

"Come On, Man" Podcast
Paul B.
A podcast for fellow students of the game. Men who want to get better with women, and for men who just want to be better in general. We take teachings from multiple sources, and have experts on regularly to teach you how to achieve everything you want in life!
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Apr 3, 2024 • 59min
11 Rationalizations Men Use To Gaslight Themselves Into Thinking They Need To Get Married
In this eye-opening video, we delve into the controversial topic of marriage and relationships, challenging societal norms and exploring the allure of the single life. Discover why more and more people are opting out of traditional commitments and embracing a lifestyle of freedom and adventure. From debunking myths about marriage to dissecting the pressures of settling down, we uncover the truth behind societal expectations and personal fulfillment. Join us as we navigate through the complexities of love, commitment, and autonomy in a world obsessed with conformity. If you're seeking insights into modern relationships, this video is a must-watch!
This episode is based on this article by Roissy: https://theredarchive.com/blog/Heartiste/the-lie-of-locking-her-in.11437
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No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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Apr 1, 2024 • 45min
Unlocking Infinite Wealth | The Science of Getting Rich Series
This is part sixteen and is the final episode in my live series based on the classic book, by Wallace D. Wattles called, "The Science of Getting Rich" first published in 1910. I will be doing streams going through the key concepts in each chapter.
Discover the secrets to unlimited wealth and success in these last two transformative chapters! Learn how to harness the power of gratitude, visualization, and positive thinking to manifest your deepest desires. Explore the shift from a competitive mindset to a creative one, unlocking abundance and prosperity in your life. Dive into the science of getting rich and uncover the exact methods to achieve financial freedom. From mindset mastery to actionable steps, this video offers invaluable insights for those seeking wealth and fulfillment. Join us as we delve into topics like wealth creation, law of attraction, abundance mindset, success principles, gratitude practice, and more.
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Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 29, 2024 • 1h 24min
How To Communicate With Your Wife or Girlfriend Effectively Using The LUCA Model by Paul Benjamin
Today we explore a nuanced perspective on the role of communication in relationships. Contrary to popular belief, communication is NOT the key to a successful relationship, though it undeniably has its place. Instead, we delve into Paul Benjamin's groundbreaking "LUCA Model" for relationship communication: Listen, Understand, Communicate, Action. This model offers a comprehensive approach tailored specifically for men seeking to communicate effectively with their wives or girlfriends. By embracing this simple method, viewers will discover how active listening, genuine understanding, clear communication, and decisive action collectively contribute to fostering deeper connections and resolving conflicts within their relationships.
Follow Paul's YouTube channel's - https://www.youtube.com/@ApexMindset1 &
https://www.youtube.com/@apexinnergame
Paul's website for coaching and course - apexmindset.net
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 27, 2024 • 46min
10 Questions That Build Rapport With Women on A First Date
Unlock the secrets to captivating conversation on a first date! Learn how to master the art of saying less and asking the right questions to keep her engaged and talking. Discover the power of letting her do 80% of the talking while you maintain an air of mystery, proven by science to be irresistible to women. I'll provide you with a list of 10 dynamic first date questions guaranteed to spark meaningful conversation and build rapport effortlessly. Don't miss out on this essential guide to becoming the ultimate conversationalist and leaving her wanting more. Tune in now and level up your dating game!
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 25, 2024 • 1h 28min
Deciphering the Teachings of Corey Wayne w/ 3% Brother "Bob"
Joining me on the podcast anonymously today is one of my 3% brothers who we’re just going to call Bob today… I wanted to call him something cool like Apollo or Xavier, but he was insistent on Bob. Anyway, I reached out to my 3% brothers for some guests and my man here volunteered as tribute. He wants to talk about deciphering the teachings of Corey Wayne and perhaps talk about what Corey recommends vs what worked better for him.
