiosity in communication and reveals four keys to effective conversations. Dreeke shares insights on quickly analyzing behaviors and navigating controversial discussions with empathy. He contrasts the characteristics of public figures, explores the dynamics of trust in relationships, and highlights the detrimental impact of a victim mentality. This dialogue is a masterclass in building meaningful connections.