

"Come On, Man" Podcast
Paul B.
A podcast for fellow students of the game. Men who want to get better with women, and for men who just want to be better in general. We take teachings from multiple sources, and have experts on regularly to teach you how to achieve everything you want in life!
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May 13, 2024 • 1h 14min
Marriage Isn't Success: Why 75% of Long-Term Relationships Are Unhappy
Is marriage really the ultimate measure of success in relationships? With divorce rates hovering around 50% and only 25% of long-term marriages claiming true happiness, it's time to challenge the assumptions around marriage and dating. This video dives into marriage myths, dating after divorce, and the stigma men face when dating over 35. We explore why "picking a better wife" isn't as simple as it sounds and how the dynamics in a marriage can drastically change over time. Join us for a raw and honest discussion about what it means to find happiness in dating & relationships.
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// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
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// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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May 10, 2024 • 1h 1min
Women Like Men Who Are Rough Around The Edges | The Book of Pook Series
Perfection doesn't equal success in dating! Discover why 'Perfect is Boring' and learn how embracing your imperfections and humanizing yourself can lead to authentic connections and relationship success. Find out how to stand out from the 'perfect players' and create genuine attraction.
This is part three in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapter 20, "Perfect is boring!"
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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May 9, 2024 • 1h 5min
EMERGENCY LIVE STREAM: Unveiling the Seduction Secrets of Spies w/ Paul Benjamin
Explore the intriguing world of espionage as we delve into the secretive techniques used by spies and secret agents to seduce their way into obtaining crucial information. From psychological manipulation to covert operations, discover how these experts in espionage flip enemy agents and political figures into confidential informants. This video reveals the spy seduction tactics that have made headlines in intelligence operations, offering an inside look at how secret agent training includes powerful skills in psychological seduction and manipulation. Whether you're fascinated by spycraft or interested in learning about espionage secrets, this video uncovers the seduction techniques for spies and undercover agents that fuel the covert world of intelligence gathering.
Men can use these techniques to improve their odds with dating and relationship. You won't want to miss this!
Follow Paul Benjamin: https://www.youtube.com/@ApexMindset1
Take his 'Sexpionage Course': https://apexmindset.org/sexpionage-offer1?am_id=paul969

May 8, 2024 • 59min
The Male Orbiter's Guide: How To Turn A Girl "Friend" into A Girlfriend
Stuck in the friend zone? Explore the controversial 'Beta Male Orbiter' strategy and learn how some men attempt to turn platonic friendships into romantic or sexual relationships. In this video, we'll dive into attraction techniques, seduction tips, and jealousy tactics. Find out what it takes to navigate male-female dynamics and understand the emotional manipulation often involved. Discover key strategies for building attraction, creating sexual tension, and eventually escaping the friend zone. Whether you're seeking relationship advice or curious about dating dynamics, this video offers insights into getting a girl to like you and transforming friendship into romance.
Based on Roissy's article: https://theredarchive.com/blog/Heartiste/the-undercover-orbiter-strategy.10560
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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May 6, 2024 • 1h 11min
Spotting a Gold Digger: She's Going To Use You for Your Resources
In this video, we delve into the dynamics of relationships where women may be seeking a "Beta Provider." Learn about the common traits and behaviors of "Carousel Riders," typically attractive women who engage in a cycle of casual relationships in their youth and then seek a stable, resourceful partner later in life. Explore the "Red Pill" perspective on identifying these traits and discover how these relationships can affect both partners. If you've ever wondered about the signs of manipulation or how to avoid toxic relationships, this video is for you. We offer relationship advice and tips on navigating these complex dynamics to avoid the pitfalls of being a beta provider.
This episode is based on this post from the Red Pill archive: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/signs-she-might-be-a-former-carousel-rider-looking.199332
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
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May 3, 2024 • 1h
Is She Cheating? The 10 Signs That Could Reveal Her Secret!
Are you worried that your wife might be cheating? This video explores the top signs of infidelity and provides crucial insights into detecting a cheating spouse. Learn about relationship red flags, common behavioral changes, and how to navigate the emotional turmoil of marital problems. Our experts share advice on how to confront cheating and rebuild trust. Whether you're suspecting infidelity or just looking for relationship advice, this video will help you understand and address this complex issue.
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
// SOCIAL MEDIA //
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May 1, 2024 • 56min
What EVERY skinny guy should know | The Book of Pook Series
Explore the journey from skinny to muscular, focusing on the impact of muscle gain on dating and attraction dynamics. Discover how testosterone plays a crucial role in physical attraction and how increasing muscle mass can transform social interactions. Learn about the real-life experiences of a skinny guy who became muscular, the reactions from women, and the benefits and drawbacks of body transformation. Get valuable fitness tips, insights into bodybuilding, and advice on navigating the social dynamics of physical appearance and dating. Join us as we uncover the power of muscle building in the dating world.
This is part three in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapter 19, "What every skinny guy should know…"
// BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER //
Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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Apr 29, 2024 • 1h 13min
Vegas Ladies & Men of Action w/ Michael Sartain
Joining me on the podcast for the first time is a man who is very well known in the space, we also have some mutual acquaintances. He’s a former Airforce officer, and now hosts the Michael Sartain Podcast and co-hosts Access Vegas with Rollo Tomassi. He’s also a men’s performance coach. It’s Michael Sartain!
Follow Michael on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelsartain/
Check out MOA: https://m.moamentoring.com/3QmAIwa
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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Apr 26, 2024 • 1h 13min
Unlock Your Inner Don Juan: 15 Life-Changing Lessons for Every Man | The Book of Pook Series
In this empowering video, discover 15 invaluable life lessons every young man should know, distilled into actionable maxims for personal growth and relationship success. From embracing authenticity and confidence to prioritizing self-improvement and happiness, these lessons provide essential guidance for navigating the complexities of modern life. Learn how to avoid common dating pitfalls, build emotional resilience, and overcome the fear of rejection. Gain insights into understanding female psychology, maintaining emotional independence, and embracing risk for personal growth. Whether you're seeking dating advice, personal growth strategies, or wisdom for achieving greatness, these maxims offer a roadmap to success in life and relationships.
This is part two in my series based on "The Book of Pook" which is available for free at https://bookofpook.com and is also available on audiobook narrated by Jack Napier here: https://jacknapier368.gumroad.com/l/nuipz. This episode will be based on chapters 3-18, which are all about 15 lessons for a young man. Instead of reading each of these chapters, I will go through the 15 lessons which are really maxims to understand, and will apply more actionable information about those maxims.
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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Apr 24, 2024 • 55min
She's NOT your PARTNER - She's your WIFE or GIRLFRIEND
In this live stream, we delve into the intricate history, etymology and significance of the word "partner" in the context of heterosexual relationships. Originating from the LGBT community's advocacy for domestic partnerships since 1979, the term gained traction in the mid-2000s among heterosexual couples in an attempt to be politically correct. However, with the legalization of same-sex marriage nationwide starting in 2012, the use of "partner" for heterosexual couples becomes questionable. We explore how this adoption has sparked controversy within the LGBT community, with concerns over appropriation and the dilution of a term deeply rooted in their struggle for recognition. Join us as we navigate the complexities of language evolution, social justice, and cultural sensitivity in the ongoing discourse surrounding relationship terminology and inclusivity.
Words matter. On top of all the above, saying "partner" has an implication that there is equality in your heterosexual relationship. That is not biologically accurate, nor is it accurate when looking at it from an evolutionary psychology perspective. Women operate in the SMP with hypergamy, and by it's very nature, demands that she try to select a mate who she perceives as above her in some way. There is no equality in the SMP. Get over it.
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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