

"Come On, Man" Podcast
Paul B.
Men’s Relationship Coach | I help men master masculinity and overcome breakups, divorce, rejection, and dead bedroom frustration. Learn to fix sexless marriages, revive lost intimacy, and rebuild lasting attraction using red pill strategies, alpha male confidence, emotional resilience, and leadership skills. Conquer nice guy syndrome, approach anxiety, and betatization. Get expert dating and texting advice, screen for compatibility, get your ex back, move on after heartbreak, and attract high-value women. Transform pain into power.
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May 29, 2024 • 1h 3min
Unlock the Secret to Irresistible Attraction: Be The Boy in The Sandbox | The Book of Pook Series
Unlock the secrets of attraction and relationships from a unique male perspective. Discover how beauty standards and gender roles shape social dynamics between men and women. Learn practical dating advice and tips to improve your love life by focusing on personality, confidence, charm, humor, and intelligence. Understand how self-improvement can boost your self-esteem and lead to relationship success. Embrace a youthful mindset and reconnect with your childhood innocence to enhance your emotional connection and flirting skills. This video explores the psychology behind attraction techniques and why maintaining a Don Juan-like attitude can transform your dating experiences. Join us as we delve into the emotional triggers that drive both men and women, and reveal the keys to creating lasting, fulfilling relationships.
This is part four in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapters 22 and 23, "Looks or personality?" and "Fountain Of Youth"
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// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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May 27, 2024 • 1h 9min
Unleash Your Inner Alpha: 10 Secrets to Keep Your Marriage Exciting and Passionate
Discover the secrets to keeping your marriage or long-term relationship (LTR) exciting with this guide for the Alpha Male! Learn how to maintain attraction and prevent complacency with our top relationship tips and marriage advice. Explore creative bedroom ideas and spontaneous sex tips, such as sex outside the bedroom and surprise vacations. Understand the dynamics of dominant men and submissive women to keep your wife or girlfriend interested. Unveil the marriage secrets of successful couples, from romance in marriage to playful relationship games and effective text game strategies. Take charge by setting goals and leading your family, ensuring your wife/girlfriend stays happy and engaged. With this comprehensive guide, you’ll master fun relationship tips, romantic gestures, and essential sex tips to spice up your marriage and embody the alpha relationships philosophy.
Based on this post from the Red Pill Archive: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/10-ways-to-keep-your-wife-on-her-toes.201120
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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May 24, 2024 • 1h 24min
How To Keep A Woman Loyal And Loving in A Long-Term Relationship
Discover the secrets to maintaining attraction in a long-term relationship with expert relationship advice on seduction and mate selection. Learn how to use kino escalation and build H.E.A.T. to keep your woman’s genuine desire alive. Break free from the feminist social order and understand why you need to initiate seggs more often. Embrace your masculine man energy and pass fitness tests to keep your relationship thriving. Improve communication in relationships with strategic innuendo, touching, and teasing to showcase your dominance and leadership.
Avoid the pitfalls of complacency by planning exciting date nights and maintaining respect in relationships without issuing ultimatums. Understand the difference between validation seeking and proper boundary setting to handle nagging and other negative behaviors. Master the art of withdrawing attention and giving your woman space in relationships to create healthy tension.
I will be going over the long-term relationship chapter in my book, "Everything I Wish I Knew When I Was 18" available on Amazon and Audible at http://books.comeonmanpod.com
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
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Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

May 22, 2024 • 1h 13min
Break Free from Analysis Paralysis: Talk to Women Effortlessly and Build Genuine Connections
Struggling with analysis paralysis when it comes to talking to women? This video will help you overcome social anxiety and build genuine connections with effective communication tips. Learn how to approach women naturally, improve your conversation skills, and gain the confidence to engage in authentic interactions without relying on rigid scripts or pickup artist myths. Discover the secrets to talking to women effortlessly and make real connections today.
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD
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Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

May 20, 2024 • 57min
Do You Have To Be A Jerk To Women? | The Book of Pook Series
Unlock the power of masculinity and transform your life with confidence! Learn how to embrace competition, overcome challenges, and improve physical fitness for success. Discover the balance between being a 'Nice Guy' and a 'Jerk,' and take responsibility for personal development. Find empowerment through authenticity and a positive mindset shift. Join us on this journey of self-transformation and embrace your true potential today!
This is part four in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapter 21, "The Secret Of The Jerk."
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
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May 17, 2024 • 1h 21min
Unlock the Secret to Irresistible First Dates: Confidence, Eye Contact, & Conversation Mastery
Are you looking to improve your dating game and make a lasting impression on your first date? In this video, we dive into essential dating advice, focusing on the power of eye contact, confident body language, and building rapport through effective communication. Learn how to attract women with confidence, master the art of conversation skills, and avoid common dating mistakes. Discover the secrets of the 3% man, amused mastery, and verbal seduction. Hear real-life dating stories, including Paul's first date with "Marine Corps Chick", and find out how to handle rapid-fire questions with ease. Whether you're looking for a long-term girlfriend or just want to improve your social skills, these first date tips will help you create positive first impressions and have fun dates. Tune in for expert relationship advice and practical tips to overcome nervousness and make your dates memorable.
Follow Taylor on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100005336897072
Subscribe to Taylor on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@holy_athletics
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
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May 15, 2024 • 1h 3min
Unlocking Peak Health: My Daily Supplement Routine for Men Over 35
Curious about what vitamins and supplements you should be taking for better health and increased testosterone? In this video, I break down my daily supplement routine, discussing everything from protein and joint supplements to fat burners and libido support. Whether you're over 35, 40, or 50, discover the best supplements for men that can help with muscle growth, heart health, and even male enhancement. This guide includes vitamins, natural testosterone boosters, and multivitamins to keep you feeling strong and energized.
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
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May 13, 2024 • 1h 14min
Marriage Isn't Success: Why 75% of Long-Term Relationships Are Unhappy
Is marriage really the ultimate measure of success in relationships? With divorce rates hovering around 50% and only 25% of long-term marriages claiming true happiness, it's time to challenge the assumptions around marriage and dating. This video dives into marriage myths, dating after divorce, and the stigma men face when dating over 35. We explore why "picking a better wife" isn't as simple as it sounds and how the dynamics in a marriage can drastically change over time. Join us for a raw and honest discussion about what it means to find happiness in dating & relationships.
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
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May 10, 2024 • 1h 1min
Women Like Men Who Are Rough Around The Edges | The Book of Pook Series
Perfection doesn't equal success in dating! Discover why 'Perfect is Boring' and learn how embracing your imperfections and humanizing yourself can lead to authentic connections and relationship success. Find out how to stand out from the 'perfect players' and create genuine attraction.
This is part three in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapter 20, "Perfect is boring!"
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
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May 9, 2024 • 1h 5min
EMERGENCY LIVE STREAM: Unveiling the Seduction Secrets of Spies w/ Paul Benjamin
Explore the intriguing world of espionage as we delve into the secretive techniques used by spies and secret agents to seduce their way into obtaining crucial information. From psychological manipulation to covert operations, discover how these experts in espionage flip enemy agents and political figures into confidential informants. This video reveals the spy seduction tactics that have made headlines in intelligence operations, offering an inside look at how secret agent training includes powerful skills in psychological seduction and manipulation. Whether you're fascinated by spycraft or interested in learning about espionage secrets, this video uncovers the seduction techniques for spies and undercover agents that fuel the covert world of intelligence gathering.
Men can use these techniques to improve their odds with dating and relationship. You won't want to miss this!
Follow Paul Benjamin: https://www.youtube.com/@ApexMindset1
Take his 'Sexpionage Course': https://apexmindset.org/sexpionage-offer1?am_id=paul969


