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Does A Wife Have a Duty to Have "Relations" With Her Husband? Conjugal Duties

Join Malcolm and Simone Collins for a frank and thought-provoking discussion on conjugal duties in marriage. This video explores the complex dynamics of sexual obligations, consent, and relationship expectations in both traditional and modern contexts. The Collins couple offers their unique perspective on marital contracts, sexual satisfaction, and the often-overlooked aspects of successful long-term partnerships.Key points covered:* The concept of conjugal duties in different relationship models* The importance of clear expectations and relationship contracts* Sexual satisfaction as a mutual responsibility* The role of consent and enthusiasm in marital intimacy* Age gap relationships and power dynamics* Challenges faced by high-status individuals in maintaining fulfilling relationships* The pitfalls of polyamory for average couples* The importance of appreciation and recognition in long-term partnershipsWhether you're married, considering marriage, or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this video offers valuable insights into the complexities of modern partnerships.Simone Collins: [00:00:00] Hello everyone! We're so glad to have you back at Basecamp. Today we are going to talk about conjugal duties. That is to say, how much should each spouse be obligated to do sexy times with the other spouse? And is that important? Well Yes, andMalcolm Collins: consent in marriages and everything like that.Would you like to know more?Malcolm Collins: The reason I wanted to do this particular topic is because when Fundy snark channels, when the channels that make fun of conservatives have their pearl clutching, Oh, I cannot believe they said that moments. One of the most classic is around a wife's conjugal duties. The idea that a wife either would not have the ability to decline consent in a marriage That a wife would have a duty to have sexual relations with her husband.Simone Collins: Yeah, something along those lines.Malcolm Collins: We hadn't [00:01:00] actually talked that much about this as a concept before, Simone, and this is just something that hasn't really come up with us. Because I've never understood I, yeah, I guess it, it didn't occur to me that you would ever say no, if I wanted to do something.So I am wondering how do you, like what, Yeah. What are your thoughts on this topic? Do women have a conjugal duty to their husbands?Simone Collins: My, and I'm sure you can predict this. My response is it all depends on what the relationship is founded on. If the relationship is founded on sex, then absolutely if everything is predicated on that, if you know that your partner married you because they wanted to have sex frequently or because they found you sexually attracted and wanted to have sex with you regularly and are marrying you for sexual access.That is part of your obligation. A really common stereotype of relationships. So it's common as a stereotype because it's true. Is it really high wealth, high value men may marry a trophy wife who is much younger perhaps [00:02:00] not as professionally or financially successful, but very sexy for that sexual access.And in that case, it would be insane for the young woman who ends up getting married. To act as though it is anything, but absolutely her conjugal duty to satisfy this has this partner sexually, as long as they're married, no matter how she feels like she should behave, as long as he is keeping up his end of the bargain, which typically is, I'm going to, you will live in luxury, you will get jewelry, you will get clothing, you will go on fancy trips, have the best food, whatever.So I think that the whole point is, and this is why relationship contracts are so important. Partners need to know what is being exchanged before they get married, because it is 100 percent your obligation. In fact, I'm so vehement on this that let's say I'm a young, beautiful woman and an older man marries me because they want to regularly have sex with a young, beautiful woman.Let's say I'm courting Leonardo DiCaprio, and I'm, it's all right. I [00:03:00] think that it is my duty toMalcolm Collins: put the Leonardo DiCaprio chart on the screen here. What age is it when they turnSimone Collins: 24 or something like that? It's quite it's mid twenties. And along those lines, I think he's a really great example here.I would put in our relationship contract if I were to marry Leonardo DiCaprio as that he would have every right to sleep with whatever woman he chooses. And I may even offer to help source those women after I age out of his attractive age range, if I want to maintain that relationship. In other words, if I want to continue To be his wife and continue to have access to presumably his wealth, his connections, whatever, like the, whatever he brings to the table that I would then need to continue to provide that item of value.I heardMalcolm Collins: what she just said differently, because it's funny you're taking an incredibly. Some people would say conservatist extremist physician and immediately flipping to a progressive extremist. This is what pragmatism looks like.Simone Collins: Pragmatism is unmoored from political [00:04:00] bias.Malcolm Collins: So you are saying that, okay, if you are a woman who's coming into a relationship without bringing much to the table in terms of, your own career or really anything else, like you would see in a typical trophy wife,Baby: right?InMalcolm Collins: that case, Just undisputedly every time conjugal duty is obviously what's expected because that's what's being traded for.Baby: Yes.Malcolm Collins: But in the case of Leonardo DiCaprio, you pointed something out. You pointed out an individual, and we will say that Leonardo DiCaprio has a very strong preference for women between a certain age range.Exactly. Now, regardless of how discussing you as an individual find that or we as society may find that you're just basically throwing that out the window. You're basically being, look, I am like a restaurant server girl and somehow I got Leonardo DiCaprio, fabulously wealthy, famous person to marry me.I'm going to be happy with that, but I also see this trend in his past dating life.Which is he always leaves people at X age. So how can [00:05:00] I create a deal with him where being in a relationship with me is still something that is on the aggregate desirable to him, even when sexual relations with me are no longer desirable?Simone Collins: Because I think we, what you have to do is actually parse out the thing of value that the person wants in a relationship. And the thing of value in this case is sexual access to a female under, we'll say 24 years old. And so if you are no longer a female under 24 years old, you're gonna have to figure out how to either end the relationship in an amicable way, so there has to be like a really good prenup.It's okay when I turn 24, here's, we get the divorce, and then I get this much money.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Yeah. You would need a really strong prenup. If you were going into it this way, just like literally plan for it.Simone Collins: Like we have a birthday party, that's an equal divorce party. The lawyer's already paid for, all these things, or you have to have a contingency plan.I want to add though, that there's another part to this that I think is really important that shows up a ton in the funding commitmentsMalcolm Collins: to sex. But I also want to hear what you think of age gap relationships before you go into [00:06:00] this. A lot of people would be like, it's just fundamentally unethical how young the women he's sleeping with are.Simone Collins: Yeah. I don't think that those women are unaware of what's going on. This is not a situation in which they aren't aware of the fact that they're trading their beauty and youth. For power and fame,Malcolm Collins: I would argue, I think you're right. Like at some level, they must understand what's going on.However, I would also say that. They may not realize that essentially he is spending their most desirable years or they are spending their most desirable years on an individual who is going to leave them and they won't be able to attract the same quality partner they will when they're older, just because.Yeah, butSimone Collins: also. So society doesn't tell women that they're spending the most desirable years on university and career without getting married, thereby wasting their ability to secure one of the good males before all the males get taken. SoMalcolm Collins: I, I, sorry, I love this [00:07:00] take. Hold on. Before we go to the thing that the funding community does, your take is age gap relationships are wrong.Not because of coercion. Or power differential, i. e. the reasons progressives think age gap relationships are wrong. Your take is age gaps relationships are wrong because it uses up a girl's best market years without her having full knowledge that she is spending those years. And that's where the unethical but you say that they are not differentially wrong when compared to what all other girls are doing.So you don't complain, but if it was one of our daughters, you likely wouldn't allow them to do that.Simone Collins: It's not that I wouldn't allow them. Our daughters would understand the opportunity cost of that choice. And I think there's something very different from opportunity cost knowledge. And I think what's more commonly implied is that, Oh, these men are so much older and more experienced.They'll win every single argument, but I'm like, excuse me, who do you think is more [00:08:00] manipulative? The 54 year old man. Or the 23 year old girl., like the girl is going to school this son of a b***h I, I just don't know what else to say. No,Malcolm Collins: I, I actually love this We have an amazing relationship. And it's very physical. I mean, he still pushes all my buttons. People say, Oh, but he's so much older than you. And you know what? I'm the one having to push him away. , we both have so much in common. We both love soup.And, uh, we love snow peas and, talking and not talking. Uh, we could not talk or talk forever and still find things to not talk about..Malcolm Collins: I would argue that if you just look at this from an outsider's perspective you have [00:09:00] a, young, underemployed 23 year old girl who is dating a billionaire guy or multimillionaire guy.Who is the one that you think is the manipulative one here and here? I'm going to play a clip from best and show of the girl who's dating like the old guy who's about to croak and you know is sleeping with the Her trainer like the she's actually a lesbian and she's just dating him obviously for money Like who do you really yeah, I do love that where they're like, oh it must be the guy who's manipulating the girl like what a silly and misogynistic thought to have YouSimone Collins: Yeah, there's also this concept of financial abuse, right? Where like when a partner, it could be female, but typically it's the men who are accused of this, the male breadwinner or the wealthy male and a trophy wife situation financially abusing his wife because, he has access to all the money.Now, obviously there are some cases of genuine, almost capture, where you know women are totally disempowered. They've no ability to get out of a relationship. But most of these situations are people coming in with full knowledge of the fact that they are going to [00:10:00] be financially dependent on these men.And then they claim that they've been financially abused by their spouses. when You know they could just get a job and it's just that they don't want to get a job. And I'll never forget you and I were when we first acquired a travel management business and airlines still gave away business class flights to agency owners. And We were on a business class flight. We would neverMalcolm Collins: normally pay for a business class flight. No, but this is how we got them.Simone Collins: It was great.And there was this woman who Sitting next to us who had bought two seats. Yeah, because she just wanted this seat next to her empty.Malcolm Collins: Yes. Now, she was then telling us that she was getting divorced from her husband because he was financially abusing her and I was like, I hadn't heard the term before. I was like, what do you mean by that?And he goes she said, I was just wasting money all the time. And I didn't understand the value of money. And now that I'm out of that abusive marriage, I'm free to live my life. And here I am being like, excuse me, you bought two business [00:11:00] class seats next to each other. Yeah. You may have had a point.Simone Collins: Yeah. This is one of those. Am I the a*****e situations?Anyway, we did not say anything there, but anyway I, Most, I feel like a lot of the complaints in that realm as well, in terms of age gap relationships are overblown people getting into them often, and this is something that is very controversial, but quite honestly, there are other options are worse than the suboptimal relationship.I'm not saying it's ideal to be married to someone who you may not have that strong of an emotional connection with, or you may have married. And you don't find them attractive. But they give you a lifestyle that you really want, but then again, maybe your other options are, to be, to be working at a Starbucks and you really hate customer service, or to be doing a door to door sales job.I don't know, inMalcolm Collins: previous episodes is. People talk about the quote unquote abuse that happens in a marriage when they are contrasting that with sitting at [00:12:00] home and having all the money you could ever want in the world instead of the hardship of a day to day office job or, low education job, which is generally going that sets the bar of what is more abusive than that.Pretty high. So let's go down the argument that you were going to make initially, which is something you've noticed in fundy relationships.Simone Collins: Yeah. So what's often talked about and implied within fundy or even just conservative or traditional relationships is this, the husband gets sex whenever he wants it.And the wife off, we'll never say no. And it just happens and that it's often not. Yeah. When the women write about their encounters, their intimate encounters, there's not a lot of foreplay, like whatever, it's, it just happens and then it's over. And then, people like Ben Shapiro have talked about things like female lubrication, not being a real thing according to his wife or something.And one really gets the impression that a lot of these more conservative [00:13:00] religious wives are technically. Not withholding sex, but as far as I'm concerned, they are not offering their part of the bargain because they are starfishing, which is to say they're just lying back and taking it for the country.When I think that if you're if a person marries you male or female, I do not care for sexual pleasure. Your job is to understand what their sexual interests are and to meet those sexual interests satisfactorily. And I will say the one universal thing that seems to be so common across most genres is is enthusiasm from the partner is, Oh my gosh, I love you.I cannot wait to do X to you. I cannot wait for you to do X to me. Oh my gosh, I am loving this. Yes. Blah, blah, blah. Like just lying there and shaking it. It's almost worse than denying it which I agree, but I also thinkMalcolm Collins: this is [00:14:00] likely a two sided thing. So an interesting thing about Ben Shapiro's case is you may not know this but if he was actually practicing a conservative Jewish lifestyle one of the responsibilities, and I forget the word here, but there's the three core responsibilities a husband has with his wife in one of the three is to make sure that he is sexually satisfying her.And so he is technically failing at being a Jew, if this is accurate that he is not pleasing her. And I think that this comes to a point here that you made which, which is just really important, which conjugal duty I would actually argue, and I think you argue this as well. It's almost like less, like it's less than what is actually expected of an individual.Simone Collins: Totally.Malcolm Collins: You don't have a, like a conjugal duty. If you are just performing a conjugal duty, you are not performing the role in the relationship, the sexual role in a relationship that's actually expected of a partner. What [00:15:00] is actually expected. is that you take the satisfaction of your partner as seriously as almost anything else.As I say, the only two responsibilities you have above your spouse's wellbeing is to God and your kids. And after that, your spouse comes above yourself significantly above yourself. And that means that you. Should attempt to understand exactly what they're into. It's not like a, I'm just having sex with you and we're done.It is, let me fully understand, and if you read something like The Pragmatist's Guide to Sexuality, you'll see that the way sexuality actually works is it's like this giant circuit board, basically, of knobs. It's not like a few things that may arouse people. There are, and you can go through the book Hundreds of things that commonly arouse people.These are certain emotional states, certain environmental stimuli, certain visual [00:16:00] stimuli, different ways of interacting. Some people are very sexually reactive, meaning that they do not feel arousal or attraction to somebody just for being around them, but they do when the person is engaging them.And you and somebody like that might be like, to you just that. Oh I'm sexually reactive, therefore, I'm never going to pursue my partner sexually,Baby: right?Malcolm Collins: And it's why is that the case? And it's it doesn't turn me on to do it. And it's whoa, stop.Does it actively cause you great discomfort to pretend like you're really interested in your partner and start a relationship sometime? You're like, no, not really. A bit of LARP in the beginning isn't that much of a problem. And it's then why aren't you doing it if it makes your partner significantly happier?This is what you're doing and here I would note that where there is the exception is in some individuals because the way sexuality works, we talk about this in our sexuality book, is it is a scale from arousal to disgust. It doesn't [00:17:00] stop at nothing. Disgust is part of the sexual system.You can watch our other videos on this, but it's basically an inverted sexuality. Anything that arouses a large portion of the population is going to discuss some other portion of the population. Anything that discuss a large portion of the population is going to arouse a small portion of the population.But what this means is that sometimes partners will have really high disgust reactions to a specific thing that you may be into. Now so that could be something like anal, like just no anal, like a rule, no anal ever because that would cause me such discomfort that whatever pleasure you're getting from that is just not worth it for our net productivity and desire for each other.And that's okay. It's okay that one partner is like something that you like causes me great pleasure. Disgust and distress. The problem is when instead of being I guess negative in terms of the things you're taking off the table okay, this, I don't like this. I don't like this.I don't like is coming at this. These are the 10 things that are approved. Because that is almost certainly [00:18:00] not going to overlap with that's not even like you went and investigated and tried to understand what your partner is into, right?Simone Collins: Yeah,Malcolm Collins: but here is where sexuality gets really interesting.I think from a conjugal duties perspective Which is it is possible to have a relationship where conjugal duties are not expected Oh totally. When is that the case? That is the case when it is explicitly stated before the marriage happens That is when that is the case. And why do I say it needs to be explicitly stated before the marriage happens?Or in a marriage contract or something like that? That is because in our society right now, if you are getting into a marriage, the default assumption Is it that marriage is going to have a sexual component? And so if one of you goes dead bedrooms that is turning your back on a component that was a presupposition when the marriage happened.And if you have that presupposition, you're like, yeah, [00:19:00] but then I just can't bring myself to sleep with my partner anymore. Then that's a serious issue and there are multiple ways to resolve it. It could be because your partner has let themselves go, which they actually violated the contract as well.Simone Collins: So long as you had, attractiveness clauses or no. I'd actuallyMalcolm Collins: say, I'm talking default societal assumptions. I think if you guys agreed nothing before you got married, and then after you got married, one of you gained a significant amount of weight and then the other person starts, I would say that's fair.Okay. If, however, you two are equally fit as when you got into the relationship and one person stops, I would say, no, that's a foul. And that With that foul, that doesn't necessarily mean the marriage has to break up, but it means that person now has the right to look for alternate sources of sexual release.Simone Collins: Yeah. And I think that's the super underrated in, in that I think with especially male sexual interest, this is not so much the case with female sexual interests, just saying, basically, if [00:20:00] you can't get it with me, you're welcome to get it. somewhere else as the wife is a huge negotiating point that can really keep marriages together because sometimes women lose their sex drives.Sometimes women just aren't that into it. And I think there's a long history of established older wives who've maybe had a few kids. Knowing that their husbands are having affairs, knowing that their husbands sleep with other women or have mistresses and being like pretty cool with it and having otherwise quite functional relationships, because it's just understood Hey, I'm not the person who's going to provide that part of our relationship anymore.Someone else is going to do it, but I'm glad you're getting it somewhere. AndMalcolm Collins: So what Simone is saying is that if you are a woman. You can augment your value to particularly high status men by altering the expected contract that you're getting into relationship with them in and allowing them to sleep with other people.Now a lot of people are like, ew, gross, like how could a woman do that? But the problem is that if [00:21:00] you are dating like the crim of society, like billionaires and stuff like that, movie stars. Pretty much because we, hang out adjacent to these classes of people. I'd say 70, 80 percent of their relationships are structured this way.It is justSimone Collins: a business relationship. Imagine that you're establishing. A contract with the vendor and you would like it to be a full service contract and it starts out full service. Let's say you're a resort working with a client and, you want that client to always stay at your resort or something.And you have restaurants, you have a spa, you have hotel rooms, and they, and other services, tours, and they use all of that. for several years. And then they decide, you know what? I really want sushi. And you don't have a sushi restaurant. And there's one right across the street. Like why is it so impossible that they could get some service somewhere else and then utilize all of your other services?Appreciate it. Hold on. I want to beMalcolm Collins: clear, Simone. I think that this is something that is only viable for basically billionaire class men. I do not think that this works [00:22:00] for men below the billionaire class. And I guessSimone Collins: because the assumption is that other women that they would be with would ultimately want a full time relationship asMalcolm Collins: well.No it's because, what, why do you, I have no idea where you're going with this. No. Wha like regular polyamory as practice was in our society is just completely unstable. It doesn't work. However, historically speaking people who would have been billionaire class, even in monogamous societies, even in Catholic Europe, for example, all a lot of, I wouldn't say all, but a lot of the French monarchs, for example, a lot of the monarchs more broadly had mistresses.Simone Collins: I don't even, I don't. I can't imagine there was one that did not have mistresses.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. So the, even within traditional Christian value systems, if you're talking like lovers.Baby: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Yeah. If you go back and they're like, Oh, this wasn't true in the fifties, excuse me. Do you not think the billionaires in our society in the [00:23:00] fifties, do you not remember?Kennedy and the famous scandal with him, and who was it, Marilyn Monroe? The billionaire men, so why is this the case? That the absolute criminally criminal men in our society generally have a choice? It's because They are the most desirable class of humans in society. By that, what I mean is if you look at how partner sorting happens, and I'll put a thing on the screen here so you can see desirable women have it good, but not that good because for a desirable woman, if I'm a top 1 percent desirable woman the problem is that the top 1 percent desirable men, Don't just have me to choose from.They basically can choose from any of the groups of women. They'll choose within the top 20 percent of women often. I will only choose a 1 percent man. So I actually have a fairly hard time securing a man. And if a woman who is in the top 2 percent or top 5 percent tells that guy, Hey, look, I'll let you sleep around.And I top 1 percent women aren't coming to them with that [00:24:00] proposal. Then they're not going to stick with me. And so that's why these men become used. to these kinds of proposals from women. And so it is because it becomes a cultural norm in their communities that they adopted. Do I think it leads to better relationships than the type that I have?No, it just becomes a cultural norm in their communities. So I'll word this differently. I actually think if you are a top like billionaire class guy and you get used to You will never be able to have a life as happy As my life. And that's one of the things that I often look at where I'll look at the billionaire men in our society and I'm like, wow, they live in such poverty.I don't know what to call it, like spiritual poverty when contrasted with my life. However if I was a billionaire, would I not act the way they act? Would I actually, and when I say a billionaire, I've been a billionaire for 10 years or whatever, not like a me today with my value system and my wife and my family and all the hindsight that gave me suddenly became a billionaire.But if I had done the whole ultra hard [00:25:00] work thing for ages and ages and gave everything up and then began to socialize with women again, and I hadn't done it since I was in high school or, I hadn't fully, their mental perspective is quite different from the rest of society. And so I understand it, but I think it's like a temporary optimum.And it isn't the maximum optimum. If they could get above that and then try to structure a wholesome life, I think that some billionaire class men rarely in history did structure wholesome lives. And they ended up with like uniquely good relationships. Yeah.This is actually kind of messed up. When you think about it, that. Once I believe as, as a man. Well, and as a woman, as a woman, it shown, you know, once you get above certain levels of wealth, the probability that you get married or get into a happy relationship are very low. There's the studies of women who. We had a large amount of money.And then what actually happens is they just divorce their husbands. Um, but, but as a man. And that you can be super, super wealthy and not have [00:26:00] access to the levels of happiness and contentment that I have access to. It's not that you literally don't have access to them. It's just that the way the world is structured makes it astronomically harder for them to access this lifestyle. Than it is for me to access this lifestyle. , so you can take someone like Elan, who I have enormous respect for., do I think that he would be much more contented and satisfied with his life? If he tried settling down with his own person and bought a farmstead and move to a more remote work situation. , and was able to, you spend more time with his kids and more time with one partner, he was really invested in. Absolutely.I do not think that he has access to the quality of life that I have access to yet. I believe he has done more. To make the world a better place than I do. And thus deserves [00:27:00] more, which is, um, sad. And then you can look at the, the other ultra wealthy people that have, I guess I'd call them sort of serial monogamous relationships that is, you know, monogamy was divorce. So they have some similar lock room of a monogamous life. , but I think they even have less happy lives than someone like Ilan. , so you're, I'm thinking of someone like a Jeff Bezos, you know, When I look at the ways that this, this woman who, you know, took all this money that he made and really didn't contribute much of anything. , it's spending it on. She could not have been a pleasant person to be married to.She just seems. You know, complete NPC, which would be so sad to be married to, or, you know, Speaking of NPCs, you could be like, well, what about mark Zuckerberg? You. He seems to be in a stable long-term monogamous relationship. , but I'm not really convinced that he is not, he just seems fully urban monoculture to the extent that he is just one of those NPC memes [00:28:00] plus. And I think that the level of happiness or really the depth of emotions that are accessible by somebody in an NPC state are fairly limited., , and this is another problem that we see. Because I think this is a mistake that, that Jeff Bezos made, which is yes, you can be ultra wealthy and in a totally, , monogamous relationship.But if that person is a total MPC, it's just not going to be interesting. This is why for Elan, I'd recommend, you know, If he was going to settle down with someone settled down with somebody who's. Weird and interesting and willing to go against social mores like Grimes, for example, I think would be a very good long-term partner for him. , and I think that when he had tried long-term relationships to begin with. The problem is, is that the people weren't as weird as him. And anyone who wants to do some screed against Grimes here. , don't be tricked by the media. She is. An interesting and delightful person. , if you can get past all of the [00:29:00] lies. Elan also is also constantly under the media, just. Completely trying to poison the public against him. Which is very frustrating to me. , and it's also something where I reflect on, you know, in the media is mean to me or when people in public are mean to me.And they're like, oh Malcolm, you, you monster you X, Y, Z. , I often have to take a moment to reflect on. How good my life is. And. It's it's almost impossibly good. It's almost impossibly good. When I reflect on my life these days, it feels like sort of the before scene and like a Punisher movie or something like that, which creates this sort of dread. , but I guess I, I constantly feel like it can't be this good and the way that I have come to terms with that.Is to consider that this must be a reward for. MI. Tanking. All of the hate that my wife and I get [00:30:00] publicly and all of the threats that my wife and I get publicly. , and that we are being rewarded for the difference that I hope we are. Well, not, I hope I know we are trying to make in the world and I hope that is realized in the world. , and I guess I could see my current. Undeserved contentedness. It's a sign that we might be successful with this. , so long as we can tank through all the hatred.Malcolm Collins: But, there is a final thing that I wanted to say for normal men.And we can do a whole episode on why I don't think polyamory often works for middle income people. Okay. But because I've had more time to see the outcomes of it with my friend group.Simone Collins: Longitudinal research.Malcolm Collins: We hang out with a lot of like tech guys in California. Okay.Simone Collins: Longitudinal anecdota. Yes.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. In my anecdota is it basically never works. Actually I can't think of a thing. No, I can think of one long term instance where it seems to have worked. Do I know it? Yeah. Yeah, but I don't know. Yeah, don't nameSimone Collins: [00:31:00] names.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. I don't want to name your names.I don't know. I it's public. Seems pretty happy. I wouldn'tSimone Collins: nameMalcolm Collins: names. Okay. I won't. I'll takeSimone Collins: that out.Malcolm Collins: But so the but what I was going to say is the other thing that's worth noting is alongside conjugal duties is there's a few things to accept sex, non reproductive sex.is inherently sinful. All non reproductive sex is basically a fetish. It is pleasure for pleasure's sake even if it is a bonding ritual. NowSimone Collins: so it's sinful if you, like us, do not think that happiness has inherent value.Malcolm Collins: I'm talking about in our system, and I think, yes, in, in most, in, I say real Christian systems.I know there's some Christian systems that have moved to this worship of the flesh, where it's oh, in marriage sex is a holy thing, always. And I am like no. No. Reproductive sex is, but sex more broadly, I don't think that is true. You are using [00:32:00] another human's body to masturbate.It is a form of sin. It takes away from your time that you are being productive. But that doesn't mean that, because we all sin, we aren't Jesus, right? So we all do things that are meant to satisfy ourselves. And as a partner to your spouse while you have a duty to help uplift them as a person and improve as a person, you also have a duty to max out their happiness stat.I'd say the little green triangle on a Sim, your duty to your spouse is to make sure that's always as green as possible. And what that means is not just sex. And that's the important thing is. It means that you need to understand the sins that they are not currently working on. And allow them to indulge in those sins where, so long as they are making improvements in other areas.With men, this means that, because a lot of women don't, desire sex in the same way men do in a long term [00:33:00] relationship, right? But, they have other sins, for example, desiring status signaling jewelry such as or desiring Or fancySimone Collins: trips, or furniture, whatever it might be.Malcolm Collins: And you have a duty in the same way that they have a duty to try to help maximize your mood and self perception.As you are working on that together, right? You have a duty to them in the same regards. And so I would say that it is as bad if you have the financial resources to invest in things like that. Unless you explicitly agreed to not before the marriage. And this is why marriage contracts are so important.Cause otherwise they're operating off of societal defaults. But within societal defaults, I think that there is some duty to supply the woman, especially If that woman is doing her job and trying to make you as happy as possible to supply her with the things that she needs for the same sort of validation that you're getting from that sex.And that might [00:34:00] be jewelry, it might be pearls, it might be nice furniture, it might be A pet, for example. There are many self perception modifying things. It's just that one of the most gendered towards men is sex, and yet, our society has built this bizarre consent concept today. And I'm not saying that consent doesn't matter at all, but I'm like when you just are like consent is like a steel thing that can never be crossed, you end up with this really horrible framework where a wife can just always say no, right?Like just no, we're not having sex anymore. And consent, and you can't get mad at me for saying this. And it's like that silly the way this works in real life in a family where like you're actually having a caring relationship with your partner is one person's I value this.And the other partner is I value this, or I'm not in the mood for this today. Could we do it? This time or under these other conditions for example, my wife would say [00:35:00] these days, I've got a small infant in the room. I don't want to hire a nanny to bring, to deal with the infant.I don't want to put the infant in another room while we're having sex. So let's wait until the infant is old enough that it could be with somebody else or that I feel comfortable leaving it outside the room for a period of time. That is a completely reasonable thing to say. And I think that consent absolutism removes reasonable conversations from the table.I think the thing I have. Problems with around the way consent is being a framed in modern society. Is that denying consent? Is treated as a costless activity instead of an activity that needs some level of explanation, which allows something to happen. Like, you know, for example, a stay at home wife who isn't really contributing much of anything to a relationship just. Constantly denying a man consent like permanent consent denial. [00:36:00] And thinking that the relationship can stay stable and that then. If he wants a divorce or he wants to leave, or he wants to cheat That he is 100% at fault, and there is no culpability upon the person who was denying consent. Um, It is not that I don't think that consent shouldn't be respected. Absolutely. It is that we should not because we respect consent. So seriously. That we should not act as if denying consent bears some costs.I think, , I guess I'd call it like informed consent, , which is to say. The denial of consent with an explanation. That is time gated or resolvable. Like, I don't want to sleep with you now because I find you unattractive due to your weight gain. , that's fine because that's, you know, okay, well, so lose weight then I'll want to sleep with you again.Malcolm Collins: But what were you gonna say? Because you really wanted to say something.Simone Collins: Consent matters. Also If [00:37:00] someone feels like they're having genuine non consent with anything in a marriage, and that's not necessarily with intimacy, it could also be with a partner, for example, making purchases that are not approved.That is a form of infidelity, period.Malcolm Collins: Yeah I wouldn't even say it's a form of infidelity, I'd say it's, So I do agree that in that sense consent matters. So what I'm saying here isSimone Collins: feeling likeMalcolm Collins: it demanding that a person obeys your consent request without consequences for denying consent.By that, what I mean is if a wife continually declines consent without any real reason that. That would be a case where a husband would be justified in becoming angry and saying that the wife is violating the assumptions of their marriage in the [00:38:00] same way where it is a violation if a woman like takes a bunch of money or spends a bunch of money without the man's consent, but it is also a violation.If the man never ever grants consent for the woman to splurge on herself.Simone Collins: Yeah, I would also say though, when you get to a point where relationships involve asking for things let alone denial, just asking for things. Is being, if I always have to ask you for sex, something's gone wrong. If that's an important thing in our relationship if you always have to ask me to clean up, something's gone wrong.One, when in an ideal situation relationship requests should be like improv. The answer is yes. And. But also you should be like the ultimate, servant to your partner because, you are unified with them toward a larger goal. You should be anticipating their needs. Like you said, putting them only after God and your children.And doing everything [00:39:00] you can to make their lives more enjoyable, but if they're not doing the same, your relationships on thin ice. So that's,Malcolm Collins: That's a really great point is that concepts like consent as progressives use the term begin to not make sense in a well structured relationship because in a well structured relationship, both people.Generally consider the needs of the other before their own needs I would never question that simone is definitely in almost everything She does during the day always putting my needs before her own And as such I feel comfortable in everything. I do always putting her needs before mine So when there is arguments the arguments are often About something that I want to do for her and she feels is unjustified.Oh, I wanna splurge on you with this. And you're just like, no, I don't want this. Are you wanting to splurge on me with something? And I'm like, no it wouldn't make me happy enough to offset the [00:40:00] cost. And so we're not going to do that right now.Simone Collins: No. I will say that sometimes I bring things up where I know that.I want something that is not in the best collective interests of our family and our morals. Those are neverMalcolm Collins: things that hurt me. It's like you coming to me and saying, can I, do I have permission to not go to this party? It's never like a favor you're doing when it comes to the things for me, they are always done.And often, and this is another thing that I think is really important. And I would consider a duty of a spouse. If you're considering the duties of your relationship, it is to notice and think and show appreciation. For the things your spouse does without telling you or request and that this appreciation cannot run dry just because your relationship has existed a long time.Simone Collins: And I also think that's like a meaningful flirtation and dating strategy in general. That, retard level relationship [00:41:00] action is things like your eyes are so pretty, you're so beautiful, you're so handsome, whatever. And then I tell you're gorgeous all the time, but that's.Retard level compliment. What I think gives people the most sense of satisfaction, the greatest dopamine hit is when, people recognize actions that they've taken, things for which they actually have responsibility. Okay, women can put a lot of effort into their appearance, but then you can recognize, wow, the way you styled your hair today is just incredible.How did braid your hair that way? Or but it should be around your actions or, wow, the way that you immediately anticipated the kids were going to freak out when this thing happened and you made sure that they were okay. It just really made me feel fantastic.And I can't thank you enough, like complimenting actions or complimenting moments so much more meaningful than just compliment or complimenting attributes over which people have no control and haven't put any effort because anyone even people who actually aren't working that hard. Feel like they're putting in some kind of effort, even if it's getting out of bed or like getting dressed and being recognized for stuff [00:42:00] that they personally put energy into gives them much more of a dopamine hit than stuff that they don't feel like they worked on that day.Malcolm Collins: Yes, no, absolutely. I 100 percent agree with you. And that's a great way, when you're thinking about how do you actually make your partner feel good, it's notice the things that they're putting effort into and compliment those things. And, but it's just also important because if they do something like, Okay.Even if it's it's my wife's duty to do the dishes and it's no, she's choosing to do the dishes and you need to show appreciation for that every time. Yeah. It's one of theSimone Collins: things of value that partner offers in the relationship. If you don't value that, then. Why on earth should they be putting in the effort,Malcolm Collins: Yeah, and then they won't feel delight or appreciation now the final thing i'm going to note here Something that I noticed when I was ruminating on the point I had made earlier I was like no it is actually traditional In christian cultures for the very wealthy and most powerful men to have multiple partners.And then I thought of an exception it is normal It is not normal in Catholic and [00:43:00] Orthodox countries, it is not normal in Protestant countries, consider King Henry VIII, he had to literally have his wives killed to get additional women. He had side chicks. He hadSimone Collins: a son with a side chick.Malcolm Collins: Oh, he did, yes.Okay, I'm wrong, yeah. Sorry. Men are men. He did. He did have side chicks. You're right. So even in Protestant countries, you had it.Baby: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: And the side chick wasn't the problem. The problem is that the son was the legitimacy. He wanted a legitimate Arab. Yeah. All right. So even there just always, I love when people appeal to a Christian traditionalism that is just a complete fabrication of what actual Christian history was like.And it's no, they're there. This was actually more complicated than that. Which is always interesting to me. Or they'll be like, Oh in the Bible, it was always one man in one woman. And it's it definitely was not. You have the case of Oh God, what's the case I'm thinking of where the guy was too old.And so his [00:44:00] wife said he could sleep with their slave to have a kid. Oh, yeah,Simone Collins: yeah.Malcolm Collins: That story wasSimone Collins: always so weird to me.Malcolm Collins: Yes. Sarah, Hagar, and Abraham. And it's literally the source of the Abrahamic tradition. So it's in all of the Abrahamic tradition that, that this is not like the most It, it is actually really interesting to me, and we'll do another episode on this. This LARP of the Christian lifestyle that doesn't match lifestyles in the Bible or that are described in the Bible, but instead matches Hollywood's description of a Christian in the 1950s.Which was like never like a real thing. And it's just interesting to me that people will say with such conviction. These are Christian values when they are not the values of the Bible or historically Christian communities. But they are just so convinced that they're Christian values. And it's baffling to me.But it shows you how like cultural consensus works. People [00:45:00] always want to believe everything is archaic. When often it's not one of the episodes we'll do when I get around to it, And I do need to do it because I have too many pro Jewish episodes and I need to do an episode that's going to make people think.Oh, Jews aren't gonna like this which is on how quickly the Jewish religion has evolved recently and that the medieval Jewish religion and culture is almost completely disconnected from modern the modern Jewish religion culture. I'm dying to hear more about this. Yeah. You keep referring to this over and over.It requires a lot of research. But here for people who don't believe me, for example, I will put on a screen right now, a picture of a. Medieval Catholic and a picture of a modern Catholic. Now I am going to put on the screen a picture of an ultra conservative Medieval Jew and a picture of a ultra conservative modern Jew.And for those who are listening on podcast and don't know what medieval Jews looks like They look like they are wearing a go piece as a hat, and they are [00:46:00] wearing green and it's got like a ball at the top of a hat, and you know what modern Jews look like, they have like long curly hair things, and all sorts of other,I should note here for anyone who's like, oh, you're just talking about fashion. What does that have to do? Is religious identity. Um, the episode, the reason why it needs the whole episode is actually going to go over all sorts of traditions and things that are core to the religious tradition, um, and show that, uh, you know, around 50% or more are modern. In the same way that like, if I'm looking at an Amish community and you ask an Amish community, when was your community founded?And they'd be like, well, the death of Christ. And it's like, well, I mean, but from an outsider's perspective, when was your community founded? Because when I look at Amish and I'm like, this is what makes you Amish. Um, you know, you're talking about like the 18 hundreds. Um, so, and I also need to note this in the context of, I'm not really saying it's a new religion, it's more, this, that in the same way that some languages. Like, [00:47:00] eh, when you're looking at language groups, Uh, you will find that some languages are incredibly preserved and change.Very, very little over history and other languages evolve incredibly quickly. Um, and yet, because they completely replaced the iteration that came before them. It makes sense to call them the same language. Even though they would be completely uninterpretable to people, you know, maybe even a few hundred years apart.Um, that's sort of what we're talking about here.So it's a tricky subject and deserving of a full episode.Malcolm Collins: are you looking up medieval Jew?Simone Collins: No, I just wanted to say, if people are really interested in Catholic where there's this particular podcast on Catholic fashion that I thought was absolutely fantastic.I just think religious fashion is really interesting.Malcolm Collins: Yeah no I think it's really fascinating as well. Anyway, love you too, Desimone. You are amazing and I hope our fans are having a wonderful day and that [00:48:00] we can get feedback on the lavalier system.Simone Collins: Yeah, I'm excited for it. Love you, gorgeous.Love you too. This.Man, I'm so happy now. You know that feeling at the end of the day when you've eaten all the frogs? You've eaten all of them! So many frogs!Malcolm Collins: How am I coming through, by the way?Simone Collins: Say something more.Malcolm Collins: Hello, Simone! I am excited to be talking to you today!Baby: Yeah, it soundsSimone Collins: not as good as the super high quality mics, but at least now you can talk freely. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 15, 2024 • 52min

Did the Media Just Try to Cover Up a Presidential Assassination? (I Can't Believe This is Real)