You can chat with Bob in the 3% Brotherhood (After you've read the book): https://www.facebook.com/groups/3percentbrotherhood
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com
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Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks
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Mar 22, 2024 • 1h 3min
The power of STFU in your relationship
Unlock your potential as a high value man by mastering the art of keeping secrets. Learn the power of silence, self-validation, and stealthy action to cultivate an aura of mystery and effortless success. From concealing your goals and accomplishments to refraining from defending, explaining, excusing, or rationalizing your actions, embrace the wisdom of secrecy. Whether it's journaling your journey, leveraging failures for growth, or quietly executing acts of virtue, become a beacon of silent strength. Discover the transformative magic of staying quiet and letting your results speak volumes.
This stream is based on this post from the Married Red Pill by BarracudaRP: https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/can-you-keep-a-secret-a-primer-on-power.300903
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 20, 2024 • 1h 5min
The Advancing Man | The Science of Getting Rich Series
This is part fifteen in my live series based on the classic book, by Wallace D. Wattles called, "The Science of Getting Rich" first published in 1910. I will be doing streams going through the key concepts in each chapter.
In this chapter, Wattles emphasizes how professionals like physicians, teachers, clergy, and even wage-earners can attain wealth and success by aligning their thoughts and actions with the principles of abundance. By maintaining a clear vision of success, practicing faith and purpose, and radiating a sense of advancement, individuals can attract opportunities for growth and prosperity, regardless of their current circumstances. Wattles asserts that getting rich is an exact science, achievable through the consistent application of specific principles outlined in the book, ensuring a life of abundance for those who diligently follow its teachings.
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 18, 2024 • 1h 10min
10 Things Men Need To Work On Before Getting Married Again w/ Rudy A
Returning to the podcast is my good friend Rudy A from Rude Advice podcast. My man had some exciting news recently, and for people following him for a long time, it might have been shocking news. He's is getting married to his Love Witch, and not too long ago he put out a video saying he wasn’t sure if he would ever do it again. I invited him on to talk about some things men must do before getting married again to ensure they don't run into the same mistakes this time around.
Follow Rudy online: https://linktr.ee/rudy_a_
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
// COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES //
Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 15, 2024 • 57min
10 Ways Men Can Build Mental Toughness (Tips for Resilience)
Today we will exploring strategies to enhance mental toughness. We will delve into practical techniques such as goal setting, resilience development, self-discipline, facing fears, mental and physical training, positive thinking, coping strategies, embracing discomfort, seeking challenges, and learning from role models. If you're a man seeking to strengthen your mental fortitude, this video provides valuable insights and actionable tips to help you navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience.
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Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
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No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
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Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
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Mar 13, 2024 • 53min
When She Says "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You" - What Does It Mean? (LIVE Replay)
We will delve into the raw reality behind the infamous phrase "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." It's a devastating blow that many men have faced in their relationships, leaving them bewildered and grasping for answers. But what does it really mean when a woman utters these words?
We will explore the harsh truth behind this sentiment. Contrary to hopeful interpretations, this phrase typically signals the end of a relationship. In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable reality that women's hypergamy often dictates their romantic affections. Simply put, women tend to love one man at a time, and if that love isn't directed towards you, the relationship is likely doomed.
We'll dissect common misconceptions, such as the belief that more effort or changes in behavior can salvage the relationship. Instead, we confront the sobering possibility that the woman in question may already be emotionally invested elsewhere or actively seeking a new man.
// BOOK //
Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47
Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books
// COURSES //
No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com
Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com
Everhard Academy: https://learn.erikeverhard.com/bundles/everhard-academy?ref=7b3c4d
The Clarey School of Economic Philosophy: https://theclareyschoolofeconomicphilosophy.teachable.com/?affcode=636918_r5uujdh8
Jon Fitch's Practical Self-Defense: https://gumroad.com/a/780330707/ubexvq
RP Thor's Courses, Coaching and Group Membership: https://gumroad.com/a/505970387
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Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com
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