

"Come On, Man" Podcast
Paul B.
Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.
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Oct 2, 2023 • 1h 20min
Colt Strongcastle vs Red Pill™
Colt Strongcastle is my guest this week, and he has some serious problems with Red Pill™ or the manosphere as a whole. There's a lot of sensationalism, and kayfabe that is more about entertainment than it is about helping men. In some cases, there's just plain old incorrect information. Colt wants to see some changes, and I told him he could come on the podcast and talk about it.
Follow Colt on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colt_strongcastle/
Follow Colt on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ColtStrongcastl
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
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Sep 29, 2023 • 40min
How To Pick A GOOD Photographer For Dating App Profiles (LIVE Replay)
I recommend that guys invest in having a professional photography shoot for their dating app profiles. It's an investment in yourself, and your success in dating and relationships.
I DO NOT recommend flying to another state to get the pictures done. If a coach tells you to fly somewhere for a photo shoot, fire them. You can find someone local at much more reasonable rates.
Not all photographers are qualified to do photo shoots for dating app profiles, at least not for men. There are some key qualities you want to look for. On top of that. there's ways you can get an idea of what kind of results you can expect WITHOUT spending any money upfront. Let's talk about it today.
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
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Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 27, 2023 • 48min
Men MUST Take The Lead With Birth Control (LIVE Replay)
I don't care how caring and trustworthy a woman is, or appears to be. I don't care how hard up for seggs you are that you throw all caution out the window, and can't stay level headed because you're afraid you might not get any again for some time. Once your sperm leaves your body, you CEASE to have a say in what happens with the child.
You don't get a choice if she has an abortion or not. You don't get a choice if she puts the child up for adoption or not. You don't get a choice whether you pay or not. You don't get a choice if you get to be in the child's life or not. The decision is 100% up to the mother at that point, and the state will enforce her will on you.
Because of this, your fate is in your hands before and during seggs. You cannot trust her when she says she's on the pill. You can't even trust her is she says she has an IUD. You can't even trust her to take the morning after pill.
Let's talk about it today.
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 25, 2023 • 1h 33min
Work On Your Inner Game w/ Dale Valor
Joining me on the podcast is a dating coach with the Modern Flirting crew, he just came out with a new book on Inner game. What is Inner Game? You can think of it as working on a having a healthy relationship WITH YOURSELF!
Get a free chapter of Dale's book here: https://freegiftfromdale.com/
Get Dale's Book Here: https://www.amazon.com/Inner-Game-Handle-Dating-Relationship-ebook/dp/B0CDQY7B9V
Follow Dale on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dalevalormodernflirting/
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 22, 2023 • 48min
Dating Is Still Possible Amidst The #MeToo Movement (LIVE Replay)
With recent revelations about Danny Masterson getting sentenced to life in prison due to gRape, and Russell Brand's similar allegations, a lot of guys point to these cases as excuses why they can't talk to women at all. Talking to women hasn't changed though, and so as long as you're socially calibrated and have legitimate charm and game, you really have nothing to fear from the #MeToo movement. Let's talk about it today!
WATCH FALL FIGHT CLUB ON PPV: http://fight.comeonmanpod.com
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 20, 2023 • 52min
What Does It Mean To Have Frame? (LIVE Replay)
I was writing in my chapter on long-term relationships this past Sunday for my upcoming book, and I got to a section on maintaining frame. The best definition of frame I've ever heard was in Rian Stone's book, "Praxeology: Volume 1 | Frame." I believe Rian got the idea of frame being a tetrahedron from an old MRP post by a guy named strategos_autokrator in his post titled "The Elements of Frame 0 - Introduction" available here: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/the-elements-of-frame-0-introduction.202103
Let's talk about it today!
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 18, 2023 • 1h 18min
Healing Subconscious Trauma's With Ryan Fowler
Joining me on the podcast is a master at what many in the space call inner game, in fact his YouTube channel is similarly called Inner Masculine. It’s Ryan Fowler, a hypnotist and mindset coach who recently did some work with Jon MLD in his Masculine Empowerment Network program. Besides doing 1:1 sessions with clients, he also has a new course available called S.O.S. or Subconscious Optimization System.
Get his ebook here: https://www.innermasculine.com/free-ebook
Check out his course here: https://sso.teachable.com/secure/1375084/checkout/4839658/subconscious-optimization-system
Find Ryan online here: https://www.innermasculine.com/
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 15, 2023 • 45min
Is ANYTHING Built To Last Anymore? (LIVE Replay)
I spent the last week traveling around England with Nurse Chick. We spent a good portion of the time visiting my 3% brothers over there, and seeing some of the historical sites. It was boggling my mind how old some of the castles, churches and homes were. Some of them were built as far back as 1066 AD!
When I got home to the US, I noticed a brick retaining wall being built on my drive home, and thought about how that wall would probably be torn down in 20-30 years to make room for something new or different. Everything is disposable these days, including relationships it seems. I figured it would be an interesting topic for discussion.
THIS EPISODE WILL BE LIVE (For real this time)
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
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Sep 13, 2023 • 54min
13 Toxic Dread Game Ideas From Roissy (LIVE Replay)
Roissy, also known as Chateau Heartiste was one of the original figures in the manosphere. Someone compiled his old blog posts into a couple of books, and one of them, "Heartiste On Game" has a short chapter on dread game. I'm all for playing a little passive dread game in a relationship. It keeps your girl's competition anxiety active, keeps her on her toes, and most importantly keeps her engaged and focused on the relationship. The recommendations in this chapter go a little too far in my opinion though, but I want to know what you think! Let's talk about it today!
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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Sep 11, 2023 • 1h 7min
Learn How To Properly Vet Women For Long Term Commitment w/ Dr. Shawn T. Smith
Joining me today is the legendary and very humble Dr. Shawn T. Smith, author of books such as The Tactical Guide to Women, The Woman’s Guide To How Men Think, The Practical Guide to Men, Surviving Aggressive People and the User’s Guide to the Human Mind. I recently finished the Tactical Guide To Women, and thought it was phenomenal, and decided to reach out to Shawn on Twitter to set this up.
Follow Shawn on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ironshrink
Shawn's website: https://ironshrink.com/
// COURSES //
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
The Conversation Conversion Blueprint Dating App Course By Performance Potential: https://www.performancepotential.co/a/2147499861/s5RamP7C - Coupon Code: COMEONMAN30
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com
The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy
Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip
Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
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