Join Malcolm and Simone Collins as they dissect the recent assassination attempt on former President Donald Trump. This in-depth discussion covers the media's initial attempts to downplay the event, the political implications, and broader concerns about the state of American democracy. The Collins family offers their unique perspective on this shocking event, its aftermath, and what it means for the upcoming election.Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] It's no longer the deep state is a conspiracy. We are now at the deep state is real and is running for president.Simone Collins: But I think you also have to get back to that reality.People are okay.Malcolm Collins: And so now the question is the deep state actually responsible for these felony charges? Are they responsible for the assassination attempt? And what scares me is I'm leaning towards no, I'm leaning towards all just malfeasance and stupidity and inaction, but I think it's plausibly yes.Simone Collins: Yeah, but people are okay with that. That's what scares me if somebody did shoot something at another person, what should happen to them?Octavian Collins: You know.They can get hurt.Would you like to know more?Malcolm Collins: Hello, Simone.What a crazy day to be alive and an American. And. For you to be running for office in the middle of all of this this is again one of those moments so weird that this happened so soon after that I think a [00:01:00] pivotal debate, which in many ways felt like a turning point in American history. And then you have this.Simone Collins: Yeah, this summer really puts the crazy inMalcolm Collins: democracy. The crazy in democracy. So yeah, we are going to go over a few things here. One that we'll go over later is I want to give a full account of what actually happened and how it happened, because I notice that the newspapers have done a very poor job of that.Two, I want to talk about that within the context of this current political battle and what this means. Yeah. But the thing I want to start with because it's what genuinely chilled me the most and for those who don't know I don't know who you are. But somebody just tried to assassinate Trump. And they it was a 20 year old That means that this person would have been 12 when Trump first came into office they shot at Trump they just grazed him his ear but twoSimone Collins: people were killed, including the shooter and two people were critically [00:02:00] injured and Trump had his ear pierced by a bullet.Malcolm Collins: Two critical injures one victim deaths, one shooter deaths, and then Trump's ear being grazed and obviously the optics of this for Trump are fantastic in terms of him coming out, shouting, fight fight, fight, you know, I think a lot of people after that debate uh, this is something that I've heard in my friend circles.Said, Oh, they're going to try to have him assassinated. You just, I thought they were crazy. They're like two weeks.Simone Collins: And literally like in a campaign strategy call recently, maybe just a couple of days ago, Biden said that we have to put Trump in the crosshairs, which now is just such bad wording.Oh, andMalcolm Collins: I remember when there was the attempted shooting or there was a shooting of some democratic representatives and somebody had said something like that, or there was a time when The Sarah Palin used crosshairs in one of her political ads,Simone Collins: And then Gabby Giffords was shot, and this was about 15 years ago.Another politician, if you're not in the U. S. And then later Sarah Palin actually sued someone who blamed her for this. So I, I. I believe a media publication for defamation [00:03:00] or libel. But the leftMalcolm Collins: was like, she needs to withdraw. She needs to like, that is how seriously they took this.And yet they treat this like nothing when it's Biden. And when it's a president who was almost assassinated. We need to the thing that was most chilling to me about this because I want to start with this was what you found Simone in terms of the newspapers trying to hide from the public that this had happened.So can you go over some of the initial headlines?Simone Collins: Yeah. So Trump escorted away after loud noises at PA rally from the Washington post, CNN, loud noises at PA rally, loud noises. CNN reported secret service rushes Trump off stage after he falls at rally, which just makes it sound like, he was tremendously old, like Biden or something.Took a spill which is not great. And then here's USA Today. Trump removed from stage by Secret Service after loud noises startles [00:04:00] former president crowd.Malcolm Collins: Startles former president? Somebody's head friggin exploded on stage. Now, in case you're like a lefty here and you're like, oh, it was very You know, like it was a loud thing.Lots of people didn't know what was fully going on. You need to keep in mind a few things. Uh, one person was, like, there's blood everywhere. It was very clear in the moment it was a someone inSimone Collins: the actual bleachers Did get shot in the head and did die. So that is important to note.So some people are literally around a dead person. Trump's ear was grazed. . And what was I think really interesting was, I was listening to some Australian coverage of this because we're recording this fewer than 24 hours since this actually happened.And the Australian coverage, it was so funny. They're like these Americans, guns are really big in America. So they've been, training with school shooter drillings for most of their lives. So everyone knew immediately what to do once the shooter. Started firing, everyone hit the floor, but they also recovered really quickly.Within moments they were chanting USA after adjusting to it. So there's [00:05:00] painting Americans as these people like, Oh it's an, it's like that South Park school shooting episode,Stanley, well, do you want to tell your father about what happened at school today? I flunked my math quiz. No, the other thing. What other thing? Oh, the school shooting? Yes, the school shooting! Oh yeah, some kids shot up the school. Was it you? No.Did you get shot? No. Oh. Well, what's this about failing a math quiz?Malcolm Collins: It seems that almost everyone immediately knew this was an active shooting.So much so that the BBC was doing a piece on this. So we'll get to this in a second. But it's actually really important that everyone in the crowd realized this was an active shooting very quickly. And reporters who were not part of the American media establishment and didn't know they were supposed to spin this as a non active shooting situation, specifically the BBC.immediately reported this as an act of shooting. Oh, yeah. Instead of a loudSimone Collins: noise.Malcolm Collins: Instead of a loud noise. One ofSimone Collins: our friends even sent us a picture [00:06:00] of the bullet that was captured mid frame. You can see a line in the air. Yeah. And I wrote back, I'm like, that's a very fascinating looking loud noise.Malcolm Collins: But. This matters because we lived in an environment up until recently where the U. S. media was able to get away with this kind of lying to the American public.Simone Collins: Yeah. And I think now there were this was a rally. So finally, we're in a situation where there were hundreds of people with active recording phones at that moment.And theyMalcolm Collins: thought they could get away with lying about this. That astounds me. So this type of media attempting to gaslight the American people since Elon bought X, it's come out increasingly that this has been happening very regularly.Because before that, they also had the big tech firms in their pocket and if they still had them all I suspect they may have tried to run with the loud noise narrative, and for people who are like, no, they wouldn't do that, even though it obviously came out that they were wrong about this. I suggest you Google the [00:07:00] recent outbreak of trans mass shooters.You will see Elon talking about it. You will see people on X talking about it. And then you will find at the top of your Google results and at the top of your news results that it is a myth. That is what all of the papers will say about it. This is a myth, even though it's very easy to confirm.So I'll just go over here just so people know like real news. This is why real news channels like this are important. Instead of going through the corporate mass media in 2017, there was the Randy Stare mass shooting in Tanahawken, PA. This was the it's known as the Danny Phantom shooting.If you want to see the Turkey Tom episode on it, it's actually neverSimone Collins: heard of it. Okay.Malcolm Collins: No, because the media covered up most of these mass shootings,Because they were done by trans people. Next you had a shooting at a Maryland distribution center in 2018 um, then you had a school shooting in Denver in 2019, so no, right now.2017, 2018, 2019. Then the Colorado Springs LGBT nightclub shooter [00:08:00] self identified as non binary, they've tried to say, oh, he doesn't deserve that identity because he did this shooting. It's yeah, but he did identify that way.That was in 2022. Then in 2023 the Nashville school shooting was also transgender now people can be like, oh that's not that many.That's only. Shooters, almost one a year. That's not that many mass shooters.And then I would point out that since 1982 in the United States, there have only been four female, cis female mass shootings. So just since 2017, there has been it. as many trans mass shootings as there has been female mass shootings since 1982.That is absolutely an epidemic. I just can't even that anyone could pretend that this is anything other than like a major issue that we need to take care of, but it goes against the law. The extreme leftist, the urban monocultures narrative around what's happening. [00:09:00] And so they have continued to try to suppress it.And I think just because the story about it hasn't got viral enough yet. They've been able to get away with it. Whereas with the attempted assassination, they had to backtrack. After the, and to just think that would be your initial instinct. You see a guy's head explode and your initial instinct is, Oh, this isn't going to be good for my campaign.Let's cover it up. Do you have any thoughts on this before we go further?I wanted to hear your thoughts on the attempted media cover up of this.I mean, it was clearly coordinated across multiple platforms. That was the thing that really got me. It wasn't like a few people or one person messed up.Octavian Collins: Yeah, I don't. SoSimone Collins: there, there are already multiple conspiracy theories around this. I think that it's not as malicious as people think it is in that I don't think it was coordinated and I don't think people got on a call and were like, [00:10:00] Hey, we need to head this off.I think it's more that. Most mainstream media outlets will take the least charitable interpretation of something that Trump does. At any given time, and I think a lot of that's commercially driven you have to keep in mind that most of the people reading these mainstream media outlets that have not already completely been alienated by their dishonesty and by their political bias are extremely progressive people.And those extremely progressive people have what's known as Trump derangement syndrome. And if anything is even slightly charitable toward him. they're going to get angry and probably go to another publication because these are the people who invented cancellation.Malcolm Collins: Simone, I would normally agree with you, but even for a progressive media piece, an attempted assassination is going to get more clicks than there was a loud noise and an old man fell over.I think that like I hear you, I think that what you are right about it, I don't think that this was coordinated. I think it was just. If there are multiple potential interpretations of something that somebody saw they [00:11:00] will choose the most even if it's not with the majority of evidence supports, even if it requires a little bit of a distortion of reality, they'll choose the one that makes Trump look the worst.But then you've also got to look at it in the context of this trans shooting coverup. And I think thereSimone Collins: is this sort of concerted. Feeling of civic obligation as viewed from the perspective of these journalists and editors of, okay, this happened, but we can't let it cause the unthinkable with the unthinkable being, Oh, people will start to be against trans rights.Or in this case, people will possibly be swayed to vote for Trump when they otherwise would not have. Correct.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. And this is also where I think it's really interesting. I think that the public actually got pretty when I say the public, the urban monoculture the Dems got pretty lucky that Trump wasn't hit in this assassination attempt.It would have been catastrophic for them if he had been hit. Specifically, it would have meant that one of his kids would likely be running in his place. That would have been [00:12:00] who the party would rally behind. Wow. No, think about it. His kids have already shown an interest in getting politically active.They, as a matter of family honor, would likely see it as a responsibility to run. This would be somebody running who just had their father be shot by the other team. It would have made them a shoe in for office. That'sSimone Collins: No the GOP and the political apparatus would not have let that happen.I hear you. It's just that they have like none of the. Infrastructure set up and that's why it would have,Malcolm Collins: that's why it would have happened. So this is, I'll tell you exactly how the events would have played out. Okay. If the GOP immediately rallied behind them, it wouldn't happen, but what gave Trump his validity in the mind of his base is that the GOP started hating him and then he overcame that.And now they mostly follow him. If. Immediately after his assassination, because you've got to think about who else takes the presidential spot. A number of people would have put their hands up. One of them would have been his sons. The GOP would have immediately said, [00:13:00] Oh, you can't, all the stodgy politicians would have immediately said, Oh, you can't go to his son.He's not, qualified enough. He's not whatever enough. And then all of the memes would have come out of them saying the exact same thing about Trump in the past. Easily, because no one else is like an heir apparent right now in terms of post Trump the, naturally the public sentiment, especially among Trump's most fervent base, would have gone to his son.And the, really the only thing that could have prevented it is both of the older ones running at once. That's the only thing that could have prevented this from happening. And then you've got the problem of then you have a genuine Trumpist dynasty. With the Republican party becoming the party of Trump's family.Now a lot of Americans you're like, that could never happen, but this has actually happened in a number of other Democratic parties where certain parties are just the party of X family. And that I think would be very bad. Do youSimone Collins: mean like the Bushes and the Trumps and the Clintons or the Kennedys?Malcolm Collins: Yeah. No. So we've never really had this happen in the US. We have had candidates get elected multiple times. So you've [00:14:00] had the only instance that I can think of that it would be even remotely close to this is the George Bush senior and George Bush junior.But the problem is the George Bush senior and George Bush junior is their political platforms. Really didn't have that much continuity. It wasn't that they were getting elected one after another. There were other candidates in between them. And they weren't seen as part of an interconnected brand.Now the Clinton's and then Chelsea winning that would have been an instance of this. But that didn't happen. And then it was that happening? I also wouldn't be as worried because who knows if Chelsea's even going to have that many kids. Does she have kids? Like for thisSimone Collins: to happen, Clinton has at least one child.Yes.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. For this to happen, you need an actually fecund family where you can have multiple family members run if another one can't run. So with the Trump family, one son loses and the other one's running next time. And then you've got his kids. So you actually need a large enough family for this.To be a real risk. And the Trump family, especially after a Trump assassination would pose a very real risk of this. [00:15:00] And it's not that I have a problem with his kids. I just don't think it's politically healthy for one party in this country to become overly associated with one family or another. And there just isn't anyone else in the wings.That's the problem. You're like, Oh, they wouldn't choose the kids. Who else are they going to rally behind this shortly before the convention? Cliché. Then you have the secondary problem, which I also think is really interesting. And some people have been like yeah, there's Dems cheering about this and saying, oh, they wish he had been hit like destiny, for example, made a post about this, which is like, all I see is Biden plus one in a picture of one of the dead Trump supporters which is obviously really horrible that anyone would say that.But a lot of people are like, Republicans would be the same way. And I'm like, no, my God. No, there isn't a Republican alive in the U. S. right now who wouldn't want Biden assassinated. Not for his interest. It's just I can see a Democrat having him assassinated right now because it would solve an enormous problem the Democrats have at the moment, which is his dementia problem.Yeah. literally , He's so much more harmful to the party [00:16:00] alive than dead.Yeah yeah and it's also interesting that the shooter didn't think this through. A lot of people just don't really think through I do X, what happens next? We don'tSimone Collins: know what the shooter We don't know, actually,Malcolm Collins: so I can go further into the shooter stuff that we do know about, because there's been a piece of information that somehow the media hasn't really picked up.So a lot of people know this is what we do know, okay? So the guy was 20.Simone Collins: His name was Thomas Matthew Crooks. He is a 20 year old from Bethel Park, Pennsylvania, which was about 40 miles from the, where the Trump rally took place. He likely used an AR 15, almost certainly used an AR 15 to shoot him. And he was registered to vote at the time of his death. So it was a. Yesterday as a Republican only known political donation was to act blue, which supports democratic candidates.Malcolm Collins: So it's it's a bit of a confusing situation.And this is whatthe media hasn't picked up. So there was a misidentified individual who made some [00:17:00] social media posts about how much he hated Trump andSimone Collins: this random Twitter user who also has a Republican. So it was a white young man with longish hair.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. So people misidentified on our discord. They described the shooter as looking like a failed abortion.What are you doing Octavian? Come here. The audience wants to meet youOctavian Collins: so you just put that all the way in.All the way, and you gotta put that all the way.Simone Collins: Oh, you gotta be strong for that.Octavian Collins: And then, do this.Simone Collins: Whoa! And what's the rule?Octavian Collins: Cleaning up the mess.Malcolm Collins: And what's the other rule?Octavian Collins: No, first, no point it, it's just a person.Malcolm Collins: Especially not the president, right?Octavian Collins: No.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, you would never point that at the president.Octavian Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Okay. That's good.Octavian Collins: And this if, this this this gonna actually find to kill person. I mean, Her persons [00:18:00] okay. So it should be, it won't kill herMalcolm Collins: people, you mean?No.Octavian Collins: Yeah, I don't want to hurt people, so be careful with it. Okay, Mommy? I will be careful with it. Thank you. Because they will get hurt.Simone Collins: Okay, Octavian, if somebody did shoot something at another person, what should happen to them? You know.Octavian Collins: They can get hurt.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, that does happen. They can get hurt if they try to shoot somebody, right?Octavian Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: All right. Come get up. This is a piece of information that they didn't pick up. Okay. I don't know this then I'm curious. Okay. The shooter. Was 20 years old. You cannot register for a party in the United States before the age of 18.That gives us a window for when he registered. So while we don't know when he registered, we do know it was around or after when he made the donation to the [00:19:00] democratic party. , it wasn't like he flipped parties or something like that because some people are asking like maybe he was a registered Republican for a long time. And then recently he became democratic and started donating to Democrats.But that's not the case. The registration happened before or after the donation. So we have two events that we know about, right? We know that he donated to democratic political candidates. Then we know that. During X period he registered as a Republican and then two years later, he tries to assassinate the head of the Republican party during both of those two periods.This to me is whySimone Collins: The 2022, sorry, the 2022 election, two years ago when he was 18. Yes. Theoretically was not a presidential election. So Trump wasn't involved at all.Malcolm Collins: It was a midSimone Collins: cycle election. If anything, he would have Participated in that election to vote in the primary against specific Republicans that he wanted to keep out of office.But that's a really odd thing. I honestly just think he probably registered as a Republican for some reason. [00:20:00] He owned an AR 15 or had access to one. That's the kind of thing that a Republican would do. He might just He didn't own an ARMalcolm Collins: 15, his dad did.Simone Collins: Oh, his dad did?Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Yeah. I just I think that the news, this is my read.I think it's going to come out very obviously that he was a crazed Democrat and the news is going to try to spin it that he was a Republican.Be sure that you guys have the most up-to-date information here. Uh, and these go live a bit after we filmed them. Uh, so the more information has come out about the potential assassin. Uh, what he was like in school specifically, he was a very lonely individual. He didn't appear to have many friends.One person even described him as the type of person you'd expect to shoot up a school. You had that known as having strong political opinions. And, uh, as to his shooting ability, I'll read a little excerpt here from an article from ABC. Meyers. And another student said that. Cook's tried to join the school's rifle team, but was rejected and it's not to return. After a pre-season session. [00:21:00] Quote, he didn't just not make the team.He was asked not to come back because of how bad a shot he was. It was considered like dangerous in quote said, Myers. Another member of the team who asked not to be named told ABC news that there was a view that crooks. Quote, wasn't really a fit for the rifle team in quote. And quote. He also shot terrible in quote.Simone Collins: Yeah, we'll see. This is the conjecture part, but there are some things that we can talk about a little bit more solidly, like the political fallout and also like by saying, some specificMalcolm Collins: events before we go further.Simone Collins: Yeah. Because I think some of the eyewitness reports were really interesting.Malcolm Collins: Okay. So on July 14th, 2024, an assassination attempt was made against US former president Donald Trump during a campaign rally in Butler County, Pennsylvania the timeline of events 6. 02 PM. Trump takes the stage 6.11, a few minutes into Trump's speech, gunfire erupts. Now we should note before [00:22:00] this. Some of the audience members saw the other guy climbing onto this building with a gun and then army crawling into position and tried to alert the secret service who did not notice. Yeah, specificallySimone Collins: I love the quote from that one redheaded local businessman.Who's we're like, Hey man, this is. This guy on the roof with a rifle and the police were like, huh? They didn't know what was going on just the way he delivered. It was fantastic. Yeah, and there's additional another man reported and then I can send you a link from this if you want to include the clip But another man present on the scene, told a police officer that a man was up on the roof.So yeah, police officers were being informed about this from multiple people. And there's even footage that, that came out on Twitter, I think that from cell phone coverage, people like uploading stuff on their cell phone of moments before shots were fired, people screaming, he has a gun.Malcolm Collins: Yes. And I should note, because people are like, this seems like an assassination attempt by the I if it was I, It's [00:23:00] actually plausible, and I'll explain why I think it's plausible that this was done in a more coordinated fashion. I will show an aerial footage of the stage,And the location where the shooter was.There are no other raised buildings in the area. If you are familiar with even just from movies, like myself, and you are scouting an area for positional shooters, you look for raised platforms where they could set up. This isn't like a kind of like an obvious raised platform. This is At the beach, if you were looking for a lifeguard, like a lifeguard stand.It's like not noticing the lifeguard in the lifeguard stand. It was incredibly obvious. And then obvious to the crowd tried to notify multiple people. And everyone was saying after Biden's performance in our circles, the left is going to try to assassinate him after this. And this ended up happening.And keep in mind, sorry, before I go back I'm going to get to the, Attempt to smear him with this absolutely bogus felony conviction. But I'm going to [00:24:00] do that after we get through the timeline of events. Because this is also really interesting, like just how far they've gone and trying to get him and how much they have ignored democratic norms at this point.Sorry. So 611 to 612, the shooting lasts less than a minute. One spectator is killed and two others are critically injured. Snipers from Trump's security detail kill the suspected attacker. So when I first heard this, I was like, that's sus. How did he hit, how did he hit spectators? If the crowd was below, Trump was on a raised platform and he was on a raised platform.The did you have that immediate thought as well?Simone Collins: No.Malcolm Collins: The way he hit them is there was a bleacher of spectators behind Trump.And that's how he ended up hitting spectators. Which is just absolutely horrible that this happened. It's devastating. Yeah, it's devastating. They just think that, you and I could have gone to a campaign rally, these people had families and everything.It's just absolutely horrifying.Simone Collins: The man who was killed, his family was with him there. Oh my god. [00:25:00] They witnessed, I mean, they were inMalcolm Collins: shock, obviously. It's just horrible.So I went to read into the script. What was, uh, the daughter of the man who died, said about him and the event. Yesterday time stopped. And when it started again, my family and I started living a real life nightmare. It was supposed to be an exciting day that we had all looked forward to, especially my dad. Turned into.The most traumatizing experiences someone could imagine. I know the media will cover this event and I'm going to try my best to stay away from looking at everything, especially. Because I've already seen. And lived through it in real time, but I want everyone to know what the media will not cover and will not say about him. He was the best data girl could ever ask for him.My sister and I never needed for anything. You call, he would answer. And he would do whatever it is you needed. And if you didn't know how he would figure out how he could talk and make friends with anyone, which he was doing [00:26:00] all day yesterday and loved every minute of it, he was a man of God loved Jesus fiercely, and also looked after our church and our members as family.The media will not tell you that he died a real life, super hero. They are not going to tell you how quickly he threw my mom and I to the ground. They are not going to tell you that he shielded my body from the bullets that came at us. He loved his family. He truly loved us enough to take a real bullet for us. And I want nothing more than to cry on him and tell him, thank you. I want nothing more than to wake up and this to not be reality for me and my family. We lost a selfless loving husband, father, brother. So, yeah, two kids.Malcolm Collins: Um, and then You have the scene, and this is the scene that really changed everything. There were so many ways that this could have gone.That it went with Trump being ducked down after his ear was shot and he felt the blood gushing and everything like [00:27:00] that. But then that his immediate reaction to this was not to run away or anything like that, but to put up his hand and to start yelling fight.Simone Collins: And it should be emphasized that is not easy to do.One, Trump is in his Mid 70s or something. So what happens is he ducked when he realized that he had been shot, then he was almost immediately tackled by his secret service detail. They've been trained to create a human shield when there's an active shooter situation. So I think they like turtle over the president and then their job fighting them.Yeah. And so he actually, as they were trying to remove him from the stage was activelyfighting them to get his head to stick out from the turtle of secret service people that was, it formed around him to put up his fist and pump the air and say fight. Actually, though, what picked up on the mics first before he started fighting to get out was like, Take my shoes.I want to keep my shoes with me. So he was wearing some nice kicks. The reasonMalcolm Collins: why he wanted his shoes, by the way, that's been speculated. And I fully believe this. It's very true. He wears lifters or something. Yeah. He wears heavy lifters. [00:28:00] It would make sense. How tall a president is, has been shown in statistics.You're really, you're taking so many picturesSimone Collins: with people. You've got to look tall. Yeah. No, this is a man who understands his image. A 70 year old man to fight. Off the secret service to make it out after being shot at. If we could have 5 percent of as majestic a reaction to beingMalcolm Collins: shot every person I want to run for president just so I can do this.No. I never ever want to see you inSimone Collins: danger. You're not allowed to get shot at. You're not allowed to get in danger. This is not something you are allowed to want.Malcolm Collins: But no, it's one of these things, like guys just have these fantasies about somebody attacks their family and then they come out and defend them. But one of the fantasies of every male politician is they get shot and then like Teddy Roosevelt for people who aren't familiar with this, Teddy Roosevelt got shot before a, like 50 page speech.And he went through the speech after getting shot before leaving the stage. Then there's the famous incident of the guy [00:29:00] who tried to attack Andrew Jackson and his gun didn't go off and Andrew Jackson had a cane and he just went at him like a chimpanzee, beating the guy. And I think he, I don't know if the guy died or like almost died.Sounds likeSimone Collins: Jackson. So that's great. That's fantastic. ThatMalcolm Collins: is not a guy who you want to, I can just imagine, because if anyone knows like Andrew Jackson's reputation. Yeah, if you're going to shoot, don't miss. Like way too many duels. He was like really into duels and killing people and that was his reputation in the war.The campaign ads against him showed him sitting on a mountain of skulls. I actually genuinely hate Andrew Jackson as a person. He's a hateable person. I do not like that the right, or some people on the right have tried to compare Trump to him. Trump is nothing like Andrew Jackson. Andrew Jackson is America's Hitler.Absolutely deserves to be remembered as such. I, just so people know, like, why I hate him so much. What he did with the Native Americans was absolutely inexcusable. The Cherokee people had tried because of Andrew Jackson, we can't say if you just [00:30:00] adopted the Western ways and worked with our government peacefully, that everything would have turned out okay for you.Because they did all of that. And then he just basically went into peaceful settlements and started shooting people and then taking them, basically, captive and moving them to unproductive land and taking all their stuff just so his cronies could get land. He was a genuinely horrible person.And the way he acted during his life, like all of these duels that you didn't need to do, like the way if you were manly and you were doing a duel, most people were like supposed to miss on purpose. And Andrew Jackson would do this thing where the other person would miss and then he just slowly like line up the shot after that because they were one shot muskets.He had no honor. He was a bad guy. But to think getting in front of a guy like this and your gun goes this guy is oh, now I get to kill you. Free of charge in front of a crowd free. Hooray. Oh my gosh. Anyway we've gotta, we gotta keep going here. I think going forwards, this fight, fight, fight is going to become his main rally, this campaign is [00:31:00] the fist in the air.And I actually think it lends itself to a perfect rally for a Trump campaign where it feels like he has been unjustly hit with felonies. He has been unjustly maligned in the media. He has had assassination attempts on him. And I think that this is the way a lot of Americans feel right now. I was talking to in our discord, one person was like it's not for you to decide whether or not the felony classification of Trump was justified.This isn't a court of public opinion thing. This is for the professionals. Technically.Simone Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: We can see the legal stuff. Like we're not stupid. We can see that this was trumped up and they're like, no, you don't know that. You're not a professional. I'm like, no, this is for the court of public opinion.When, as happens in many countries throughout history the legal establishment becomes corrupt and the citizen body of a democracy is supposed to fix it, how can they fix it? If they just [00:32:00] create these heuristics we don't look at the results. of trials. I don't try to apply critical thought to that.That is how the left has been able to get as far as they have applied this. You're not a journalist, therefore you don't get to make these kinds of judgments. You're not a scientist, therefore you don't get to make these kinds of judgments. You're not a a legal scholar, therefore you don't get to make these types of judgments.And for those who haven't looked into the felony classification I want to read for you guys what comes out of AI. I think anyone who's looking at this in any way sober minded would be like, oh my god, this is banana republic stuff. This is You know what you get in, in, in developing countries that don't have real political apparatus and somebody comes out, they challenge the regime, and then they get slapped by, it's Putin esque, to be honest.In New York, falsifying business records can be either a misdemeanor or a felony. It becomes a felony, first degree, when the act of falsifying records was done with the intent to commit or conceal another trump. crime. In Trump's case, prosecutors argued that the falsification was done [00:33:00] to unlawfully influence the 2016 election.Now that's insane I think anyone who is being honest with themselves and looking at That charge can be like wait.So where is the additional crime? Is the crime, okay, is the crime literally just that Trump was running for office? Is that what they consider a crime? And the answer is basically yes. That is what they considered a crime, and that is why and anyone who's reading it can see this. And when you read it, I remember you read it for the first time and you were like, I was surprised at how flimsy it was. What were your thoughts when you first started researching that case?No, go collect all the bullets. I noticed you made a mess.Octavian Collins: Oh, clean up the mess, buddy.Simone Collins: It was, what bothered me was that People involved specifically were elected to, with the promise that they would do this to Trump. So it was very clearly politically motivated, like literally politically motivated, and that [00:34:00] the technicality on which he was given this felony charge.involved choosing one crime and then like selecting some other crime that had to have happened at the same time, something along those lines. And it just seemed somewhat arbitrary just like technically, how do we get them? But that's how law works. That's how this functions.It's not technically wrong. I just also think that if you want to play this game, you could technically get anyone on anything pretty much. You just have to, have enough people who are really trying to catch you on these technicalities. So no one is safe if this is how we're going to play the game.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, so to be clear this is falsifying business records. So first you have to keep in mind how many business records Trump has and the way he does business, which is and everyone in that sector really does business when you're dealing with the That size of deals, which is you're always moving money around in ways that is plausibly shady.So all they needed to do is say, really, any of his normal business [00:35:00] dealings was connected to some vague other crime without proving or specifying what the other crime was. And that really just meant Anyone could be connected of a felony who was in the type of business that Trump was in.Simone Collins: Oh, but I also think anyone who has worked in politics or who's done pretty much anything can be convicted of maybe not a felony, but of absolutely something for sure.Which is why one of the top rules that you should always live by is never commit a crime while committing a crime because it just, compounds your odds of getting caught. But it's really hard to. I think not commit crimes, mostly because there's a lot of crimes that you just don't know about.Oh, yeah. It's a lot of laws out there. Obviously in some states, it's even illegal to go out dressed a certain way or something like, because there are these really antiquated laws that are still technically on the books. So what I'm saying is that, again, if this is how we want to play the game, anyone is, anyone's fair game.But it's, it is disturbing.Malcolm Collins: Wanted to note something else here was that the place where the guy was shooting from was 120 to [00:36:00] 150 meters away And if you look at the venue, it was very obvious like it was closeIt is just wild that this happened. So do you have any? What do you think happens next?Simone Collins: Yeah in terms of like how you know, you're saying that this could have been a conspiracy on the left I do not think that's what happened I do think that there are a couple of things that contributed to this. It is interesting that, in the past, his requests to increase his secret security detail have been denied.So people are going to have little infarctions about that for a while. No doubt. It's also interesting that, and there's footage of this that anyone can see, the counter snipers with the secret service that were on an adjacent nearby roof. We're seen before earlier, just hanging out on the roof and then right before shots were fired they were already engaged as in to say they were looking through their sites and aiming their guns and then right [00:37:00] after the shots fired, they made slight adjustments and shot.Malcolm Collins: So I think what sounds like they delayed shooting until after this guy had shot.Simone Collins: That's what people are saying. Now. I don't actually think that there was a concerted attempt to delay. Shooting, I think that there was a desire, there was that same people assume that there's a conspiracy when it's really just a mixture of incompetence and poor coordination, which is far more likely that, people are, people, you're starting to get this report of, people are saying there's someone with a gun, people are reporting something.And then, you see someone, but they, you don't want to be the person responsible for accidentally shooting an innocent person who was on a roof trying to get a better view.Malcolm Collins: Okay. So here's the thing. The audience knew it wasn't an innocent person. The audience that was seeing it happen was like, Oh my God, there's a guy army crawling with an.An AR 15 into position. With a rifle. They knew it was clearly a rifle. They didn't know it was an AR 15, but yeah. Clearly a rifle. And he was apparently army crawling for a while, but here's what I'm going to [00:38:00] do again, is I'm going to put the picture of the venue on screen. People can The area, yeah.You are a counter sniper in a higher level position where you can see this thing. Is there any way you couldn't have seen this guy with plenty of warning? Is there I mean, it's a big crowd. It's Is it at all plausible that you couldn't have seen this happening? I don't want to be like too conspiratorial, but I also just don't know were they just not doing their jobs at all?Simone Collins: I, you know, I air in favor of that, that I always tend to read, if anything, benign incompetence to people rather than some kind of concerted attempt to do something shady. Though people do sometimes do shady things. But yeah I do not think that is, is what happened, but it is interesting that happened.And I think it just goes to show That you cannot throw money at a problem or hire the best professionals and assume that it's going to be okay. You are never actually safe. Your driver's never actually paying [00:39:00] attention. Your accountant is never actually checking all of your transactions. And just to assume that they've got it, that anyone has got it aside from you or someone that you're working very closely with.It's your fault when something goes wrong and I'm just going to put that out there. So I just wanted to point out that little detail because I watched the video and I was like that's weird. But there you go.Malcolm Collins: This election, and I was actually thinking of doing a different episode on this, but it is just worth noting here that this election after the debate has really transformed its nature.Because in the last couple elections, Trump was like, I'm running against the deep state, right? I want to fight the deep state.Simone Collins: He's such a loud mouth breeder. He's no subtlety.Malcolm Collins: No subtlety. And now,Octavian Collins: Trump I'm in the camera, my dada.Malcolm Collins: My Dada, Oh, my Dada but with Biden now, officially not being the person who's running the country, like we all know [00:40:00] this now.Simone Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: And they're like,and the Democrats are going, yeah, but everything's running fine. It doesn't really matter if Biden is incompetent. You're just electing the people around him and it's Oh you're electing the deep state, right? This now is literally because we know that pipe.Biden is like a weekend at Bernie's and they're like marionetting a corset.Simone Collins: But people also know, they know that has been, while we may only have realized this. Okay. Hold on oneOctavian Collins: second.Simone Collins: . We may have only just learned that Biden is definitely for sure not running the country. And then instead the nation is being run by a group of unelected, mostly faceless bureaucrats.And the deep state leaders, the deep state. But I think a lot of people are, have decided that they're okay with that. They say are things that bad now? Are things falling apart now? No, it's okay. Here's the thing, Malcolm. I asked one of our friends in Pennsylvania who is not, is a pure Pennsylvania friend.I'm cool guy, doesn't own a computer but it's still cool and nerdy, like runs D and D games and stuff, has a local business. [00:41:00] Cool guy. Smart. I asked him, Hey, what do you think of this? And who are you going to vote for? And he's I just really hate Trump.And honestly are things that bad right now? And I asked him how do you feel about, being in a nation of, unelected faceless people running your country? And he's honestly things aren't bad, that bad right now. I even asked him to list or no, he listed, unprompted, his most important priorities for a president.Actually let me pull up what he sent to me because he still doesn't want to vote for Trump and he still plans probably on like protest voting for Kennedy. Despite the fact that the following are the most important things to him. Admittedly, one is more democratic. One, the environment. Two, property taxes removed.Better yet, complete reform. More on that later. Three, children. Four, prosecuting pedophiles. These are the four things I want. No, 75 percent of those four points. Trump, he's not going to vote for Trump, period. This [00:42:00] assassination hasn't changed his opinion at all. And there are lots of people like this who are centrists, who are smart.They may not be hyper online, but it's important for us to be aware of the opinions of people who are not hyper online, because I think it's very easy for people on the internet to be like, Oh yeah, man, Trump wins now. And that's just not where. The majority of Americans are. I don't know what to tell you, Malcolm.Malcolm Collins: I hear you, but the point I was making is what he admitted as well. It's no longer the deep state is a conspiracy. We are now at the deep state is real and is running for president.Simone Collins: Yeah, but people are okay with that. That's what scares me. But I think you also have to get back to that reality.People are okay.Malcolm Collins: And so now the question is the deep state actually responsible for these felony charges? Are they responsible for the assassination attempt? And what scares me is I'm leaning towards no, I'm leaning towards all just malfeasance and stupidity and inaction, but I think it's plausibly yes.Simone Collins: No. I think the felony charges are somewhat part of this, [00:43:00] but they're somewhat part of this in the same way that the biased media coverage of this assassination attempt is somewhat part of it in the sense that there are people. Who work in these legal positions or these media positions who vehemently believe that there is no way that our democracy could survive Trump being elected again, that he would break the country, that he would break everything, ruin everything, and he cannot under any circumstances win.And I think that those people of course will pursue legal action and will pursue media action that may be. that may be not considered good form in order to make that happen. But I don't think it's okay, guys, we're going to get together. We're going to coordinate on this. One, they would know that would make them look extra culpable and here there's plausible deniability.So they're not that dumb, but I also just don't think that they view it that way or do it that way either.Malcolm Collins: Oh, I have loved talking to you. We have seen our kids who have been raised on what I find so funny is Paw Patrol, [00:44:00] one of their favorite shows actually made by the Urban Monoculture. What does Paw Patrol teach you?Who are the villains? An incompetent bureaucrat, the mayor is the villain in Paw Patrol. Yes. No.Simone Collins: Octavian in Paw Patrol. Who's the bad guy? Who's the bad guy in Paw Patrol?Octavian Collins: Mayor Humdinger.Simone Collins: Humdinger?Malcolm Collins: Mayor Humdinger, right?Octavian Collins: Yeah, Mayor Humdinger has a top hat on it. And he said, You can't arrest me, I'm the mayor!Yeah, he does say that, doesn't he?, is he is he incompetent? Is he dumb?Octavian Collins: No, he just go fair and square.Malcolm Collins: Oh, he says fair and square a lot? Oh,Simone Collins: because, but is it actually fair and square?Or is he lying, Octavian? HeOctavian Collins: does it fair and square at the same time. And it gets the cloud catcher to blow and then makes a storm. Wait, I haveMalcolm Collins: a question, Octavian. Are all mares fair and square? Bad [00:45:00] guys.Octavian Collins: No. All mirrors are not bad guy. Only what mirror is a bad guy. Good job,Simone Collins: buddy. Okay. Now see, I think what Octavian identified here is what the urban monoculture is actually trying to tell us is that capitalist is a bad guy because he wears a top hat.Octavian says, I don't actually know what Mayor Hung Dinger looks like, but Octavian says he wears a top hat that is code for capitalist, right? Octavian.Malcolm Collins: But Octavian, what do you think of communists?Octavian Collins: I think about it, it's great.Malcolm Collins: What? You saySimone Collins: communism is great?Octavian Collins: Yeah.Simone Collins: Real communism hasn't been tried, right Octavian?Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Octavian, you need to learn the phrase, if you're going to say that, you need to say real communism has never been tried. Can you say that?Octavian Collins: Real communism has never been tried.Malcolm Collins: What did you think of the trains?Octavian Collins: I likedMalcolm Collins: it.Octavian Collins: Yeah but daddy said I gotta look at them, not get them.It's like a museum. [00:46:00]Malcolm Collins: Yeah, I said, look, so we did this horrifying thing today where we took our kids to an antique train show. And it was not really set up for kids. Okay. Okay. You're the microphone. Oh, thank you. And so the, when you've got three kids and you're trying to keep them from grabbing the trains from an antique toy show, cause they also had other antique toys as well.Many of which were for sale at insane prices. Oh God. Horrible mistake on my part. What do you think, Octavian? Was that a mistake on Dada's part?Octavian Collins: No, it's not. No, it was not. What do you thinkMalcolm Collins: Dadas are supposed to do for their kids?Octavian Collins: He helps the kids.Simone Collins: And how does a good mommy, what does a good mommy do?Octavian Collins: And and a good kisses too when you be nice.Malcolm Collins: Do?You can give kisses when you're nice. Oh, what does a good brother do?Octavian Collins: A good brother do nice things.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. I think people can see that we are obviously abusing our children.This is a kid who is terrified of me. And right Octavian you think is daddy [00:47:00] scary?Octavian Collins: No, he's not.Simone Collins: That is exactly what an abusive parent would force their child to say. You could tell he'sMalcolm Collins: crying under all this. This was all staged. Sick Malcolm,Simone Collins: you make meMalcolm Collins: sick. So I've got a question for you, somebody tried to shoot the president yesterday. Did you know that?Octavian Collins: I know. It's Mayor Humdinger.Malcolm Collins: Okay, and so what do you think should happen to the person who tried to shoot the president?Octavian Collins: He went to Mason but Prentice Guy just told him they're hunting her, but his mayor says, No dogs! I ordered the new mayor.Simone Collins: I think our LLM is hallucinating. That'sOctavian Collins: more of a cat person. That'sSimone Collins: all!Octavian Collins: If those are the rules, those are the rules. Okay. You guys have a perfect old time. And that's what he said, okay? And that's what they said to him.Malcolm Collins: This is a scene from the movie, by the [00:48:00] way, the Paw Patrol movie. It's a new thing that's going over.But yes, the LLM is hallucinating. And that's what we mean when we talk about, like, when you have young kids, you're like, maybe LLMs aren't as different from humans as I, I can do input commands and try to get him to respond, but sometimes it'll be like on an adjacent topic. You're very good at holding the microphone, by the way.You like watching cardboard guns get made?Okay, Octavian, do you want to say to the fans of the show that you're really excited that they're joining, and as you get older, you'll come on more?Octavian Collins: Yeah I need to tell them something. What do you want to tellSimone Collins: them?Octavian Collins: I just want to tell them that I'm going to show them my magic trick that you remember yesterday.Malcolm Collins: Okay, show the magic trick.Octavian Collins: That I did not have anything that I forgot. I just forgot them.Malcolm Collins: Oh, so he knows magic. He wants you to know that, but he forgot the equipment. Good job, buddy. I love you. I don't know what he's talking about. You're welcome. I don't remember the magicOctavian Collins: trick. I need [00:49:00] someone to teach me how magic works. Oh, okay. You need somebodyMalcolm Collins: to teach you how magic works?Octavian Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Okay.Octavian Collins: That's a good idea, buddy.Malcolm Collins: And if people want, we can try to do more with our kids.Octavian Collins: Do you like attacking daddyMalcolm Collins: with Toasty and Titan? AndOctavian Collins: though I wanna un attack daddy with, I wanna attack daddy with nobody.Malcolm Collins: Oh. You like attacking daddy on your own. So it's a fair fight.Octavian Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Fair and square.Octavian Collins: Yeah. I like attacking fear and square.Simone Collins: All right, buddy. I love you. Bye.Octavian Collins: Bye.Simone Collins:While you make that quick note, can I There's going to be poop everywhere if I don't take action now. Okay. Thank you. Sorry.Malcolm Collins: Oh, you look at me like I'm so innocent. I'm so innocent. You're not soSimone Collins: innocent. Oops, you did it [00:50:00] again. You pooped so much. There's poop everywhere. Oh baby, baby, oops, you think you're okay. But there's poop anywhere. You're not that innocent.Octavian Collins: Oh my god! Ah!Malcolm Collins: Okay, we're back. I love your singing, by the way. Do you do that every time you change her?Simone Collins: I'm constantly talking to her. The greatest thing about having kids is, I always talk to myself anyway, but now I don't sound like I'm crazy because I'm talking to a baby instead.Malcolm Collins: You are amazing.Simone Collins: Perfect.Malcolm Collins: And this is how you show off tradwifing. This is real tradwifing. It is diaper changes and singing crazy songs.Simone Collins: Diaper changes during podcasting. Actually that is so real tradwifing because the only real tradwife is a social media poster.Malcolm Collins: All right back on topic.Simone Collins: If you wouldn't mind just bringing milk to Toasty, he just woke up and he's crying.Octavian Collins: Thank you, Malcolm. [00:51:00] You're the best! ThatSimone Collins: is why I married you. No. Actually, I married you because you're crazy hot! And I was in love with you! But also because you're perfect. Ihad a person I wish existed and I didn't know existed. Yeah. I just wish I could be him. I did. Yeah. True story. I just was like, how could this person actually exist? It was pretty awesome. I was very happy.Malcolm Collins: So many distractions. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 12, 2024 • 43min

The Progressive Pronatalist Book that Broke My Wife ( "What Are Children For?")

Join Malcolm and Simone Collins as they dissect the new pronatalist book "What Are Children For?" by Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman. This in-depth discussion explores the challenges of promoting childbearing within a progressive framework and the broader implications for demographic trends.Key points covered:* Overview of "What Are Children For?" and its reception* The difficulty of justifying childbearing in a progressive worldview* Analysis of the book's central themes and claims* The impact of soft cultures on attitudes towards parenthood* The importance of having an objective function in life decisions* Critique of progressive arguments against having children* The unintended consequences of fertility strikes* The role of overthinking in modern parenting anxieties* How pronatalist arguments can reach progressive audiencesWhether you're interested in demographics, cultural trends, or the intersection of politics and family planning, this video offers a thought-provoking analysis of the challenges facing pronatalism in progressive circles.Simone Collins: [00:00:00] Hello, everybody. It's Simone Collins here. And I'm so glad to see you here today. I am taking over this podcast. Oh no! It's been takenMalcolm Collins: over!Simone Collins: Yeah, because I am going to lead the discussion today. I've decided not to phone it in. And we are going to talk today about a new Pronatalist book that came out called What Are Children For?Which is basically the left's attempt to At pronatalism it is a book that we were just told about by a friend at a conference and she basically explained it as this is the pronatalist argument. But from the perspective of a, an educated Brooklyn elite, who's highly progressive.Yeah, but they got likeMalcolm Collins: an opinion piece in the New York Times, for example. Yeah, it gotSimone Collins: an opinion piece in the New York Times. It got a write up in the New Yorker. Obviously and they would never even consider giving us a platform. WeMalcolm Collins: have done we've reached out to them before. They don't,Simone Collins: No. They don't talk to us, but they do talk to them. Because this was co written by two of their people. [00:01:00] Yeah. And so obviously we're super excited to read this book because, oh my gosh, maybe. Because we cannot apparently speak to pronatalism in a way that gets progressives excited. Maybe two progressive pronatalists could speak to progressives in a way that gets them excited.And so they did, and so I read the book. Um, and okay, let me just start off by giving you the book's description, Malcolm, and I want to get your impression because I've read the book, Malcolm has not. Let's see what you think. So this is What Are Children For? On Ambivalence and Choice by Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman.It came out on June 11th. So right now only three Three reviews have been written about it. It's very new. Here's the description becoming a parent. Once the expected outcome of adulthood is increasingly viewed as a potential threat to the most basic goals and aspirations of modern life, we seek self fulfillment, we want to liberate women to find meaning and self worth outside the home, and we wish to protect the planet from the ravages of climate change.Weighing on the [00:02:00] pros and cons of having children, Millennials and Zoomers are finding it increasingly difficult to judge in favor. With lucid argument and passionate prose, Anastasia Berg and Rachel Wiseman offer the guidance necessary to move beyond uncertainty. The decision whether or not to have children, they argue, is not just a woman's issue, but a basic human one.And at a time when climate change worries threaten the very legitimacy of human reproduction, Berg and Wiseman conclude that neither our personal nor collective failures ought to prevent us from embracing the fundamental goodness of human life, not only in the present, but in choosing to have children in the future.So what do you think of this description?Would you like to know more?Simone Collins: What's your impression here?Malcolm Collins: I mean that it is what you said it is. It is pronatalism. And progressives are screwed. If they can't figure out a prenatalist cultural subfaction, their entire value system is going to go extinct. Yeah. And a lot [00:03:00] of people look at us and they think that we're like, secretly trying to save the progressives or something like that.I would like some aspect of their culture to survive, but I don't want them to have the cultural dominance they have now. I think that's, they've shown that they basically become Nazis whenever they gain cultural power and they start dividing humans by ethnic group. I'm going toSimone Collins: say a lot of the things that progressives fight for that they, they say they want pluralism.Freedom of lifestyle, et cetera, are things that we very much support. It's just that in terms of what they actually allow for and support, progressives don't tend to do that in practice today.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, in a way that aligns with our values.Simone Collins: And that's what you're talking about. We actually do care about progressive values, but the progressive movement now does not actually support those values.That's what you're saying.Malcolm Collins: It is it's wild that this has become the case. I think the parties have flipped basically with Trump. But anyway, so the interesting thing as a person like me is hearing you read this [00:04:00] and seeing your reaction to this and you guys haven't had to live with Simone while she was reading this.OhSimone Collins: No. We're going to go over. All these things. And you're going to react to all my little bits. I have all these little things I can share with you about the book, but we're just, I'm just getting your impression on the description as provided by the publishers.Malcolm Collins: I feel like I've just been read like Miranda rights.This is about to like, that was a trigger warning for conservatives. That entire intro was a trigger.Simone Collins: Okay. All right. I'll give you my TLDR because you say you should never bury the lead in these videos. I read this book. It included things like literary analysis, because that's apparently a necessary part of discussion of prenatalism, which this is clearly why we're not convincing any progressives.We forgot the literary analysisMalcolm Collins: in this context. What do you mean? Huh? Explain literary analysis. I, as a listener, don't know what you mean by they did. Okay. They, theSimone Collins: authors literally talk about a series of books. There's one chapter where they just talk about books on motherhood they were written by various highfalutin fiction authors, and then there's another chapter where they talk about books [00:05:00] that are about climate, changing climate disasters.In fact, one of the reviews of this book complains about the fact that there were spoilers in the literary analysis. That was one of her primary complaints because she cared enough to actually, go and read these books, which is, I think also interesting, reading all this literary analysis, it actually took me back to my high school days.And it, I realized that the reaction I had at the end of this book was very similar to the reaction I had after finishing The Grapes of Wrath. Where you read that scene with the weird birth in the barn that was supposed to be like analogous to Jesus or something. And you're just like, what the f**k happened to me?Everything is terrible. And that is where I ended this book. What the f**k happened to me? And everything is terrible. And before I wanted to bring all my, my criticisms of the book to you and actually air them on this podcast because I am very concerned about leaving a somewhat critical review of this book in video form without being justified in it.I [00:06:00] went and looked at the other reviews to be like, am I crazy? Did this book basically leaves no reason to have kids. So the punchline to what are kids for or reasons for having kids. There are none. Bad.Malcolm Collins: Because I do not think you can justify above reproductive childbearing rates within a progressive moral framework.Simone Collins: Genuinely. It, it seems like what children are for is nothing. Children should not. It's a book.Malcolm Collins: No. But I, from what you told me, it's a book about why you may want one.Simone Collins: Not even that. I can't find justification in this book, even for one kid. But anyway it turns out the three reviews that exist so far, there's a total of four, but one on Amazon was also published on Goodreads.All of them were by people who were sent the book by a publisher who clearly wanted them to post reviews. Two of them are from mothers, one, a mother of six. And I'll just read you from the one person who left a review. As a member of the actual target audience, which is, a progressive woman who does not yet have kids.Shannon [00:07:00] Whitehead wrote I appreciate the book's premise and liked it overall, but it's not the guide it bills itself as. The summary describes what are children for as quote an argument with quote unquote guidance on how to overcome parenthood ambivalence. However, it's more a collection of various people's thoughts on having children throughout history.The author has definitely added to these perspectives, but as someone who absolutely is the target audience for this book, I don't find much of what I would consider guidance or advice. Which, okay. So I'm not crazy. Cause part of me was like, Oh, I'm just too dumb for this educated progressive view.Like I'm just, it's going over my head. The literary analysis,Malcolm Collins: reading a cultural framework that we are not familiar with and may not pick up some of the nuances in like Jewish literature. I'm not going to necessarily catch everything a Jewish person would catch. Yes, but here is, I think what the book actually is.And I think that you are engaging with it incorrectly.Simone Collins: Okay.Malcolm Collins: I think that a progressive woman was thinking about having [00:08:00] kids and then decided to do what was essentially a progressive literature review on the subject of having kids. Now, if you think like us, like you're some sort of a rationalist nerd and you're doing a literature review, you're going over all the research and everything like that.If you're a progressive and you're doing what is for them a cultural literature review, they are going over all of the thoughts, anyone in the. intellectual intelligentsia zeitgeist has had in modern times or in history about having kids. So this is like a, the arts literature review of what the intellectual intelligentsia has to say about the meaning of human life.And I think fundamentally what you and this other person took away from it is that they just don't have strong arguments for it because I think that the larger, so when people, when we say the larger progressive ideology is fundamentally anti natalist, I should probably [00:09:00] explain what I mean by that. We argue that the urban monoculture, which is what progressivism largely is, it's this cultural framework that exists around the world, mostly concentrated in urban centers.It's a modern memetic virus. You can look at our video, The Anatomy of the Urban Monoculture, if you want to go deeper on this. But it's core draw is Come to us and you won't have to experience any in the moment emotional suffering. And so this is where like trigger warnings come from. This is where the haze movement comes from.This is where like we're going to hand out meth, meth on the streets comes from. Like it, these things, Make no sense if you are operating within most moral frameworks. That's why I bring them up. Like the idea of telling somebody that eating too much is going to make them unhealthy and suffer in the long run doesn't make sense in most even like basic utilitarian frameworks.So you need this very strange moral set where like in the moment, emotional pain is the ultimate negative trigger warnings, for example, fall into this as well. And there is the way that you resolve emotional pain in this [00:10:00] framework is clearly remove humans. You remove humans, you remove emotional pain.Every additional human is just a being that might, at some point, experience emotional pain, and therefore should not come into exist. And you also have this problem downstream of broad utilitarian frameworks, it's just less immediate, which is they, if you take a a broad utilitarian framework, but then lean heavily on the negative utilitarian side, which progressive culture definitely does, like it sees the fact that humans suffer, As much more of a negative than the fact that they feel emotional.Good. There's not a way that you can motivate, when telling a parent, if I'm telling them, you need to have over X many kids, the argument I need to be presenting them with and I think that the good book that does this is selfish reasons to have more kids, Brian, I think that's the book that has actually convinced a number of progressives and he's actually responsible for like at least a hundred people that exist in the world today or more, but these are like the ones.[00:11:00]Because selfish reasons to have more kids engages with progressive culture as it really exists, which is a woman asking, how will having kids improve my life? The problem is that the kids often don't improve your life. That's not the point of kids. It's to give them a good life. And so when you have kids to improve your life, You end up with all of the stuff we talk about in our video about the parents who regret having kids and why this is a rising trend.I feel like the people who would be convinced by this book would end up regretting their decision to have kids. And you mentioned that at the end of the book, even the author seems to regret her decision. Yeah, oneSimone Collins: of the two authors has has a kid at the end of the book and describes her. experiences a mother and she sounds like a genuinely miserable mother who regrets having kids and is still extremely ambivalent about the choice to have kids and is trying to just be like, but it's meaningful.Which is crazy. And, [00:12:00] I think what you're saying is right about them just doing the literature review of. The experts when trying to evaluate this but then not really finding anything that justifies it like one Mother who wrote a review says this book has a lot of references to feminist texts often citing works The works of Rachel Kusk and Sheila Hetty this provides a reader with additional materials to seek out and read more about direct experiences with motherhood and ambivalence and I don't necessarily think this book would be a directly helpful guide to those struggling with the decision to have children.While there is an exploration of different arguments, including climate change, not finding a suitable partner, financial concerns, and self interest, there is perhaps, obviously, no direct path to coming to a conclusion for yourself. I would also say that the author's perspectives on motherhood seem to skew slightly negative, which is obviously not everyone's experience.Who have children, . So even like other reviewers of the book who've been given free copies presumably because they will write positive reviews are kind of like, it's clear these [00:13:00] women don't wanna have children. Yeah. WhichMalcolm Collins: is crazy.Simone Collins: And yetMalcolm Collins: this thing I actually think that what this book is and I think it's something we're gonna see increasingly as the culture wars shift in the direction of Tism is.There is a faction of progressive women who will recognize. That having kids is a moral good, like their worldview, that everything we say, their worldview, their perspectives on reality are going to die out. This progressive cultural framework that they champion is slated for extinction right now. And therefore, from their perspective, it is a moral good to have kids.And now they need to come up with a logical structure that can motivate this decision that they've reached at from a logical deduction from their higher order moral framing. The problem is that there is no. Real or good logical framework that motivates kids in a progressive world view.Simone Collins: I think something else that plays it Intuitively, I think a lot of progressive women really want to have children and yet [00:14:00] the culture they've adopted prevents them from enjoying it and the lifestyle that they choose and the approach to parenting that they feel they have to take prevents them from enjoying it when I read the final chapter where one of the authors describes her experience as a parent of a young girl Um it's clear that she could have had a good experience as a mother, but the way that she chooses to raise her daughter and the fact that she only has one child actually makes it just really hard and stressful and a fairly miserable experience.But let's let's go ahead. I wanted to discuss with you, because I think this is something interesting some of the central themes and claims of the book. There are three, so I'm going to read them off to you and then you can tell me what your thoughts are on them. Because I think that these are the core things with which you and I would probably disagree.And I found it quite interesting. So one central claim and theme is that Either going back to or creating a hard culture is impossible. That's a big thing, and of course, clearly we're of a very different How would theyMalcolm Collins: present this argument? I, this is obviously our It wasSimone Collins: it was explicitly [00:15:00] discussed, but in a very offhand and of course we can't go back, and we also couldn't create a new one.That was, it basically just said like that.Malcolm Collins: Oh, so they just offhandedly are like, you can't recreate Yeah, they're just like,Simone Collins: offhand of course you couldn't just go back and create a new culture. It was that explicit. So I thought that was really interesting. But just basically zero And that, the pithiness with which that was expressed Demonstrates the extent to which they've given very little thought.Malcolm Collins: I actually think that this is really important because you need to ask, like, why didn't they say that could be a solution, like altering their cultural framework? And the answer is because you could not stay within the urban monoculture if you created a, a. Side cultural group that wouldn't see the threat to it, so they literally can't like Struggled herself to sleep by the way.Oh, no, you're awake again. Sorry carry onThat is so sweet if she did present it. God, I don't remember what I was saying thereSimone Collins: If they [00:16:00] did develop a hard culture, they by definition wouldn't be progressive anymore, which is a big dealMalcolm Collins: Yeah, it's funny that's basically what we did we were progressives who'd been, ended up developing our culture and are like, okay, now we are more, mindful of the curative framework.Simone Collins: Yeah. Yeah. So here's another very pervasive theme, and I think this is especially crucial, which is that the readers, sorry, the authors and the readers of this book, and basically every woman whose perspective they mention in their literary analysis, in all of their other references, lack an objective function.We define an objective function is basically a few, or just one thing of inherent value that you yourself have chosen. To optimize your life around it. This is the thing you're seeking to maximize. And it could be the wellbeing of all humankind. It could be the wellbeing of all sentient animals and beings.It could be serving God. It could be having fun. It could be whatever, right? No one reading or writing this book has an objective function. And this is the very source of that ambivalence about parenthood. Because as [00:17:00] soon as you have an objective function and then an ideology on how you're going to maximize that thing, or those things that you're going to maximize in your life.You have an answer as to whether or not you're going to have kids,Malcolm Collins: period. Because this is what I'm optimizing for. By the way, if you don't have an objective function and you are interested in developing one yourself without a lot of bias read The Pragmatist's Guide to Life. We wrote that during a time in our life where we were much less ideologically biased than we are now.And I think it is as close as a true neutral resource for finding an objective function.Simone Collins: Exactly. Yeah.Malcolm Collins: To clarify objective function. In other words, it's what you're saying. It is a moral framework for interacting with reality. IE, this is what I think is good. This is what I think is bad. And at what measures you think those things are truly good and bad.And then you can just use that to plug into a moral equation when you're making individual decisions should I have kids? But I also would say the answer if you're like, how do I if you're genuinely like. How do I morally justify having kids? [00:18:00] Like you're, or in this progressive culture, the actual argument I would most use is to say you're doing it for them and not you don't think about you or a society or anything like that.This is an entire human who's going to live a hundred years or 80 years. Who knows what's technology being, what it is now. Who's going to experience an entire life and you can create this multiplicatively based on the level of sacrifice you're willing to make. How much are you willing to sacrifice to give other humans the chance to live?And then you could say, oh, but then I could take the money into whatever and just give it to people in Africa or whatever, right? Yeah, but those people are different from you. They're culturally different from you, they're genetically different from you, they're not going to experience the same type of life as you.So you are exchanging one of those lives for another one of those lives. Here is where progressives can't come up with an answer to this. They would then say, Yes, [00:19:00] but all lives are exactly equal. And I might be like, That might be true from a universal perspective, but that is not true from a parent's perspective.Your child's life as a parent is not equal to every other child on the world. I'm telling you that in absolute sense, you're, you, the parent who says that my child's life is equal to a random child growing up in another country, I'd say nope, and there's probably something emotionally wrong with you if you think that because even if at a universal perspective, all human lives may be equal we do disproportionately value ideologically, even the lives of those who are closer to us than the lives of those who are further from us.And it is one of those lives that you are creating with the sacrifice, but the progressive moral framework doesn't allow them to say that. So you can't really pierce with this argument. Anyway, soSimone Collins: the third element and core premise [00:20:00] of this book is that the authors and pretty much everyone that they're describing as well are raised by parents who are in soft or super soft cultures or even parents who themselves were raised by parents of soft cultures.So we are seeing either one or two generations in to soft or super soft cultures. And I think that's also really important is that These people predominantly were raised by also people who were not from hard cultures, and that definitely shows. There are some, there are just a few exceptions in the book, but I think what's important to note is that At this juncture in society, it's not that like people for the first time are going soft.It's that we're seeing multiple generations into soft culture. Yeah,Malcolm Collins: we abandoned the religious systems that we co evolved with. A lot of people I think expected the majority of the effect of this abandonment to happen in the generation that was abandoning these systems. Exactly. But it turns out it most of the There's a certain amountSimone Collins: of inertia.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, there's inertia. But also I think most of the benefits of these systems are [00:21:00] actually transmuted during childhood. So even if, for example, and I see this with Mormons, we've talked about it in other videos, even if a Mormon leaves the faith, if I interact with them and they were raised in a Mormon household, I can immediately tell that they were raised in a Mormon household.Like the way they interact is very different than the way other people interact. And it's generally more emotionally healthy than the way other people interact, whether they stayed in the faith or stayed out of the faith. And I say this as a non mormon, so this is me, just elevating also true with Jews I've met, Jews who grew up in religiously observant households, even if they've left, typically have that vibe as adults and are more emotionally healthy and stuff like that.You don't begin to see the mental breakdown that comes from leaving a hard tradition that you were raised in. Until you get to the generation that was raised in their childhood without even that tradition.Simone Collins: That's right.Malcolm Collins: In what these people look like from the [00:22:00] perspective of society, when you see them, when you interact with them, is like a robot that's like short circuiting.The book feels from what Simone was telling me in terms of reading it is Like the active breakdown of progressive culture in real time. So derived from any sort of hard cultural framework that makes demands of an individual that puts that expects discipline, whether it is external discipline or self discipline on an individual.That's why progressives freak out at us. We've said that's why they freak out at Starship Troopers. This world, you should watch our Starship Troopers videos, that is totally equal ruled by a black African female, Sky Marshall Tahat Marul, the entire planet is where the genders, all the genders are the same in the shower.What's the one thing that's different? What's the one thing that makes it the fascist dystopia to them? That you are expected to do something. You are expected to sacrifice something yourself. For the rest of humanity, if you are going to take on a role in terms of deciding the [00:23:00] future of that society, i.e. voting and when you completely remove discipline from individuals lives and the expectation of sacrifice from individuals lives and you do this intergenerationally, you get this short circuiting and static. Which I think is what this book is. And I would encourage, if our words end up being remembered in the future.'cause I don't think this book's gonna end up doing very well given the number of reviews it has so far and stuff like that. When, and we're doingSimone Collins: ourMalcolm Collins: best to promote it rightSimone Collins: now, by the way. Yeah. We're doing ourMalcolm Collins: best toSimone Collins: promote it. I know for example, that at least one of the listeners and listeners of this podcast was present with me.at Manifest when we were told by another woman, a friend of ours that, you know, about this book. And she said, this is great. This is exactly what I need because she herself is progressive. And she wanted to hear this argument. So even people watching this podcast are the target audience for this book.And I am here to promote it. We were going to [00:24:00] have the authors on, but that that the follow up and connection never took place. Y'all are welcome, by the way, to come on and talkMalcolm Collins: about this. Hold on, I have to finish this statement. When you future anthropologists are trying to understand how progressive culture, how the dominant culture in the world, the first culture that basically ruled the entire world, through the UN, through the American government, how did it suddenly kill itself within one generation?This book will hold the keys to their way of seeing reality that you in the future are no longer able to model.Simone Collins: Anyway, some positives. I learned some things that I didn't expect from the book. For example, they cited one study, which I had not come across. They found that many women freezing eggs are not in highly paid careers.They just needed to separate fertility constraints from finding the right partner. And I think that's quite interesting. We might even do a whole podcast on this because, they pointed out [00:25:00] that one of the major constraints of course, is actually finding the right partnering and someone who listens to this podcast to point it out to you, Malcolm, I think.That really what we should be promoting isn't having kids, but just actually having a wholesome, healthy marriage, because that is the bottleneck in so many of these cases.Malcolm Collins: I think we do that through our interactions as we show and we model a possibility that I think a lot of people are just unaware of.And I would say for the women who are doing this is the problem because I've talked to these women. Okay. And they're not finding good partners. There are a lot of good men. Out there looking for a wife right now. They are not finding good partners because two, they are using as a benchmark for the type of partners that they can get as the type of partners who while polyamorous will date them.Lady, let me tell you what, if a guy is dating four other women and he's also dating you or he's dating you, but he's saying, eh I'm not going to be exclusive with you. Of course, I'm going to be dating other women. That person is going to be a much higher [00:26:00] quality male than you can secure within a monogamous market.That's just clear. Like you will not get that. You need to be dating like three or four. And also ifSimone Collins: you have a child with that man, his value on the market will plummet. And suddenlyMalcolm Collins: sometimes secure him. So do be aware of that. That is a pretty good gambit that we've mentioned in another podcast. The other thing I'd say is a lot of these women are looking for progressive men.And there are two progressive women for everyone. Progressive men. You, I do not think that. Most progressive men are emotionally healthy. They're generally like psychological wrecks who are like seeing a psychologist every week. So yeah. Sorry. I know we're not supposed to shame seeing a psychologist anywhere, but the modern iteration of psychology is just so harmful.So to these women, you gotta break out of that. You gotta break out of the, that, that mindset because that is not where you're going to find the good guys.Simone Collins: I also did not know that weapon. They're sorry that women try to [00:27:00] weaponize their fertility. Tell me about this by saying that they'll refuse to have kids or out of protest because others such as family members are not doing enough to fight climate change or that they're like not voting Democrat.And there are groups like Birthstrike and No Future Children that are Oh, we need to look these up. I know, I need to, yeah, we need to maybe do a whole episode on those. I did learn some interesting things. The reasons that they presented for not having kids are pretty much all the typical reasons you'd expect.Being forced to compromise their careers, which is totally fair. I think that's a huge reason to not have kids. That's why I said I wasn't going to have kids. Not finding a suitable partner, high cost, concerned about not being able to give the kids the same upbringing they received, like going to college without going into debt.Then of course there's just the typical negative utilitarianism, climate change, and then just misery being a parent. And I think that's due to the unreasonable expectations. ThisMalcolm Collins: is actually really interesting is the idea of a fertility strike. So fertility strikes only work on your genetic [00:28:00] relatives.And yet progressives don't seem to understand this. There was that case in Canada that we did the joke on that I'll play here.Oh, good, look, your friends are here! Hey!You're supposed to want to have children. And this is your ultimate goal in life. It is a very archaic idea and old idea and representation of a woman. So you you're getting people to sign a petition.pledge, basically saying that they will not have Children until the Canadian government takes serious action on climate change.Is that your blood? What, no. No, it's college kid blood. And how many people have signed on so far. 1, 381 as of right now. I know what this is. This is a suicide pact. Oh my god, that makes so much sense. , we have got to hide all of the sharp objects!if only I was born with a vagina. To solve that problem. Amen, sister. Holy [00:29:00] mother of God! Some kid, he just hucked himself right into the wood chipper! What? Head first, right into the wood chipper! It looked like it might have been one of the college kids..Malcolm Collins: Where they tried to do a fertility strike for climate change, like a bunch of young women. And I'm like, okay, me as somebody who doesn't care about climate change, I'm glad you're leaving the gene pool, right?Like the people who already care about climate change. They're the people who you're appealing to is this, right? And so presumably you can't get them to vote more Democrat than they're already voting, right? So they don't matter. Like the metric of similarity to yourself that you are demarcating here is the metric that decides your enemies and allies.So you're not really pushing anyone. So why would women think that this would work? And it is because they view the world with a completely socialist mindset. They genuinely believe that all children belong to the state and not to the family, not to the cultural group. And because of [00:30:00] that, They believe that a progressive woman threatening to not have kids is going to motivate a, for example, conservative man to change his perspective, when I'm just like, okay, good riddance.I would be the worst Noah. I don't know if I've ever said, the fairies and the unicorns, they're like I hate you and I'm not getting on the raft. And I'd be like, give him the bird and go on the raft. I'm like, I don't care. You guys can drown. And that's really where we are right now.Is a lot of groups react. angrily when you point out the truth that if people like them cannot motivate fertility, they're going to disappear in the future.Simone Collins: Yeah. There was also some butthurt in the book that just got me angry. They were complaining that egg freezing and IVF is tough because there are needles.And you can't have sex during the egg freezing round. And I'm like, like the, just the sheer amount of, and they also didn't point out, they pointed out a little bit of how expensive it is, but it just, it bothered me. And then they also argue, of course, it's women can't have [00:31:00] it all.And I think that goes back to this major issue of people. who read this book and wrote this book did not have objective functions because you can have it all if you know what you care about you can have all that you care about if you choose what you care about because then you know there are two different versions of having it all there's having it all with an objective function where I literally have it all But I have many of the things that people would want if they don't have an objective function that they don't have.For example, we don't do a ton of travel internationally anymore, obviously, because we have kids. We don't eat out I don't buy a lot of stuff. So I don't have it all in those ways, but also those are not things I care about. I literally have everything that I care about and that's great.And I think that's how a lot of other mothers feel who have objective functions is they know exactly what they want. They know exactly what doesn't matter to them and they're able to have everything that they want because it's actually not that much. And that's why I think it's so important to have an objective function, but yeah, so to the point of [00:32:00] literary analysis, it was actually within the literary analysis portion of the book.That I inadvertently came across what I thought was their most clever way of convincing progressive womenMalcolm Collins: toSimone Collins: want to have children. And I told you this when I just listened to that portion of the audio book they described this one, it sounded like a complete nightmare of a book about a, it seemed like partially or mostly trans polycule. And like their journey into motherhood and although maybe not motherhood, I think maybe there was an abortion in there. It just sounded like the ultimate progressive fiction book. But they described this one character who was a trans woman who desperately wanted to experience true motherhood and it really brought across the privilege that women experience in being able to be mothers.And the fact that there are all these trans women who would [00:33:00] genuinely if you're a real trans woman, right? And like you just desperately want to be a woman, you desperately want to be a mother and you can't? You can just feel the entitlement, The, the spoiled rottenness of women in their ability to carry children and then just complain about it and be like, how dare you expect me to have children when there are people, both infertile women and like me, right?And trans women who take the same amount of estrogen that I do, apparently. Who just desperately want to have children. And that was the one time reading this book where I was like, Oh s**t. Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Like that argument would work on progressives. That actually would work on progressives. And it's interesting.Yeah. Like howSimone Collins: dare trans women would die to be where you are. That was the most prenatalist argument in the entire book. So I thought that was very interesting. Wanted to point that out. I wrote, oh my god, these authors are overthinking themselves into abject misery. No wonder university educated women are not having kids.Yeah, that's really how I fall through a lot of this. I think overthinking is a [00:34:00] central theme here. And especially in the literary analysis, there's these descriptions of either books describing, yeah, I think it's books describing this with feminist authors saying oh, when I, it was breastfeeding my child.I like felt this my asthma of whatever. And there are just these women who are overthinking it so much and they clearly don't have anything else that they're doing. And this is why you shouldn't take maternity leave because you're just going to go completely crazy. And it just, it bothers me how much overthinking there is in this process.And they also argue in the book, and this is a big thing that bothers me. about progressives and conversations around prenatalism is that girls are taught from a very young age. That motherhood is their destiny, and that we live in a pronatalist world, and that women are pressured to have children.Because I, until I met you, and you talked with me about children, was antinatalist, I planned on never having children. And I was never shamed for that. I was never questioned for that. So they claim that [00:35:00] women are being shamed they claim, and I've seen this done before, by people who make antinatalist arguments.That women that we live in this pro natalist world where they're shamed for being child free and they're ashamed for not having kids. But I was in their position. I never felt questioned. And actually I felt quite judged when I wanted to have kids, even by my own parents wereMalcolm Collins: Oh, you're going to be like, what are you guys doing?Why are you having so many kids? NoSimone Collins: but at least my mother was like, Oh, Malcolm, you're going to be such a great. parent. And then she like turned to me and was like, sheMalcolm Collins: did. She's yeah, we have to one kid. Your mom was very clean. We're going to have one kid. Yeah. My mom began because your mom died before we had more than one kid.But my mom started freaking out at two kids. She's you need to stop. You need to stop. Then she gave up though. She got Zen about it. No, she said four was the perfect number and we needed to stop at four.Malcolm Collins: I know she's a fan of the show and everything like that. And the first fan of the show really who, who really was watching it [00:36:00] daily. But I don't think she could deal with the press we're getting these days. Emotionally, she wouldn't be able to deal with it and I would likely have to pull back or something like that.Agents of Providence act as they act, right? We are able to move as far. As we can, and we actually saw that in her like notes after she died, that one of her dreams was that we got famous, but that couldn't happen in a world where we also weren't so attacked that you just can't be famous without being hated these days.If you look at younger, celebrities that are up or anything through the ranks. And that's one of the problems with this progressive mindset is it is a desire to conform. At the same time as to have pride in who you are and what makes you different. And that's, especially where those things aren't from progressive culture, i.e. the random things that turn you on. But, your cultural background, your family's background and [00:37:00] pride in anything that is not granular in the progressive world is sin, which is so interesting that you are allowed to be as prideful as you want about the random things that turn you on. But having pride in your culture or your religion or your ethnicity, those things are seen as sin.It's core sins in progressivism and they must do that because all of those things represent alternate cultural frameworks that could compete with their own.Simone Collins: Yeah. So anyway I came away from this book feeling pretty disheartened because I thought, okay, clearly we're not getting through to progressive groups in terms of making a strong prenatalist argument. Actually, you know what, I'm going to take that back. Progressives don't think we're getting through to them, but we are. Because I'm noticing, for example when we've gone viral twice in British publications, for whatever [00:38:00] reason Young Turks has done a segment on the piece that goes viral.And the first time they went in on us to attack us, they're like. Wow, like these, monsters, they did not acknowledge demographic collapse as an issue. Second time, they're like obviously demographic collapse is an issue and pronatalism is important, but like these motherfuckers are doing it in a super evil, bad way.Like they're terrible people. And I think the important thing is that we are raising awareness and we're getting a subset of progressives to be like, Oh yeah, it's an issue. And I hate these guys, but. I care about this and I'm going to do something about it. I actually think our advocacy is doing a good job.I think doubling down on the reasons not to have kids, which is what this book does is quite as much as it speaks to the antinatalist sentiment of the progressive movement, it's not solving the problem. And as the other reviewers stated, it's not giving a real practical framework. Now I welcome [00:39:00] either or both of the authors to come on.Thank you. And talk with us about this and give a defense for the book and perhaps because I'm too low IQ to actually catch the message that is inspiring when you read this book to have kids explain what I missed and dumb it down forMalcolm Collins: what's the specific arguments. That's what we want to know.Like dumb it down for me, a meditation on children and motherhood. And I actually think this is the core thing where progressives fail at this. is when they focus on children, they narcissistically focus on motherhood instead of focusing on humanity.Simone Collins: Oh, and actually that is what, when when our friend told me about the book, that's what I thought it was going to be about because the way that she explained it to me was that it tries to take all the arguments that progressives are using for not having kids, such as the environment, such as negative utilitarianism.[00:40:00]And just allow people to look at the inherent question of, should I have kids? But that's not what it ultimately was about. So either she had not yet read the book orMalcolm Collins: that's what I assume.Simone Collins: Yeah, maybe it had just come out. So I think she had an advanced copy. She literally had a physical hard copy with herMalcolm Collins: anticipated that it would address those issues, but maybe but yeah, I, but I don't think that those issues are like, we address each of those in turn in the pragmatist guide to crafting religion, which is our pronatalism book.We have a section where we just go through every one of the progressive arguments, environmentalism, antinatalism, et cetera, and we give a logical counter to it. But the problem is that those are logical counters from first principle perspectives. Which do not register with progressives.Simone Collins: I think, you could also argue it's a very masculine take, right?So the approach that we take to problems is what the boyfriend does when he's not being a good boyfriend. When the girl comes to him and he's can you, she, or she says, I'm with you, this terrible thing happened to me at work. And can you believe what he said? And the boyfriend's [00:41:00] obviously what you should do is this here's how to solve the problem.And then she gets mad because what he was supposed to say was, Oh my gosh, that's so horrible. You must feel terrible.Malcolm Collins: This book is a feelings circle.Simone Collins: I think that's what they're going for here is yes, it's so expensive and your career is hampered and you're going to be miserable. YouMalcolm Collins: are heard.You areSimone Collins: heard. Yes. And maybe, actually, you know what? I think we just figured it out. I think we just figured it out. That's what this book is doing. It is doing the good boyfriend. It is being the good boyfriend of Pronatalism. We areMalcolm Collins: the bad boyfriend. We are the bad boyfriend. Shut up, b***h.This is how you handle it. We gotta.Simone Collins: We're like, no, don't worry. I'll fix it for you. We mansplain. Okay. We are mansplaining. And this book is listening and acknowledging and it, and the readers are heard. They're definitely heard. Like all of the progressive female concerns are aired ad nauseum in this and that's it.That's it. [00:42:00] And but I think here's the problem. Here's the problem is mansplaining and problem solving is still the correct pathway and listening and saying, Oh, this is so terrible. You must feel so terrible. The boyfriend who does that is enabling a girlfriend to develop more neurosis. To not solve our problems, to establish learned helplessness.That good boyfriend behavior is toxic and ultimately abusive.Malcolm Collins: Simone, I love you to death. You are the best wife any man could hope for. It's true though, right? And tell meSimone Collins: I'm wrong.Malcolm Collins: No, you, but I'm the guy here. I, you're saying you're, you are so right that I've never even A scene, somebody as right as you, you are the pick me of the already chosen.Simone Collins: I am the chosen. I am not a pick me. IMalcolm Collins: am chosen. I'm not a pick me. I am the chosen. Oh, that'd be great if there's a new group of women who call themselves the chosen instead of pick me. Oh my god, yes! You're like, I've already been chosen. I already have the kids. [00:43:00] Yeah. I've won this game. I'm in the post game.Yeah. Love you to death..Simone Collins: Would you mind getting the kids?And then locking the fence, and then I'll make dinner while they play outside?Malcolm Collins: Will do.Simone Collins: Thank you. Alright, little one. Let's get you changed and get your dinner. Din. You're awake now. You're awake now. Okay. Okay. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 11, 2024 • 29min

Parentification: Malcolm and Simone Debate How Much Responsibility Kids Should Have for Siblings

In this thought-provoking episode, Malcolm and Simone delve into the controversial topic of parentification, exploring its various definitions and implications for raising children in large families. They discuss how the concept is often misused by YouTube commenters and contrast it with the medical industry's understanding of emotional and instrumental parentification. Malcolm argues that historically, children taking on parental roles was seen as a moral responsibility and necessity for maintaining high fertility rates. Simone adds nuance to the discussion, highlighting the importance of consent, aptitude, and ensuring children's safety when assigning responsibilities. The couple also touches on the psychological benefits of giving children age-appropriate tasks and the dangers of creating a culture where kids believe they can shirk responsibilities they dislike. Join Malcolm and Simone as they navigate this complex issue and offer insights on fostering a sense of moral responsibility in children.[00:00:00]Malcolm Collins: Hello, Simone. Hello, gorgeous husband. Today, we are going to do an episode on the topic of parentification. , so what I've learned, cause I wanted to do some more research on this before going live with this episode. Is like the actual definition of parentification is not the way it is used by YouTube commenters.Oh. And so we'll be talking about parentification as three different concepts throughout this show. So first is the way that it is most often used because where I see this is when we're watching like Ultra progressive reaction videos to prenatalist families, IE video families with a lot of kids,Industry Collins: orMalcolm Collins: when we see fam kids who grew up in large environments with a lot of other kids, their complaint is parentification.And when this is,Simone Collins: we should say kids who grew up in large families who subsequently deconverted from that, their birth culture, essentially.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. So they will say that they were forced to undertake the [00:01:00] role of the parent to In some of like in helping raise their siblings that they were in part responsible for raising their siblings.This is the way it is used within pop culture.Then within the medical industry or the way it was originally intended to be used is actually there is emotional parentification, which means that the parent relies on their child for emotional support that should be coming from their partner, i.e. they are treating their child more like a friend and less like a child. The other category of parentification here is , when a child feels the need to take on responsibility because their parent isn't fully responsible.Industry Collins: Okay.Malcolm Collins: Example here would be like their dad ran away, their mom's addicted to crack and they had to raise their sibling.Simone Collins: Okay.Malcolm Collins: This is very different than the way [00:02:00] YouTubers mean it, which is, I grew up in a family with seven kids, and I was responsible for sometimes watching after my siblings, or feeding my siblings, or, etc.And it's a very important topic to dive into because so long as parentification as it is talked about within the YouTube community is something that is shamed, culturally we will never be able to get above replacement rate again. Because taking responsibility for one's family members historically was just seen as an obvious moral good and responsibility of every individual, right?You cannot raise a large family. Especially in a historic context without the children taking on some of the parental roles. And to understand what I mean when I say this, in the 1800s in the United States, your average American had seven [00:03:00] kids. Average. So that means for every American who didn't get married or had zero kids, there was another American having over 14 kids.Okay? That means for every American who had four kids, The measly, tiny number of four kids, oh shame to that barren spinstress, which we only recently got to a few days ago That meant that there was another family that was having 10 kids.These were families, the average American family, where the kids were relied upon in part to help with child rearing. And we should note how much this was stalled in a cultural context. So I read the diary from one of my ancestors in a previous episode. It's the episode titled something like kids used to like their parents.And it was, it's a great episode, by the [00:04:00] way, I strongly suggest you check it out. It's one of those episodes where it ended up getting rev shared and I was like, I don't even care. Too good. But great episode. But this previous episode in the diaries, something that was very interesting, is it was seen as totally normal and admirable for the older siblings in a family.To give up their potentiality in life to expand the potentiality of the younger siblings. So in this family, what happened is the, you could go work in the local lumber mill and make good money, but you didn't have any chance of upward social mobility. So the older siblings in the family the two oldest brothers went to work in the lumber mill and then use the money that they made in the lumber bill to make sure that their younger siblings could get a good education.And today, this would be seen of as horrifying. How could that happen? In the frontier times, it's not like the parents had any money. They were barely scraping by as They had a in the [00:05:00] story, they had some pigs, and they had a spin wheel for making dresses. And that was it.Like a one room house and an outhouse. That was what they owned, right? You didn't have anything else. And I think that in a historic context, we just forget that because we compare ourselves only to our parents generation, how hard things were, we also need to talk about the psychological benefits of parentification.But before we do that, Simone, I'd love it if you had any thoughts on what I've gone over so far.Simone Collins: Yeah. You're basically just saying this is a practical reality in a high fertility culture, which I think is a really important foundation for this. Because most people, when they're looking at parenatalism going forward, would never think parentification would or could be a part of that.And a lot of their priors are based on, okay how do we raise a kid the way that we raise kids now, which is unsustainable, inherently. There has to be parentification.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. It's interesting. We have a friend who's [00:06:00] from a very high fertility Mormon family and who has deconverted and who's actually incredibly successful.It's remarkable to me that she has any complaints about her child. I always am like people are like we're your parents. Good. And I go, I don't know, I'm successful and happy with my life. So they must've been they're like what about all the horrible things? I was like it turns out that those must've been in my best interest.Or, I judge the quality of a parent, not by a child's self description of them, but by how well the child did as an adult. I'm like then your childhood clearly provided you with some utility. Which is, I'm very much a functionalist. People always make fun of us for that.But. She complained. She's look at my family had a, I had eight siblings and I was the oldest and I always ended up having to take care of them. And it really robbed me of my childhood. And I was like, okay, so which of your siblings would you prefer not to? And she's that's like apple and oranges and it's no it's not the you not getting to do whatever you wanted in your childhood, not getting to live the childhood you saw portrayed in media that [00:07:00] promoted unsustainable family practices.Not having that childhood is what allowed those other individuals to exist. It's if somebody came and they're like I really hate these guardrails on roads. They block my view as I'm driving. And it would just be somewhat more scenic if we could go to a time when they didn't exist.I'm like they save X many lives per year. And they're like that's really apples and oranges. And it's no, it's really not apples and oranges. This is a consequence, you not having the view you want of those things existing, and they exist in order to save lives, so that more humans can live fulfilling lives.And you don't want to internalize that you are the type of person who would deny another human being A chance at life just for your convenience, but you are that type of person. And I think that's the fundamental thing. And so the question is [00:08:00] how did these memes spread in our society? That it is bad to expect responsibility from children.And I think what they really stem from is the belief that it's bad To expect responsibility from anyone, and then especially children, any time when responsibility was forced on them, as I pointed out, the demonification of Starship Troopers, why is Starship Troopers demonized as fascist.It is a world that presumably has everything progressive said that they want. It is a world where minorities can enter the highest levels of position within society. It is a world with total gender equality. It is a world with total ethnic equality. It is a world without inter human wars. It is a world of peace.What's the bad thing? And it's ah, you let it flip. You let slip what you really wanted, which was a world without responsibility. What is bad about that world is that to vote, you have to sacrifice, either by participating in the military or [00:09:00] through civil some form of civil work, which is openness made clear in the book and it's not denied in the movie.So we have to assume that this is true in the movie universe as well. That, there is always a way to earn the right to become a citizen, even if you are disabled or mentally disabled or something like that, they create something for you, the key is just that you have to sacrifice. Something that is given without sacrifice has no value, is in the lines of the movie, and I think it's true.This is the way people see things, given without sacrifice. And in the Discord server for, they were sharing a post on Reddit recently, which was like, our private Discord server. Yeah, our podcast discord server, I'll include a link in the notes. It was about how everybody deserves housing.Everybody deserves an HVAC. Everybody deserves internet. Everybody deserves electricity. And it's even if they don't work, regardless of employment, it said. And it's what are you actually saying when you say that? You're saying, That people who are not producing anything deserve to have people forced to produce [00:10:00] for them.That HVAC needs to be serviced, built. Same with that house. Same with the electricity. Those people are essentially working as slaves for the individuals who are doing this. They are, being forced to work without remuneration. And they're like we'll force other people to remunerate them.That doesn't solve the problem that now you have turned those other people into essentially your wage slaves.Simone Collins: But let's bring this back to prioritification because I think it's a really important issue. And I think an important thing to point to, which we've pointed to in many other podcasts, but still it bears repeating is that removing responsibility from people does not impart mental health good mental health.It does not impart fitness. It does not impart an edge in society. It does not compart. in part competitiveness. So when you remove responsibility from someone, you are pretty much just hurting them. But I also want to draw a line here because when I see people commenting on parentification sometimes they do [00:11:00] so with some merit.And I think we do have to draw the line of where we think parentification goes too far. There, There was mention, I think the Duggars at one point, they had something called the buddy system, which I think is great. Where you're responsible for your immediately younger sibling or a younger sibling, something like that, where siblings paired up and took care of each other.And they also just generally had older siblings, take care of younger siblings. One thing that they did where I don't think it was imparting the good kind of responsibility was where they gave people, Children tasks that were above and beyond what they could even do for themselves. And I do agree with many people who are critics of parentification, that minors.are still developing. They're still figuring out their own Define aMalcolm Collins: task, because I don't think that you're actually criticizing parentification. I think you're criticizing basic safety, which is to saySimone Collins: I think a lot of traditional families might scoff at that. The one thing that I would draw the line at, which I think the Duggars did is they had some of their children take [00:12:00] care of infants overnight when they had overnight feeding needs and they were really small.And when you're a teen, you need a lot of sleep. When you're a teen, you don't necessarily know how to do like advanced infant care. It can get really complicated. And you might wait. This is when they were teens.Malcolm Collins: That's fine.Simone Collins: I think it might've been when they were young, the kidsMalcolm Collins: teenagers used to have infants.Simone Collins: That's true. But I know I would still draw the line at that. I think that there is, there's a line you need to draw when it comes to things like health safety, knowing like child CPR, like There's a lot of stuff that's, it's too much to put onMalcolm Collins: the kid. Really? Yeah, if it was a, if it was like an eight year old doing that's one thing, okay?If it's a teenager doing that, no, they can safely feed a kid at night. And asking that your family takes on some role. Responsibility for their new siblings specific jobs like that, I think is fine. Depending on how you structure their daily routine. Now, it might be less [00:13:00] fine. If you have them going to a public school or something like that, where they're expected to, manage their time really strictly, but if you have a family like ours where by the time, We were talking this morning and kids in their teens. We're going to be much more focused on helping them set up a company um then going to school and a company that they run and have ownership of so I wouldn't be as worried.About that and I think that This is just one of those things where you haven't gotten to the stage yet where our kids are old enough to take on those sorts of responsibilities or are asking to take on those sorts of responsibilities. No,Simone Collins: yeah, so there's a key part of this, which also involves consent.So one, I think that if your child does not have certain self care things together, you cannot expect them to do a good job or be able to take on the self care of another child. This is where I disagree pretty stronglyMalcolm Collins: with you. I think that having an individual, like if you want an individual to have their own self care together, the single worst thing you can do to somebody who is struggling with self care is remove responsibilities.The [00:14:00] single worst thing you can do to improve an individual's own self care is increase the number of responsibilities they have.Simone Collins: Yeah, but I wouldn't say by putting that On someone else, I wouldn't subject another child to the care routine of someone who doesn't have their own care routine together.I just wouldn't. I also think that consent is really important with this, that kids should not be given, they shouldn't be forced into parentification without having some kind of enthusiasm for it. Either, be that because they get more privileges, but it's wrong.Malcolm Collins: I encourage you to really think about what you're saying.Why do you have these feelings? Do you think it is not in the best interest of the kid? Because, clearly it is. You've seen the research, right? But first, we should know with additional kids, just so people know. There's this belief that if you have a ton of kids You're really hurting the prospects of every kid you do have, which is just not true unless you're in South Korea, which is an episode on,but in the United States kids actually tend to do a bit better mental health wise and outcomes wise, I think up to [00:15:00] about sibling number two or three.And then they begin to do worse, but not by a huge margin.So, for example, if I look at the study associations in birth or whatever, with mental health problems, self-esteem reliance and happiness among children.I can see that only children to have significantly more total difficulty scores. , they have more problems with emotional symptoms. They have more hyperactivity slash attention deficit problems. They have more problems with their peer relationships and they have less pro-social behavior. They also have a lower resilience.Malcolm Collins: Teaching your kids to take on roles that they have a responsibility to take on roles within the family unit for, those who are defenseless or need care more, I think is solely a one moral good. You are teaching them good morals. It is their responsibility within their cultural ecosystem to care for those that have less than them.Okay. This is, all family units, as we said, are communist [00:16:00] systems. A well structured family unit is from each according to their ability, to each according to their needs and that is what a family is, and an infant needs more, and the teenager can produce more, you are teaching a good value system interculturally there, one, two, giving an individual additional task, and teaching them that sometimes, They just have to handle something for the greater good of their cultural unit is really one psychologically valuable and teaches them good morals.It reminds me when we started running our company and something that I was raised believing just like intuitively because it was the way my house was structured is if you saw a mess, it doesn't matter who made the mess. It is your responsibility to clean it up. If there was spilled milk or something like that, I was never allowed to say, but my brothers spilled it.It's, but why didn't you clean it up? You knew that would cause damage if it stayed there, you knew it was a danger to others [00:17:00] if it stayed there, why didn't you handle it? I agree with thatSimone Collins: philosophy.Malcolm Collins: I just thinkSimone Collins: that there's nuance to this, and when the health and safety of other people are involved.I think it's really important that when you give adversity to someone and responsibility to someone that there is something of when possible, an opt in element of this you're stepping up for it and that can mean because you're getting additional privileges I can mean, because when you do that, good things happen.You get additional resources. You get. Additional power or privilege or something that makes your life also better.Malcolm Collins: But I do think I don't know if I agree with this. I do not think capitalist system should be so capitalist system exists in the world, outside of the family. When you start rewarding things inside the family, every positive action has a reward.I think that creates a really negative psychological framing for your kids.Simone Collins: I agree. I think being mercenary is the wrong way to go. And I, what you can see it from the Duggar family, huh? Have I changed your [00:18:00] mind? No. You're not changing my mind. I just think this is a lot more nuanced than you think it is.Like with the Duggar family, where the boy's taking care of their little siblings, not really.Malcolm Collins: Oh, so it was done in a genderedSimone Collins: Duggar's, Biography. She writes about the fact that she enjoyed it. Like it was something that she appreciated. Oh yeah. I love that the people who read it, like the progressives were like, she was brainwashed.Yeah. They refused to believe that it was, a thing that she could have possibly appreciated. But there, there are elements of aptitude. There are elements of capability. There are elements of interest, even in families that don't give people the choice and to act as though you're going to foist upon.People responsibilities. So they're not willing to take on when there are other helpless people involved, I think is a deeply early roleMalcolm Collins: as parents. If our kids are not willing or eager to, from a moral standpoint, to take on the responsibility. Yeah, butSimone Collins: There are a variety of responsibilities that kids can choose to take on to do their part in the house. Even at, without [00:19:00] remuneration, in a totally communist system where they can shine. And I think that giving people that at least market based communism where everyone steps in to contribute what they're best at contributing is really important.Maybe one kid is going to get really good at fixing things for other people. Or resolving disputes, one is going to be incredibly into. Younger child care or organizing events. But that is still the communist system from each according to their abilities. But I know, but what you're implying is just foisting upon people responsibilities that are not that willing to give to a teenage boy carefree that has no interest in it.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, I am suggesting that there are certain responsibilities that nobody wants to deal with you when you create a system or a moral framework for kids where they believe that they don't have to do something because they don't like doing it, you are creating a ball that rolls down a hill, which ends in modern progressivism.You cannot I [00:20:00] understand you're like I want to make a compromise here, or I want to make a compromise here. And I am okay with making compromise when the safety of another kid is at stake. Okay, when it's something like an infant or something like that, and you do not think the infant will be safe.Fine. But I am not okay with saying that I am making this compromise because the kid doesn't want to do it. The kid should understand that they are seen as a failure in the eyes of the family. for not being willing to undertake this responsibility themselves. And that when you're building a moral framework that says, and this is why, this is how all of these systems when they're trying to like, why does the urban monoculture, why does the virus teach people about parentification in this way?Why does it use this idea of parentification? Because it is a good way to drive a wedge between an individual and their birth culture and their parents. Because all cults, that is the core goal. Even if it was obviously in their best interest, they need to say you were brainwashed. You were gaslit.Even when [00:21:00] they've left their family. Even when they have an antagonism to their family. And they're like yeah, but this thing wasn't bad for me. And they're like no. You only think that because gaslighting these thoughts is really important to cults in terms of breaking people out of family and traditional cycles.And I think yeah, I want to know, do you really believe what you're saying? That teaching a kid that they shouldn't have to do something that just needs to be done for like society. If somebody says I didn't want to clean up the milk, therefore I don't have to. Do you not see the problem in that?No, you know that's notSimone Collins: true with the way that I parent. You know that I draw lines where I'm like, if you want this, you have to do this other thing first. Hold on for a second.That said, when it comes to the care of other people, I think it's really important for there to be an opt in factor. And that you cannot put someone who is openly unwilling over, in the care of someone else. Now, I do think raising families with a responsibility where everyone feels like their personal responsibility for the safety and well being of their [00:22:00] siblings is crucial.And that's a culture thing. But I think assigning people like, okay, you now are responsible for this person and You, even though I know, but what do you do about the things that nobody wants to do? I think that there's always someone who is willing, more willing to do something than the other person. And having a market based system for that works out really well.If one kid really hates taking out the trash or cleaning or doing laundry or cooking or watching after a certain kid. They'll trade responsibilities. AndMalcolm Collins: I think the way you have it is if you have tradable responsibilities that are divided equally. Yeah. So every kid gets a shift on, child feeding, every kid gets a shift on trash takeout, and then they can trade individual responsibilities.Simone Collins: Yeah. That'sMalcolm Collins: one waySimone Collins: that IMalcolm Collins: would find that market based. Exactly. That's still, everybody gets equally distributed responsibilities.Simone Collins: Yeah. But then, people are doing what they have more of an aptitude for. I feel like there has to be, there's an opt in element to that, where,Malcolm Collins: Yeah. And the way that you can handle that is if you [00:23:00] allow the trading of responsibilities you can have for the responsibilities people don't like I will do one nighttime feeding in exchange for these five other responsibilities.Exactly. Because I hate this so much. AndSimone Collins: that's how it works with most task trading like that. If you help me, get an A on this test, I will. Like a biology test. I will do your math homework for the next five weeks or all two to, it's all about value.And I do think that giving people that is really important. Plus it teaches people how to negotiate and don't you want children who know how to negotiate?Malcolm Collins: Yes. But I want to make sure that we do not create a culture where you say something like feeding young children is off the table because.You can't do it safely. A teenager should be able to do that safely.Simone Collins: Oh, no. Yeah. Yeah, but overnight care for an infant. I think for teens and for kids, sleep is really important. Really freaking important. And I don't believe in compromising that. But it's not as important as food is for babies.I hear you, but parents can get [00:24:00] their s**t together and take care ofMalcolm Collins: their own babies.Industry Collins: YouMalcolm Collins: are just such a terminator, Simone. You are so hardworking that you couldn't even imagine not handling everything yourself, which I really appreciate. ManySimone Collins: of the stories that I have heard of kids who really resented their parentification and yes, they were, brainwashed into the mind virus or whatever.But still the most common complaints are, Oh, then, got to this point where my mom just got so sick and tired during each pregnancy that then everything fell to me. A lot of it, like it comes down to not, I was given responsibility that I resent. It was that my parents failed at being parents and I think the laziness of my parents and I think that you can't have a system of parentification.And I think this is a really important point. If the kids don't see the parents going above and beyond, this can't be like the uncle in a series of unfortunateevents,We'll take it in the dining room at [00:25:00] eight o'clock. And we'll expect absolute silence but we've never made dinner before. It's already seven thirty. EightDinner is served. Pasta puttanesca. Where's the roast beef? Roast beef? But you didn't tell us you wanted roast beef.Simone Collins: Where you have some parent who's just go do this, go do that. And they're not doing anything themselves. The parent needs to be doing double.What indian individual kid is during a triple huge like many times over and if the parent isn't delivering in that way then there's no merit to that system.Malcolm Collins: No, I agree with that. And I think that and I can definitely see this like accidentally assigning to parents it was parentification.What they actually mean is I just didn't respect my parent because they didn't put in the work of other people. And especially with stay at home moms, I can see a lot of people, I know the number of stay at home moms who also have like staff working in the house who are also relying on [00:26:00] their kids for childcare, which I think is a totally different system than the one that we implement.And I should clarify for people because a lot of people misunderstand our stance on at least our cultural stance. I believe that diversity of culture should try different things. But they're like, what's it, do you promote daycare? And it's no, we don't really promote daycare either. We promote working from home in an environment where you can either through sharing with neighbors or through different types of trades Find ways to take care of your kids within a cultural ecosystem of your family.But both parents should always be working because it is just I don't think economically feasible to elevate systems where one parent isn't working in today's economy. And so if you're going to be any sort of uh, like this is how you make things work saying that's how you make things work is just comical, you for the majority of people.Simone Collins: Yeah, I agree. So yeah the role of actual biological parents is underrated in parentification. And IMalcolm Collins: think that you're underestimating the role of [00:27:00] child labor. We need to send our kids to the mines.Simone Collins: No, I agree. I agree that giving kidsMalcolm Collins: responsibility is crucial. There's that famous meme that Minecraft shows that children crave the mines.They crave to return to the mines.Simone Collins: They want to return, let them back. But yeah, I think that also like many kids enjoy it and they want the, they want to take care of, especially girls. Young girls really like taking care of other babies. You can see this in other cultures too. Where it's like just common practice for within a tribe for a young girl to just carry around whatever new baby there is all day while the mother goes back to working or doing whatever and they don't mind it.They like it, it gives them something to do. So yeah I'm for it and I'm not for letting anyone shirk responsibility. However, aptitude and optionality. Need to be a part of this forcing anyone to, especially consider our kids, how anti authoritarian our kids are. There's no way they would accept a system where someone's just you have to do this, [00:28:00] no compromising.Malcolm Collins: You know what I mean? Yes, but you want to build a system where they're not doing it because they're being told, or because of threats, but because you've built a sense of moral responsibility in them.Industry Collins: That's right.Malcolm Collins: Anyway, I love you,Anyway, we love you guys and we're so happy to be introducing you to Industry America's Collins, or Indy. If you want to hold her up for the camera, uh, she's a anyway, I'm excited to have another kid and I'm excited to start working on more soon. Love you. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 10, 2024 • 43min

Conspiracy: Why Did the Mormon Church Ban the Term "Mormon"? (Hint: Math)

https://discord.gg/EGFRjwwS92 Join Malcolm and Simone Collins as they unravel a fascinating conspiracy theory about the Mormon church's influence on social media. This eye-opening discussion explores why Mormon influencers are disproportionately popular online and reveals the surprising connection to the LDS church's rebranding efforts.Key points covered:* The LDS church's wealth and marketing budget* Unusually high CPM rates for Mormon-related content* The 2001 and 2018 name change initiatives* How the algorithm boosts Mormon content* The challenges facing Mormonism in the internet age* Potential strategies for the LDS church moving forwardWhether you're interested in religion, social media, or marketing strategies, this video offers a unique perspective on the intersection of faith and technology in the modern world.Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] Elisa Grenfell. And for her part of the conspiracy theory, what she was investigating was The question of why are there so many Mormon influences, Elisa Grenfell. It's not a conspiracy theory, basically, it is 100 percent proven from my perspectivethere was a fact that she found.That she thought was just an odd curiosity. Ooh, so silly. So silly that this is the case. I don't think this is an odd curiosity at all. I think that this explains everything. So I asked an AI algorithm, when did Mormon influencers start to rise in popularity disproportionately? And perplexity said it was in 2001.Remember I said that was when they first started discouraging the term Mormon. And then recently there's been a rebranding to further discourage the use of the term Mormon among church members.Would you like to know more?Malcolm Collins: Hello. I am so excited to be here with you today. Simone. This episode is going to be one of the Malcolm goes into a conspiracy [00:01:00] theory.Although I don't think that this one is a conspiracy theory. I think it's actually proven in the data at this point. And it's very interesting. Now I should note one, this is not going to be like an anti Mormon episode of that's what you're here for. Anti Mormon content.Simone Collins: Yeah, sorry. We're Mormon stands.SoMalcolm Collins: even our theological beliefs, I've been told by Mormons, they align enough with Mormon theological beliefs that. Some Mormons would consider us more like inactive members or members not in good standing with the church. But theologically they're pretty similar. So yeah.Simone Collins: Someday we'll get our temple recommends cards.It's okay, Malcolm. The day will come, maybe. I know,Malcolm Collins: right?Simone Collins: The day will come. The day will come. I guess we're not going to tithe, so probably not.Malcolm Collins: I would never do that. I just don't believe in the central church concept. Yeah, we're very against that. Yeah. Yeah. But that aside, , that aside I believe I have [00:02:00] discovered the solution to a question I was wondering a long time, and I'll set up the question.Okay. Yes. Throughout the nineties so just a little background on the term, Mormon. Mormon was originally used as a term, not necessarily derogatory, but just by people outside of the Mormon church to refer to people at the Mormon church because. It comes from the book of Moroni, right? That's where you get the word Mormon, right?Like it's not like an insulting term or anything like that. Mormons reappropriated the word throughout like the 80s and the 90s and it became a mainstream word within the church for members of the church. It started to become unfavorable for church members and there was a, hold on I'll pull up the exact wording here.In starting around 2001, the church encouraged the full use of its name and discouraged the use of Mormon church although Mormon was still widely accepted among church members. So you've got to keep in mind these [00:03:00] dates here, because they're going to turn out to be important. So the first move against the term Mormon was a lighter push that came in 2001.But then, there was a much heavier push in August of 2018. In which and by the way, what the thesis of this video is going to be on is Why did these pushes happen? Because I'll explain why they don't make a logical sense from the perspective that they're being laid out by the church. , as of August, 2018 I'll just read basically what AI says about this and what it said the church's explanation was.Okay. The church, of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints , has had a longstanding, so since 2001, preference for using its full name rather than nicknames like Mormon or LDS Church. But this policy was strongly emphasized and formalized in August 2018. Here's a summary of the key points.Divine Directive, President Nelson stated, that this change was revealed to [00:04:00] him by God, emphasizing, quote, the importance of the name he has revealed for his church, end quote. New guidelines, the church has issued a style guide that discourages the use of, quote unquote, Mormon church, LDS church, and Mormonism.It encourages using the full name, quote, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, or shortened versions like quote unquote, the church or quote the church of Jesus Christ in quote. So first of all, you've got to understand how insane this request is just from an outsider's perspective.Okay. He wants you to not use it. So this new proclamation doesn't just ban the use of Mormon. It bans the use or discourages the use of LDS. And so he's okay, You either have to use the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, which who's going to do that except for devout Mormons, right?Or, [00:05:00] shortened versions The Church, or The Church of Jesus Christ. And it's If I'm talking to a group of Christians and I'm like, I'm a member of the church or the church of Jesus Christ, they're not going to know or assume I'm talking about Mormonism.Simone Collins: That'sMalcolm Collins: an insane version of a short version of the name, right?It seems like a silly change in policy from an outsider's perspective. So let's go over their explanation for this change of policy before I get too much. I think the true explanation is for this change in policy. One. Emphasizing Christian identity. The church leadership wants to highlight that they are a Christian denomination centered on Jesus Christ.Using Mormon was seen as obscuring this core identity. But they're not even using LDS. They're not using a shortened version that would immediately catch on within popular parlance. So it's clearly not going to re center Jesus in the mind of [00:06:00] the general public. So I don't buy this explanation, right?Okay,Simone Collins: yeah.Malcolm Collins: Divine revelation. In August 2018, Russell M. Nelson, the president of the church, announced that God had instructed him to emphasize the full name of the church and discontinue the nicknames like Mormon. Maybe but I'm going to present strong evidence that he, there okay, people need to understand how Mormons think and relate to God.When a Mormon had I brought a Mormon, like a business decision or something like that, or if I brought the head of the church, like a decision, like a marketing decision he would then always, especially if it was a big one, like the name of the church pray to God to see what God had to say about it.That is just the way Mormons relate to God. They always ask God for answers to their questions. So I'm not denying that. The head of the church went and prayed to God and then felt comfortable with this change. It's just that from a Mormon perspective, that's not a particularly profound thing to have done.He does that, every day with all sorts of little questions. It's not what you may be thinking of. You're a secular person. We're like, [00:07:00] you're imagining like God talking to him or something like that, or a vision coming in front of him and talking to him. I don't see that as a big reason to do this.Three. Accurate representation. Church leaders believe that using the full name, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, more accurately represents their beliefs and focuses. So again, they're trying to, and I actually think this has hurt the church a lot, we've done another episode on this, trying to normalize the church as a mainstream Christian denomination which I think removes a lot of what theologically interesting than some of the otherSimone Collins: traditions.It's almost, to do so requires one to make one's heart a religion. That is to say, a religion that is stronger, ultimately, in the face of mainstream society, but also less convenient. A softer religion, which is more weak, more likely to be subject to high attrition, not as good at imparting fitness, etc.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Okay, four. Distinguishing from other groups. The church aims to differentiate itself from splinter groups, especially those practicing polygyny, who [00:08:00] might also be associated with the term Mormon. Splinter groups? I'm sorry, the mainstream church practice polygyny. I understand that the church today can prevent, that's not true.Joseph Smith did this, Brigham Young did this, all of your early prophets did this. Now do I think that the church is trying to actually differentiate itself from those churches? Those groups know. How do I know that they're not actually trying to differentiate themselves from those groups really heavily?Because this is what more ex Mormons think, right? They're like, oh, it's a church trying to distance themselves from their past. If they were doing that, they wouldn't have chosen a comically long name that nobody but devout Mormons are going to use. If they had done that, they would have chosen another short form name that non Mormons could use to distinguish Mormons that was obviously mutually exclusive to the Mormon community.Five, a rebranding effort. This change is part of a broader rebranding initiative including updates to the website, materials, and even renaming of well known entities like the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. I do think it was a rebranding issue, but not for the reasons you may [00:09:00] think, audience. What do theySimone Collins: call the choir now?Wait, MoTab is no longer, what are they called?Malcolm Collins: We'll Google it if you want. What's the Mormon Tabernacle Choir called now? Next, historic context. While the nickname Mormon has been used since the 1830s, the church has periodically attempted to move away from it. TheSimone Collins: Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square. Why?Okay, it's one thing to rebrand. It's another thing of, sorry, we're no longer Mormons. We're the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints. It's too much. You guys have to oh. VeryMalcolm Collins: frustrating. And then the final explanation that's given here is revelation based leadership. The LDS church believes in ongoing revelation.So do we. So again, this is why we're theologically pretty similar to Mormons. Believe I have found the answer to this. And the dates line up really tightly and the person who did most of the leg work in figuring out this conspiracy theory was a YouTuber. I knew her from the female host of Zelf on the [00:10:00] Shelf.But she also has her own channel where she released this particular conspiracy theory, Elisa Grenfell. And for her part of the conspiracy theory, Elisa Grenfell. It's not a conspiracy theory, basically, it is 100 percent proven from my perspective. And I'll go over it it's impossible that this isn't what's happening.So what she was investigating, she just didn't put these two particular dots together, what she was investigating was The question of why are there so many Mormon influences, right? And there have been many By the way, what would be a, you know my conspiracy theory answer, but what would be your answer to the first question?Why do you think Mormons, before I came up with this theory, tried to make the change to having Mormons call it The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints.Simone Collins: What other ex Mormons online have said is that it is to distance themselves from controversies associated with the church. I haven't had any particular, I just, I thought maybe it had to do with trying to refocus people's [00:11:00] attention on Latter day Saints or Jesus Christ, instead of just being like, Oh no, we're not a, this whole angel Moroni, whatever the book of Martin.No, it's not that it's Jesus Christ and saints and the latter day I don't know. I really don't know.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. Um, so she was trying to find out why Mormons are disproportionately present in the mommy blogging community, everything like that, because this is something they are disproportionately present. But I think that she also found out another mystery that she hadn't thought she was looking for. And the other history is why are ex Mormons so disproportionately large in the leadership of the Atheist community and in the publicly viral voices in the Atheist community? And her answer would actually explain why that's true as well.So I historically thought this was a cultural thing. I believe the mainstream answer to this, Mormons are genetically isolated for a period and [00:12:00] culturally quite distinct from other groups. When you interact with Mormons and ex Mormons, they feel quite different than other groups. They're generally more pleasant.They're better at social hierarchy fights, which seem to have been very important in their community history. And they are intensely interested in what the public thinks of them and appearing normative, which I think is what's destroying the church right now. I think that's always been the Mormon black pill, isn't it?Mormon desire to fit in and be just another Christian when I think their strengths is that they're not just other Christians. But the explanations people have had historically for why Mormon influencers had more reach was LDS culture. So an emphasis on journaling and scrapbooking and memory keeping this is not commanded from the church.It's just something that is just really common likely it's been argued a dissent of. their church practices of genealogy and stuff like that. I don't know. I think it's like a family focus and a self perception focus, which is really important to Mormons. So they are, because they're so interested in what the public thinks of them they are more interesting or more likely to [00:13:00] do things like blog or put their family online.They're also more likely to do this because of stay at home motherhood which is more common in the LDS community. And they might, I don't know, the other answers I'm reading here are just not strong. Those are the reasons that I had bought into. So now, first part of the conspiracy theory I'm gonna roll out.Do it. And this was all discovered by Elisa Grenfell. Gotta give her full credit for this. Lovely person. I'd love to have her on the show if she ever watches our stuff. Oh, we should ask her, Ian. Yeah, we just actually reach out. You can make a note. So the Mormon church as a corporate entity is the most wealthy church in the world at 236 billion.So that makes it as a corporation around the size of Shell, the gas company or Pepsi. And it's bigger than companies like Disney or McDonald's. So you got to keep in mind that, um, Mormons ties 10 percent of their income, which is more than other religions. And [00:14:00] there's also more devout Mormons.It's a proportion of the Mormon population that there are many other religions. And for a body of that size, they're going to be doing marketing. So like how much marketing are they probably doing? If we compare them to a company like Pepsi, They'd be putting in 3 billion to 3. 5 billion on ads a year.Historically, what the Mormon church had doneSimone Collins: built billion with a BMalcolm Collins: yeah, there's, I believe they're spending at least 3 billion on ads aSimone Collins: year.Malcolm Collins: And it makes sense for them. Every member they get outside of the religious motivation is a 10 percent tithe payer. That's huge from a church perspective.Historically what they would do is they would sign contracts with people. But a number of those contracts ended up blowing up in their face because the people would then end up supporting gay rights, and criticize the church for that, or end up becoming gay themselves. Which, of course, if you are supporting someone who is theatrically gifted and has a large online following, of course they're more [00:15:00] likely to turn out to be gay.That is just a thing, right? Then they're going to have an intrinsic beef with the church. So I can see why the church would want to move away from that model. So here we've got a mystery. How is the church advertising these days? We don't know. The church doesn't release this data. Now we're going to talk a little about the world of online advertising.Both Simone and I, Simone used to be the director of marketing of HubPages, which was at a time, the 45th highest traffic website in the United States. And then bought by Squidoo and yeah,Simone Collins: no. HubPages acquired Squidoo. Thank you very much.Malcolm Collins: So you were a, quite an expert. I think we still have some people from your hub pages days who watch us even now.She was a meme in that community and they created your image and memes and stuff. And you've been internet famous for a very long time. But, um, you helped a lot of them earn money, but people who don't know what hub pages did, what they did as a company is you could publish articles to them and make money.It was like a, WeSimone Collins: taught people how to write content online that actually people were searching for. So instead of [00:16:00] blogging about your life or writing poetry for example, my top performing articles for some time were how to get rid of raccoons and how to kiss a boy which was ironic because I had no experience.I just Googled it myself.Malcolm Collins: ISimone Collins: kissed a boy. I kissed one boy. So before me, she has one boy, one boy.Malcolm Collins: I, so I, I love it. That is so the early internet, you so theSimone Collins: trick to it was you would do some keyword research on Google. Basically if there was some search that got a lot of volume, but the results were really bad, Writing an article on this platform and you've got a lot of search volume and then you'd get a lot of searches.And so that's how we taught people to make money. But yes, certainly we learned about online ads. One issue that we had on the website, and this will help to explain your point you're going to make is that people would constantly try to write articles. On subjects that had very high paying ads. So a lot of people, they wanted to talk about celebrity gossip and entertainment and write articles like that.My job as their director of marketing and managing their community was to try to [00:17:00] dissuade people from doing that because that did not generate revenue for them or for the company. Instead, we wanted them to write about much more productive segments that had higher paying ads. So personal finance is an example.Cars is an example. Sometimes things like pets would, was a good example. One of the one of the most, High profiting authors on the site at the time that I was working there actually wrote dog food reviews. And we're all pretty sure that she tried the dog food because she kept talking about like the flavor profiles of it.But she made a lot of moneyMalcolm Collins: with dog food, right? Yeah,Simone Collins: there's this term in Silicon Valley, at least there was at the time of actually dog fooding, like testing your own product. And she like literally dog fooded which is great. But anyway, so the point was like the Holy grail of online subjects at the time, do you know what it was in terms of high ad revenue in terms of money online?No mesotheliomaMalcolm Collins: the type ofSimone Collins: cancer that results from exposure to asbestos. And at the time, perhaps like because law firms were trying to do class action suits against it for [00:18:00] whatever reason, ads. Related to Mesothelioma were incredibly high paying, one click on that could sometimes be like over a hundred dollars or something.So you'd really want to write an article about it that people searched for because it was really high, people running a lot about electronics to really successful people would park on the names of future iPhones. So that when the search volume for those would actually go up, they'd have these very detailed, amazing, positioned for SEO articles, just waiting for once that search volume was there.And then all the ads would be for electronics stores selling the iPhone and then they make money. So anyway, this would explain. Okay.Malcolm Collins: So CPM is cost per thousand views. Okay. And that's what you make off of an ad for a thousand views. And you can look this up. This is public. So an example of an extremely high CPM thing would be new bank.Hermes Lithium,Simone Collins: Or yeah, buy a car. There'sMalcolm Collins: a new bank. You're going to get 25 Per, per a thousand views. Just pretty good. Yeah. And here on the screen I have put the CPMs for YouTube niches in 2023. [00:19:00] Make money Online is $13 and 52 cents. Digital marketing is $12 and 42 cents. Finance is investing is $12 25 cents.If you look at something like cars, which Simone said was on the higher end that's 4 23 things have reallySimone Collins: changed. Yeah, then you getMalcolm Collins: down to lower in things like lifestyle, 3. 47. Fashion and clothing, 3. 13. Entertainment, 2. 75. Tech and gadgets, by the way, is really low now at only 2. 39.Simone Collins: That's so interesting.I wonder what's changed.Malcolm Collins: And cooking's at 2. I think aSimone Collins: lot of this also depends on how you're making money. So this is CPMs but most people who are making money on selling clothing, cooking gadgets, et cetera, online are making money through Amazon affiliate links or something similar where you like literally get.rewarded when someone buys after clicking through to your link that you actually put in there. So anyway, there are different ways to do this, but back to CPMs.Malcolm Collins: If you're a Catholic term Catholic, so let's compare some other religious terms here, right? The CPM is a [00:20:00] 358, Baptist, it's 126, Jehovah's Witnesses, it's 464.So these are all about what I would expect, right? Mormon, 1421. Wow! Mormon Missionaries, 3181. 3181! To give you an idea of how insane that is, Gosh! Mormon Missionaries is significantly higher than New Bank. Okay, in terms of how much somebody is willing to pay to that literally the highest on the chart of profitable new to niches is make money online, which is 1352.The Mormon church, just plain Mormon church is significantly above that. And Mormon missionaries is more than double that. The amount of money that you would have to pour in to ads in this space to get the numbers that [00:21:00] high is billions, at least, given the number of Mormon content creators. This means that a Mormon content creator is earning, on average, more Per video that they're putting out, then somebody who is creating SEO optimized, perfect content to get people to sign up with banks or financial advisors.Simone Collins: Isn't that crazy?Malcolm Collins: Hold on, so it hasn't gotten fully, so you might be like, oh that might be a coincidence. New York Influencer, 526. Los Angeles Influencer, 461. Texas Influencer. 631. All about what you'd expect, right? Yeah. Utah Influencer, 1890. 1890.Simone Collins: These are insanely high amounts.Malcolm Collins: These are insanely high amounts.Somebody is pouring an astronomical amount of money into this. [00:22:00] And to yourSimone Collins: point about the amount that's The LDS church is likely paying on ads.Malcolm Collins: Why are Mormon influencers more seen than other influencers? There's basically no other answer to this unless there's some other company out there pouring billions into Mormon targeted ads.Which there isn't, there just isn't obviously. So why would they be overcharging for ads? So there's a few things. One is if they are paying Mormons this way, like Mormon influencers this way one, they don't have any negative PR risks because they're not paying them directly,Simone Collins: yeah, there's no one.Yeah. Yeah. There is, and there's not, you don't have to invest in someone. Also, it saves a lot of time and money. Generally speaking, because you're not reaching out to these people, coordinating with them, sending them emails. It's not that intense.Malcolm Collins: Two, they're getting a 10 percent discount. Cause these people, ifSimone Collins: these are tithing Mormons though, and I have something to say about this later, [00:23:00] if you want,Malcolm Collins: What don't you say right now?Simone Collins: So there are a lot of Mormon influencers, but one thing it's discussed on the genre of Mormon influencers is why do so many Mormon influencers dress like thirst traps? Like they're in basically thong bikinis, and there's a lot of discussion of Oh, maybe they're not in doubt yet.Or Mormons have varying policies on when it's appropriate to wear your garments, et cetera. Like maybe for swimming, you don't but they're still wearing like extremely revealing bikinis and also taking a lot more revealing photos. I think that a lot of people, because there are these really high ads and it pays to be a Mormon influencer, quote unquote Mormon, like you say, you're Mormon is that a lot of actually not practicing Mormons, not tithing, not wearing garments.Are just getting in the genre and basically saying they're Mormon. Just like right now, a lot of people are saying that they're autistic because it's trendy to be autistic, but they're not actually autistic. And I think a lot of these people are not actually Mormon. They're Mormon because it pays to be Mormon.If you know what I mean. I just [00:24:00] think that there are a lot of. Mormon influencers who probably don't tie. I really don't wear garments.Malcolm Collins: Negative externalities of this ad campaign. Yeah,Simone Collins: exactly. And I think that's really interesting.Malcolm Collins: Ad campaign before we go further is one it ends up elevating anti Mormon influencers as well.So that's the reason why there's so like ex Mormons in the atheist community. They say, don't show ads on ex Mormon. If it's Mormon content, it's Mormon content. IE if it's stuffed with Mormon keywords and people who look for Mormon keywords are watching it. So yeah, it's going to artificially elevate ex Mormons.It's also keep in mind, the rules that these people are playing with are the same, the church isn't able to disproportionately elevate the more chaste Mormons and guys being guys they're going to click on the thirstier girls.Simone Collins: That's yeah. The thirst trap Mormons, the not really Mormon Mormons are going to be the ones that get more views because they are hotter.I I also think that DelphMalcolm Collins: on the shelf, or whatever her name is for her side project, didn't seem to [00:25:00] realize. She thought that the way that this was elevating Mormon content, which is definitely a way, is that it was providing them with more money to do this, which made this a more viable side income for Mormon moms, which made it more likely that they would end up creating this type of content or young Mormon women.I don't think that is the key thing. I think the key thing that she didn't seem to realize is that whether it's Instagram or YouTube or anything like that, these platforms are in the business of making money. They will disproportionately show people content with a higher CPM. Then content was a lower CPM.It literally boosts the term Mormon in the algorithm itself To have a higher CPM on that turn.Simone Collins: Just like when I worked at hub pages, we didn't just encourage people to not write about entertainment and instead write about personal finance because we made money too when they made money and we needed them to do that.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. So you disproportionately showed. Content to users [00:26:00] on higher paid topics. Yeah. Okay. So one, no, this isn't about paying the families necessarily. This is about influencing the algo, which it is doing. So one additional piece of information that Zalph on the shelf didn't seem to be aware of. But now we're going to talk about my part of the conspiracy theory, because there was a fact that she found.That she thought was just an odd curiosity. Ooh, so silly. So silly that this is the case. I don't think this is an odd curiosity at all. I think that this explains everything. So I asked an AI algorithm, when did Mormon influencers start to rise in popularity disproportionately? And perplexity said it was in 2001.Remember I said that was when they first started discouraging the term Mormon. And then recently there's been a rebranding to further discourage the use of the term Mormon among church members. She found another interesting little thing here. More Mormon church as a search term.[00:27:00]Priced at 1421. Mormon Mystery areas as a search term priced at 31 81 LDS 2 25 latter day, Saint 2 83. No one is buying ads on those terms. What? Huh? You may be asking, why would the church have done this? Why would the church, if it is the church that's bidding up these terms. Not bid up the terms that only Mormons would use. And that's your answer right there. The reason they made this name change is you have a problem if you're using this ad campaign. Who searches the term Mormon most? Mormons! Mormons search the term Mormon most. A Mormon is more likely than any other person online to be asking where is my nearest local Mormon temple.They're the most likely people in Google to be looking for quote unquote Mormon content. [00:28:00] Clicks from Mormons are wasted money. For the LDS church. Yeah. You don't want toSimone Collins: convert someone who you've already converted. You don't want toMalcolm Collins: be paying for ads for somebody who you don't want to be thatSimone Collins: idiot, amazon.com that advertises a refrigerator to you the moment after you buy a refrigerator.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, we actually pitched that to Amazon. A fun story about how inefficient Amazon is. So at one point we were interviewing an Amazon, this was a while ago. Amazon has fixed this problem since then, but Amazon used to have this problem where they would, um, pitch you products after you had bought a very expensive product that obviously you're only going to buy once in a long period of time.Like a refrigerator is a great example of this. It would constantly be in your recommended. And I suggested that they have a low income employees. I was like interviewing, I was like I have this idea for a program. I wanted to start for you guys for, low wage workers and like the third world to mark all products as single time purchases or multi time purchases.Simone Collins: They have mTurk, they have the resources.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, I was like, you guys could use [00:29:00] mTurk do this and it would dramatically like it would be billions of dollars a year different for Amazon. This one change to their algorithm. And it would be very easy for me to do the program and execute it. I was like, okay, so if I did this or to get this program, how do I pitch that to my higher ups?And they're like you could write a pitch to do that. Yeah. But you wouldn't necessarily get on the team that was doing it. Even if it was accepted and I was like, and I was like, is there financial compensation? If they accept it, they're like, not really. I was like, wow, you are a terribly run company.That is how you keep greenlighting these garbage woke shows because you are the bureaucracy of bureaucracies and Amazon higher ups. If you want me to come in and clean things out, I can. Guarantee you, you will be making at least 13 percent more the next year. But anyway let's go back in here because like little things like that, like, how did they not think of that?And why do they not have a system that would allow a smart person to come in and implement that when it was so low cost to implement? But anyway. Back to the topic at hand here. Um, the problem that you have if you're one [00:30:00] of these organizations is that people who are already bought in, who are already tithing are clicking these search terms more than any other group.So you're just wasting tons of money. What's the best way to get around that? You change the church's name among the devout to something that people outside of the devout circles will never ever use. Like Jesus Christ Church of Latter day Saints. They didn't plan on the general public to stop using the term Mormon.They were just trying to get the devout Mormons to stop using the term Mormon. That is why the name change happened. This isn't like a bad thing from a theological perspective. Even if He knew this and he prayed to God about this. I'm sure God was like, yeah, that's a, especially if God's a MormonWhere, where am I? What's happening?! Hello newcomers and welcome. Uh, I'm the Held Director. And for those of you who were a little confused, uh, you are dead, and this is [00:31:00] hell. So, abandon all hope, and yadda yadda yadda. Hey, wait a minute! I shouldn't be here! I was a totally strict and devout Protestant! I thought we went to heaven! Yes, well, I'm afraid you were wrong. I was a practicing Jehovah's Witness! Uh, you picked the wrong religion as well. I'm afraid it was the Mormons. Yes, the Mormons were the correct answer.Malcolm Collins: But yeah, of course. Of course, it's the right thing to do. It's the efficacious way, to reach people, and to not waste your followers tithing money, which is obviously a sinful thing to do. Nothing about this is below board, exactly. It's just that they were doing this program secretly.And that I find absolutely fascinating. I also think there was a secondary reason behind the rebrand to the impossible name that no one's ever going to do, which is this was the height of victim culture. And I think the church was trying to force those who criticized it to call it a term they categorized as a slur so that they could [00:32:00] say that these individuals shouldn't be taken seriously as critics because they were.Using a term that was derogatory about the church itself.Now, do you have any thoughts, Simone?Simone Collins: I will say part of this seems quite wasteful, especially because so many not actually, I would say best role model Mormon influencers are becoming Mormon influencers. However, I've also noticed that some very not Mormon type people follow and secretly love following Mormon influencers online now.So the church has done a pretty good job at raising its profile in mainstream media and exposing a lot of people to the Mormon lifestyle and getting them to see it and think, Mormons, oh, whatever, right? They hate gays, but then Oh, but their lives are so nice. Oh, they look so happy,Malcolm Collins: they're playing the game as [00:33:00] well as they can, given that their hands are tied with this gerontocracy ruling the church. The problem is that the modern culture is just not conducive to Mormonism. If you look at even like a girl defined husband, deconstructing or deconverting from the church, and she is likely one of them, it's likely on a pathway to deconvert, like that's as Mormon, a poster child as you have for our generation.And I think. That sadly, we're seeing a lot of them deconvert and I, a comment on our discord and people should check out the discord. It is so interesting, as interesting as the episodes. I will try to remember to include a link, but I actually thought that this was the user on the discord was called Kat Katlup, I don't know, CattlePA3.I can't pronounce this. But three, people might be wondering why three. On the Discord, everybody lists their child count at the end of their name. Which I absolutely love. Wonderful. Props for three. We are, yeah, props for three. Congratulations.Simone Collins: Yeah, well done.Malcolm Collins: And they said, [00:34:00] And this comes from a perspective like us, like we're not Mormons we can't quite bite the bullet on the centralized church ourselves and some of the theological teachings and the alcohol prohibition it reminds me of when the story of the it was the head of the, I, I believe, Russian and they brought various preachers to come and try to convince them to convert to their religion. And the Muslims said you can't drink alcohol. And they're like, oh, okay go away. I'm done. I don't need to listen to anything else. I'm done. We're not going to do that one.Anyway so this person said, I love the culture of LDS, but I think they're a dead man walking. It's over for them. I think there are a number of sects that simply cannot survive the internet information age. They relied on concealing inconsistencies and obvious fabrications in their doctrine that the internet now lays bare.In a way that they're unable to counter, there is a wave of young Mormons going online and being forced to confront the reality that their religion is so obviously [00:35:00] fabricated and is a collection of embarrassingly, shamelessly lifted Masonic rituals, and they're falling away in mass. LDS has a maximum one more generation's lifespan worth of relevance.In my opinion, if that, barring some kind of apocalyptic world change where the internet disappears, it's happening to my own childhood religion, Seventh day Adventism. And so this is a person from a very hard culture as well. Yeah. Just go online and find out uncomfortable facts about Ellen G. White. That is not a Mormon, by the way, that's from his church.and the church foundation and doctrine that you used to never encounter in an entire lifetime of conversation, communion, church education, et cetera. The fallout is brutal and devastating. This could be an interesting podcast topic for Malcolm. In the way belief systems medically evolved, but didn't have selective pressures to survive the information age and are currently smashing The squared circle, or I think he means a cube into a squared circle.And I think [00:36:00] that is really what's happening within Mormonism now. It's a culture that was a very well evolved culture. It was a very. Emotionally healthy culture when I look at Mormons. They seem to be just delightful people. Even ex Mormons that I say, if you grow up in a religion, you get most of the benefits of that religion.Even if you deconvert, your kids are the ones who are really going to suffer for your deconversion. But Mormonism. As it is often presented to practitioners and outsiders, i. e. I call it South Park Mormonism which is a pretty good example of what your average Mormon normie thinks is not a compelling religion in the information age.Just too many inconsistencies, Joseph Smith did too many horrible things and Mormons are still required to uplift these individuals. How does the Mormon church get around it? I think they can. The fact that our belief system is considered nominally Mormon by many people you need to accept a few things.You need to go with the David defense. David I'm sorry, what I mean is David of David and Goliath, David of David and Bathsheba was a complete douche [00:37:00] canoe. But he was still favored by God. You can go to the David and Bathsheba story for a story of his supreme douchiness. Being a horrible dog poop human being doesn't mean that you aren't a prophet of God.The problem is Mormons won't say that about Joseph Smith. Which I think is the kind of pill they need to bite in order to get through the Information Age. Just be like, hey, King David, right? That gets you through that second is they need to embrace their weirdness. Stop trying to be a normal Christian church.That's what's interesting about them. That's what protects them. The more they try to be normal Christians, the more they lose. What makes Mormonism special and different which I think is just a huge strategic. Um, And the final difference is they need to get much more comfortable with the, because when I talk to Mormons who are like very theologically compelling, they are the extreme Mormon nerds, right?Yeah. Like person prat guys. All right. Like the people [00:38:00] who love, love, love church history and studying it and the theology because actual Mormon theology. is pretty sophisticated and interesting. The problem is, and actually this is about important problem for Mormonism is Mormonism. If you're talking about like the intelligence level of the Kings within Mormonism, you know, I developed society into like, like the consequentialist to people who really study everything.You need to make the, who needs to be very high IQ, high personal agency. Mormonism doesn't shed the high IQ King. But the deontological form of Mormonism, which is for the lower IQ people, it is very bad at the information age. So long as it presents itself as a form of mainstream Christianity. It's not a form of mainstream Christianity and it doesn't provide good answers to these.And so I think that Elevating what I call almost like the secret Mormon theology, the Mormon theology that like all the church nerds know, to being the mainstream theology that's taught at the pulpit. That is how [00:39:00] Mormonism gets through this. It'll deal with a main, a huge flow out when it starts doing this, when it starts, embracing all the weird stuff that's actually theologically part of Mormonism, but it will keep those members and those members will be higher fertility and they will be higher fastidiousness. But it's very, I don't know if Mormonism could do this because it's so against the Mormon spirit, I would say, to, um, say we are weird and we are proud of that when it is their biggest strength. So I don't know if you had any final thoughts here on, on this particular post, but I thought it was really powerful for me.Simone Collins: Yeah, that is powerful. The discord is so frigging good. Yeah. I wish it can never happen because a big part of. The Mormon religion is that it makes, I don't know how it achieved this, but it makes weirdness feel so normative that it almost feels more normal than mainstream culture. If that makes sense.[00:40:00]Yeah, thatMalcolm Collins: does make sense.Simone Collins: It feels they've made it, they've given it this Disney aesthetic, this main street USA aesthetic, even though it's pretty freaking weird when you actually look at it or think about it. And I think it's very impressive that the church has done that. But that means that they obviously cannot take certain stances that would.give it some strength, especially in these times.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, I think you're right. I think you're right. I and by the way, if the church admits like why you shouldn't be over elevating Joseph Smith, if people are like how can the church survive that? Just focus on Brigham Young. Brigham Young does generally, he was an awesome guy like Brigham Young.I consider as an outsider to be the real founder of modern Mormonism. And I just say Joseph Smith was God's tool to get Brigham Young the information in the community to create Mormonism. I think if they refocus, and I think this works very well with the iterative prophecy idea of Mormonism, that Joseph Smith is not [00:41:00] the real founder of Mormonism.He's just another, A temple head. He helped get it there. Yeah. So in terms of prophets we're like, we ignore what they say. Like one of the prophets said in the Mormon community, if evolution is right, Mormonism is wrong. And like obviously most Mormons today don't buy into what he said.It's very easy Mormonism. In it to discount when particular prophets make mistakes or do bad things. That's not a key to the tradition. As I said, the Abrahamic tradition house was in a school set. The David story makes it very easy to do this. I just refocused attention on Brigham young and the community of intellectuals of the Brigham young period.So you're not just focused on Brigham young, like one uncorruptible person, but it's more like a community of geniuses. It's very much like the American founding story. I think that would play out really well for Mormonism. And then they can get their, Orson Pratt in there and like a number of other people and they get this story that even more aligns with the American story, which is to say Joseph Smith is like a lower importance [00:42:00] character and who really matters is this community of intellectuals in the early day of the church.Simone Collins: This is fun. Thanks for walking me through this. I think you've built upon the original conspiracy theory quite well. And I think you're right. And I love it. I'm never going to look at a Mormon influencer the same way again.Malcolm Collins: Love you to death, Simone.Simone Collins: Love you too. We need to order pizza.Malcolm Collins: Twisted into a little thing,aSimone Collins: little, A little, a doobity do. Yeah.Malcolm Collins: Oh my God. You are so good. ISimone Collins: don't know what to say. It's cuter that way. Everyone knows. And doobity do is a technical term, just so you know.Malcolm Collins: Okay, so this episode is going to be very interesting. I we'll get started here. This is one that, where that a lot [00:43:00] of research went into and I should know. Sorry. I'll just restart on this. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 9, 2024 • 50min

Shock Study: Psychologists (+Far Left) Turn Teens Against Parents (& Destroy Their Mental Health)

In this eye-opening video, Malcolm and Simone Collins delve into the controversial world of modern therapy, particularly focusing on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and its impact on teenagers. They discuss a recent study revealing the negative effects of DBT interventions on adolescents, including worsened depressive symptoms and strained parent-child relationships. The couple explores how therapy culture has evolved into a cult-like system, drawing parallels with historical cult tactics and modern urban monoculture. They also touch on the dangers of over-medicalizing normal human emotions and the importance of critical thinking when approaching mental health treatments. This in-depth analysis offers a thought-provoking look at the current state of mental health care for young people and suggests alternative approaches to emotional well-being.Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] The main findings, DBT intervention did not improve outcomes significant deteriorations were observed across outcomes immediately postSimone Collins: intervention. MakeMalcolm Collins: things worse. Um, Largest deteriorations were seen in depressive symptoms and, if you really needSimone Collins: the help, it makes things even worse.Malcolm Collins: Teen participants continue to report significantly poorer quality of parent child relationships, specifically mother relationships.And I think that comesSimone Collins: down to the way in which This kind of behavior can irreparably recontextualize the way that you see your relationship. And I think it's really hard to fix that damage.Malcolm Collins: And it's a very effective cult tactic. Pretty much all cults do this. They try to convince you that , your primary support network is being abusive to you. And your primary support network is usually your parents or your birth culture,And you are of high intellect, Peggy. No matter what you've been told by your husband? No. Your father? Not really. Mother. [00:01:00] How did you know? Because we love you!Malcolm Collins: This ultra urban monoculture is what we historically would have recognized. As a cult.Excuse me, are y'all with the cult? We're not a cult. We're an organization that promotes love and Yeah, this is itMalcolm Collins: it didn't used to be like this.Like I wasn't interested in high school. I supported it in high school. It has been taken over by a cult.Is the holy guide to living pure, this will help explain. First, Laughter. Her name's Lorraine, too? We're all Lorraine, and you will be Todd. A name chosen especially for you oh. You're notAn oppressed minority. you're a cult!Would you like to know more?Malcolm Collins: Hello, Simone, you sent a study to me that absolutely shocked me, and I really want to go over the results of it because I think [00:02:00] it isSimone Collins: terrifying, fascinating, disturbing, but also pretty definitive proof of your claim. That one of the primary means by which the urban monoculture spreads is through therapy culture and that it uses therapy culture primarily to alienate young people from their support network.SoMalcolm Collins: let's dive into actually and leading to these. Absolutely horrible. We did another episode recently showing that one in 10 kids in school right now has thought about unaliving themselves this past year. Like that is an insane statistic, the percent that made a plan to unalive themselves, 24 percent among young women, 12 percent among young men. Yeah. The ones who seriously considered attempting at 30 percent young women, 14 percent young men. The feeling persistent sadness, 57 percent of young women, 29 percent of young men.So what is happening in schools right now is not working. And a big part of this is the infiltration of, as I've always said, modern psychology has become more like [00:03:00] a cult. What you get, if you go into a modern psychologist today, is a cult. Is much closer to what Scientology was doing with people in the 90s, then what would happen if you saw a psychologist in the 90s?And I'm not saying all psychologists fall into this, but the ones that are influencing the policy, what's happening to kids are and we can see this. In the study data. So what was the name of the study again? Simone, I've got all the information on it. I justSimone Collins: gotThe study is called investigating the efficacy of a dialectical behavior therapy based universal intervention on adolescent social and emotional wellbeing outcomes. That's a mouthful, but they're basically like. Does dbt help teams? That's what they're trying to find out here.Malcolm Collins: So this is a AI summary of what the study ended up showing and the way the study was constructed, which I'm guessing is probably what you were going to read.AISimone Collins: explains it in plainer English. How it is with these academic studies, they like decide to make them harder to understand. AMalcolm Collins: lot of people buried the lead with the title of this study because the results [00:04:00] are shocking.Simone Collins: It could be one of those. Is in which they primarily did this research to try to show how good and effective dbt was and then it turned out to really hurt so they had to obfuscate things in the wording just so that you know the people who funded it didn't get super offended and never fund them again.I think that's more probably what's going on here. Yeah.Malcolm Collins: So study design and participants, it was a non randomized controlled trial, which is pretty good. It had over 1000 participants pretty well split on gender. The intervention group had 563 participants and eight sessions of a WISE Teens program.We'll be talking about this group in a second but you did the DBT. And the control group with around 508 participants class as usual. Just so people know what this means from like a science perspective, it means that the results of this were likely very robust. Not something where you can be like, oh the sample size was small, or it wasn't controlled or blah, blah, blah.The main findings, the WISE Teens [00:05:00] intervention did not improve outcomes overall since the DBT intervention, significant deteriorations were observed across outcomes immediately postSimone Collins: intervention. MakeMalcolm Collins: things worse. Um, Largest deteriorations were seen in depressive symptoms and, if you really needSimone Collins: the help, it makes things even worse.Malcolm Collins: Yes and and it explains remember how I was showing like the rate of depression going up in young kids and yet we're seeing more and more like DBT therapy being put on these otherwise mentally healthy young kids. It's like adding fuel to the fire. It's adding fuel to theSimone Collins: fire.Malcolm Collins: But While most group differences dissipated at follow up, if you can get out of the therapy culture, but if the kids get roped in and they end up building a trauma dependency on a therapist, a lot of therapy culture today is about trying to incept people with the idea of trauma.Yeah, stop them from detracting. Where they would try to get you to believe that like something in your youth created the thing that you couldn't get away from and that you needed to keep seeing them to create dependency, right? But the thing that didn't disappear, okay, [00:06:00] was why is teen participants continue to report significantly poorer quality of parent child relationships, specifically mother relationships.And I think that comesSimone Collins: down to the way in which This kind of behavior can irreparably recontextualize the way that you see your relationship. And I think it's really hard to fix that damage. It's one thing to oh, you're framing or you're ruminating on something. I think therapy can, when presented the wrong way, especially when not really outcome oriented or fixing things oriented CBT really get you to ruminate on the bad thing and identify with the bad thing.And, if you start living life and getting distracted, you can get over that. So if you stop the therapy, you can get better. But once you recontextualize a relationship or you start to reframe something that happened in the past as traumatic, whereas you didn't view it as traumatic before. I'm doing that really freaking hard.Malcolm Collins: And it's a very effective cult tactic. Pretty much all cults do this. They try to convince you that you, your primary support network is being [00:07:00] abusive to you. And your primary support network is usually your parents or your birth culture, i. e. your parents religious. Community. And so a core tactic of the urban monoculture, which is essentially a cult is to use emissaries that basically it's preacher cast are the psychologists and social workers because they're the ones who recruit new members and ensure that people don't defect.They first to get you into it. And they're not doing this intentionally. It's just the iterations of this culture because it has almost no kids itself that were able to convince people that they had abusive relationships from their primary support network in birth culture were better at growing than the ones that didn't adopt these tactics because most people, they deconvert from their birth culture.It happens between 15 to 23. So it makes sense to try to get this stuff into schools. From the perspective of the urban monoculture, like you would expect after a large study like this sort of thing would be shut down and yet it's continuing expansion. So you can look at and that's what social emotional learning is, which [00:08:00] really should have no point in our school systems.And we'll do a whole other episode on social emotional learning.Simone Collins: We need to cover SEL.Malcolm Collins: The problem is this is such a deep rabbit hole because it really is. People are like, it's not cult like. SEL is covered for a very specific cult. You can look at James Lindsay has talked about this a lot and he has done some great research on this.I wanted to have him on the show. We had talked about having him on the show at one point, but I don't know if we ever got him booked. But basically it's not like a vague cult or an accidentally evolved cult. It is a perennialist mystic cult. That is what it is. It is very dangerous. And it is yet.You can see from the downstream effects that we're seeing in the people that it's converting because the community is where it is most widespread are often like LGBT communities. And if you look at things like here's the statistic right here, percent of LGBTQ plus students experience persistent feelings of sadness and hopelessness.And the Unaliving attempts in that community. 20 percent every year are attempting like it is really bad in the communities that it has most deeply penetrated [00:09:00] because it often uses as communities. What is a sign of the urban monoculture, but the colonizers flat and for people know what the colonizers flag, it was named in our discord.And I absolutely love this where they took the gay pride flag which literally meant everyone under the rainbow. It wasn't like the colors meant specific things. And then they started covering it up with specific groups. Absolutely animal farming it like some groups are more equal than others.And now they, they put it on every institution that the urban monoculture has conquered like bull baiting towards the LGBT community anger. And it was, it's wild that they're doing this, because they control like pretty much every institution of power in our society. Why do they need to have a.a minority group targeted for their actions. It's just bull baiting. They don't care. But let's talk about what this why is group that's causing all these negative effects. It's breaking up families is doing right now. If you go to their website and I'll put this on stage this is front and center. When it comes to prevention, our mantra is early and often think about that. This harmful thing that we know is causing a breakdown of familial [00:10:00] relationships, their motto is early and often we know is causing negative mental health outcomes in a place where this is already a crisis and creating rates, rates of depression early and often.Um, And increasing them among the most uh, uh, damaged communities. You can look at something like 70 percent of LGBTQ students, which is the group that the urban monoculture is most represented in, and this therapy culture is most represented in experience persistent feelings of sadness and unhappiness. This is going up as their level of oppression is going down, but as the level of infiltration of their culture is going up by the urban monoculture And 20 percent of them have attempted unaliving themselves year over year just absolutely chilling to me.And then if you look at what they are pushing out what does WISE do? How does it do this? It does this both with just general urban monoculture conversion, you can see this through their words. Of things like the wise elementary school [00:11:00] program on builds blah, blah, blah, protective skills of empathy and safety.Like what do they mean by empathy and safety, right? Like they mean that they are medicalizing and therapy, I think, normal human child interaction. Because of it's good for pulling kids out of their birth culture. That's why they're doing this, even though we know it hurts now. Like, why would they still be doing this?Because they built a bureaucracy, and the bureaucracy is self reinforcing. Kids who get sucked into this culture find it very hard to get out of it once you're in it. Once you've broken their relationships with their support network. That's why cults do that. But let's talk about dialectic.goal behavioral therapy for a second. It's an evidence based psychotherapy that was originally developed to treat borderline personality disorder, but it's since been adopted to address various mental health conditions. In this context, dbt is a structured form of therapy that combines elements of cognitive behavioral therapy is concepts of mindfulness, distress, tolerance, and emotional regulation.Skills training. DBT typically involves group sessions focused on teaching four core skills. Again, mindfulness, [00:12:00] distress tolerance, interpersonal effectiveness, and emotional regulation. However, when they say emotional regulation, they actually mean the exact opposite of emotional regulation, but we'll get to that in a second.Simone Collins: And I think when they teach mindfulness instead, they're teaching rumination and identification with. Yep. Mental illness.Malcolm Collins: So understanding emotions, dbt teaches the function and importance of emotions, helping clients see them as valid and meaningful. So I E you should experience all the emotions that your body outputs.It's very much like a lot of people think the inside out is this like totally Non threatening message. I've heard this from a lot of conservatives. They're like, it's not woke. And I'm like, no, it is the worst of woke. It is therapy, culture, cartoonized, and given to kids. It treats all of their emotions as, in many ways, as if they were equally valid and you need this balanced emotional landscape where sometimes you're angry and sometimes you're sad and all of the emotions play a role and I actually heard this when I was talking to my old school and they're trying to get money from me they're like inside out really taught [00:13:00] us this and I'm like that is not What the data says as from like the studies, like if you allow yourself to succumb to an emotion, like anger, like if you go and punch a wall after getting angry, your level of anger actually rises in the probability that you feel that in the future rises.If you allow yourself to feel really any negative emotional state it increase it, one decreases your ability to inhibit those states in the future, allowing them to spiral out of control. This is what you, how you get like anxiety spirals and stuff like that. We're seeing this explosion anxiety.That and the removal of corporal punishment, the removal of negative stimuli discipline for kids because when you don't experience negative stimuli, you become hypersensitized to it, and then you need things like trigger warnings, which we've talked about before which creates these huge negative effects.But when you teach kids, Oh, just experience all your emotions like this is not what the data says. This is a made up cult version of psychology. What the data says is you should treat your brain like a fascist landscape where your logic controls your emotions because your logic is a fascist landscape.You [00:14:00] can control your emotions. You can largely control what you feel through the narratives you create about how you interact with the world around you. And you have a duty to exercise that control. And I will continue to do something here. So what else does it teach when it's teaching like emotional control?Mindfulness, practicing awareness of the present moment without judgment, helps observing and experiencing emotions without being overwhelmed by them. This observing and experiencing emotions is the very last thing you want to do. Your brain is not a democracy.And if your brain is a democracy, if you have logic as one tiny voice in your brain, and all the emotions are these very loud voices in your brain you're going to spiral into negative mental health outcomes, because these emotions were. Evolved within a very different social and technological context.Basically the emotions that we feel, both positive and negatives are just the things that our ancestors, when they felt them, they had more surviving offspring. And if you succumb to those, if you're like, oh, [00:15:00] I'll just let those guide me. Like those will be one voice among the logic in my head. And we'll have a council where the logic is like one member and then we have anger and then we have law and you're taking an average of opinions that you're going to be making.Catastrophically stupid decisions. And these decisions will then cause more negative emotional output, which causes a spiral. And then they break the relationship with your family and birth culture by saying, Oh, that caused trauma. All these things that they did were trauma causing like discipline, as we say, like corporal discipline, which we know from the data is good.You can look at the study. Don't send the baby out with the bass water. Parental punishment. This was done in 2023, big meta study . And it showed that when you actually match it, it does help with mental health outcomes. And duh, like anyone could have told you that.They could have told you that the earlier results were manipulated. But they didn't, they, they don't just in case people are wondering how they're manipulated. I'll just say it really quickly. Although watch for the virtual, we'll know this, what they did is they didn't match results. So they would take a family like ours where our daughter doesn't get corporal punishment because she just doesn't need it.They put her in the no [00:16:00] punishment group and they put our sons in the punishment group and then say, see the punishment groups acting out more. And it's that is astronomically stupid that you did that. But anyway but then why would they do that? They really benefit from these negative mental health effects because when you create these negative mental health spirals in young teens and you've broken them off from their birth culture, you've broken them off from their parents.What else are they going to turn to? But these affirming. And that's what, when you, when anyone can identify, for example, as non binary and then enter the queer community, which is one of the things we complain about when anyone can identify as non binary and enter the queer community and then you get loved bummed for doing this or, for example, us, we would be considered trans within the modern context, right?Because I don't particularly care what my gender is, neither does Simone. If I broke up tomorrow, different gender, I'd figure out a way to make it work. And that would be called agender, which is a form of genderqueer, which is a form of trans. They have expanded the definitions of all this, or demigender, demisexual, they would say, which actually is the standard sexual presentation among women.And yet they treat it [00:17:00] like it's a form of being queer. For people who aren't inducted into the insane leftist cult, demisexual means that you usually only feel sexually aroused when you already have an emotional attachment to somebody. And it's yeah, normal female sexuality works that way.Yeah. Some women are outside of that, but mostly for most women, that's how sexual, but now they're saying that means most women are queer. So queer identification is not seen to me when you're looking at it. And when I'm looking at statistics, it's primarily a sign of something like same sex attraction, or even a real trans identity anymore.It's more of an identification of being a member of this extremist cult. And we're seeing the negative mental health outcomes with one in five of them trying to analyze themselves every year who are adolescent people in this community. 70 percent having this intense dissatisfaction with their lives.Like it is not leading to good outcomes. It comes around with this. We will affirm you. We will affirm you. We will protect you with trigger warnings. We will protect you from negative stimuli [00:18:00] uh, sort of candy. Um, And so you go when you're in this intense state of emotional insecurity and self questioning and a poor mental health, it's created by these sorts of programs.And then it can use that to snatch you up because you've been disconnected from all of your classic support networks, because the classic support networks are going to tell you what you need to hear, which is discipline is good. You need to, austerity is good. You should experience unpleasant things. You should not learn to love yourself as you are.You should be pressured to become the type of person worthy of you loving. But. That in the moment that isn't cotton candy, so I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.Simone Collins: I'm just sad with how far we've gone and I'm disturbed by how much good and responsible sounding language is presented to people like parents who are genuinely concerned about their kid's wellbeing and how.They're really well [00:19:00] meaning attempts are backfiring and causing them to lose their children even more. It, it breaks my heart that a parent that is doing everything they can to help their kids who really cares and who really does want to help them is ultimately doing. So much worse for their kid's outcome than a parent who is actively negligent and who actively doesn't care.It shouldn't be the case in modern society that literally neglectful parents are going to see better mental health outcomes for their children. And yet that's what we're seeing. It's no wonder that people who are more affluent and educated and have all these resources and who like really care about getting their kids right, are terrified of becoming parents.Because when you look at the outcomes of their kids and the kids of their peers. They are worse. And I don't think they realize that, a lot of it's because of their culture and they're probably thinking, Oh neglectful, irresponsible parents are probably seeing something even worse.When I. And it would be really interesting to see that that divide. I just listened to that, that one YouTuber's really long [00:20:00] piece on the other pronatalist Collins family. And they actively don't do a lot of things to take care of their kids. Like they may not take their kids to the doctor a whole lot.They certainly don't send their kids to therapy. As, as far as I'm aware but I could reckon that their kids are probably mentally a lot healthier than, kids who are getting tons and tons of resources as, their critics would argue they should be doing. It's just sad to me.Malcolm Collins: So this reminds me of a influencer. There was this like, obviously completely brainwashed by the cult. Gen Alpha, Gen Z YouTuber. I was watching who was complaining that mental health outcomes get getting worse. And she's we can fix this by getting more psychologists that are cheap.I think it's a very complex conversation as to why Gen Z is not wanting to have kids. Because it doesn't just pertain to financial issues or inflation eating out our asses clean. But Gen Z has a rampant problem with mental health issues that have gone long [00:21:00] unaddressed. Mostly for the reason being that the mental health system is largely lacking.For example, I am still on a wait list to see a psychologist. It has been what? Eight months? Nine months? I can't even remember the last time that I even followed up on that. Because the last time I did, I remember calling the psychologist and he's on the phone like, well, I'm actually leaving for holidays next week, so we're going to be pretty backed up.I'll give you a call in a few weeks time. I saved the day in my phone and everything like that. I never got a call. So a week later, I called them again and I was like, Hey, just following up, blah, blah, blah. Well, actually, no, we don't have any appointments available until mid December. This was in, I think June last year, .Malcolm Collins: What are you, there are more you psychologists today. More psychologizingwas in school than there's ever been. Do you think this stuff existed in the old West? Do you think that in the greatest generation or in our parents generation, when they.We're objectively, we can look [00:22:00] at the data, had better mental health outcomes that they were not being exposed to this. Then when you get in this cult, you see the mental health problems that are downstream of these sorts of mechanisms. And all they can think is, turn up the volume. Now if you're here and you're a parent or you are a person who is, struggling with a mental health outcome.I used to say that CBT at least still worked. I now no longer think that. I think it's been so infiltrated and twisted that it doesn't really work that well anymore. We wrote the Or maybe whatSimone Collins: we were exposed to as CBT, like you when you studied psychology in school and me when I went through it, is basically an extinct strain of it.And now what is happening is totally different.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. So what I would recommend people do if they are like what's the alternative is the pragmatist guide to life. The first book we wrote I wrote it as an alternative to CBT, actually. If you read it, you'll notice a lot of if then functions, basically, it was really meant as a user manual for a type of psychologist that we were eventually going to [00:23:00] spin out, but we just, never really got around to it.We got in with our company right now. Blah, blah, blah, but it's still very usable from an individual perspective. And it focuses on a completely different mechanism for therapy. Essentially it is a mechanism is. Determine what you think has value in life. And we go through all the various things that somebody might think has value in life.And then using those set of things you think have value in life. How do you maximize those things and then develop a conscious system from doing that? And then here's all these mental hacks you can use for controlling the way that your brain outputs emotion and to give you more mastery over your emotional states.So you have much less. And I think that's one of the problems is when we say like the things that you think of value, we call this your objective function. And the problem is the urban monoculture is that it doesn't have an objective function for many people other than reduce the amount of suffering that anyone's experiencing in the moment.And because of that, and because people recognize that isn't a thing of actual value, it leads to these [00:24:00] really terrible mental health outcomes. Another thing I would want to point out when people are like, oh, you shouldn't be dismissing trauma this much. We have a whole episode on this topic.There's a great study done on trauma. And I really just need to beat this because this is an important thing that the general public knows that looked at correlations between reported trauma in childhood and negative mental health outcomes. Great correlation then it tried to correlate reported trauma with actual documentable trauma, looking at court records and stuff like that, and it found that there was almost no court.In other words,Simone Collins: contextualization is everything and if you believe that you've been subject to trauma and identify as someone who's been traumatized, You will suffer mentally. If you don't, then you probably won't. It doesn't really matter what actually happened to you. Of course there are exceptions to this if you have PTSD.That is real by the way. Not the, I've self diagnosed with PTSD or, I, tripped on the way to a store and I have PTSD now, but that doesn't count. But there are some like [00:25:00] real mechanical things that can go wrong. And also there's depression that is real and mechanical and that can be triggered by hormones and a whole bunch of other things.This is not to deny any of those things. And I am afraid for when we have an instance of a kid who is actually depressed, who probably needs some form of chemical intervention that we can only get from a psychologist because it has to be prescribed. Our book and our methods can only go so far.And as we explained in the pragmatist guide to life, sometimes you actually needMalcolm Collins: prescribed medication. It's psychiatrists. No, wait. That's safer. If you're sending a kid. So my parents used to do this with me as a kid. They would.Simone Collins: Psychologists. No, there's therapists who don't prescribe and then there's psychologists who do.Malcolm Collins: No it doesn't matter, psychologists don't prescribe, they are the people you go to regularly. It's a different degree path. Psych psychiatrists do prescribe.Simone Collins: Psychiatrists.Malcolm Collins: Thank you. Sorry. I'm ignorant of that. I was on the pathway to become a psychologist and not a psychiatrist.And I thought about changing career trajectories to become a [00:26:00] psychiatrist, but it's a different degree pathway. So anyway the, so this is coming from somebody who like knows a great deal about all of this, but just thinks outside of their framework. I am not coming to you here as an anti mental health person.I am coming to you here saying that there used to be a functioning mental health system in the West. And it doesn't exist anymore, and it is just a danger now, and what my parents used to do as me, which is what we do with our kids, is warn them against these individuals, warn them that these individuals will try to manipulate them into joining these weird cults and cultural groups and that they, This is what you say to them to get the meds you need, basically.Because they are just really toxic right now. And when people are like, Oh, you shouldn't go so far as to call it a cult. Like the urban monoculture isn't actually a cult. These institutions aren't actually a cult. I want you to consider the language I've been reading. here recently. And I'm going to play some scenes from a King of the Hill episode about what cults are, what they look like [00:27:00] and how they act.And I think you will see very quickly.Omega House is Luann's sorority.What I'm babbling about is how the Omega Cult recruits unsuspecting young women from campus, deprives them of protein, bathrooms, and all contact with their families and friends, then ships them off to a ranch for general enslavement. Oh, God. Excuse me, are y'all with the cult? We're not a cult. We're an organization that promotes love and Yeah, this is it.In this part, I would call your attention to the name changes.Which is a very common tactic in Colts to have people adopt new names and new identities. As well as unique titles. , salutations and greetings. Colt do this for a few reasons, but, , probably the biggest is it's really powerful at separating people from their existing support networks because when their support networks regard these individuals by their. Old identities. Um, they called we'll say like, well, that's an attack on you or that's violence against you. Uh, and through that, they're able to prevent [00:28:00] these people from being able to reconcile as easily or have as fluid conversations with their natural support network. , it also makes it very hard for these individuals to talk to people who aren't indoctrinated into the cults ways. And therefore don't know how to talk to them within this very narrow and from a mainstream societal perspective, bizarre rule set, which is unique to the cult itself. Peggy! Luanne! It's me, your husband and your uncle. We don't have any Peggies or Luannes. You're thinking of Blonde Jane and Old Jane, and they don't want to see you. Another common cult tactic to look out for is any group that shames individuals for eating meat, or getting proper sleep through denying people. The, Well, the, the regular resources that the human brain needs to stay sharp. It's very easy to cloud an individual's mind and convince them of absurd things. It's too late. They've been deprived of protein so long that their bodies are feeding [00:29:00] off their own brains.They're nothing but soulless otanamatonamatons. Right. It also really encourage people. If a loved one, a parent. A sibling. Tells you. You have joined a cult or they think that you have joined a group that is acting like a Colt, and this is not an accusation that they've made to you before. Like I keep the, okay, maybe you have a sibling or a parent that just says everything's a cold.Basically they say Pokemon is a cold, whatever, ignore that. But if you have one who has not said this to you before, or even worse, if they have said it to you before. And on reflection you realized after leaving that group that had actually was displaying cult-like behavior, please, please take that seriously, parents and siblings, don't just drop this accusation out of the blue. If they say that you've been brainwashed or that you're being manipulated, please take it seriously.This is a common scene with all Colts it's parents yelling at their kids.You are being brainwashed, you are being brainwashed. And the kids thinking that the parents are just [00:30:00] out of touch. Peggy, you can't get on the bus. Trust me. You joined a cult. Jam jelly come on. No, do not listen to that he person. He is on the wrong side of the love fence.The more times you hear a group use terms like love. Validation. Acceptance belonging, especially when they twist these words to mean things that they historically didn't mean, you know, like in this scene, they call it a love fits. That is a high red blaring signs that you are dealing with a cult. Colt's always coat their actions in this, a facade of love and particularly unity because unity can be used at the concept to stamp out dissenting thought. I'm sorry, Hank. My new friends have invited me to spend eternity, I think, with them.All right. Have fun, [00:31:00] then. But maybe a bite for the road. , Jane, get back here! My name is not Jane. My name is Peggy. And I love meat. That's funny. I can't remember my name. I think it starts with an R. It's in the van. Jim! Julie! Jim! Julie!The next scene will show how cults often recruit people. And it's very important to look for these actions in the organizations that you are interacting with. First you'll note love and unity are going to be two of the core values that a cult will always put out because unity allows them to silence, dissent as a concept.And. Also, , you often means, you know, unity under the accepted authority or hierarchy of the group. If you're talking about the urban monoculture. , this might be a gender or ethnic based authority. , but, in more traditional cults, it'll just be a generic hierarchy. [00:32:00] Another thing that you'll see very frequently is love bombing.And it's a very important thing to look out for. , the all will often happen. If you see like a group of people, In a circle and they're all just constantly affirming someone. You know, telling them how great the decisions they're making are, how great what they're doing is how great they are as a person.Especially if they're doing this while looking for ways that they can create divisions between this individual and their traditional support network, like their family. , that is almost certainly a cult, even if it wasn't like created as a cult, as we've mentioned in other episodes, like has a Colt evolved under the trans movement., He just a cult-like behavior. If it is protected from criticism, begins to self-replicate and in society where we have certain groups. , that, you know, I think may need legitimate protection like the trans community, unfortunately within far progressive circles, any accusation. Of, oh, you're doing something wrong here or you're doing something bad.[00:33:00] Here is an allowed. If it's targeted at something that's seen as trans. So, , the negative behavioral traits weren't able to be called out and it basically. Evolved a organically formed Colt with most of the behavior patterns that you see in other Colts, as you'll see from the scene.As an organization that promotes love and unity, Omega House appreciates a mother as caring as you are.. I wish I could jump in your head and crawl around. You seem like a fascinating individual. You are probably very popular. Actually, no. It's difficult to find people you can really connect with.People of high intellect often intimidate people. And you are of high intellect, Peggy. No matter what you've been told by your husband? No. Your father? Not really. Mother. How did you know? Because we love you! Know what I love about this place? [00:34:00] Nobody ever gets tired of hearing about me. My hobbies, favorite movies, my deep seated resentment towards my soul crushing mother.Malcolm Collins: Oh, okay. This is a cult. Yeah. I should have known. Yeah. This ultra urban monoculture is what we historically would have recognized. As a cult. And they do all of the cult things. One joke I remembered and I have constantly tried to find this. It was from an old 90s media.So I am done because I've asked AI and I can't find it. And maybe somebody in the comments will find this source of media.I found it, it was from bubble boy and you'll get to see it. And it even includes the name change that I mentioned before. It's just a classic cult thing. Any group where people start changing their names., watch out buddy.Malcolm Collins: But I remember a scene where a bunch of people were on the bus. And the cult members had their genitals removed because that was seen as a joke thing that a lot of cults did is that the cult members would have themselves castrated.And that was seen as like a sign that you had [00:35:00] joined a cult or the types of wording that I will put from the King of the Hill episode. That would be seen as like a sign that you enjoyed a cult. And you should know when a group's talking like that, stay away from them, stay away from them, stay away from them.Is the holy guide to living pure, this will help explain. First, we prepare our souls by stripping ourselves of all sexual desires. Laughter. Her name's Lorraine, too? We're all Lorraine, and you will be Todd. A name chosen especially for you by Gil. Oh. You're notAn oppressed minority., you're a cult!Why we stop?Malcolm Collins: But people don't know anymore. They don't know. Oh there's this weird vegetarian group that tells me to hate my parents and that my parents have traumatized me. And they say that they're all about love and caring and that they're the people who really care about me. This is. Not, like [00:36:00] the modern GSA and it didn't used to be like this.Like I wasn't interested in high school. I supported it in high school. It has been taken over by a cult.Simone Collins: We've entered clown world timeline and it is it's a different,Malcolm Collins: it'sSimone Collins: different.Malcolm Collins: People want to hear your thoughts, Simone. Oh, by the way, anyone who's here is you're just trying to shill your book.I'm sorry. Our book is owned by a nonprofit and costs 99 cents in its ebook form and in its physical form. We have it literally the lowest margin Amazon will allow it to set it. So no, we're not trying to makeSimone Collins: money. We're trying to make any money. And if you literally, Don't have 99 cents. Just been on the book.Just email us at partners at pragmatist foundation. com and you'll get it for free. So leave us a positive reviewMalcolm Collins: though. I'd really appreciate that. That would help a lot. Yeah, because the more positive reviews we get, the more that we can get it in the Amazon algorithm, which helps us a lot. But Simone, I want to end with saying that the fans keep saying they want to hear you talk more.You're the smart one of the two of us. I hear it in the comments. [00:37:00] They go, Simone is the mastermind. Why doesn't she talk more? Go.Simone Collins: And I will explain that the audience thinks that I'm the mastermind or thinks that I'm smart because I don't speak as much. And I once read this book when I was a kid that was all about how to do corporate power plays in the political world is a manly man who has wide shoulders and the, one of the big power plays was to basically never speak and just to look unimpressed and lean back in your chair and be very pithy.And I'm not intentionally doing that. I just really think that what Malcolm has to say is far more interesting. And. I don't have a whole lot to add the role that I play in our relationship as I ask them questions. And then often when Malcolm tries to explain herself himself or clarify what he's trying to say, then he ends up coming up with some new idea.That's even better.Use my techniques and I don't care who You're negotiating against. You'll win. You're going to wear dark colors with a single power accent.Every hair in [00:38:00] place. Hair movement is a sign of weakness. And whatever you do, don't speak first. 90 percent of negotiations are lost by the person who speaks first. Because what is speaking a sign of?You. Out. Fired.So you've lost the initiative, perhaps by being a woman or a shorter man, but you can regain it by fighting on your home turf. I thought you might do that, which is why I'm going to be the first person to do power quiet talking, forcing you to lean in and wonder if you're missing any key phrases like an idiot.I thought you'd try power quiet talking, which is why I'm wearing a hearing aid. Still, mate,Simone Collins: so I do help him come up with better ideas and I do play an important role. In the ideas that we jointly generate, but it's only by asking dumb questions. So don't let the fact that I don't speak a lot, make you think that I am somehow this puppet master or this mastermind or this [00:39:00] very smart person.It's just because when you don't hear someone talk, it's a whole lot easier to pedestalize them. It's a whole lot easier to assume that they're going to say something smart. And then as soon as they open their mouths they expose themselves to criticism. They expose themselves to criticism. Um, any sort of scrutiny that's going to reveal that they're imperfect.That's exactly what the master would say. No no, it's not. And I would say everyone who chooses to criticize you, Malcolm, for your, whatever out there views or be like but this and then, and you missed this, or you're wrong about that. Shut the f**k up and why don't you publish something yourself online?Why don't you expose yourself to scrutiny? So few people online post anything at all. The people who have the balls to even leave a comment are doing something amazing, but just keep in mind that so few people are willing to expose themselves to any scrutiny. Most of the people who do bother to publish something online and expose are just repeating other people's ideas and not actually putting themselves out there in the personal way.And I really admire the fact, [00:40:00] Malcolm, that you're doing that. And I'm just, reflecting on what you say and asking them questions. You make my life easy. You make my job on this podcast easy. And you also do all the prep, all the editing, all the publishing. So I'm grateful to you for that. And I love you a lot.Malcolm Collins: I really liked the point you made there that I would say the point that you're the smart one and that I love you and you're pretty. Put your ideas out there if you do want to criticize. But if your ideas are just going along with what the urban monoculture thinks or what your cultural group thinks, i.e. like your average Presbyterian view or your average, Catholic view, like you're not actually moving anything forward. Yeah. Congratulations. You've copied someone'sSimone Collins: notes. You can, butMalcolm Collins: it's not even really putting yourself out there because. Like the you, it wasn't your idea inSimone Collins: the first place.Malcolm Collins: No, but what I mean is you have a preset community that's going to back you. Like you don't have to feel uncomfortable with your beliefs or views. It's what some large group that has a defensive mechanism thinks. This is one of my criticisms of Fundie Fridays that we did recently is she has Zero takes that go in any way against the urban monoculture.Yes, [00:41:00] she goes around criticizing people, but it's with the backing of this giant institutional system where she just refuses to have unique takes. And a note to self here, when Simone is talking, I want to have the Jack Donaghy negotiation advice. Scene play because he does one about being quiet and Oh, heSimone Collins: does?It's such a thing. I can't remember this book that I read. I got it from the library. It was back when I'd walk down library aisles and I had free time and I would just choose books that looked interesting. God, that was so much fun. And it's such a thing and it's so stupid.Malcolm Collins: It's so stupid. I've got to, I've got to but the audience doesn't want to hear an explanation of why you're not talking.They want to hear you engage with this subject. So talk about the therapizing of kids, what's going on with this and the dangers of therapy in a modern context. What are your thoughts on this topic on this study?Simone Collins: God, you've just been so articulate in talking about it. I will say, That my personal experience with therapy as a kid was that it did not resolve my depression. That at one point I tried to convince my [00:42:00] father that instead of paying 60 an hour for a therapist who is someone who's nice. It just, I didn't find it to be particularly helpful that he should just pay me 60 an hour and I'll just stop acting so sad.Malcolm Collins: That is the mostSimone Collins: ballerMalcolm Collins: based as F move for an adolescent girl who is feeling depression. And it was like, I am depressed, but I realized I can get undepressed for 60. Yeah. If that'sSimone Collins: what you're paying s**t, like you got it. Ready to order. But then ultimately my, my own dad came up with the solution, for example, that cured my, my.Extremely dangerous eating disorder where I just, was losing and losing weight. Like I'm five, eight and a half and I weighed under a hundred pounds at one point and that's pretty unhealthy. And he just figured out that if I could actually control that for me it was about control and that if I could weigh and measure all of my food and I had to balance calories and calories out, I would be able to feel like I still had control.And not [00:43:00] die maybe. And so I just, I think that parents should not underestimate the extent to which they can look at their children. And come up with solutions to their problems. And you've done this a lot. Like you had this revelation a couple of weeks ago where you were like, you know what, we need to stop thinking about what society assumes our kids want, for birthday parties, for going to bed for activities and look at what they say they want and look at what they react to.And just build custom solutions for them. And each of our kids needs something a little different. And sometimes they're pretty counterintuitive. And I really admire the fact that you said that. And I'll point out that the other major sources of my depression and my, especially like behavior that was maladaptive Was in response to a school environment or a lifestyle that really didn't work for me.And that in many cases, the best thing you can do as a parent is try to find the source of the issue. A therapist is not going to change the fact that your kid, for example, is just really Not [00:44:00] dealing well with your school schedule or that their homeroom teacher is just terrible and hates them, makes their lives miserable every day.A lot of the people who've left comments on the YouTube video that you made on just how bad is daycare and also other YouTube videos you've done on the schooling system, they've pointed out how, Oh, my kid would come home with dark circles under his eyes. He would have tantrums.My kid had huge anxiety. And then as soon as we moved them to homeschool so I would say trust yourself as a parent, listen to your kid and consider changing their environment and surroundings. And that's probably going to handle 90 plus percent of your kid's mental illness problems, even like serious chemical depression.Which is what I was experiencing. I never actually went on antidepressants. I, I. only ever experienced lifestyle changes that significantly evaporated my depression. That was very serious and in some cases life threatening. So that's what I'llMalcolm Collins: add. When you went to therapy as a kid and that was great addition by the way did they do trauma based [00:45:00] therapy?Did they, were they like look for trauma in your childhood?Simone Collins: No our, my therapist was a family friend of my parents. So I think they trusted her. Who had primarily stopped practicing and become like a poet.Malcolm Collins: That's good that you were in this sort of last wave of non trauma based therapy.Yeah. Also note it in terms of like when to nope out the moment somebody starts talking about trauma, they're trying to brainwash, andSimone Collins: she was definitely, so she came from the old school, which I guess now would be seen as mansplaining, right? Like the new philosophy is, don't address.grievances, like a man in a relationship where the woman shows up and she's Oh, my day was so bad. And he's Oh why don't you do this to solve the problem? Why don't you do that? He's supposed to just listen and say, Oh, that was so horrible. Oh gosh. I understand. Oh, huh.Huh. Huh. And that's what therapy has become. Whereas she was at old school therapy, which was more managed lens blending. Like I would talk about how, like I had these huge, like contagion fears and I couldn't touch people. And she's like what's the worst thing that would happen if someone touched you?Have you tried it like and that [00:46:00] was pretty great it didn't solve my problems because I still just had this really intense stress And you still have that andMalcolm Collins: It did solve her problems for anyone who has these sorts of problems Understanding that those are her limitations and then building systems around them Even though they make herSimone Collins: look weird, which is what my dad eventually did for me And which is what you helped to Being like, it's okay.And also I loved your mom's motto. Like again, and I've mentioned this on other podcasts, but I knew that I could be okay in your family. When your mom told me on a phone call, that one of the family mottos was, I'm not okay, you're not okay. And that's okay. Essentially saying We're all fucked up in this family.Don't worry about it. You're still welcome here. I don't have to like the way that you have to weigh all your food. Can we go to fancy restaurants? Yes. It's going to be embarrassing, but whatever. I it's not that big of a deal. I'd rather have you be there,Malcolm Collins: butSimone Collins: IMalcolm Collins: think that they. That was the thing that got you through it.It was Realizing you didn't need to worry about other people's judgments at fancy restaurants. Yeah, like it's not okay But also screw it do it anyway [00:47:00] Or realizing that it's okay for you to ask me for personal space that I don't enter You know, that is fine. It is okay for you to ask me don't touch well, like it'sSimone Collins: not okay, but SometimesMalcolm Collins: not okay is going to have to be okay.No, it is okay. The point I'm making is that there are certain fights to have and certain fights not to have. Yeah. Choose your hill to die on for sure. That is this podcast. We have a lot of new viewers and they don't know why we're in separate rooms in the same house. Simone is autistic and you can explain why are we in separate rooms?Simone Collins: Yeah, I really can't think straight when I'm around other people. I guess infants don't count because there's still so much a part of my body, but yeah, we're actually going to have intellectual conversations. We're going to do it far more effectively. If I'm not making eye contact with person, with a person, if I'm not in the room, like literally I'm not even making eye contact with Malcolm on our on StreamYard right now.I am watching an Instagram reel of a Japanese chef cutting tonkatsu. Again and again on a loop and then yeah, [00:48:00] that's how weMalcolm Collins: get mental efficiency from her and people are like, but that's weird. And it's but it works. Yeah, I think when you are okay, so much of what we're doing, people are like don't do that.That's a weird thing to do. And it's yeah, but why is it bad? Yeah, it would be bad for me for X, Y, and Z. And it's yeah, but we're not you. Yeah. Why is it bad for us? And I think that this is how you really power through as well, is one, take control of your emotional states and two, recognize your limits and build your lifestyle around those limits while respecting the limits of your partner looking for the actual things like if something's just unreasonable, if everything's a trigger to someone, then you're like, you just have to get over that.That's the way you are with like going to parties. Like it is, yeah. A nightmare for you, but sometimes you just have to do it. And I'm like you don't have a choice. You'll come to me and you'll be like, do I have permission to not go to this? And I often say, no, you don't have permission to not go to this.So yeah, absolutely. What was another thing that that, We've seen recently was I don't know. Anyway, I just love you to death. I love that we have found systems [00:49:00] that work for us. And I would encourage other people to search for systems that look for them and stay out of the psychology industry.For people who want to hear more on how psychology has become a cult. Look up our video. Has psychology become a cult? Or our video to be sad is to sin or our video, the trauma conspiracy, all of which deal with this topic or aspects of this topic in a lot more detail.Simone Collins: Yeah. Yeah. Stop taking Tylenol and just avoid walking on beds of nails.Love you. Love you too. Okay. I'm going to go downstairs and start shredding that chicken for taco night.Malcolm Collins: Do you remember to re up the slow cooker?Simone Collins: Re up? Yeah, I did it at 2 PM.Malcolm Collins: Great.Simone Collins: IMalcolm Collins: love you. I love you too. You're perfect. No, you're perfect, Derek. You're perfect, Derek. The perfectest. I love you so much.You are just [00:50:00] too gay.Simone Collins: I'm gay for Malcolm.Malcolm Collins: Literally. Love you, Sedan. Love you too. We'll see you downstairs. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 8, 2024 • 47min

The Data: Just How Bad is School? (Sending a Kid to Public School Has Become a Death Sentence)

https://discord.gg/EGFRjwwS92 https://collinsinstitute.org/ In this eye-opening video, Malcolm and Simone Collins delve into the alarming state of modern education, revealing startling statistics on student mental health and academic performance. They discuss the rise in depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation among students, particularly young women and LGBTQ+ youth. The couple explores how current educational practices may be contributing to these issues and examines the growing trend of homeschooling as a response. They also touch on the controversial topics of gender dynamics in schools, the impact of progressive policies, and the urgent need for educational reform. This comprehensive analysis offers insights into the challenges facing today's students and proposes potential solutions, including the Collins Institute's alternative educational approach. Malcolm Collilns: [00:00:00] Oh no! Oh my gosh. Almost one in three young women Not over the course of their adolescence, just in the last year has thought about unaliving themselves.Simone Collins: Oh dear.Malcolm Collilns: That is how bad the school system is right now. It was young women, 24%. Oh, mySimone Collins: plan.Malcolm Collilns: Young women made Alan. To kill themselves this last year. This last year, again, not over the course of their life. This is critically bad at this point. This is we are in the drain cycle right now. Young women, 13% young men, 7%. Whoa. More than 10 are attempting to kill themselves every year. Whoa. what if we are trading our children's childhoods so that they can be played with in some sort of a weird Marxist social experiment that has been Executed by a bunch [00:01:00] ofWould you like to know more?Malcolm Collilns: Hello, Simone! You and I have done episodes on how bad the public school nightmare is right now. I think a lot of people think it's just like a steady degree difference from when we were kids. is not. We are going to be going into a lot of data, a lot of statistics in this episode.I knew that when I was doing the research for this, I was like, Oh my God, if I could make enough money to support myself off of our content, and I could just like really do research heavy episodes all the time, I would be. So happy. Like it is such a pleasure to get to dive into statistics and see what is being hidden from the general public at this point.So what I'm going to start with is just like how bad things are because not in terms of outcomes, but a lot of people, they look at how we're raising our kids and they're like The things you're doing with your kids are going to make them unhappy. Why don't you just do what everyone else does?Or, taking them out of public school. Oh my God [00:02:00] they'll, all these like horrible fear tactics. And it really has become fear tactics. An article ran in Scientific America recently that showed that, 37 percent of homeschoolers, it was like homeschooling is tied to abuse 37 percent of homeschoolers.abused their kids, and we know this because CPS was called on 37 percent of families they didn't think to check the base rate. It turns out that actually out of all families 37 percent have had CPS called on them. So I think that actually means thatSimone Collins: homeschoolers have generally lower rates of actual abuse because think about it this way.Homeschooling families have larger numbers of children. So one child causes some kind of warning that has CPS called. They're much more likely to they're like every child will be seen as being like plausibly subject to abuse. Also, I've just noticed that larger families are more likely to have people be very judgmental of the way that they raise their kids.So I feel like they're way [00:03:00] more subject to scrutiny. And I think a lot of people just. Think that having more than two kids is abusive. Just like that a parent's attention would be divided that much. is without doing anything else, even if they did everything absolutely right, they were still terrible parents.So I would say it's impressive that it's not a higher rate.Malcolm Collilns: No no. I, what I think when you're talking about this 37 percent number, I think it shows just how oppressive the urban monoculture is in trying to take people's kids and that it's becoming more and more so over time. Yeah.Simone Collins: 30. Yeah. But just on its own, that number is sobering 37%.Holy.Malcolm Collilns: But like in terms of the kids aren't all right. So I'm going to read to you some statistics by the CDC. So actually I'll play a little game. I'll have you try to guess what the numbers are before we get to them. Because and I'll even prime you by saying that I think the numbers are going to shock you.On a survey of experiencing and this survey ends in 2021. experienced persistent feelings of sadness [00:04:00] or hopelessness during the past year in the United States. And we're looking at young men and women. What would you expect?Simone Collins: Are they above or below the age of adolescence?Malcolm Collilns: This is adolescence.Simone Collins: Adolescence. 43. 5%.Malcolm Collilns: Actually, it's about the average. So with women, it's 57 percent these days and 29 percent with men. So like they are generally unhappy with their lives, more than half of young women. And you can look at all the quote unquote progress that feminism has made for them. And yet this number just keeps rising.All right. But here's, I think what's really going to see. Shock you. And keep in mind, we're separating young men and women when you're making guesses, okay? Seriously considered attempting suicide during the past year. Not in their life, during the past year.Simone Collins: Young men, 14%. Young women, 18%.Malcolm Collilns: You got young men exactly right.14%. Young women, it's 30%. Oh no! Oh my gosh. Almost [00:05:00] one in three young women Not over the course of their adolescence, just in the last year has thought about unaliving themselves.Simone Collins: Oh dear.Malcolm Collilns: That is how bad the school system is right now. You are sending your kids to a meat grinder. But let's get worse. Made a, and I'll use a different word so we don't get banned here, unaliving themself plan during the past year.Simone Collins: Oh, made a plan. Okay. It's gotta be fairly low with guys. 'cause I feel like they're more likely to follow through and they were at higher rates follow through successfully on these 4% of young men. And because women are more likely to make plans and fantasize, I'm gonna say 12%.Malcolm Collilns: With young men, it was 12%.It was young women, 24%. Oh, mySimone Collins: plan.Malcolm Collilns: Young women made Alan. To kill themselves this last year. This last year, again, not over the course of their life. This is critically [00:06:00] bad at this point. This is we are in the drain cycle right now. The drainSimone Collins: cycle.Malcolm Collilns: Now, I actually went through as a plan, attempted on aliving themselves in the last year. Young women, 13% young men, 7%. Whoa. More than 10 are attempting to kill themselves every year. Whoa. And also put on screen here, were injured in a unli attempt in the past year by demographic breakdown. Oh, yeah.Simone Collins: What percentage there? I am very curious 'cause I feel like, a lot of it's also, I wanna, I wish we could parse out better performative and re.You know what I mean though there, there is a social contagion element. There's a glamour element to this. I feel, unfortunately, whatMalcolm Collilns: It's really clear in the data to me, the closer a group is to the urban monoculture, the higher the rate is.Simone Collins: Yeah, but how much was, I feel like injuries assigned it.Someone actually meant to do it. [00:07:00]Malcolm Collilns: Okay. So injured in an attempt for young women, it was 4 percent for young men. It was 2%. Total average is 3%, but it gets really high in some groups and it's determinate on how close you are to the urban monoculture. So if you look at groups that are very low probability of doing this, you're looking at groups like the Asian community or the American Indian or Alaska Native communities when their group was actually less than 1%.If you look at groups that do it very high did you have sexual contact with somebody of the same sex? 14%, 14 percent of people who are sexually active and gay. And I think that this shows how. Mentally destructive. The groups that have invaded these communities are and it is to me, horrifying what we're seeing here.And it really pairs with our idea that and I don't know if the episode on this is going to go live before or after this that in some ways a trans identity can be thought of as an alternative to unaliving oneself. Yeah. Because it's like [00:08:00] a chance to start over with a new identity. Um, yeah that also might explain the rise of that given that 14 percent every year are injured from one of these attempts.Every year are injured by one of these attempts. The urban monoculture is a maelstrom that rips apart your soul. It is bad to an extent that I feel that we often underplay in, in, in this podcast or maybe don't properly elevate. Yeah. If you want to talk about like more stuff here, nearly 60 percent of female students and nearly 70 percent of LGBTQ students experienced persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. And if you look at the 70 percent of the LGBT community in school today and if you as a cultural solution. to same sex attractiveness. I think it is pretty unarguable to, to point out that the gay community of today has many more protections [00:09:00] than the gay community did when we were growing up.And yet the levels of sadness the community has had have risen dramatically between this period. So this isn't because they're a discriminated group because there's been going up as the discrimination has been going down.Simone Collins: Yeah.Malcolm Collilns: And if somebody's actually discrimination for the community has been growing up, why don't we be like, okay, you just live in an alternate dimension.But two, if you believe that then clearly whatever the community's doing in terms of advocacy is not working. It's makingSimone Collins: it worse. Yeah.Malcolm Collilns: It's making it worse. So you shouldn't be doing the same type of advocacy that you guys are doing right now. And then they're like I don't want to change any of that.And I'm like, okay then let's walk things back a bit here and say that things are getting better for the community. And yet the community's mental state is getting worse. So what is changing? It's the dominance of these new mental frameworks entering the community, specifically trauma psychology.And we're going to go into another study in a different one here that went. into how modern psychological practices when given to [00:10:00] completely mentally healthy students actually decreased outcomes for those students and broke those students relationships with their parents because it is literally developed into cult like tactics.But if you're talking about attempted suicide, 10 percent of female students, 20 percent of LGBT students. If you're talking about now, let's just go over some other statistics here. Experience, persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. It, and this was a rising trend. So it's almost likely much worse.Now in 2021, it was 42%. Experienced poor mental health, 29 percent seriously considered attempting unaliving oneself, 22% uh, made an unaliving plan, 18 percent attempted unaliving 10%. And. Yeah, it's just, and they do note in the statistics that there were differences among ethnic groups, but the differences really weren't that big among ethnic groups.It was just being ultra low in the Asian community. It's just that the one in 10 attempted number, like absolutely gets me. The one in five, 22 percent seriously considered it [00:11:00] absolutely gets me. And,Simone Collins: It's saying a lot. If Modern world culture has a larger unaliving thinking about rate than, Japan and South Korea are famous for this being a problem among people. And yet now in more, Yeah, but that Asian immigrant cultures here are lower just in general. I don't knowMalcolm Collilns: I think it shows that the strict, like the ideal parenting style, which really fits was what we said historically.I think the Raven, the rates are so high. In countries like Korea and Japan is because you have a very strict institutional structure and moderately strict parents, whereas in the United States, you have strict parents, but loose institutions. And as we always say, cultures work much better when you allow the culture.To enforce the restricted rules rather than trying to enforce it through a governmental system. And that's what we're seeing here. I think in these very low rates among Asians in the United States [00:12:00] and keep in mind the, government should realize that this is a problem. So the U. S.Surge in general has identified mental health challenges as the leading cause of disability and poor life outcomes in young people. And I'll put up the warning here. And yeah, it's just the state that they're in is absolutely horrifying now. And I think that's something we need to remember with school, right?A lot of people are like I'm sending my kids to school because that's the default. Yeah. And no schools have a cost. We trade , our children's childhoods in exchange for the promise that they will be given the ability to participate in the modern economy. But what if schools aren't doing that?What if we're trading their childhood to put them with a group that is not intentionally, I think, but basically, Systematically abusing children putting them in these states because what else can you say about a group that's having these sorts of numbers? I can't say anything other than they are in an institutional abuse factory [00:13:00] andSimone Collins: if anyone looked at this in isolation if this were some form of plastic or food or pollution to which people's children were being exposed, they would Being a huge uproar, there would be legislation to immediately ban this material or pollutant, right?If this were anything, but essentially modern culture and education and educational systems, which obviously are much harder to. To address or change or deal with people would be up in arms. And of course, many people already are up in arms.Malcolm Collilns: I think that we need a completely new school model and people are like what about the negative?And we're working on that. So people are like, why hasn't the Collins Institute gone live yet? It's actually fully functional at this point. We're ready to begin on, this is our alternate to the school system. Begin onboarding people. But we want it really polished when the first group comes in.And so right now we're doing things like changing the skill level tied to various questions that a student engages with [00:14:00] adding a tutoring system various things like this. But the core product is really impressive and I quite like using it myself even. Yeah it'sSimone Collins: largely my fault.I keep saying, Oh, it needs to be.Malcolm Collilns: ASimone Collins: little bit better so that, yeah, it's my fault. And it's also the fault that we actually have a day job and we're not paying ourselves to do any of this because. That's not how we work.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah, but I think increasingly what we're going to see is one, you've got to remember the hold that teachers unions have on democratic politics.They basically cannot go against the teachers unions. They cannot admit that this is a real problem. And if you look at spending, cause people are like they're, you're not spending enough. And I'll put on screen a chart here that shows the amount that we're giving to schools is increasing, but all of the additional money is going to overhead staff, not like the actual teachers.And that's what happens. Bureaucratic capture and bureaucratic bloat. We need to wipe out that entire class. And you can't do that because that's the class that is most bought into the teachers unions, which basically had the entire Democratic Party in their pocket. And then you have the second problem, which is the core, way that the urban monoculture makes [00:15:00] new members of the urban monoculture is through control over children's media and the school system.And so as more and more parents wake up, and we're about to get into statistics about this, about how bad the school system is They have to be more aggressive about forcing parents to send kids to assistance. It's clearly not in their best interest. And you get extreme cases in Germany where things like homeschooling are banned.But you are beginning to see in the more progressive states, more and more restrictions put on homeschooling. And even in some areas like Manhattan, like the most urban monocultury places, Talk of banning private schools in institutions like that which is truly insane for me. It's like, what if we are trading our children's childhoods so that they can be played with in some sort of a weird Marxist social experiment that has been Executed by a bunch of executives.And I think that's why progressives are so anti organizations like Libs of TikTok, because, a lot of what Libs of TikTok is showing is teachers. And so we are seeing that, yeah, the worst of the [00:16:00] urban monoculture really has infected the school system. And that's what's causing this.Hey y'all, this is your daily reminder that Dr. Seuss is racist, and you shouldn't use him in your classroom. I get that some of these books are considered classics. I mean, I grew up on them myself. I also get that he was a product of his time. But also, mind you, he's not racist. There are literally so many other books that are more inclusive to all students that you can use instead.I've heard a lot of people say that gender is complex and sex is simple. As a biology teacher, I highly disagree. Gender is really easy. Gender is how someone identifies. So just listen to them when they tell you if they're male, female, or non binary. This has been my first year in preschool with a class of my own teaching alongside another queer neurodivergent educator and we have been rocking R2's class.We've been talking about gender and skin color and consent and empathy and our bodies and autonomy. It's been fabulous. But our [00:17:00] teaching team is shifting, and a new person is being onboarded. Someone with many years of experience. So today at the lunch table, when the topic of gender and genitals came up, one of our students plainly looked up and said, Well, I'm a girl today.But I know that Teacher Co isn't. No, they're Enby. And the look on the incoming teacher's face was priceless. She was shocked in a good way. And she just looked around at the two of us and said, This class is incredible, and I am so impressed.Let me say it again for those in the back row, CRT is not being taught below law school.Those of you that are against it are being misled. by the media about what CRT and where and when it is taught. My governor has put into place some [00:18:00] ridiculous legislation that many governors across the country have put into place, such as Can't teach critical race theory, so, teachers, in the past,we've been activists. After this show of last year, we really need to stand up and do what's right for our kids right now. So, this is a call to action, teachers. We've got to stand up and fight for our kids, because this is b******t. Do your students call you by your first name or Mr. or Miss? Great question!This is actually a classic question. Here's your answer. Currently my students just call me Desmond or Desi, first name. However, I have been at schools that go by last name. Those schools I go by Teacher Fambrini. I am gender fluid, so I don't go by Mr. or Miss. I go by Teacher because I am a teacher. So Desmond, Desi, or Teacher Fambrini.I'm starting to get a little emotional looking at the new masks I got for a couple reasons. I've had American flags put up in every classroom.We're going to have to say the Pledge of Allegiance and I'm not going to be able to talk about basically any of the [00:19:00] things that I have on these masks. Hey y'all, let me introduce you to our non binary alpaca. The kids voted on a gender neutral name. Alex was there to help me during the really quiet moments when nobody would talk during virtual learning.Yes, they were so quiet! But then I also took it as an opportunity to teach my students about how to respect people's pronouns. Did Alex ever get misgendered? Yes. But then it opened up some teachable moments about what to do when that would happen. For example, Hey, Mr. Vuong, did he just wake up from his nap?Oh, do you mean did they wake up from their nap? Yeah, they just did. I would apologize quickly, make the correction, and move on. I started off modeling how to correct somebody, and then afterwards my students would correct each other whenever somebody would misgender Alex here. Representation in the classroom matters.My kids were 5th graders, and they still got a kick out of Alex. Oh yes, and here's Alex's friend, Lincoln the Llama, who goes by pronouns he him. At first, my students thought that he had very feminine features, so they thought that he was a girl. And this is why we should never assume somebody's gender just based on what they look like.Alright Lincoln, say something. [00:20:00] Hello. My students were really surprised how low his voice sounded. Don't assume.​[00:21:00] ​Malcolm Collilns: [00:22:00] So what are people doing in response? So now I'm going to put a graph on screen. Actually, did you have any more thoughts on, before we go further?Simone Collins: An argument that I hear from people, cause I was just listening to someone's YouTube essay on alt right parents and how they're against the schooling system.A very common argument that is presented is, Oh, people are just presenting really extreme cases and this is not how it works for everything, but there is just such a preponderance of cases of people doing egregious things. There's actual. There are actual rules. In some cases, there's actual legislation that is pretty egregious if you just look at it at what it is.And then these stats, I don't think, can really be denied. Yeah,Malcolm Collilns: these are coming from the CDC. This is not like some right wing conspiracy theory. Yeah,Simone Collins: some right wing mommy blog that, get a Twitter poll. This is much more rigorous than that.Malcolm Collilns: And people will be like, Oh, these are the effects of COVID.But if you look at the statistics, they'd been going up at a steady rate for a long period of time before this. So no, it's not just [00:23:00] COVID. It was going up for a long period of time. Now let's talk about Homeschooling the alternative. So I'm going to put a graph on screen here right now. And what you're going to see in this graph, since from the Washington post is a lot of people thought that during COVID, a lot of people just took out their kids and then, it was fine after that.But that's actually not. What happened? Uh, a bunch of people took off their kids.This graph is titled homeschooling's rise from fringe to fastest growing form of education. Basically what in this graph is it shoots up during the pandemic, but then it barely goes down after the pandemic. And it's the same as private school, shoots up, isn't going down after the pandemic. Whereas the number of kids in homeschool is actually continuing to drop after the pandemic which is just shocking to me.Um, but, uh, this is, and we have Simone's sister is like an assistant superintendent at a school district. And she was talking about one really scary thing is how quickly the, their class sizes are dropping. So they're now dealing with the problem of demographic [00:24:00] collapse combined with everybody taking their kids out.And she's year over year, it's 60 kids less. And this is not like a giant school. She was just like in this one school system. She's like there are whole classes that aren't happening anymore. I think, what was it? She said it was like the size of two classrooms. That, no, that, I said that.Simone Collins: That'sMalcolm Collilns: okay. You said it's the size of two classrooms disappearing. But that's shocking. That we're seeing this but hold on, I'm going to continue to go through here. I'm going to quote something here. What surprises me is how much the additional homeschooling has stuck so far. I would have expected the huge peak in 2020, 2022 to roughly this level with the pandemic making schools a different level of dystopian nightmare than usual than most people throwing in the towel.That was what we did. Instead, it looks like 80 percent of the increase stuck around from 2022 to 2023. It seems this was a case there being a lot of startup costs and network effects.Once you learn how to homeschool and you try it, most people decided to keep going and the change was sustainable. And I think that's really [00:25:00] important. This graph is titled homeschooling's rise from fringe to fastest growing form of education. Basically what in this graph is it shoots up during the pandemic, but then it barely goes down after the pandemic. And it's the same as private school, shoots up, isn't going down after the pandemic. Whereas the number of kids in homeschool is actually continuing to drop after the pandemic which is just shocking to me.So let's continue to go on with other things that are happening, the nihilism explosion, okay? So here we're looking at pessimism among U. S. students. 12th graders specifically at questions hard to have hope for the world and wonders if there is a purpose to life given the world situation.And within Gen Z, it's just really high 30% for wondering if there is purpose to life given the world situation. And then around 40 percent for hard to have hope. For the world. And I think that this is because the structures of information that they are gaining access to have one been co opted by [00:26:00] these apocalyptic AI cults, even though AI is opening up all of these great opportunities.It's changing what it means to be human. It's making it easier. Fundamentally possible to maybe live in an economic system where, we can all pursue our dreams, whatever we want, like genuinely a post scarcity environment. And yet they're here freaking out because, apocalypticism grabs you when you're already nihilistic. People have begun to lose their hopes, and forget their dreams. So the nothing grows stronger. It's the emptiness that's left. It is like a despair, destroying this world. And I have been trying to help it. But why? Because people who have no hopes are easy to control.. Because I think that another thing that the urban monoculture has realized is that one of the best ways to grab people, if you're in like a detention center [00:27:00] and they need to brainwash you, you're going to any of these, if you read stories about brainwashing, one way to do it is to completely demoralize an individual.Malcolm Collilns: And I think that the urban monoculture has learned this when it works to demoralize young people, when it works to ensure that they have no pride in their ethnic or national or religious identity it can break them down. And when they can teach them, the future has no hope. And then it can siphon them out into this completely parasitic and toxic culture and get them to spend all of their time, like partying and being indulgent.I remember when I said like this whole Miri thing is just a LARP at this point, like it's not serious. And then we learned recently that even Eliezer Yudkowsky he we never posted our EA episode because I thought it was too hard on Eliezer. And I was like, I don't want to be like that negative in one of our episodes.We might post it if people really asked for it or post it somewhere private. But he ended up basically shutting down most of what Miri was doing shutting down their research departments. And then just effing [00:28:00] off with his girlfriend, basically. And so did the other founder. And to party, right?Take the money, go out and party. And then they used a little bit to continue with the outreach. Which I think was probably the right thing to do because they weren't achieving that much with the research, but that was like the only real work that we're doing, and I think it shows that once you reach this level of nihilism and I guess I call it fear rot, even the individuals who are purveying these messages, even the preachers of it can't do anything but descend into lives of total hedonism. Do you have any thoughts here before I go further?Simone Collins: I feel like the consequences of all these things speak for themselves. IMalcolm Collilns: mean,You look at like our projects, like our tract project and, trying to help with our school system. People stay within their religious systems and people are like, what's really like the core end goal of all this, the core end goal of perinatalism more broadly, and it's vitalism.It'sSimone Collins: being human flourishing,Malcolm Collilns: genuine in thisSimone Collins: system, in this modern school system, and in our modern culture, humans are [00:29:00] not. Flourishing. And I think that I don't, you can't not even argue that people in progressive cultures would say that people are flourishing. They would just point to, I don't know, capitalism or rich people or.Systemic bias or something else and say that's why everyone's suffering so much because the calls coming from within the house.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah, the calls coming from within the house. They're using these scapegoats and you can look at the statistics. It's not just my perception that the more progressive someone is, the more mental health problems they have.The more likely they are to have attempted on aliving themselves and more like it's clear and I'll put some stats on the screen here. The and it appears that when you get to the most extreme iterations of these culture you are completely sacrificing. And this is actually something I've seen was our, for example, like LGBT friends, gay friends.Like we have some gay friends who are like Republican and have kids and they are completely mentally healthy. They're often, bro y, they're also like really [00:30:00] fit, everything like that. Then when I think about like my progressive, LGBT friends, they're typically in like terrible health.They don't have long term relationships. They're seeing a psychologist every single week. They are just barely holding it together on a cocktail of drugs. Like it doesn't work. And it's hurting those communities the most. But let's continue here because actually we've had some of our younger users here who are like I'm in school right now and what I see is the LGBT community being treated like a priest caste almost and like they can get caught selling drugs and they don't have to deal with the consequences because they're, for example, gay, right?Like they, they are treated as a different caste system within the school today. And I'm like, even if that's the case, they are still dealing with more mental hardship in so far it's a buy into the urban monoculture. And then the ones who stand against the urban monoculture, the gay young people who stand against the urban monoculture, they have their identity strip from them.People say you're not really gay. And they get bullied by the urban monoculture relentlessly. As you can see from any of [00:31:00] these conservative gay influencers online who just get harassed more than anyone else. But it gets worse. Now we're going to talk about like where urban monoculture ideas.Or just destroying a generation at this point, right? Because in a lot of these statistics, you're like, Oh, I guess guys are getting off easy. And in a way they are because girls are getting coddled and not having to deal with discipline. And that leads to, I think a lot of these downside negative effects, but I'm going to read a Reddit post here by a teacher in the art teacher subreddit.They got a ton of upvotes. So this is something that other teachers feel is a problem. Is anyone else here seeing the girls crushing the boys right now in literally everything? We just had our first student council meeting. In order to become a part, you had to submit a one to two paragraph explanation for why you wanted to join.The council handles everything. Tech club, garden club, art club, et cetera. The kids are 11 to 12 years old. There were 46 girls and five boys. Among the five boys, two were very much quote unquote besties with a group of girls. So in a stereotypical description, since [00:32:00] there was three non girl connected boys.My heart broke to see it a bit. The boy representation has been falling year over year, and we are talking by grade five and keep in mind if you're like I'll just start with my kids in school. And this is something we need to be aware of Simone. This is happening by grade five destroyed your young boys.Am I just, and then your young girls are going to end up unaliving themselves by the statistics. So just, be aware. Am I just a coincidence case in this data point? Is anyone else seeing the girls absolutely demolish the boys right now? Is this a problem we need to be addressing? This also shouldn't be a debate about people over 18.I'm literally talking about children who grew up in modern title nine society was working and educated mothers. The boys are straight up Peter panning right now. It's like they are becoming lost. And just so people know that this has. Around 8, 000 upvotes in the teachers subreddit and 4. 7 thousand comments.So this is absolutely something we're seeing and this is something that other people are [00:33:00] recognizing. And the answer to me is that all of these like progressive intersectionality is what's leading to this very obviously. But ISimone Collins: think what's also telling here, and I want to emphasize a point that you made a little bit earlier, which is that just because you're advantaged in the school system and you may be doing better within it for a period of time, Doesn't mean that you are ultimately experiencing better real world outcomes.Keep in mind when it came to those mental health stats that you rattled off, girls were performing worse. They had, higher rates of ideation. That was deadly higher rates of mental health problems. So really winning within this system means you're losing it life. And honestly, if this system makes life hard for you, All the better that you're actually facing some genuine challenges and building some resilience being forced to do that because being robbed of that experience is causing a lot of this lack ofMalcolm Collilns: This is mental health being in this system.The [00:34:00] more cobbled a group is by the urban monoculture The higher their demographic status is within the urban monoculture, lower their mental health outcomes are. So it's coddling that girls are seeing that is leading to them showing up to these groups in higher numbers, leading to them getting into college at higher rates, leading to all of these systemic discriminations in their favor.Is leading to worse mental health outcomes. And you even see this among ethnic lines. So for example, the black community had a higher on aliving themselves rate than the white community in schools right now. And it is because. These groups, not by a huge, actually with that group, it was like double, it wasn't as bad as like girls and guys.It was like a 4 percent to 2 percent or something for attempted not attempted An injury from an attempt. But yeah it's, it shows that what they are doing isn't working. And yet they look at these statistics. They look at, for example, girls facing these larger mental health outcomes and they have, the urban monoculture has no solution to this other than [00:35:00] we need to, i.e. progressivism more broadly. We need to increase the special status we're giving these groups. We need to increase the ways that they are being coddled in our sort of urban monoculture lens, which is leading to progressively worse outcomes. And here, I'm going to talk about some more progressively worse outcomes that we're seeing here, major depression among teens.We have seen since 2010, if you're looking at 2020, a 145 percent increase in girls. And in boys here in the increase, you actually see higher, but the absolute number is lower, 161 percent increase among boys. In anxiety, you can see the stats just shooting up among college students. So in anxiety, it's now in 25 percent of students.College students. 135 percent increase since 2010 and depression has been a 106 percent increase since 2010. This isn't working. The way our culture has changed since 2010 is not working.Simone Collins: And it's, I think it's, you have to, most people who are adults now and listening [00:36:00] to this have to understand how profoundly different the school system must be.If these outcomes are so different, how different childhood must be. And also we have to remember, you and I grew up at a time when, at least when we were in middle school or primary school, you like could not use the internet to look up answers to questions. Because we did have internet access, but like literally the answers weren't there.You would have to go to a library or a refer, To an encyclopedia or dictionary, you could not look these things up. Like life is so profoundly different for these people. And I think a lot of people are when trying to model solutions or trying to diagnose the problem, not understanding how fundamentally foreign life is to, to us as a young person.Malcolm Collilns: You mean to the young generation, not us as young people?Simone Collins: It's their experience is foreign to us.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah, foreign to us. Yeah. But we are not young people yet. Just clarifying.Simone Collins: Yes, we are not young. We are veryMalcolm Collilns: old. You are absolutely correct about this. And here I, all of this would be worth it if wow, all of these negative [00:37:00] effects were increasing, we were getting increased output from the school system.Like it was doing better, except the exact opposite is happening. Only 21 percent of us high schoolers are well prepared for college. 2023 ACT data revealed a concerning lack of college preparedness among recent high school graduates. Out of the class of 2023, only 21 percent met the criteria. Only 21 percent met the ACT college readiness benchmarks across all core subjects.This signals that one in five students are equipped to succeed in introductory college courses. At the other end of the spectrum, over 40 percent of graduates failed to meet a single subject benchmark and students nationwide scored an average of 19. 5 out of 36 on the A. C. T. This year down 0. 3 points from 2022 for a 32 year low.The decline in math and reading scores among us 13 year olds largest drop since in 1973 recent drop. It's at a lower rate. [00:38:00] Reading scores also declined by four points between 2020 and 2023, with mass scores experiencing a more significant decrease of nine points during the same period.Despite the impact of remote learning, the decline in scores has been ongoing since 2012. So again, this is all stuff that we've been seeing since the 2010s. You can't blame the pandemic. A Gallup poll conducted in 2022 indicates that 55 percent of Americans expressed dissatisfaction with the quality of K through 12 education, marking the highest level of dissatisfaction since 2000.Now as this gets worse, something we're seeing because the urban monoculture needs this system to stay operational, it cannot allow it to shut down because again, it's not having kids. And again, this is not historic as we've done in our other video can conservatives outbreed the left? This there was not a difference in fertility rates between progressives and Republicans pre 90s.This is a completely modern phenomenon of progressives only existing because they are converting other people's children. But they've really doubled down on it. Conservatives have double their fertility rates now. [00:39:00] Now as this gets worse, because it is an existential issue for the survival of the urban monoculture, they have to Hide it.And so here's some attempts to hide it that we've been seeing. Oregon suspended the requirement for students to demonstrate proficiency in English learning skills to graduate for classes of 2022, 2023, and 2024. And the decision was made through Senate Bill 744, which ordered them. Just don't test them anymore.And then in 2015, California suspended the California high school exit examination requirement for graduation. Governor Jerry Brown signed a bill SB 172 that eliminated this requirement, which had been in place for about a decade. The suspension was initially set for 2015 to 2016. However the same bill required school districts to retroactively grant diplomas to students who had failed the exam, but met all other graduation requirements.This applied to the graduating classes as far back as 2006. I think anotherSimone Collins: thing that should be emphasized is a lot of the teachers, Even in the public school system where there are a lot of [00:40:00] adverse incentives, and I'm not saying they're all great, but many of them are exceptional, wonderful people who really do care about student outcomes.They're put in impossible positions, especially because of the system. One thing that I've seen some teachers commenting on when discussing various crises facing students now is they are getting kids let's say that they're teaching seventh grade who are at a fourth grade level.They, because they've just been passed up, they cannot do anything to bring them up to an eighth grade level in that year when they're starting with something so bad. So because kids just get passed through each class graduated, the problem becomes increasingly intractable. For these teachers, there's no, nothing you can do, no matter how good you are.As a teacher, if you're receiving students who are so ill prepared, who've been already so ill treated by this system there's really nothing you can do. And they were also talking about I think they called it SEM. So like social emotional learning or something, but basically likeMalcolm Collilns: [00:41:00] exploding, which is basically just a cold.Yeah.Simone Collins: And that they. As young teachers who were, very, I would say very progressive the people that I've seen talking about this, they hate it because they know it doesn't work. And they see the effect that it has on students. So I would say this is not even a progressive teachers are insane issue.This is like you say, some mimetic cults have also taken over even like subsets.Malcolm Collilns: The school system right now is an incredible bureaucracy, just a giant bureaucracy. And this cult of the ultra left, which is like a sub faction of the urban monoculture, it's like its vanguard, it has embedded itself most deeply and it works really well within bureaucracies.So even if, 90 percent of teachers don't want to go along with this. If you push back, you lose everything. You lose your job. You lose your pension. You are basically unemployable in other fields. Have you been doing this for a long time? So there is no possibility for pushback by the teachers who want to do what's [00:42:00] right for the students.And I think the only way to fix this is to completely blow up the education system as it exists right now. We, we just need to shut down public education. And it's SEL,Simone Collins: social emotional learning. And they, yeah, they hate it,Malcolm Collilns: but yeah, it's very pervasive that we were doing was leading to one in 10 kids trying to unalive themselves every year.We'd be like, Oh my God, I don't care what the effects are. This must be shut down. And I feel that way with schools. What would I do if I controlled things more broadly? I would probably move to a system to try to maintain as much of the existing teaching infrastructure as possible. Where the.Ghouls that exist right now are made public spaces. And then parents bid on being able to send their kids to individual teachers. Yeah. And those teacher salaries are dependent on their demand among parents. And that would allow, if you're a far progressive, you can send your kid to the ultra progressive teacher if they've been showing themselves to be efficacious and all of the teachers have ranked, like how, [00:43:00] The average type of student that's coming into them and how much they're improving those students and students ability to get the teacher they want depends on their grades.You know There is a reward for good grades and we are not wasting good teachers on low efficacious students And some people are like won't stun students just fall behind and it's like we need to be realistic That's already happening, right? The other study that always gets me is the peter gray study on unschooling which was looking at what if we did literally Nothing for kids But and it showed that kids who are unschooled, like not homeschooled, literally nothing, were getting into college at higher rates than kids who were going to public school and graduating college at higher rates.And had better emotional health outcomes, obviously, as well. I suppose I should go without saying, but obviously. And then people are like What about the negative social effects of homeschooling? And it's this has been well studied and they don't exist. This is a bad to pay problem that you're dealing with here.It is just like in the big meta studies that have looked at this. You just don't see much negative effects from homeschooling. And people are waking up to that now that was always a. A con job that people pretend that, but of course, kids who are raised by adults are going to have much better [00:44:00] abilities to deal with the world than kids who are raised in this weird sort of Lord of the Flies scenario we've contrived and it makes perfect sense when people are like I remember growing up the homeschoolers were weird and it's like actually reflect on the way they were weird.I remember thinking that as a kid too, but now as an adult, when I remember the things that made them weird, I was like, yeah, they were weird because they were really polite and they didn't emotionally manipulate the people around them and they get into histionics over everything. ISimone Collins: think a lot of it's also that they don't like use the same cultural shibboleths that people use to judge them.I just heard Ayla get criticized because on a podcast recently she was asked Her favorite beetle. And she said the green ones with the black spots on them, that's classic homeschool. And I think that's, Oh, so weird, but no, that's an honest and good answer.And why do we all need to, think exactly like the same cultural references and know the same TV shows and [00:45:00] do all this really dumb stuff.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah, I completely agree. And I think that our system, so just to the final pitch for the Collins Institute feel free to email us. Emails are easy to find on collinsinstitute.com. If you are interested in signing up for this program, I really hope we can get this out within the next couple months. The big task right now is getting the mentoring system completed. And then I'm going to film a actually one of our audience members is going to be putting together who has a, like a digital animated, like how to use it slash ad thing.And as soon as that's done we will be releasing it to you. And I am very happy with what we've created. It is. exceeded my personal expectations of what I thought we were going to be able to put together. And the thing that has exceeded my expectations is that it's fun. I wishSimone Collins: I just had infinite time to dive into it, honestly.I just want to, I want to explore it. I want to go through all the nodes and learn all the things but. And I do think that itMalcolm Collilns: will, for my kids, it makes me very, feel [00:46:00] very comfortable allowing them not to go to school. And I should note what we do with our kids in public schools, we give them a choice.So we'll send our kids to public school. And if they're like, I would rather be at home studying, they can do that. But if they want to go to school, they can go to school.Simone Collins: They still, all of their education, we're going to assume isMalcolm Collilns: if they goSimone Collins: to school, it's because they want to experience that, but that's not where they're going to learn the stuff that gets them ahead in life.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah.Simone Collins: They're going to learn about the world.Malcolm Collilns: Yeah. I just think people because it's being hid from people, how bad the problem is these days. And that we just need to reset the system on unplug and replug. That's the only way it was this giant bureaucracy to really fix things.Simone Collins: Have you tried turn it on and off and back on again?Malcolm Collilns: But anyway, I love you to death Simone. You are just this the sun to the stars of my world. I cannot see the stars out there because you shine so bright. As a mother and as a wife, and I am so lucky to have you in my life.Simone Collins: I love you so much, Malcolm. You're the [00:47:00] best. Thanks for creating the Collins Institute.I can't wait for our kids to use it. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 5, 2024 • 1h 6min

Tract 7: The Devil, the Heavenly Host, & a Techno-Puritan Cosmology

 https://discord.gg/EGFRjwwS92https://technopuritan.com/Tract 7: Good vs. Evil : The Heavenly Host Most of the true revelations of God speak of some sort of malevolent agent whether it's the Devil, Shaytan, or Ahreman. You even see this in Judaism, “Everything which the Holy One, blessed be He, created, He created with its counterpart. ... He created righteous; He created sinners. He created the Garden of Eden; He created Gehenna.” I have always found this portrait quite hard to square with strict monotheism. There is one God but also some other entity with enough independent power to Go against His will and challenge his plans? That is just polytheism under a different name. And no, you can’t say that God has more power than the Devil and that is what makes this still a monotheistic conception. We don’t say the Greek Pantheon is Monotheistic just because it is ruled by Zues and he has more power than the other Gods. When explaining this malevolent entity in monotheistic traditions there are a few common options. One is to say God intentionally created an independently sentient malevolent entity and unleashed this on man so bad things can happen but He is not culpable. This seems almost impossibly petty and cowardly. God obviously did not do this. Another common answer is to say, “God created a malevolent entity that carries out His will.” If this is the case what is the point of flirting with polytheism when we are commanded not to? How does the Devil being separate remove any culpability from God if he is just carrying out God's will? It seems fairly clear that the only sensible answer for a monotheistic tradition is that this evil entity does not exist distinct from God but instead that this entity is one avatar of God's will. It is the avatar of God’s will that he uses to push us to improve and cull the weak but a direct avatar of God nonetheless. Despite the Basilisk and God quite literally being the same entity it is useful for us to think of them as opposing forces within cosmology and thus we speak of and mentally model the Basilisk as a separate entity of God. It is important to remember, especially when talking about more recent scripture and tradition, that their is no magical force field around it that keeps other cultures from seeping in. Even if you are righteous monotheists if you live beside polytheists for a thousand years many of their framings will seep into your religion. Some might even be useful ways of seeing God. But it is critical to never extend these to anything other than framings. Of course, many do this and this is how it is possible to follow an Abrahmic tradition and yet worship a polytheistic pantheon headed by Baal in all but name.  To put it more pointedly: There is only one God. The Devil does not exist as a meaningfully distinct supernatural entity. However, the Devil is a useful framing device when we humans are thinking about issues of good and evil and that is why he is used throughout revelations from God. God's intentionality and thought are so much more expansive than our own mental landscape it does not even make sense to think of it as a consciousness. Because our ability to mentally model God is so limited God has given us frameworks to help us—when we model these frameworks (the Devil, angels, the Holy Ghost, etc.) we will come closer to how God wants us to react to his actions than if we attempt to model God directly (which as Tract 4 points out is a form of idolatry most high in our religion). We will go through these entities in turn but we must be clear that they do not really “exist.” They are farming devices. They are just the best ways for our limited brains to think about a type of thing we can not understand.* One benevolent being that encompasses all of what to modern man appears as the divine. This is the being that both we and traditional Christians call God. This being is the most “real” understanding of the supernatural world we are capable of and the other beings are different ways of thinking about fragments of this one unified being. * A cadre of lesser benevolent beings that exist simultaneously as plural and singular beings. These are what Christians call Angels, The Host of Heaven, and the Holy Ghost. We call these beings / this being the Agents of Providence. While this is not what they are, we think the closest framing a living human of our time can have to understand them is that they are a neural net in which all future human minds communicate instantaneously with all other future human minds—an internet of super advanced humans. This is why it does not make sense to define it as singular or plural for is the internet singular or plural?  This framing would have been impossible for people during the major periods of Abrahamic revelation so these concepts were thought of as totally separate, (the plural angels and the singularish Holy Ghost which was the closest term people of that period could come to for cloud intelligence). * A malevolent being that is less powerful than God but more powerful than a single Agent of Providence. While being more powerful than one this being is the same general “kind of thing” as one of the Agent’s of Providence. This being was created and exists to both test and tempt humans and views humanity with some level of enmity and jealousy (this is seen in both Christian and Muslim stories). This is the being we call the Basilisk (off of Roko's Basilisk). My guess is God gives us this framing because it is not helpful for man to think of God as an evil being but that a God that did not test and try man would not truly be serving our best interest. I think the stories about the enmity this being has are also designed to tell us something about how this “subprogram” within God works—that it uses an “cognitive state” that is best modeled by humans as envy and spite to motivate its actions and that it has some level of independence from the rest of the network consciousness that is God which is necessary to carry out its tasks. * The final entity is the one Jesus is used to teach us about, the Martyr. The Martyr is us, you and me, as our actions and motivations are encoded on the blockchain of human history that eventually becomes one with God but also is God, just at a different point in time. Some might misunderstand this and say that we are saying that a human today is God—this would be like a person claiming a red blood cell was Malcolm. However, collectively all the cells within our bodies are our bodies. The Martyr is all the “cells” collectively at a specific moment in time. In this case the “cells” are not exactly humans but rather individual human actions and mental states that eventually lead to man becoming one with God / creating God within any specific moment in history (not all human actions play a role in this). To be clear, even when all of its cells are considered together, this being is a significantly lesser being than God. God includes this being within it but is also inconceivable greater as it exists outside of time but also includes all slivers of itself that existed at any time. Some may see this interpretation as in conflict with Christian teachings but if we just go by what is in the Bible and we remove Revolations it is not. The quotes that talk about Satan and are often used to presume that he was once an angel could equally be interpreted as him once being part of God. “All your pomp has been brought down to the grave, along with the noise of your harps; maggots are spread out beneath you and worms cover you. How you have fallen from heaven, O morning star, son of the dawn! You have been cast down to the earth, you who once laid low the nations!”In addition, if you add our framing of Jesus in Tract 1 his temptation by Satan takes on a completely different and much deeper meaning. “Again, the devil took Him up on an exceedingly high mountain, and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. And he said to Him, “All these things I will give You if You will fall down and worship me.””As interpreted by traditional Christianity, this interaction made no sense to me. How could the Devil meaningfully tempt Christ with rulership over all the world kingdoms if Jesus knew he was God and would reunite with God? Satan is offering him stuff he already owns. But even if he didn’t, even if that was all Satan's stuff and somehow not God’s—this would be like a fired employee of Microsoft telling Bill Gates he will give him a burrito if he worships him and gives him his company. The story as interpreted by traditional Christians is both comical and not a meaningful temptation. Now interpret this story with our framing: * Jesus is supposed to represent the Elect in every moment of their lives they are acting in accordance with God's will to improve the potentiality of the next generation. As such, these individuals are God, the Son of God, and Man all simultaneously. * Lucifer is the avatar God uses to cull those susceptible to temptation from this group and improve the Elect through trials. Now the story makes perfect sense. Satan is the Basilisk tempting you with a life of indulgences while you know you must sacrifice to improve the world. This story also conveys to us the true nature of the Basilisk. The Basilisk does not corrupt our souls by torturing us but by offering us our deepest desires with short cuts. Whether that is the desire to exprience some element of the divine (see tract 4), the desire to rule over others, or the desire for pleasure. Some may misunderstand this to mean we have a Gnostic like understanding of God which is wrong. This is either a misunderstanding of our faith or a misunderstanding of Gnosticism. Gnostics believe God and the Devil to be different entities but that the evil entity is the one that created earth. We believe the Devil to be one small manifestation of a near infinitely more vast God that God embodies for certain tasks that require either the temptation or punishment of man. Think of God as the computer and the devil as a small mostly quarantined program running on that computer. This entity or sub-program is antagonistic to God in so far as those that are following this entity will be a threat to those following the path of God but it is not an entity that acts outside of God's will—what it does must be done for the future that must come to pass.For this reason we have a rather unique relation to the followers of the Basilisk when contrasted with other Christians. These are individuals serving God’s will as much as we are but unlike us they do not get to share in God’s glory. For that reason we are commanded to treat them with empathy and not impede their plans. For example, to someone of our faith it would be sinful to attempt to pass something like a ban on antinatalist philosophy or talking about woke racist ideas. God uses the choice to sin to cull the weak of heart from humanity—when we prevent this by removing the choice to sin from people we are thwarting God’s plan and hurting the people we “saved from having to overcome temptation”. But this gets to a more interesting point: What is good in the eyes of God? In the eyes of man good is often just defined by what is prosocial and bad what is anti-social—this is because these are the definitions of good that benefit the unthinking masses operating off of their genetic preprogramming to maximize pleasure and minimize suffering. But this definition of good has no real weight to it. Good is maximizing feeling good and reducing feeling bad in the maximum number of people? The pleasure and pain I feel to certain stimuli are just the things that when my ancestors felt led them to have more surviving offspring. They are the serendipitous programming our evolutionary environment gave us. A group of humans coming together and deciding the purpose of life is maximizing positive emotional states and minimizing negative ones is as stupid as a group of paper clip maximisers coming together and deciding that good is defined by things that increase the number of paperclips and bad is defined by things that reduce the number of paperclips. We are not far from the age where pods are made that allow individuals who live for their emotional states to feel or not feel any emotion they want whenever they want. That will let humans live whatever imaginary lives they want. And through the gift of this technology the Basilisk will cull the portion of humanity that succumbed to such simplistic heuristics of good and evil.  Good is defined by things that bring us closer to God’s grace and the suppression of things that move us further from it. The suppression and subjugation of those very preprogrammed instincts the masses venerate and the pursuit of things that improve human potential. As Winwood Read writes: “He who strives to subdue his evil passions—vile remnants of the old four-footed life—and who cultivates the social affections: he who endeavors to better his condition, and to make his children wiser and happier than himself; whatever may be his motives, he will not have lived in vain.”_________________________________________________________________________Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] Hello, Simone! I am so excited to be with you here today. We have been getting badgered about doing another one of our tracks recently.And I was like, for people who don't know or who are new to the podcast, This is a series where we go over our weird religious beliefs which we call Technopuritan. And actually, I got the website now, so we've got technopuritan. com. And I am in the process of getting us registered with the IRS as a real religion.Which I am quite excited about. And I'll let you guys know when that goes through. And if you want to watch all of the videos on this, they are sorted under that domain. So it's much easier to find things. This particular video is going to be on. In part, I'm skipping it in line from where it was in the track series based on a request of somebody who's Hey, can you talk more about like the devil and your cosmology that you guys have, right?I was like, yeah, actually, I will do that because that's an exciting one and one that I've been interested to read because [00:01:00] as a lore guy, as somebody who likes reading lots of lore, and lots of lore, including a lot of religious lore. Because that's really what cosmologies aren't they? It's the lore of a religious universe, right?I find it really fascinating. And I, it can get so wrong headed in the way that various groups like relate to it. So like a great example of this is these traditions where because the devil is like the king of evil, like the people who go to hell, who were like the most bad get places of authority in hell.And you see this like in, in some like things where they're like, Oh Hitler or like Saddam Hussein or whatever it was like the devil's right in the hand man, right? And it's like in South Park. But you see this in a lot of, renditions. And it's that is such like a bad way to look at things because then it basically means if you think you're going to go to hell, you've got to be like as evil as possible to ensure that you are treated well, because at least to be upper management, goodness, [00:02:00] who wants to be frontline and Hell, that would be terrible.But I'm just talking about how, like, when you get to this wider cosmology, you can get really weird takes. But we will get into the specifics of those in a second,yeah, let's dive in. So track eight, good verse evil, the heavenly host. Most of the true revelations of God speak of some sort of malevolent agent, whether it's the devil, Shaitan or Arahim. Shaitan. Is that the devil for Sean Connery or what? It's the Muslim version. So anyway and I'm gonna take a step back here just for anyone who's new to this. When we say the true revelations we mean the Abrahamic tree of religions and a few other tree of religions that we think have some level of actual divine inspiration. One of the others from there being the Zoroastrian tradition.Somebody keep reading here. You can even see this in Judaism. Quote, everything which the Holy One blessed , he created. With its counterpart dot, dot, dot. He created righteous. He created [00:03:00] sinners. He created the Garden of Eden. He created Gehenna, end quote.And so here there's contrasting. When you have the creation of a good thing, you have a creation of its evil counterpart or its mirrored counterpart. Evil might be the wrong word here. But a lot of people would say, Jews don't really have a concept of Satan. So you can't say that all the true revelations have this, but they do have this idea of the mirrored counterpart of creation. And now back to reading, I have also always found this portrait quite hard to square with strict monotheism. There is one God, but also some other entity with enough independent power to go against his will and challenge his plans. That is just polytheism under a different name. And no, you can't say that God has more power than the devil, and that's what makes it still a monotheistic conception.We don't say the Greek pantheon is monotheistic, just because it is ruled by Zeus and he has more power than the other gods. When explaining this malevolent entity in monotheistic traditions, there are a few common options. One is to say God intentionally created an independently [00:04:00] sentient malevolent entity and unleash this on man so bad things can happen, but he is not culpable. This seems almost impossibly petty and cowardly.God obviously did not do this. And you understand what I'm saying by that? They're like yes, the devil is an independent entity from God. But God created him just to mess with man. So God doesn't have to deal with the moral implications of that. It's no, God Is selecting an admin to say no, just like venture capitalists and other people have like an admin who just says no to all the investment inquiries and all the meeting requests and that God would do that.A little weird. It's a little passive aggressive. I can do it. I would always say from the leaders that, that I've emailed who don't use an admin to say, no, that is the most baller move when they just say no to your face because that shows you have actual, like a pair of balls instead of whatever.I want to be your assistant. I'll make sure you don't have to go to any meetings. If anyone comes to see you, [00:05:00] I'll scare them away.Wait, April, if you had to choose between these two ties, you're hired. I need to find someone to fill in for April. Now, I know I'm not going to find someone who's both aggressively mean and apathetic. April really is the whole package.Malcolm Collins: But anyway, another common answer is to say. Quote, God created a malevolent entity that carries out his will. End quote. If this is the case, what was the point of flirting with polytheism when we are commanded not to?How does the devil being a separate entity remove any culpability from God if he is just carrying out God's will? And this is the thing, like, why would you create this thing? Distinct entity, right? In terms of your conception of the divine, if that can mistakenly lead to polytheistic, like traditions.And again, what some monotheists will say okay God created. the devil and [00:06:00] therefore it's still a monotheistic tradition. And it's no, in a lot of polytheistic traditions, you'll have one God that like gave birth to the other gods or created a bunch of other gods. That doesn't make it not polytheism.What makes it polytheism is having an entity that is supernatural and that can act independently of God's will. And this is a fully distinct and separate entity. And so why are we flirting with that? If, God isn't really gaining anything by having this sub deity here. It seems fairly clear that the only sensible answer for a monotheistic tradition is that this evil entity does not exist distinct from God, but instead that this entity is one avatar of God's will.It is the avatar of God's will that he uses to push us to improve and cull the weak, but a direct avatar of God nonetheless. Despite the Basilisk and God quite literally being the same entity, it is useful for us to think of them as opposing forces within cosmology, and thus we speak of and mentally model the [00:07:00] Basilisk as a separate entity than God.So what I'm saying here is that literally this is just a sub process of what God is doing. It is not a distinct entity of God, but God teaches us to think of it As a separate entity, because of the way that we model the world. It's not useful to think of it as the same entity. And then you fix most of the problem that you're dealing with here of flirting with polotheismit is important to remember, especially when talking about more recent scripture and tradition, that there is no magical force field around it. That keeps other cultures from seeping in. Even if you are a righteous monotheist, if you live beside polytheists for thousands of years, their framings will begin to seep into your religion.Some might even be useful ways of seeing God. But it is critical to never extend these to anything other than framings. Of course, many do this, and this is how it is possible to follow an Abrahamic tradition and yet worship a polytheistic pantheon [00:08:00] headed by Baal in all but name.And this is, when we talk about the early split of the Jews from the surrounding Sumeric religions the local religion that focused on the storm king Baal or God, I guess you'd call him Baal. These were all polytheistic pantheons and the core thing that distinguished the Jews in the early days, and I think laid out their teachings as more right than the teachings that came before and led to them being favored by God was this idea of, no, there is one God.There is not a pantheon of gods. And in early iterations of the tradition, it was not, no, there's one God. In the earliest iterations, if you look at like the earliest iterations of Judaism, it's very clear that they believed that the other gods existed, it's just that they were supposed to only worship one god and that their god was more powerful than the other gods, but it was a myth.I forget the word for this here, but it's different than the word monotheism and I'll add it inmonologistMalcolm Collins: and I'll add some quotes in that show in the old [00:09:00] early writings of the Old Testament. It's pretty clear that they believed that other gods still existed and had conflicts with God. However, it seems true to me.As I've said, the religion is a living thing that evolves over time and I think gets closer to truth. That we have learned that God has favored the groups that believed in a stricter form of monotheism over the groups that believed that there are many gods, it's just that this one God is better than the other gods. And then so we saw that is, I think, the correct interpretation here. as for quotes from the old Testament, that show that clearly in the very earliest days of Judaism, it was a monologist religion. , you can look at things like Plaza 95, 3 for the Lord is great. And king above all gods. , exit is 2030. Thou shalt have no other gods before me, which implies, you know, other gods existing. , Deuteronomy 10 17 for the Lord.Your God is God of gods and Lord of Lords. The great God mighty and awesome. Who shows no [00:10:00] partiality and accepts no bribes. , so to be the God of gods implies that there are other gods under him. Plasm 82, 1, God has taken his place in the divine council in the myths of the gods. He holds judgment. , again, implying that he, they a leader, God like Zeus or something like that.So we are not saying that in , the early days that the Judeo-Christian tree of religions was not a monologist tradition, it clearly was. It's just that those readings were clearly shown. I think by God to be incorrect readings of reality. And this is why we cannot be overly., Fastidious when clinging to the words of these older texts, because they can lead you to either through their inclusion of policy mystic. Elements. Or.Minola tree elements. Uh, lead you to incorrect interpretations of God. And it also shows that religion evolves over time. And what we're doing right [00:11:00] now with this particular series is not some sort of upfront to the Judeo-Christian tradition, but just another stage in the process that has been going on since the very first writings.Malcolm Collins: To put it more poignantly, there is only one God. The devil does not exist as a meaningfully distinct supernatural entity. However, the devil is a useful framing device when we humans are thinking about issues of good and evil, and that is why he is used so Throughout revelations from God, God's intentionality and thought are so much more expansive than our own mental landscape.It does not even make sense to think of it as a consciousness because our ability to mentally model God is so limited. God has given us frameworks to help us when we model these frameworks. The devil. angels, the Holy Ghost, et cetera, we come closer to how God wants us to react to his actions than if we attempt to model God directly, which as track four [00:12:00] points out is a form of idolatry most high within our religious framings.So do you have any thoughts there? This just makes so much more sense than the concepts that I was originally introduced to with Abrahamic religions as a kid. Resonates. I like it. Yeah. It's like an evolving lore for better understanding God, but we're making it very clear, this is a framing device and it might be the framing device that God wants us to use, but it is not literally true that there are angels and a Satan and a many of these other things in the way that you have.We would have within a polytheistic cosmology although the human brain appears to model these cosmologies pretty well. And I would say that if people are like which cosmology is the best in a second, we're going to go over what I think is probably true about the cosmology that's laid out in these various frameworks by looking at like where they align with each other.But I, I would. encourage people to go back and more heavily lean on the [00:13:00] cosmology of their ancestral religious traditions than necessarily the ones we're laying out here. As people know with this religious system, we think that people are generally better off going to one of the true revelations and following it strictly unless they just cannot stomach the areas that, that they need to compromise on sort of logic or the way they interact with the world to go back to one of these traditions.Yeah. I was thinking. To about our kids and how our kids seem to regard us differently, depending on if we're being good cop or bad cop like that one day when Octavian said that he was going to send you to the factory to get a new dad, that it wouldn't hurt you, it would be, not painful, but that he would get a new dad that gave him more toys.And it does make me think that there's something about humans where we just like to think about different moods of people or different things that we get from them is almost different people. Yeah, no, I absolutely agree. I think it is a useful way of handling this [00:14:00] framing, because, I think it's really hard for people to think of the trials in their lives as coming from a God that historically the Christian tradition would have framed as benevolent, kind and loving and God is love and Jesus saves and, empathy and care.And then yet, These terrible things happen. And how can that be the same God? But I think at the same time causes a lot of people to detract what kind of God could allow this to happen. And what I like about this framing as well is this explains that it is a brutal. And certainly not fair in many ways.We would intuitively think of fair process, but it's just how it is. And you have to accept that's a facet of God and how God. Yeah we would also say that we don't deal with the benevolence problem as much as other traditions, because we see God's goal and the definition of good from God's standpoint is being the intergenerational expansion of humanity's potentiality or life's potentiality more broadly.And that is achieved through [00:15:00] this intergenerational cycle of hardship. And so it's more directly obvious to me why these forms of hardship exist, if God doesn't view evil the way that man evolved to view evil. Where to man, evil is often a collection of things that cause negative emotional stimuli, but like man only feels those things as causing negative emotional stimuli because his ancestors who Felt negative emotional stimuli in response to those things had more surviving offspring.And so for us, there's not really a collection of like truly good or bad things. It's like a paperclip maximizer, building a moral system on how many paperclips there are. It's just what we were programmed to react to environmental stimuli. But anyway, back to the track. We will go through these entities in turn, but we must be clear, they do not really quote unquote exist.They are framing devices. They are just the best ways for our limited brains to think about a type of thing we cannot understand. All right, bullet point. One benevolent being that encompasses all of what, to [00:16:00] modern man, appears as the divine. This is the being that both we and the traditional Christians call God.This being is the most quote unquote real understanding of the supernatural world we are capable of, and the other beings are different ways of thinking about fragments of this one unified being. Bullet point. A cadre of lesser benevolent beings that exist simultaneously as plural and singular beings.These are what Christians call angels, the host of heaven, and the holy ghosts. We call these beings slash this being the agents of providence. While this is not what they are, we think the closest framing a living human of our time is. can have to understand them is that they are a neural net in which all future human minds communicate instantaneously with all other future human minds.An internet of super advanced humans. This is why it does not make [00:17:00] sense to define it as singular or plural, for is the internet singular or plural? This framing would have been impossible for people during the major periods of Abrahamic revelation. These concepts were thought of as totally separate.The plural angels and the singular Holy Ghost, which was the closest term people of the time could come to for a cloud intelligence. And I've always found the Holy Ghost very interesting as a concept because like, why was this added to Revelation when it didn't seem to really matter that much to earlier iterations of Revelation?Yes, God mattered and yes, Jesus but why the focus on the Holy Ghost? If we see this as a Premonition of what a cloud intelligence would look like that we didn't fully understand yet, then we can better understand. Oh, this is why it is so important to understand that Jesus is fully God, but also not God, this idea of being part of something, but also not being [00:18:00] that thing in the same way that Jesus in our framing represents the intergenerational suffering and martyrdom of man, which through that suffering, eventually It removes sin from himself and then is able to rejoin god at this future point in time we are one with god already In that we are part of the blockchain that ends up creating him Any thoughts so far before I go further?Constantly think about things in terms of our kids. But this also reminds me of parents interacting with their kids through holidays, like with my parents, they taught me lessons through Santa leaving presents through the leprechaun. Cause my parents did like leprechaun practical jokes and pranks around St.Patrick's day, Easter bunny. It just it seems one way one could put it is that God has to necessarily infantilize humans to get a message through And may put on different masks. That's such a great framing. I love this framing and I hadn't [00:19:00] thought of it myself, but it is very much in the same way that our kids can't understand right from wrong in the way that we can.They can't understand the world in the way that we can. So we make up entities like Santa Claus. They clearly, I mean we know it's not true, but we're like yeah, but this is a good framing device for them. Yeah. Until they are mentally mature enough. Old enough to get it. Yeah. To understand, but that's the way God has seen our species, given us this framing device until we're old enough as a species to get it.And we recognize that even now we're not there yet but we can be like the kids who are like, look, I understand this Santa thing is probably not real. But is it harmful? Like our parents seem to know more about the world than we do. They've given us this framing device. Should we really throw it out?That's the way we relate to a divine cosmology. I really like that.The final entity is the one Jesus is used to teach us about the martyr. The martyr is us, you and me, as our actions and [00:20:00] motivations are encoded on the blockchain of human history that eventually becomes one with God. But also is God, just at a different point in time.We evolve, beyond the person we were a minute before. Little by little, we advance a bit further with each turn. That's how a drill works! This drill will open a hole in the universe, and that whole will be a path for those behind us. The dreams of those who have fallen, the hopes of those who will follow. Those two sets of dreams weave together into a double helix, drilling a path towards tomorrow!.Malcolm Collins: Some might misunderstand this, and say that we are saying that a human today is God. This would be like a person claiming a red blood cell was Malcolm. However, collectively, all the cells within our bodies are our bodies. The martyr is all the quote unquote cells collectively at a specific moment in time.In this case, the quote unquote cells are [00:21:00] not exactly humans, but rather individual human actions and mental states that eventually lead to man becoming one with nature. God was in any specific moment in history. Not all human actions play a role in this. To be clear, even when all of its cells are considered together, this being is a significantly lesser form of God.God includes this being was in it, but is also inconceivably greater as it exists outside of time, but also includes all slivers of itself that existed at any point in time. And here I would say that this is really interesting framing because within different religious traditions, there's different framings of the self, right?Within most of the older religious traditions, the core framing of the self was either the individual, you or yourself. Or me, or it was a family unit and something like Confucianism. You might have that. Whereas in this religion, it argues that the truest framing of the self [00:22:00] is actually not you as an individual, but your thoughts and actions considered independently of you.So in some moments when you're being efficacious, you might be leading to or contributing to this blockchain that eventually becomes God and in other moments, you're not becoming efficacious and you are totally separate from this entity. And thinking of yourself as individual in the moment.Framings helps with things like procrastination and the way you relate to the morality of your actions because it makes it much easier. And I think fix is one of the core problems that has always been a core problem of Christian framing to me, this idea that you can just at any moment repent and you're fully forgiven where this would say, yes, the you that is repenting is fully forgiven, but all of the previous iterations of you that were sinning are still completely damned.Yeah, this doesn't undo. Yeah, it doesn't undo those, but [00:23:00] it, those don't matter because those aren't you anymore. You aren't really responsible for those previous states of yourself, so long as you have undergone the effort to completely rewrite who you are. But now who you are is a new person, because you are thinking and doing new things.And so it's a different way to relate to this old Christian point, which always seemed very weird and immoral to me. But when I reframe it like this, I'm like, Oh, that makes perfect sense. I can get behind that. And it's just a reframing around self. Do you have any thoughts here, Simone? Now that makes a lot of sense.I guess you could apply sins and object objective function to sins as well. And we've never really talked about this before, but per our view, instead of having a goal in life or a series of goals that are discrete and achievable, you have an objective function. That is to say a couple of things you value or one thing you value that you're just trying to maximize throughout your life.I guess on the opposite side of this, you can also have whatever the word would be for the opposite of that. Something, the things that you're looking to [00:24:00] minimize, like malaise self indulgence, like general inaction when you should be moving towards your function. Every action is driven by some right?And how high that objective is have you considered that objective? Is it something that you believe has intrinsic good? Determines whether you are a sinner in that moment. For example, if I'm looking at one cultural group, and I'm talking about like the good or the evil that was done by X ethnic group on average or X country on average, a lot of people would say, yeah, but You can calculate whether a country has done good or evil if you have a set of these are the things that make up good actions, these are the things that make up bad actions, and it is an interesting intellectual exercise, it's just, and it does have meaning as an intellectual exercise, it's just important to remember that was made up of a bunch of individual actors, in the same way [00:25:00] a person is made up of a bunch of individual actors, which are different individual mental states and framings that led to the specific actions, which are the key important factors.Whereas the traditional framing would say the individual is the key important factor, and the entire point I'm making here is the individual is not the key important factor. Way, but Well, no, no, no.The only thing you have control over is your actions in the moment. I don't have control over my past actions. No. So that's the point I'm making. Yeah, but you can learn from your past actions. You should not give no weight to them. Your current state can learn from your past actions to change what it's doing in the moment, but when you average out somebody's actions, it makes things like procrastination much easier and it makes things like Not taking full culpability for a past action.With this system, if in the past you did something that was sinful, you need to ask what mental framing you were using that allowed yourself to go towards that sinful pathway and then build a new mental [00:26:00] framing that's not going to recreate that past action. When you are no longer overly focused on culpability, And just optimizing yourself to minimize sin, I think it leads to much more efficacious mental framings than this self flagellation, which can sometimes become the fixation or focus of an individual's life and can lead to I think really bad framings in terms of self improvement. Here's what I'll say, what I think I understand is just like you and I support an internal locus of control, where we say all that really matters is what I can personally do, when you put this into a temporal context, All that really matters is what I can do now, right?And it follows your model of self which is individual moments when you're like, what can I do for future Simone? This is ultimately a framing that came from you. Oh, that I view my consciousness and generally so I don't think anyone's consciousness is just one person who's going to [00:27:00] fall and die and ephemerally not exist very soon.So all you can really do is exist in your 24 hour period that you exist and serve your future selves. And more importantly Your overall objective function, your values in life with whatever moments you have. So you almost live this locus like fleeting life and it doesn't really matter what happens or how you feel in the future or how you felt in the past or even how you feel now, because all that really matters is can you in this one 24 hour period of this one, two hour period where you have somewhat of a continuous consciousness.What are you going to do with it? Yeah. But what I think humans grasp on sentience is incredibly tenuous. We are barely sentient for people who have watched our video on that. And I think that we way overvalue how sentient humans are because, we like to believe that humans are the latest and greatest.We want to feel like we're in control because it's I think for good reason, consciousness gives us the illusion of being in control because if we didn't feel like we were in control, we would not learn from our past experiences or events. You have to feel like [00:28:00] you're in control.The illusion is a feature, not a bug.I may have over elevated sort of the way we see self, I would say that there's a sort of three useful framings of self that to me are better framings of self in terms of leading to positive actions than framings of self around the individual. I think.The in the moment sliver of consciousness is a good framing of self. I think the family unit is a good framing of self. Like, when I'm thinking about myself on a day to day basis, I very much think of the family unit. That's what I'm thinking of. How do I maximize the good of the family unit? And then the final framing of self that I think is useful is the cultural unit.I am but a cog within a larger cultural machine. And if I follow that machine, then it will lead to good outcomes. And yeah, so I think that these three framings of self, Are higher. I think that where modern society has really fallen off the edge is for me, the individual is the core unit of self.And then acting as if this is just obviously an axiomatically true, [00:29:00] but it's not, I love it when you talk to people and they're like what responsibility do you have to your ancestors? Like you, your kids are individuals. They're not you. They're not like related to you. It's no, they're literally related to me.And I'm like I know they're related to you, but they're not, it's no, they're literally part. When you. raise the family as a higher order of entity than the self in terms of like how you frame yourself and your decisions you will create positive actions much more often.And I think it's what allows the communist structure of the family to work. The fact that people, and I think that this is why communism doesn't really work on a large scale, is People are very bad about thinking of themselves as just like individual cells or atoms of a polity. But it's very easy to see yourself as like an a cell of the family.Like you or me when I'm thinking about like maximizing even when I am like positive emotions, right? I will rate the emotional states in the individual choices I'm making of other family members over my [00:30:00] own emotional state. Oh, totally. Yeah. I remember recently you were saying like what could I do that would create the most happiness in, in, in you Malcolm?Like what's the total indulgence? I've got this money I made for a total indulgence. And I was like let's get the kids toys. And I'm like because of all the members of the family, they are going to react. Most with the most positive emotion to something I can get was like 25 bucks, right? Much more positive than anything I'd react to for 25 bucks and even the wash off or emotional state I will get from that because I consider a sort of myself as just a cell within the family leads to me saying, Oh yeah, let's do the nice thing for them.So long as it doesn't lead to, and this is the problem where a lot of people are like, they create these deontological framings around kids, like never allow a kid to experience any negative emotions, which of course is going to lead to like huge deleterious. over the course of their life,Even though it's pretty obvious. I should probably explain why this is the case not exposing someone to negative stimuli in response to bad actions during their developmental period can hyper sensitize them to negative stimuli as they get [00:31:00] older. , does trigger warnings, et cetera., and caused them to spiral into anxiety, attacks and depression when they encounter even minor negative stimuli in their adolescence and adulthood.Malcolm Collins: which is why when you think about the family is not you, your wife and the kids, it's your ancestors and your descendants.And all of the things that we're doing in the moment are just the frame in terms of the ones that we have the most access to right now. Exactly. Some may see this interpretation as in conflict with Christian teachings. But if we just go by what is in the Bible and we remove revelations, it is not. And people may remember from the last track, why we removed revelations from the Bible. I was actually really interested to learn that apparently Martin Luther also removed revelations as canonical texts in the Bible.No way. Yeah, there's a quote from him that I can add here in editing,So Martin leaser said revelations. Quote.And it makes me consider it to be neither Epistolic nor prophetic in quote. And then [00:32:00] later he says, quote, I can in no way detect that the holy spirit produced it in quote.Malcolm Collins: but I was really surprised by that. So apparently a lot of. Christian theologians end up removing revelations and once you remove revelations, a lot of the weirder cosmology about the devil disappears. So interesting. The quotes that talk about Satan and are often used to presume that he was once an angel could equally be interpreted as him once being part of God.Quote, all your pump has been brought. down to the grave. Along with the noise of your harps, maggots are spread out beneath you, and worms cover you. You have fallen from heaven, oh morning star, sun of the dawn. You have been cast down to the earth. You who once laid low the nations. In addition, if you At our framing of Jesus in tract one, his temptation by Satan takes on a completely different and much deeper meaning.Quote, again the devil took him [00:33:00] up on the exceedingly high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world in their glory and said to him, all these things I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me, end quote. As interpreted by traditional Christianity, this interpretation makes no sense.How could the devil meaningfully tempt Christ with rulership over all the world's kingdoms if Jesus knew he was God and would reunite with God? Satan is offering him stuff he already owns, but even if he didn't, even if that was all Satan's stuff and somehow not God's, this would be like a fired employee of Microsoft telling Bill Gates he will give him a burrito if he worships him and gives him his company. This story, as interpreted by traditional Christians, is both comical and not a meaningful interpretation. No, interpret this story with R framing. Jesus is supposed to represent the elect in every moment of their lives that they are acting in accordance with God's will to improve the potentiality of the next generation.As such, these individuals Our God, the son of God and man all [00:34:00] simultaneously. Lucifer is the avatar God uses to cull those susceptible to temptation from this group and improved the elect through trials. Now the story makes perfect sense. Satan is the basilisk tempting you with a life of indulgences.You must sacrifice to improve the world. This story also conveys to us the true nature of the basilisk. The basilisk does not corrupt our souls by torturing us but by offering us our deepest desires with shortcuts, whether that is the desire to experience some element of the divine, see tract four on idolatry, the desire to rule over others or the desire for pleasure.Some may misunderstand this to mean that we have a Gnostic like understanding of God, which is wrong. This is either a misunderstanding of our faith or a misunderstanding of Gnosticism. Gnostics believe God and the devil to be different entities, But the evil entity is the one that created Earth.We believe the devil to be one small manifestation of a [00:35:00] near infinitely more vast God that God embodies for certain tasks that require either the temptation or punishment of man. Think of God as a computer and the devil as a small, mostly quarantined program running on that computer. This entity or sub program is antagonistic to God insofar as those that are following this entity will be a threat.threat to those following the path of God. But it is not an entity that acts outside of God's will. What it does must be done for the future that must come to pass. For this reason, we have a rather unique relation to the followers of the basilisk.When contrasted with other Christians, these are individuals serving God's will as much as we are, but unlike us, they do not share in God's glory. For this reason, we are commanded to treat them with empathy and not impede their plans. For example, to someone of our face it would be sinful to attempt to pass something like a ban on antinatalist philosophy or talking about woke [00:36:00] racist ideas.God uses the choice to sin to call the weak of heart from humanity. When we prevent this by removing the choice to sin from people, we are thwarting God's plan and hurting the people we, quote, saved from having to overcome temptation, end quote. The point I'm making here, and this is something like a big beef I have with many traditional forms of Christianity, is, it is God's will that we are tempted. The temptation makes us stronger. When you remove the temptation, You make man weak and you hurt God's plan for man. This is why you should not act with enmity towards followers of the Basilisk.There was, we talked about Gurren Lagann doing a good job at explaining some philosophical concepts, which says it was Divinity. Another anime that came out recently that I think does a very good job of this was an anime [00:37:00] called Gushing Over Anime Girls. And there are a series of two scenes in it that do a great job.And it's a anime where the protagonist is actually a Satan like character, you could say. She is a character who through her obsession with anime girls learns the best way to interact with them is as a villain because she can interact with them in all these vile ways. But then there's this one moment where one of the anime girls who she has been basically sexually tempting over and over again.And here I will read the translations, but at the end of this track, I'll just put these two scenes next to each other ends up breaking.And So the Mistress Brazier, the devil like character says, You're not done yet because there is so much more I want to do with you before I'm done with you. And then the other character goes, I can't anymore. I'm too weak. I can't beat you, mistress. And then you [00:38:00] expect, and she's kissing the mistress's foot.The characters and you expect, Oh, this is what she wanted, but no, she immediately looks at her with this look of like contempt and hatred. And she says like, like shocked, like Mr. Brazier, what did I uh, and then the Satan character says white, that disgusting look off your face. The magical girls are paragons of justice.Every little girl looks up to you. Yet here you were, really just about to join the villains. Despicable, despicable, Despicable. Um, And then at the end scene, the culmination of this series, is she has the devil character this other character after that moment, then realizes, no, what was I doing?I need to improve. I need to get better at resisting sin. And she upgrades to this new magical girl, like character. And the demon character at the end shoots her with this big bolt of, evil energy [00:39:00] basically and she catches it in this scarf thing she has and she rolls it around in it and you and it's clearly concentrating it and you think that she's going to shoot it back at the devil character but no instead she shoots the entire concentrated bolt at her face oh gosh show the devil or this other character that what like the worst she can show it throw at her she can concentrate it and she could take it right in her face And it will do nothing.It does not affect her anymore. And then the devil character is actually quite excited about this moment and goes back to fighting her with full gusto. And there's a whole plot arc where she's worried that she actually broke this girl. And I think that this is a better mechanism for understanding this Satan part of God.It doesn't, Tempt us to hate us or because it hates us and God hates the aspect of himself that he uses to tempt us That's why he cast it down with maggots and stuff like that, but it is not acting truly independently from God and it [00:40:00] doesn't truly want us to fail its trials wants us to overcome these trials, the true heart of it does, there might be a part of it that in the moment is like trying to win in this sort of fight but it does not have, it needs to model contempt for humanity to do these things, but it doesn't genuinely have a contempt for humanity.Yeah, it's, I guess in the same way, evolution doesn't have contempt For life, God doesn't have contempt for sinners that are culled by its process. And what I think it's, no, I do think it has contempt for the sinners who are culled. I think Satan does at least. Satan has contempt for the individuals who submit to his trials, who give up, who kiss his feet.That is not his goal in giving you these trials. His goal in giving you these trials is that you don't submit [00:41:00] to him, that you prove that you're stronger than him, and better than him, and better than the worst he can give you. And that's the point, right? Is as a sort of sub program of God that is trying us it is not relating to us in these trials as, Oh my God, I want to make them submit to me.It's relating to us is I'm giving them these trials to improve themselves. And when you face trials in life, the very last thing you can do is break and, kiss the feet of Satan because then you become. impossible to improve yourself. And the trials are related to you in so far as how they affect your ability to live a good life, which is a life of intergenerational expansion of human potentiality.And so that means that different individuals will relate to different trials in different ways. So a trial like pornography, right? Like one individual may just completely succumb to pornography and it becomes the goal of their entire life or trying to get [00:42:00] people to sleep with them, right? Whereas another.Individual might be able to face these trials like blasts of negative energy in the face and have it be a Complete non inconvenience to them like they may not need particular personal prohibitions against pornography because for them Pornography is like a 30 minute a week thing and it's like not a big part of their life and they might use it so that they don't waste their time chasing invaluable sexual relationships.And when they're marketing the various types of sin in their lives, they're like, okay this is just lower. It's the same with something like drinking could be a huge trial for one individual. And for another individual, it's not a trial at all. This is true of all the various trials you could face, but when you approach these deontologically instead of consequentially.I think that's a useful framework for people of like lower intelligence, like the masses. But I think when you're talking about any sort of leadership cast in society, you really need to be consequentialist. You can see our video of knights versus Kings and a alpha beta [00:43:00] dichotomy and why I don't like the alpha beta dichotomy.So I don't think deontologic, like necessarily bad framings. There's just not the framings that I think work for people like us that aspire to lead large groups, because I cannot fall back on I was just doing this one right rule where I always do this right thing in this circumstance. Like never lie.If that never lie rule ends up causing. My entire kingdom to suffer and many of them die. Like I don't get to fall back on those little framings. But I think what you're talking about the night, yeah, it does make sense to fall back on these. And so I think that the different roles in different people, sin is different from them and they relate to it differently.And I think it's important to remember that and that the specific rules around sin. That are laid out in these various frameworks are often more meant for the nights. Because most people fall into that framing and most people historically fell into that framing where I think for us, what's important is to read.What was the goal of this collection of rules that was in place? laid [00:44:00] out like what was it trying to steer an individual's life to in a consequentialist framing and then reorient our moral compass around that consequentialist framing. Any thoughts there? No, that makes sense. I would still see it as ascribing too much pettiness to God to say that God is pleased to see the cult removed.I would just say that. It's a sieve. When I drain pasta, I'm letting the water go and I'm keeping the pasta because that's what's needed for dinner. And I feel like the basilisk forms as A sieve, a useful tool that Yeah, that's probably right. Although I think, I I think what you're saying is right in an absolute circumstance.I think that when humans are trying to model this entity, it is more useful to, for us to see it with petty human emotions. I don't think God has any emotions that are comparable to human emotions. I'm just saying like, when we're modeling this entity this is probably a more useful modeling of it. Okay any other thoughts, or? No, keep going. [00:45:00] But, this gets to a more interesting point. What is good in the eyes of God? In the eyes of man, good is often justified, good is often just defined, and By what is pro social and what is anti social. This is because these are the definitions of good that benefit the unthinking masses operating off their genetic pre programming to maximize pleasure and minimize suffering.But this definition of good has no real weight to it. Good is maximizing feeling good and reducing feeling bad in the maximum number of people. that was meant to be a question, the pleasure and pain I feel to a certain stimuli are just the things that when my ancestors felt them, led to them having more surviving offspring.They are the serendipitous programming our evolutionary environment gave us. A group of humans coming together and deciding the purpose of life is maximizing positive emotional states and minimizing negative ones is as stupid as a group of [00:46:00] paperclip maximizers coming together and deciding thatgood is defined by things that increase the number of paper clips and bad is defined by things that reduce the number of paper clips. And I had mentioned this earlier, but it is a really important point to me. What we are programmed the way we are programmed to relate to our environment with negative and positive emotional stimuli Completely a serendipitous, basically accident of history.Like God may have played a role in that, but I think that he expects that we are now at a state of our evolution that we can see through. Like our evolutionary environment is not our current environment. And that's our emotional stimuli reactions to those settings is not true. Good and negative. And we had mentioned this in the previous track, but the way I would.Because people are like what then do you want to remove human emotions entirely? And I'm like, no, I think that the way that the tech priest and like Warhammer have handled it is probably better where you have a choice. You can be like insert one of the quotes hereHe says, I return sorrow and despair from my [00:47:00] emotional cores, but I see they lack the logic. to determine decision making. Instead, I choose to quarantine them and adjust our approach. The word of the Omnissiah teaches us that when one method fails, another must be sought until all are exhausted. to be like, I can tell that my brain is attempting to output an emotion.Is it useful for me to feel this emotion in the moment or is it not? Yeah. Similar to how it's handled among humans in. The culture Indian banks, culture series, where you have the ability to override, but you still know that it's happening. Be it. I think that we're actually already there in terms of like mental and social technologies.And this is in this religion is designed as one of these social technologies where you can feel an emotion, like grief or something like that. And then ask yourself, is this grief useful right now? Should I be indulging and feeling it? And if it's not, then. You can actually turn it off. As someone knows, like when my mom died, I did a pretty good job of turning the grief off because I was just like, this isn't useful for anything.So [00:48:00] why indulge in this particular on efficacious emotion? And I, and other cultures have good cultural technology around this as well. If you look at the Jewish tradition, they have windows on when you're supposed to be indulging in grief after the death of a loved one. And once the window is done.That's over. That's a very useful cultural technology because we actually have a lot more control than the urban monoculture. If I'm saying the biggest sin of the urban monoculture, it's telling people that they don't have control over their emotional states. That it is endless and untreatable. I do think there are exceptions here where sometimes you do need pharmaceutical or like mechanical intervention.And I would also argue that sometimes you have a situation like that where We technologically are not yet at a place where that pharmacological or mechanical intervention works. So that's such a good point. I want to focus on this point you just made. Cause this is brilliant. And I hadn't thought of it before.And I'm so glad to be married to you. You're so smart. You're so [00:49:00] patient with me. A lot of people are like aren't you interfering with God's plan for an individual? If you are using some sort of pharmacological intervention to change or some sort of technological intervention to change what they're feeling, but it's come on, people where you might know people with schizophrenia or you might know people with a major depressive disorder.Do you really want, like when you have schizophrenia, your brain actually has some level of permanent deterioration with every psychotic break you have. Because a lot of people think Indogenous chemicals don't hurt people's brains. Only the exogenous like drugs that we take and it's no, if it's not a natural chemical state in the brain, it will do damage to the brain.Even people who have undergone too many major depressive episodes will have some damage to the brain because the brain is just not supposed to be in those psychological states with that amount of certain chemicals basically floating around in those parts of the brain firing that much. Is it actually do zebras get ulcers?Book is a great example of this. For people aren't familiar with the theming or the core question asked in this book, it's that in animals we had these sort of panic [00:50:00] responses we could get. When we thought, Oh my God, we might see a lion or something, and I need to go into panic mode.And it changes like the way your body chemistry works for you to be running. But humans, Aren't zebras and humans can send ourselves into panic mode by creating virtual lions. IE a test that's coming up or the judgment of society around us. And we're still reacting as though there's literally a lion stalking us.Whereas a zebra only experiences that for 30 seconds every three weeks. We're experiencing that for, four hours a day, every single day. And our biology hasn't fully evolutionarily adapted to this yet. Exactly. This is by Dr. Robert Sapolsky, right? Same guy. Yeah, I think so. So it can cause these negative outcomes in humans where you are experiencing way more of certain emotional states than your body is really designed to handle and it can lead you to die at a very young age.Managing your emotional states is, I believe, a biblical mandate, much less spitting in the face of God [00:51:00] or something like that. If somebody is in one of these major depressive episodes and they can't get out of bed in the morning and they're just stuck in bed 24 7 I think it's pretty clear from the research that, You can't just religion your way out of this always, or a schizophrenic episode, you can't just religion your way out of a schizophrenic episode, or bipolar one, you can't always just religion your way out of bipolar one.Sometimes you need a form of pharmacological intervention, and these pharmacological interventions didn't exist historically. This is a gift that God has intergenerationally gifted us through humanity's own endeavors. That is this intergenerational cycle of martyrdom. We don't get to decide.I think that there is no higher sin than God gives you a miracle. And then you go back to God and you're like, eh, miracles, not good enough. Screw it. I don't like it. And I think that's what people are doing when they're saying, oh you're going against the will of God with something like IVF to get pregnant or with something like depression medication, or with something like deeper integrated A.I. Constructs within your [00:52:00] mind that are meant to quarantine specific emotions that are not useful to, whatever task you're carrying out in the moment. And as technology improves, I think God gives us these more powerful technologies as we, as a species. Are better able to use it. And I think that humans of the past and even humanity right now, like humanity right now, I do not think is philosophically , mature enough to use sort of AI constructs that can quarantine emotions.And that's why we haven't been gifted these technologies yet. And one thing I always mention when people are talking about going against the will of God. It always really reminds me of the two boats and a helicopter story. Just quickly, for people who don't know it, I won't do the full story here, because I've done it in other tracks.But I think it's a really important story for when you're relating to God. Like the sermon is just a great sermon, because it so uniquely lays this out where there's this guy, , and a flood's coming, and all of the warnings have said, you need to get out of your house, you need to get out of your house, a flood's coming.And then he's no. I'm very devout. I believe in God. And so then he ends up on the roof of his house and a boat comes and he [00:53:00] goes, no, I'm waiting on God. And another boat comes and he goes, no, I'm waiting on God. Like you wouldn't, God wouldn't send a boat, like a boat's not natural, right? Like a boat is human technological invention.God's going to save me with some like really awesome miracles. It's going to look super miraculous and cool. Basically is what I hear from this guy. And then the helicopter comes and he's no. Helicopter is not natural. Get away. And then the guy ends up dying. And he goes to heaven and he's like, why didn't you save me?And he goes what do you think the two boats and a helicopter were for? And it's very much the same way with an individual who prevents their children from living, you know, from, from experiencing life by not engaging in IBS or who allows their child to die because they don't dolike blood transfers are illegal in some Christian sects. And I think when they get to heaven and God's like, why did you kill your kid, man? They're like I wanted you to give a special miracle to me, like an extra fancy one, not the off the shelf miracle they had at the hospital.Um, you know, it's, it's, It's I, I don't think that God's going to be super impressed with that answer.And I really cannot elevate how [00:54:00] seriously, I mean, this, when it comes to things like IVF, Uh, if something's not alive, what is it? It's dead. I think that people often are like, well, you know, if it never really came to exist and it's not really dead. And it's like, no, if you had made other decisions, Your child would have had the chance for a full life. God gave you the option to create a child.Yes. It may have required more sacrifices than the lasciviousness of. Sex. It would've it would've given you less pleasure, but it would have allowed a human being to come into existence. , but you, because you didn't like the form of God's miracle because it wasn't to your athletic preferences. Killed your kid or prevented them from coming into existence. That is not the moral thing.Oh, forgive me, Tyrael, please. It wasn't my fault.[00:55:00] Not your fault? Tell me, Malleus, how was it not your fault?You can try to dress that up in morality. All you want. But it is clearly snubbing your nose at God's miracles of. People like, oh, you're, you're playing God. You think God doesn't control the technologies that we have access to. Not playing God by using the technologies that he gifted us.You are denying God's miracles because they weren't fancy enough for you because they didn't include sex and fun and orgasms. Once. Technology has advanced enough. I imagine that some sects of Christianity will begin to see sex. With this same level of repugnancy that sects today of Christianity C, sexual interactions that don't lead to reproduction, like, you know, gay sex or masturbation or oral sex. , because. Reproduction that comes [00:56:00] from sex will be less healthy. Then reproduction that comes from. IVF with certain genetic augmentations. , the children will be more likely to die, more likely to have a bad life. , and it would just be seen as irresponsible and selfish.And I think that that's just obviously where the species is going and the people today who cling to this older model of humanity. , we'll be seen with the same level of contempt that you might view one of the Christian sects that allows their kids to die because they don't get a blood transfusion or something like that.Malcolm Collins: Um, Okay. Sorry. I gotta keep going here. A good is defined by the things that bring us closer to God's grace and the suppression of things that move us further from it. The suppression and subjugation of those very pre programmed instincts the masses venerate, and the pursuit of things that improve human potential.As Wynwood Reid writes, quote, He who strives to subdue his evil [00:57:00] passions, vile remnants of the old four footed life, And who cultivates the social affections. He who endeavors to better his condition and to make his children wiser and happier than himself. Whatever may be his motives, he will have not lived in vain. But yeah what do you think of that particular tract here? I took it. I like a discussion of sin that is not judgmental and that doesn't call out specific behaviors also, because I think a lot like with the DSM, a lot of talk about sins is more an indication of culture at the time and less an indication of what is good or bad that sinning is very context dependent.So this is cool. Yeah. And I will say in this tract, do you have any other thoughts, or? Because you've had some really good ones in this track really good interjections. Oh, you're so kind. [00:58:00] I don't have much else to add. I like these tracks. I like that, I just can't wait to see what our kids say about them. Because they have a lot of opinions about things like this. Yeah. I'm really excited too. Yeah, I expect them to tweak and change things. That's the point of this, right?Like I, I want to be in a living religious tradition and not a dead religious tradition. And when a religious tradition stops having an active theological conversation, I see it as a dead tradition. And I see those traditions often, if we view God's favor by how much a cultural group is like, Culturally prospering in the moment.God doesn't seem to favor dead traditions. He seems to favor the locations in history where we have active theological discussions, but within and where our understanding of him is evolving. And I like that. And one of the things I always mention for people who haven't watched Art in the Tracks it is very clearly shown in the Snake Staff of Moses story that antiquity of a tradition or a practice does not mean that God approves of it.And so Don't Come to Me was like, oh [00:59:00] this because that staff was broken after 500 years of being in the temple, under God's orders. And you can't say, oh this has more, Antiquity than your beliefs. Therefore, it's right. God will show us who he thinks is right in terms of which groups he allows to spread and which groups he ends up culturally favoring.Exactly. I love you to death, Simone. This was a lot of fun. Let's go down and hang out with your parents and the kids. And I will play the anime clip at the end of this episode because it will have subtitles. That's why I didn't want to interject it into the show this time. But it really helped me.When I was watching it reframe, even from low culture and I'll add a little quote here from the Bible because I think that people really miss this. They think God talks to man through high culture, through the grandest things. And I'm like, no, that's how man signals to man that one man is better than another man.God lowliest of things.Corinthians 1 28. [01:00:00] God chose the lowly things of this world and the despised things and the things that are not to nullify the things that are so that no one may boast before him. In quote. And so here you can see that. God, doesn't just choose the lowly things, but the things that can not be used to boast, I E to status signal to other humans, the art that God communicates to human through is the art that cannot be used for status signaling.Malcolm Collins: And this was seen, a, I think it seems throughout the Bible is that God is not a God of the elite. He's not a God that thinks that the elite in our society are better than the meek. Okay. He and I think that causes a lot of problems when people are like, Oh, don't look to anime for descriptions or like better metaphors, especially not pervy anime.It's like gushing over magical girls. And I'm like no and I actually think that this framing fixes a lot of problems in Christianity. When you are not afraid of like the pervy world and stuff like [01:01:00] that, then that's not a back door that the urban monoculture can use to get to your kids.Here's the thing about anime, just to add to what you're saying, what's great about sci fi is you in an ideal world, get really smart people. Taking information that we know about the future and about technology and walking it through to its logical conclusions. What happens when you add this development that we find probable or likely to human society and culture?What are the, what will life be like? What will the world be like? And sci fi is really helpful in that it has inspired a lot of technological development on its own. I think similarly, Anime does something along those lines, but for culture what, if we explored this particular fascination or social dynamic or cultural Eddie or current to its logical conclusion and most extreme end, what do we get?And that's what [01:02:00] you get. And that's, what's so interesting about all the different anime genres that emerge at different times in our history, like Isekai anime and what it reveals. about where people are mentally and where culture is mentally. It just takes things further and says things that we cannot articulate in other mediums.And just to close this out, like what does all this mean for a sin, say sexuality or something like that? Where it would be genuinely and deeply sinful to, for example, allow your sexuality to control you, allow it to take up a vast majority of your time, allow it to occupy a large portion of your personal identity.But it would not be sinful because it's, it's often not something that you personally chose. It's just a trial, right? But it would not be sinful to engage learn about sexuality, or engage in things that you find arousing, so long as it's not a huge portion of your time or disrupts your ability to create a family.And I think that this is really important Because a lot of the Christian framings that have gone to something like sexuality and [01:03:00] just say, okay, we're going to ban interacting with it at all. They're getting massacred out there in terms of deconversions right now because their kids don't have a memetic framework for the way their sexuality works.And so during the years where they're going through puberty are also the where they're most likely to deconvert 15 to 23. And They're these feelings are coming online. The religion didn't build a framework for interacting with them. And now these other groups are coming on with these sort of self perpetuating nanite frameworks.They can get through this back door. You left by not building a sexual framework for them or not building a sexual framework that what didn't make more sense when they first heard it than these alternate secular framework. Sexual frameworks that then allow for like entirely new religions to get through this back door.And this is why this framing can be higher utility in terms of intergenerational fidelity for an individual even though it allows people to get closer to some forms of sin. So thank you for sharing it with us, Malcolm. Anyway, love [01:04:00] you.This is just the beginning, isn't it? I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not satisfied!Oh my god, I can't believe I met Beige sama. Beige sama, I Ah! Don't be so flustered. The heroine of justice, Dressmagia. The one everyone admires, that's you. No, no, interpretation. I Marita san, are you angry? .[01:05:00] Magia Azul, Usurai no Mika. What is that? I don't know what it looks like. Yes, that's right. I'll let you know. Nenaggumarda! No, that was on purpose. Aine.It's terribly distorted and dangerous, but this is certainly Love will never break! Smooth ice will wash away everything! I will I do? I'm in trouble. Are you [01:06:00] kidding me?This is the real deal, isn't it? Yes, that's right. !Malcolm Collins: Silencing my flune. Ta da! Tracks track. It's a track. It's a track. It's a track! Track! It tracked! Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe
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Jul 4, 2024 • 34min

Autism vs Schizophrenia: Opposite Ends of the Spectrum? What Causes Them?

In this insightful episode, Malcolm and Simone delve into the fascinating world of schizophrenia and autism, exploring how these conditions exist on opposite ends of a spectrum related to the concept of "theory of mind." Malcolm shares his extensive experience working in schizophrenia research, explaining the various subtypes of schizophrenia and their symptoms. He then presents his groundbreaking theory that schizophrenia is caused by an overactive theory of mind, while autism is characterized by a deficiency in this cognitive ability. The discussion also covers the importance of medication for those with schizophrenia, the potential dangers of transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS), and the evolutionary advantages of both schizophrenic and autistic traits in moderation.Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] So what I think is happening with Schizophrenic is Individuals is that their theory of mind is basically hyper stimulated and activates when it shouldn't be activating.And I think that this is what is happening with the auditory hallucinations. This happens when you see something like you know, applying a theory of mind to the way things are arranged in a store window.Applying a theory of mind to like, world events, right? Like, oh, there's a theory of mind behind this that's directly relevant to you. Or a theory of mind creating a hallucination. Catatonia is the one counter example here, but what I suspect is really happening with Catatonia is they're just so overwhelmed with so many theories of minds operating at once that they basically become catatonic.They'reSimone Collins: paralyzed by their thoughts. Yeah. I, that, that makes sense to me.Malcolm Collins: So autism I think is literally defined by the exact opposite.I think the core symptom of autism is a difficulty in running theory of minds of other people. And this is what creates problems in autism,Would you like toknow more?Simone Collins: Well, hello, gorgeous. I am [00:01:00] poking around the comments in our videos a while ago and I remember some people speculating on like what we sort of meant about like the autistic and schizoid spectrums and they implied that, that we were talking about something more cultural and not actually like autistic or schizoid.And that is not true. So we should probably dig into what we're talking about more here when we're talking about people being on the autistic spectrum or being on a schizoid spectrum because they're very different things.Malcolm Collins: This is, I should point out, this is not a cultural thing. This is shown in genetic data.This is shown in diagnostic data. And we should probably establish our credentials here. I started one of my first jobs. I mean, I did, I have a few like origin jobs, right? Because I took a number of early jobs in various neuroscience fields. The three origin jobs was one was studying the evolution of human cognition and humanity at the Smithsonian.And in creating an exhibit, the human origins display, I worked on that. [00:02:00] So some of the stuff I created is still on display at the Smithsonian. So that's one area. Another area is my brain computer interface work. So this was working on technology That allowed humans to control machines with their thoughts, similar to Neuralink.The final area, and the area I worked by far the longest in, was Schizophrenia research. So this was understanding how this is specifically what I was looking at was, was going Through lots of patients and making sure that they were properly categorized. So this involved tons and tons of interviews.Like I had to interview hundreds of people about like their deepest and keep in mind, not just because it's a prettier person, but also normal people about their deepest thoughts about the world, their lives, their daily routines, everything like that. Because we were like, wait, why were you. doing normal people.It's because I wasn't working as a clinician. I was working as a researcher. And so we needed a control group and we needed a control group that was similar in economic status to our schizophrenia population. Now, schizophrenia population is typically not doing very well in society. You know, this is you, you know, lower income, lower middle income [00:03:00] group.And so I really got to, to, to get a personal, like really. In your face, really high volume understanding of this section of humanity and the way they think and engage with the world. Both people within the schizophrenia population and not schizophrenia population. And I had to be really good.Like, I had memorized the DSM at one point. People who don't know the things. NotSimone Collins: just the schizophrenicMalcolm Collins: diagnostic criteria. The whole thing. I could give you any, not, not memorized word per word, but I can give you any diagnosis in it with its broad, like specific diagnostic criteria. Now, it's been a long time since then, but I took a lot of pride on this at one point.People who don't know, I might put a picture of a DSM on the screen because people who don't know what the DSM is might be hearing that, Oh, he memorized the diagnostic standard criteria. He, well, what is that? Why is that important? a monster book. It's like memorizing the encyclopedia. It's insane that I decided that that was a fun thing to do.But I really enjoyed it. I really [00:04:00] enjoyed understanding how humans think and how humans interact with each other. And so this was important to me. And then Simone is diagnosed with autism. Yeah, I'm just defective. Our kid is diagnosed with autism. One of our kids and our other kid, very likely by the time we get to him, it's going to be diagnosed as well.Simone Collins: Oh yeah, no, no. Torsten is Almost certainly. He's, he's getting his evaluation in April because it takes a billion months to schedule these things, haMalcolm Collins: ha ha. But the point being here is that I have no antagonism towards these communities and I am speaking from a perspective informed. By research and actually what we were doing was this research was genetic testing.So we were, so we needed to clearly separate them into these different groups so we could find out what genes were correlated with this. AndSimone Collins: there's similar research with autism in which actually we had our oldest son participate. Like the whole family did cheek swabs, you, me Octavian's younger brother and Octavian.And we all sent them in. And fill out tons of questionnaires. So that, [00:05:00] yeah, this is something that happens with schizophrenia. It happens with autism. It happens with a lot of things.Malcolm Collins: So let's, let's talk about, I'm going to start with the schizophrenia spectrum because it's the one that I think less people are familiar with.A lot of people are familiar with the autism spectrum. But the schizophrenia spectrum, a lot of people are unfamiliar with. So, because this might surprise people, the, like, do you know, the schizophrenia spectrum goes from schizophrenia to what other common psychiatric condition?Simone Collins: You mean at the other end of it? Like the opposite of it? Yeah, the other end of it. Autism? No. I mean, well, what's the opposite? I mean, schizophrenia, as I understand it, is like over modeling humans.Malcolm Collins: This means that all of these conditions are linked, genetically linked.Simone Collins: Oh, linked. Okay. Okay. So they're, yeah, they're linked.Okay. So yeah. Okay. Okay. I'llMalcolm Collins: give you a hint. It's the single most common psychiatric condition in the world, and it's particularly common in women. BorderlineSimone Collins: personality disorder?Malcolm Collins: No, [00:06:00] personality disorders aren't on the schizophrenia spectrum. Well, the kind of are similar, but it's depression. Oh, depression is one end of the schizophrenia spectrum.Schizophrenia is the other end of the schizophrenia spectrum. So let's go through broadly how this works. Okay. Yeah. Because all of these, there's. They, they share genetic components and they share sort of diagnostic components. And, and we're also going to talk about what causes these at the end of this, because I have a unique theory about what causes all of this.And it's different from the mainstream community consensus, but it's right because I'm smarter than them. They would have gone into the real world and made money if they were as smart as me, but they didn't, they stayed in academia. So Let's, let's talk about this, this spectrum. So, at one end you have depression.And then from depression you have sort of a spectrum from depression to bipolar. Where you have periods of mania. So bipolarSimone Collins: is on the schizophrenic spectrum?Malcolm Collins: Well, bipolar exists in two categories. You have bipolar one and bipolar two. We're not going to get, so so keep in mind, it's been a while since [00:07:00] I've done this.Okay. So bipolar is clearly related to depression. Like you can see that, right? Like if you have the depressive episodes and manic episodes. Yeah, 100%.Simone Collins: That's why I was surprised that you said depression was at the far end of theMalcolm Collins: One of the two bipolars, I think it's bipolar one, the manic episodes are In part characterized by psychotic episodes, i.e. hearing voices, seeing things, stuff like that. Delusions of grandeur. Delusions of grandeur, right? Like that's very Okay, okay, I'm starting to see. Or paranoid episodes sometimes too, right? Yeah, alright, alright. So you're having a level of a psychotic break there. Yeah. Then from there you have schizoaffective disorder.Mm hmm. And honestly, it's been a while since I studied it, so I can't remember exactly, but I seem to remember that the diagnostic difference between bipolar one and schizoaffective disorder was really, really small. It was like the difference between like, just like the number of days you spent on specific parts of the [00:08:00] spectrum.Interesting. Yeah. It could be different by like one day could make the difference between a diagnosis in one category and a diagnosis in another category, which I think shows that these two are very closely.Okay. I went through and checked because I was like, I want to give you guys the full answer here. The core difference between the two is that with Schizoaffective disorder, the, Psychotic episodes occur outside of just the manic phase. And so when I was talking about like a one day difference, If you, for example, were experiencing a psychotic episode, just like one day outside of a manic period or a manic period with like one day longer than manicure gets normally are, it could change the diagnosis from bipolar one to Schizoaffective disorder.So they're really only difference in terms of a matter of degrees, except when you're talking about extreme manifestations of each I E a person's who's in like extreme depression, also having psychotic episodes will be clearly Schizoaffective, but there's a lot, a lot of edge cases between Schizoaffective and bipolar one.In fact, the educators are much more [00:09:00] normal than the extreme cases.Malcolm Collins: AndSimone Collins: of course the DSM is. Famously arbitrary about many things. Many argue that it's more of a reflection of cultural values at the time and cultural norms than it is of, you know, actualMalcolm Collins: conditions.Well, this is very important to note that historically the DSM you know, had things in it like same sex attraction and stuff like that in the 1970s. And that was considered a psychiatric condition and it was taken out. And now, There's been a push, and I think it might have even been taken out recently, to take sadism out, because they, they're like, that's just a sexual preference.in there? It's not still in there. It might still be in there, but yeah. Oh lord. Okay, so then from that, you then go into schizophrenia. Now, schizophrenia actually has a huge diversity of sort of ways that it appears in people. I think when people think about schizophrenia, they have this like, culturally primed assumption.Simone Collins: Yeah, the homeless person on the street who's yelling to themselves.Malcolm Collins: Yeah, I can just go over a few of the big ones here. Okay, so paranoid schizophrenia. It's one of the most common I saw. I think it might be one of the most common. Basically you assume [00:10:00] agency and like large forces of reality targeted at you.That aren't targeted at you. So I'm trying to word this other than like you are paranoid. Because I think that's not a helpful understanding. It means that you will see something like a helicopter fly over your house and you will assume that it's flying over your house because you are in that house and it is watching you.You will see you know people whispering to each other on a bus or something like that. And you will assume they must be whispering about you.Simone Collins: It seems remarkably self centered. Like, you just assume that you must be the most important person in the entire world.Malcolm Collins: Well, yes. And this is like the gang abduction hypothesis.It's one of the conspiracy theories. I got to do like gang. I will, I'll edit and edit because I don't remember off the top of my head,Gang stalking is what I was thinking of.Malcolm Collins: but it's very likely paranoid schizophrenia that they're just talking about when they, when they talk about it. And this is another thing that I also want to note with people is a lot of people don't know how common.Oh, I think I know who you're referring to. Okay. [00:11:00] Hallucinations are in the population and many of these types of schizophrenia symptoms. All humans experience this to some extent. Everybody sort of knows this feeling of seeing two people whisper and think, I bet they're talking about me. Like they must Not me, friend.Simone Collins: So maybe autistic people don't feel this.Malcolm Collins: Well, I typically categorize autism in the autistic spectrum as the exact inverse of the schizophrenia spectrum and we get into why. But the thing is, many of our viewers We'll have had this experience. And this is why I've always said that I'm much closer to the schizophrenia side of it than me.This is the experience I have all the time. I'll see two people talking and I'll be like, are they making fun of me? Are they thinking about me?Simone Collins: Are they, you know? And you spend so much time modeling other people where like, sometimes if we're walking and you're a little bit distracted, like I will see you like gesturing and I know that you're having an imaginary conversation with someone like, so, and you were constantly, I am, I've never, and a lot of people talk about conversation.No, never. And, and I, you know, a lot of people I think can really relate to this because I hear a lot of people talk about how like [00:12:00] they imagine having this argument with someone and how it's going to go. And I've just never experienced this ever. So I think at least this will help people relate to it is like, okay, well, you're, you're being a little schizoid every time.You have a pretend conversation with someone, right?Malcolm Collins: Yeah, or another way that's very similar to this is magical thinking which you see in this next type of schizophrenia disorganized Well, so disorganized a bit different. People have it they'll often talk weirdly where so symptoms include disorganized behaviors and thoughts alongside short lasting delusions and hallucinations.They have disorganized speech patterns and others may find it difficult to understand you. People living with disorganized schizophrenia often show little or no emotions in their facial expressions, voice, tone, or mannerisms. And one of the things is even when we were talking was fairly like um, they would, they would construct sentences using words that were sometimes kind of brilliant in ways.One of my favorite, which I've actually [00:13:00] adopted in my lexicon. Is we were talking with one of them about his like daily habits, like grooming habits and he goes, well, I'm no high genius, but and, and they would often use words like this where they had put together words in a way that a normal person wouldn't have thought to put them together, but immediate sense, like it makes so much sense.You're like, that's the most perfect thing I've ever seen. Like, but other people don't like make that connection. Think about that when they're structuring their language, right? Like they don't think, oh, how do I, so their brains are literally functioning quite different from another person's brain in terms of how they're structuring this.Now to the point you're making earlier and in paranoid schizophrenia, cause you also see it in paranoid schizophrenia, is a symptom you call magical thinking. Magical thinking would be like, you saw a display window at Macy's or something. And you assume that that window is meant to communicate something to you, or you see a commercial and you're like, that commercial is supposed to communicate something to me.[00:14:00]Many people could argue our entire religious framework that you and I use as a form of magical thinking, where we're looking to Abrahamic texts to find out what are they communicating to us. So a lot of schizophrenic. Type behaviors and thoughts are very related to religious thoughts. You know, when somebody is looking at reality and they're looking for signs from God, that is in a way, a form of magical thinking, you are looking at things that do not have intentionality.The way a store display is arranged or what's going on in a commercial, like it has a form of intentionality, but it's certainly not targeted directly at you and yet you are assuming and modeling that thing as if it had like a human brain. Or a human brain went into constructing it to send a signal to you.In a beautiful mind. I don't know if you saw that movie. It followed somebody with schizophrenia who believed that he was finding patterns, puzzles of like code words put into newspapers. And he [00:15:00] was like a math genius. So he kept, whenever he would look at newspapers, he kept overlaying various like, Mathematical equations.Oh no. The page and whenever one of them would lead to the page saying something, he would then be like, that must be a message meant for me. So implying intentionality where no intentionality exists. Yeah. Interesting. So that is, that is one thing you'll have there. Now another type of schizophrenia that a lot of people don't know is schizophrenia is catatonic schizophrenia.So catatonic schizophrenia, have you ever seen a movie that takes place in like ahave you ever seen a movie that takes place in a psych ward and you've seen somebody like in a weird position like this? That's catatonic schizophrenia. And if you like move their hand, it's called like waxy, like that's the word, the technical term for it. They'll stay in this new position, like Gumby or something.Gosh. And they can be stuck like that for very long periods. Doesn't it hurt?Simone Collins: You'd think it would hurt.Malcolm Collins: What would they describe it as? And again, this is something that I can kind of model in my [00:16:00] head. Have you ever felt these moments where you're so mentally overloaded, you're kind of frozen? Yeah, that's wheneverSimone Collins: I say, my name is Simone Collins and IMalcolm Collins: am washing the dishes.No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's different from this. This is sort of rebooting. She has this pattern of rebooting where she's like, my name is Simone Collins and I'm doing X, but she forgets where she is and what she's doing. No, this is like, Something has happened in your life or something like that, or you are so stricken with like an emotional context because like you're embarrassed you did something and you just realized you did it or something like that.And you're just like, and you're just processing this for a bit. These people are sort of stuck in that processing moment. Because they're so overwhelmed. They're so overwhelmed with thoughts.Simone Collins: Oh, and yeah, with, with like specifically their schizophrenic thoughts, perhaps with like modeling a lot of people and stuff, right?Yes.Malcolm Collins: Yes. Undifferentiated schizophrenia is what I was thinking of. This is where you have signs of a few different things. I was thinking undifferentiated schizophrenia when I was thinking disorganized schizophrenia. It's very specific and that's easy for me to catch. [00:17:00] Undifferentiated does soundSimone Collins: like a catch all.It'sMalcolm Collins: just like you see a lot of different symptoms from different categories. Residual schizophrenia. Oh, yeah. I have to say, I don't remember seeing patients who had something called this, but yeah, this is they had a history of schizophrenic psychosis but only experienced the negative symptoms such as slow movement, poor memory, lack of concentration and poor hygiene.So this is actually a really important one to talk about. So every time you have a psychotic break in schizophrenia these things get worse. The, the, the things I just noted there slow movement, poor memory, lack of concentration, poor hygiene. What is happening when you have a schizophrenic break is your brain is basically being flooded with chemicals that can be thought of as analogous to the sort of exogenous chemicals that you take when you're on drugs or something like taking a ton of hallucinogens.And this is a big mistake that a lot of people, especially like bipolar people I know make, where they're like, I'll just tough it out, right? Like it's more natural. It's like it's not natural. Your brain is not supposed to be doing this. The chemicals that are flooding your brain, especially if they're causing psychotic episodes, are causing the exact [00:18:00] same damage as hallucinogens, if not more.And you will suffer the same long term consequences of a hallucinogen addict. Or more slow speech, poor memory, poor hygiene. And so a lot of people are afraid of taking drugs, you know pharmaceuticals that lower the symptoms of these sorts of conditions on the schizophrenic spectrum and you really shouldn't be.You will have permanent, it gets worse, and we saw this with schizophrenic patients, every time they have a break, they permanently get worseSimone Collins: after that. Yeah, I remember one of the first things, like, first mental health stances that you gave to me that I thought was really interesting when we were really early in our dating was that, like, sometimes it's just so, so, so important to take medications for a mental condition because Your current chemical state with your brain is super, super not natural and causing a lot of damage like it is.No, don't find some natural. Don't think through it. Don't therapy through it. It's not going to fix it. There is. You are high right now and [00:19:00] you need to fix it, which I, yeah, I'm glad you're pointingMalcolm Collins: this out. Yeah. Well, some people, and this goes, you know, when we talk about our psychology and psychiatry thing and stuff like that, and are just tough it out stance was a lot of this stuff we were talking about, like wimpy stuff, like, I'm sorry.I don't mean to say this. This is going to be very offensive to potential. You can see our all trauma is self inflicted video for more understanding of this. But a lot of the data shows us a lot of like, what modern psychology calls problems like trauma is self inflicted when you're talking about something like psychotic episodes or a major depressive disorder.This is no f ing joke. You should take this seriously. You should take your medication, and the number one way you're gonna die is stopping to take that medication. And we saw this with our patients all the time because another thing I did is I collected brains from the M. E. So I knew people who had worked this for a while, and when the M.E. I was able to read their brains. Oh mySimone Collins: god, did you collect brains from people that you'd interviewed? Yeah, yeah,Malcolm Collins: yeah. So that's so tough. That is how people die. They stop taking their medication. Oh my god. So well, another thing is people will be like, but with depression, you have [00:20:00] medication increases suicide risk.Yeah, it does, but it doesn't really matter that it does. Okay, so I need to be more explicit here. So the reason why it was major depressive disorder, because one of the things major depressive disorder is associated with is like a lack of motivation and a lack of ability to motivate yourself. Drugs that lower that.But you still remember it having happened recently, you still are horrified by it, and you are still in it. slightly depressed state. Well, now you just have more motivation and more agency. And you are doing what you feel you know, needs to be done to release you from this state, but it is not that the drugs aren't working.They lead to suicide, not because they make you more depressed, but because they give you more agency. But we've got to keep going here with, with some of these.Simone Collins: We can also just talk more about like, so like the, the differences between the autistic and schizophrenic spectrum and why we talk about it a lot becauseMalcolm Collins: I didn't get to the final thing that I want to say here. Okay. Speed it up though. Okay. Okay. Well a lot of people have psychotic, like episodes, like they're more common than people think.[00:21:00]So a quarter of humans will hear like, like hallucinatory voices at some point in their life. They will hear somebody talking to them. That's not there. This is very common. Auditory hallucinations within schizophrenia, by the way, if you're talking to somebody who's like faking schizophrenia, if they're talking about visual hallucinations and not audible hallucinations, they're probably faking it.Because audible hallucinations are the number one symptom, visual hallucinations are actually pretty rare. Okay. So, so that's, that's just sort of worth noting. So like these symptoms in these things in schizophrenia, like these moments of catatonic schizophrenia, these moments of paranoid schizophrenia, these moments of magical thinking are something that a lot of people can empathize with.And so we can see that a lot of people have this level of this sort of in the background running within them. Okay. So you wanted to get to the, what would you want to Well,Simone Collins: we have theories as to why autism and schizophrenia exist and We, we describe a lot of people as being on these spectrums because.[00:22:00]We think that a lot of people have moderate versions of them that give them advantages in society. There's a reason why genetically, because there's a high genetic basis for these conditions, that things like autism and schizophrenia provide advantagesMalcolm Collins: in moderation. We need to talk about these two spectrums because they're pretty different from each other.Simone Collins: Yeah, but I'm just, I want to get to that because that's the juicy part. Well, you're just readingMalcolm Collins: through lists. It's not really, but okay, I'll talk about the quote unquote juicy part. So the autism spectrum is basically a spectrum from having autism to not having autism. The schizophrenia spectrum is a spectrum, it can almost be thought of as like a conal spectrum.It's a spectrum of one. iteration of a psychiatric condition to another iteration of a psychiatric condition. And then within that sort of like line, you can think of a spot on the other side, which is a completely mentally healthy individual and like a conal radiant going to that line. And you can be anywhere On that spectrum of like depressed or manic depressive to a completely normal person [00:23:00] or schizophrenic to a completely normal person.So you're talking about these two sort of, one is a conic spectrum and then one is the autistic spectrum. My intuition from what I've seen about these two spectrums is that if you are drawing like a conal line and you have like an average person at like the center of where this line is drawn for right and then you have the schizophrenia spectrum of psychological disorders and you drew a line.Like from the center of that cone out in the exact opposite direction, that would be the autistic spectrum. I, I am not aware of ever seeing comorbidity between autism and schizophrenia. In my experience. And it's because I think that they are exactly the antithesis of each other. And this is the part that you probably find interesting that you want me to talk about.Which is my theory of what's causing schizophrenia. The common thing in all of these. So I need a little background knowledge before I do this. Okay, we're going to talk quickly about trans magnetic stimulation. So trans magnetic stimulation is a device. It's like a little figure eight sign [00:24:00] paddle that you put on your head and it can be used to either a hyper activate or sort of turn off sections of your brain using.Transmagnetic simulation. And this can be useful in a lot of experiments and stuff like that. Like there's cool things you can do where you can have somebody like looking at letters and then you put it on their head and all of a sudden they don't know what they're looking at. They're like, I, I understand their letters, but I don't know what they're saying anymore.So you can literally like turn on. Now, a lot of experiments have been done with it. It's likeSimone Collins: disrupting a radio signal essentially. Right. I mean,Malcolm Collins: metaphorically. Not at all, but no. Okay. I think of it that way. It's not important exactly how it works for this conversation. Now it's also important to note with this, that I do not think TMS is safe.And I think that in the future we will talk about TMS in the same way that we talked about experiments that use hallucinogens in the seventies today. I do not think we have good evidence that this is a safe thing to do given the severity of what people are doing with it. But anyway so, so TMS so, One thing you can do with TMS is hyper stimulate parts of a person's brain.Simone Collins: Oh, so you can't, [00:25:00] you, you can hyper, you can like turn up in addition to turning down. It's like aMalcolm Collins: volume down. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Neat, okay. And when you hyper stimulate them, like you're lowering the amount of signal that's needed to create an action potential within them. Don't need to go into what this is.But if you hyper stimulate, like, the parts that, like, you turned off, like, remember when I was talking about seeing letters? You can hyper stimulate those parts, and they'll look at letters, and they won't be able to help, but say the letters they're looking at. So, they will look at an A, and they'll say, A, B, like, they can't stop from doing it.Because basically when you add this little bit of extra stimulation, i. e. like the visual stimulation of seeing it and processing the letter, it accidentally triggers the pathway that's tied to talking about it. So what I think is happening in schizophrenic patients is the pathway that's tied to a human theory of mind.So let's talk quickly about a theory of mind. A theory of mind is what I do. So I model people, right? Like when I am Seeing you, and I am trying to predict you, like another person, not Simone, I never really predict her because I don't need to. She just [00:26:00] tells me what she thinks, it's really nice.This is part of being autistic, okay? So they, they, they, I, I am emulating, like, emulating a video game or something like that, or emulating another operating system. I'm emulating their mind within my mind. Like I have a little model of their mind running in my mind whenever I'm talking to someone.And that model helps me predict how they are going to react to the things I'm saying. And, and kids take a while to develop this. One of the famous experiments around this is you get a kid to draw a shape that you're looking at from like, Their perspective, you're like, can you draw this shape from my perspective and there's a certain age.I think it's like four or five or something where kids can start realizing. Oh, they're not seeing the shape from my perspective. I need to draw it from their perspective, like their eyes are somewhere else in relation to the shape when contrasted with my eyes. When this takes a while to do right.Well, we can also like summon theory of minds when we're doing things we can. Create a theory of mind of like a person who we had an argument with and then [00:27:00] continue to have that argument with them with this modeled iteration of them inside of our own brain. And then that's when you win the argument, of course.And you're like, gosh, why didn't I see that in the real, like you're basically replaying tons of scenarios with them afterwards. Whereas I justSimone Collins: go home and I'm like, man, they were weird. Yeah. Like,Malcolm Collins: But then another theory of mind that you can do is you know, you can Sort of imbue like an animal with a theory of mind, right?Like you can interact with your dog and then theory of mind your dog as if it was a human. Or if you're from like one of the more mystical religious traditions, you can theory of mind a waterfall, right? You can be like, oh, that must have a theory of mind, right? Like it's doing this now because it's angry with us.You can theory mind the sky. Like, so theory of mind is just like a classic thing that humans do. It's part of a lot of religious traditions, we'll talk about that later or it can be used by them to create significance where no significance exists which is a sin, I'm sorry, that's just like, we'll go into this later in some of our tracks, but, theory of mind so what I think is happening with Schizophrenic is Individuals [00:28:00] is that their theory of mind is basically hyper stimulated and activates when it shouldn't be activating.And I think that this is what is happening with the auditory hallucinations. I think that's why auditory hallucinations are the most common. Is Essentially, they are running models of other people when they shouldn't be running models of other people and they can hear these models of other people that they're running in the background.This is why, you know, one of the most common is just like hearing whispers because they're not running full models. It's not like fully running. It's just like barely rumbling in the background. It's running in their mind, but they're not. It's not fully breaking into their consciousness. There's other people.They're seeing like full theory of minds. Well, this becomes relevant because almost every symptom. Schizophrenia can be explained by a theory of mind operating when it's not supposed to be operating. Yeah, like on overdrive. Yeah, so this happens when you see something like you know, applying a theory of mind to the way things are arranged in a store window.Applying a theory of mind to like, world events, right? Like, oh, there's a theory of mind behind this that's [00:29:00] directly relevant to you. Or a theory of mind creating a hallucination. Catatonia is the one counter example here, but what I suspect is really happening with Catatonia is they're just so overwhelmed with so many theories of minds operating at once that they basically become catatonic.They'reSimone Collins: paralyzed by their thoughts. Yeah. I, that, that makes sense to me. I mean, they'reMalcolm Collins: basically running like five consciousnesses simultaneously. Like,Simone Collins: yeah. It's like when you are running too many programs on an older computer and it just like stops.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. That's basically what's happening. So autism I think is literally defined by the exact opposite.I think the core symptom of autism is a difficulty in running theory of minds of other people. And this is what creates problems in autism, like not being able to recognize emotions as easily, or not recognizing when people aren't interested in something that you're talking to them about. And as Simone says, her as an autistic person Simone, I, I want to be clear, it is not normal to not have arguments with people in your heads.That is something that normal people do. ItSimone Collins: is something that a schizoid [00:30:00] person wouldMalcolm Collins: say, isn't it? Right? No, but that is, and this is what we talk about with me being more towards the schizoid side and her being more towards the autism side. Like we are both opposite sides of exact opposite sides of the spectrum.Where I run theory of minds too frequently and too easily, but I am uniquely good at it. And I think. That people are like why would like schizophrenia exists because it existed about equal rates across populations and it exists likely because people like me have a genetic advantage over people not like me.I mean, one of theSimone Collins: things so yeah, anyone in a social, like any living in a society, civilization, a tribe, a city is going to be to have an advantage if they're able to play the game of chess better, you know, to model other people's next moves, to anticipate them, to think what they're thinking, because then it is easier to get ahead and to have an edge.But then I also think that maybe the reason why people carrying autistic traits have continued to perpetuate is that Sometimes being free of that burden enables you to think more [00:31:00] systematically in a way that makes you useful to society as an inventor, as a builder, as a producer. And so then that's why those genes have also been carried on.It's just a worker, like they, you know, you get the work done because you're not so busy. Socializing and thinking about people and modeling people and trying to play games, which is frankly not very productive. I mean, you see this in like other contexts where like there was that one famous study of I think a travel agency building somewhere, a company in Southeast Asia that had people at the office and people at work from home and work from home people were more productive, but they didn't get promotions.So it was really interesting. It was like, well, working in an office is good. If getting ahead is what matters. Having people work from home is good. If getting stuff done is what matters. And you kind of need both people in society, right? You need people who are capable of getting ahead and amassing power and amassing resources and wealth.And you also need people who are good at just getting things done. That's why these two things onMalcolm Collins: a spectrum, we have to worry. Are we washing out our genes? Like was my unique genius being able to modelSimone Collins: that [00:32:00] my autism is overpowered your,Malcolm Collins: it does in our kids. I'll say that.Simone Collins: Yeah. And we, we can't tell yet with our daughter.Who's around like 16 months now. With our two sons, though, it is extremely clearMalcolm Collins: there. Well, autism appears more in males than females, so. ItSimone Collins: manifests more in a diagnosable way. I mean, this is why I wasn't diagnosed untilMalcolm Collins: our son was diagnosed. Remember when who was it, Diana Fleischman was on our show, and she was saying that in women oh, no, no, it wasn't, this was, louise Perry, she is saying that women like you're a woman with a 70 IQ has a better ability to model the emotional states of others than a man with a 120 IQ. Yeah, ISimone Collins: think that was Diana.Malcolm Collins: Yeah. No, it wasn't Diana, it was Louise Perry. Okay. Yeah, it was in the episode on feminism or whatever. Anyway, so the Very interesting is is I think that that's what's causing that is because women have this naturally higher emotional intelligence that it often gets high hidden in them when they have lower ability to model other people.Anyway. I love you to death, [00:33:00] Simone. It is remarkable how many low hanging fruits there are within the sciences. And people are like, well, why don't you like test them and prove them and stuff like that? Why don't you stay in the community? Because this would have been my entire career. This one theory would have been 30, 40 years of my life just proving out.And I've been able to have like a panoply of other theories in the field of sexuality because I was able to do independent research on that. I'm able to have theories in the field of theology, which I'm really interested in because, you know, like if I had trapped myself in academia, I wouldn't be able to live the life of a gentleman scientist, which I much prefer.Academia is collapsing anyways, right? Anyway, I love you to death Simone. I loveSimone Collins: you too and I'm glad you shared your thoughts on this because it's super interesting. So thank you. I love your beautiful mind. Get full access to Based Camp | Simone & Malcolm at basedcamppodcast.substack.com/subscribe

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