"Come On, Man" Podcast

Today we explore a nuanced perspective on the role of communication in relationships. Contrary to popular belief, communication is NOT the key to a successful relationship, though it undeniably has its place. Instead, we delve into Paul Benjamin's groundbreaking "LUCA Model" for relationship communication: Listen, Understand, Communicate, Action. This model offers a comprehensive approach tailored specifically for men seeking to communicate effectively with their wives or girlfriends. By embracing this simple method, viewers will discover how active listening, genuine understanding, clear communication, and decisive action collectively contribute to fostering deeper connections and resolving conflicts within their relationships. Follow Paul's YouTube channel's - https://www.youtube.com/@ApexMindset1 & https://www.youtube.com/@apexinnergame Paul's website for coaching and course - apexmindset.net // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Unlock the secrets to captivating conversation on a first date! Learn how to master the art of saying less and asking the right questions to keep her engaged and talking. Discover the power of letting her do 80% of the talking while you maintain an air of mystery, proven by science to be irresistible to women. I'll provide you with a list of 10 dynamic first date questions guaranteed to spark meaningful conversation and build rapport effortlessly. Don't miss out on this essential guide to becoming the ultimate conversationalist and leaving her wanting more. Tune in now and level up your dating game! // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Joining me on the podcast anonymously today is one of my 3% brothers who we’re just going to call Bob today… I wanted to call him something cool like Apollo or Xavier, but he was insistent on Bob. Anyway, I reached out to my 3% brothers for some guests and my man here volunteered as tribute. He wants to talk about deciphering the teachings of Corey Wayne and perhaps talk about what Corey recommends vs what worked better for him. You can chat with Bob in the 3% Brotherhood (After you've read the book): https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Unlock your potential as a high value man by mastering the art of keeping secrets. Learn the power of silence, self-validation, and stealthy action to cultivate an aura of mystery and effortless success. From concealing your goals and accomplishments to refraining from defending, explaining, excusing, or rationalizing your actions, embrace the wisdom of secrecy. Whether it's journaling your journey, leveraging failures for growth, or quietly executing acts of virtue, become a beacon of silent strength. Discover the transformative magic of staying quiet and letting your results speak volumes. This stream is based on this post from the Married Red Pill by BarracudaRP: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/can-you-keep-a-secret-a-primer-on-power.300903 // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

This is part fifteen in my live series based on the classic book, by Wallace D. Wattles called, "The Science of Getting Rich" first published in 1910. I will be doing streams going through the key concepts in each chapter. In this chapter, Wattles emphasizes how professionals like physicians, teachers, clergy, and even wage-earners can attain wealth and success by aligning their thoughts and actions with the principles of abundance. By maintaining a clear vision of success, practicing faith and purpose, and radiating a sense of advancement, individuals can attract opportunities for growth and prosperity, regardless of their current circumstances. Wattles asserts that getting rich is an exact science, achievable through the consistent application of specific principles outlined in the book, ensuring a life of abundance for those who diligently follow its teachings. // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Returning to the podcast is my good friend Rudy A from Rude Advice podcast. My man had some exciting news recently, and for people following him for a long time, it might have been shocking news. He's is getting married to his Love Witch, and not too long ago he put out a video saying he wasn’t sure if he would ever do it again. I invited him on to talk about some things men must do before getting married again to ensure they don't run into the same mistakes this time around. Follow Rudy online: https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_ // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Today we will exploring strategies to enhance mental toughness. We will delve into practical techniques such as goal setting, resilience development, self-discipline, facing fears, mental and physical training, positive thinking, coping strategies, embracing discomfort, seeking challenges, and learning from role models. If you're a man seeking to strengthen your mental fortitude, this video provides valuable insights and actionable tips to help you navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience. // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

We will delve into the raw reality behind the infamous phrase "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." It's a devastating blow that many men have faced in their relationships, leaving them bewildered and grasping for answers. But what does it really mean when a woman utters these words? We will explore the harsh truth behind this sentiment. Contrary to hopeful interpretations, this phrase typically signals the end of a relationship. In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable reality that women's hypergamy often dictates their romantic affections. Simply put, women tend to love one man at a time, and if that love isn't directed towards you, the relationship is likely doomed. We'll dissect common misconceptions, such as the belief that more effort or changes in behavior can salvage the relationship. Instead, we confront the sobering possibility that the woman in question may already be emotionally invested elsewhere or actively seeking a new man. // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com Everhard Academy: https://learn.erikeverhard.com/bundles/everhard-academy?ref=7b3c4d The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8 Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387 // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

It's been a while since I've seen someone do a stream about this, and there are always new guys coming into the space. I thought it would be a good time to bring things back to basics and go over these "9 Iron Rules of Tomassi" that Rollo came up with back in 2011 as basic guidelines for men to follow when navigating the sexual market place. A lot of these, when followed, will answer a lot of the relationship questions you have. Here's the list: Iron Rule of Tomassi #1 Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are. Iron Rule of Tomassi # 2 NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth. Iron Rule of Tomassi #6 Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her. Iron Rule of Tomassi #9 Never Self-Deprecate under any circumstance. This is a Kiss of Death that you self-initiate and is the antithesis of the Prize Mentality. Once you’ve accepted yourself and presented yourself as a “complete douche” there’s no going back to confidence with a woman. Never appeal to a woman’s sympathies. Her sympathies are given by her own volition, never when they are begged for – women despise the obligation of sympathy. Nothing kills arousal like pity. Even if you don’t seriously consider yourself pathetic, it never serves your best interest to paint yourself as pathetic. Self-Depreciation is a misguided tool for the AFC, and not something that would even occur to an Alpha. // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com Everhard Academy: https://learn.erikeverhard.com/bundles/everhard-academy?ref=7b3c4d The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8 Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387 // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast

Explore the impact of solipsism in women and analyze the recent Grace Chariss golf incident. Understand how it shapes feminine perception, logic and reality. In the realm of intersexual dynamics, it's imperative to acknowledge women's inherent solipsism, a concept deeply rooted in their psyche. Women navigate the world through a lens primarily focused on their own experiences and perceptions, often relegating external realities to a secondary position. This solipsistic approach colors their interactions, shaping their understanding of logic and truth. When engaging with women, it's crucial to recognize that their interpretation of events and ideas is heavily influenced by their subjective worldview, wherein their own thoughts and emotions reign supreme. Understanding and navigating this solipsistic tendency is essential for any man seeking to comprehend and effectively communicate with the feminine mind. // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com Everhard Academy: https://learn.erikeverhard.com/bundles/everhard-academy?ref=7b3c4d The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8 Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387 // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://gumroad.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks Get free shipping from Duke Cannon on orders over $25: http://duke.comeonmanpod.com The CURE for male pattern baldness (Skull Shaver): https://bit.ly/428k9Xy Donate to the show: https://streamelements.com/se-847333/tip Join the 3% Brotherhood: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch on YouTube - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast