
Real Talk, Whole Life
Welcome to Real Talk, Whole Life—part candid phone call with your nerdy best friends, part myth-busting, and entirely unfiltered. Wellness without the woo. Womanhood without the guilt. Wisdom from the fine folks who survived dial-up and low-fat lies.Host Stacy Toth brings honest, heartfelt conversations about what it means to live fully—in your body, your brain, and your messy, magical life. From midlife mayhem and mental health to Botox alternatives and book recs, we’re covering it all—with a side of sarcasm and a whole lot of heart.No shame. No pseudoscience. Just the kind of conversations you actually want to hear when you call a friend—especially if “wellness” has never quite felt like it was made for you.Rooted in womanhood, open to anyone who’s ever been side-eyed in a yoga studio. Come for the hot takes, stay for the healing.Real Talk, Whole Life is hosted by Stacy Toth, bestselling diet culture author turned anti-diet health at any size educator. Her goal is to create a safe space for all to explore their own version of wellness without the elitist self-focused woo woo. Previously The Whole View and The Paleo View, this evolution of the podcast is a reflection of the growth we all go through exploring being middle aged. Expect a wide variety of guests on an even greater variety of topics, but always inclusive ways for non-toxic living (mental and physical).
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Oct 22, 2015 • 1h 15min
Episode 166, Danielle Walker
Intro (0:00)
News and Views (0:56)
Sarah is working on submitting her book and getting it off to the printer
Stacy's favorite person in paleo, and long-time guest on The Paleo View (episode 42 and 109), is here as a guest on this week's show - welcome Danielle Walker!
Danielle had a baby recently and will be helping to answer a number of questions related to pregnancy, newborns, and breastfeeding
You can find more on Danielle on her site, Against All Grain, she has a popular YouTube channel, and is a New York Times Bestselling Author of Against All Grain and Meals Made Simple - and she is currently working on a third book
What brought Danielle to blogging
Danielle's number one job is being a mom, find out more about her kids here
The difference in Danielle's pregnancies
Fulfilling pregnancy cravings in a way that supports your health, but also makes you feel normal
Why people experience a shift in the immune system when they are pregnant - some experience a remission and others experience flairs, with the most major immune system shift happening when the baby weans
How Danielle is managing her health during the postpartum phase to reduce the possibility of an autoimmune flair
Sarah's recommendations on how to reduce the risk of a flair postpartum
Uber focus on nutrient density - how and why the immune system is a nutrient gas guzzler, with the immune regulator being the most sensitive to nutrient deficiencies
Get a lot of sleep - let go of perfection, and focus on basic needs
Activity is great, but prioritize sleep
Be aware of stress levels and triggers
Danielle's protocol when she notices a flair
Creating a personal list of foods that are automatic no items that cause issues, and the role that a food journal can play in helping you identify your problematic foods
Milk production shifts around the 6 week marker and what is happening at a hormonal level that impacts that change in milk supply
What Stacy experienced with her food intolerances while breastfeeding her boys and how that led her to elimination dieting
Getting Calcium from Non-Dairy Sources (34:09)
There is calcium in other foods, and in fact more absorbable calcium in other foods than the calcium in dairy - we absorb a much higher percentage of calcium from cruciferous vegetables than we do from the calcium in diary
We need calcium to make breastmilk
There is a collection of studies that looked at dairy consumption and long-term bone health and there is actually no correlation between dairy intake and bone health, if anything there is a slight negative correlation
One study shows that the more dairy you consume the more likely you are to have bone health problems
Studies show that the most important diet factor to bone health is vegetable consumption
One of Stacy's favorite soup recipes is Danielle's Chicken and Vegetable Soup, which she finds as a convenient way to get vegetables and bone broth in
What Danielle has noticed with the foods she is eating and how those impact Easton through breastmilk
Supplementing Easton with a probiotic
Checkout kellymom.com for great factual information on breastfeeding, and for community and support with all things lactation
How and why antibodies from mom cross into breastmilk
When you are nursing, your body will prioritize the food source for your child - your body will essentially take the nutrients you are not getting enough of from your reserves and pass them along to your child
Top Foods Nursing Moms Should Eat (52:20)
Protein
Mineral rich foods (organ meats and vegetables like cruciferous vegetables)
Vitamin D (fish and shellfish; pastured raised animals; grass-fed dairy; time out in the sun)
Vitamin A (liver, egg yolks)
Antioxidants (organ meat, high quality meats, lots of vegetables)
How to get 5 servings of vegetables a day to optimize health
As long as you are getting adequate animals foods and then piling on the vegetables, that is the best case scenario for your health
Danielle's tips for incorporating healthy foods and healthy habits
Making soup and adding in vegetables
Putting vegetables in smoothies and adding collagen (Stacy adds Vital Proteins)
Prepping ahead and using the crockpot, see this post for Danielle's recommended prep ahead recipes
Accepting help
More from Danielle on how she is doing and feeling being in the newborn stage
Thank you so much Danielle for coming back on The Paleo View - and congratulations on Easton's arrival and thank you for being such a positive role model to so many in the community
Be sure to find Danielle and all of her social media channels on her site HERE
Thanks everyone for listening!
Outro (1:13:28)
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Oct 15, 2015 • 20min
Episode 165, Chit Chat & Community
Intro (0:00)
News and Views (0:56)
Sarah's new Skype picture
The Healing Kitchen was turned in on time and the publisher's response - moving the release date from February 2016 to December 2015
Sarah is still prioritizing her health goals and getting in sleep and fitness, but doing a check in podcast this week was a must to balance all of Sarah's other demands
Work finally calmed down for Stacy and she has been spending a lot more time relaxing
This past weekend her and Matt went to Brent & Heather's wedding, and it was such an amazing celebration that included so many fun activities
Stacy also bought a convertible over the weekend
Stacy is going to give Sarah her chill vibes to help her get through the book publishing process
There is a MEGA AWESOME guest scheduled for next week and we can't wait to share that episode
Sarah's plans for future books
How book writing kind of landed in Sarah's lap and wasn't something she had consciously sought out as a career goal
Stacy's thoughts on sharing a passion with the world
When Sarah evaluated going back into academics vs. continuing on the path as a blogger and book author
The amazing benefits and privileges that come with being book authors
A huge thank you to everyone who has shared reviews, left comments, connected with Stacy and Sarah in whatever way you have over the years - it all means so much
Sarah is working on book tour plans for The Healing Kitchen, stay tuned for details
And a big congratulations to Brent & Heather on their amazing wedding!
Thank you for checking in with Stacy and Sarah this week - we will be back next week!
Outro (19:39)
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Oct 8, 2015 • 1h 16min
Episode 164, Joshua Weissman
Intro (0:00)
News and Views (0:56)
Sarah listened to the show for a first time in a long time
Why Stacy and Sarah don't routinely listen to their show
Matt, feel free to interject bits and pieces into the show as you would like
Welcome Josh from Slim Palate
How and when Matt and Stacy first met Josh, and discovering his cookbook
Josh's guest post on the Paleo Parents site
Josh was a part of the Take Back Your Health Conference this year, and is actually in a movie that was screened at the event over the weekend, Revolution: Food movie
Made for perfect timing for him to make an appearance on The Paleo View while he is in town
Inspired by a recent post that Josh shared, Stacy thought it would be great to have him on the show to share more
What happens when Stacy records with show guests in person
Cole and Josh's love for the 'oh burn' moments
Cole interacting with people at the event and the feedback he shared with some of these movement leaders
The people who are in the movie and why the information they shared was so inspiring and why the concepts were so unique and new
The cinematography in the film is stunning, and the video will be available online in November ---> don't miss it here
More on the Post (16:30)
Losing so much weight so young and how that impacted Josh going through that process in a public setting
How weight-loss impacted Stacy over the years
Josh's original story
Lost over 100 pounds at age 16 and that was also when he started his blog
Stacy helped promote Josh's story because she was so moved by it
He published his book at 16 as well
Josh has OCD and got easily obsessed with body image the further he got into his journey
Body dysmorphia amongst teens, and especially with guys and how they deal with it
The anxiety it gave Josh to compare himself to the men's health magazines
Losing too much weight and when Josh first saw himself on film
How body dysmorphia messes with your head
Reaching out to lifting coaches for guidance on food intake
The fear of gaining weight and the mental challenge of needing to shift his dysmorphic mentality towards changing his habits
Refusing sugar for so long, despite not having a condition the required that sort of restriction
The trouble with the all or nothing mentality
The program Josh did during his weight-gaining process
How Josh now feels about his body and how he physically feels after putting on 70 pounds
Truly comfortable in his own skin now
His various emotions though the gain, and now he feels like he is just as he is supposed to be
Feeling mentally sharper and having better, consistent energy
Should vs. want
Loving our body and where it is at today
Josh's inspiration from Elliott Hulse
Building up off of something that is already good and making it stronger
The common issue with people transitioning one eating disorder to the next
The issue with orthorexia in the paleo community
The promise Josh made to himself to stay grounded in real food when working on his weight-gain
What Josh's suggestions are for those who are dealing with body dysmorphia and/or orthorexia
Stacy's post on disordered eating
Stacy's mindset around the "good foods" and the "bad foods" and how this thinking can backfire on her overall habits and goals
Being too harsh on yourself leads to anxiety
Knowing what choices you want to make for yourself on a daily basis
Strategies & Resources (54:43)
Josh reminds himself that he is nourishing his body to grow to avoid the anxiety that use to come with eating carbs and/or sugars
Mentally acknowledging yourself and giving yourself props when you are making progress
The power of positive self talk
Stacy's way of finding rechargers for her system that have nothing to do with food
Stacy also has always identified an accountably partner when she is working through a specific health challenge
Identifying the snowball foods
Sarah's top strategy is sleep
Sarah also thinks about how she looks through her husband's eyes
Making time for quality grown up time with your significant other is also important
How the lifestyle stuff impacts Sarah's relationship with food
Thank you to Josh for coming on this weeks show!
Be sure to visit Josh on his site Slim Palate and to checkout his cookbook as well
Also look into Revolution: Food movie
Thanks again - we will be back next week!
Outro (1:11:33)
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