

Real Talk, Whole Life
Cloud10
Welcome to Real Talk, Whole Life—part candid phone call with your nerdy best friends, part myth-busting, and entirely unfiltered. Wellness without the woo. Womanhood without the guilt. Wisdom from the fine folks who survived dial-up and low-fat lies.Host Stacy Toth brings honest, heartfelt conversations about what it means to live fully—in your body, your brain, and your messy, magical life. From midlife mayhem and mental health to Botox alternatives and book recs, we’re covering it all—with a side of sarcasm and a whole lot of heart.No shame. No pseudoscience. Just the kind of conversations you actually want to hear when you call a friend—especially if “wellness” has never quite felt like it was made for you.Rooted in womanhood, open to anyone who’s ever been side-eyed in a yoga studio. Come for the hot takes, stay for the healing.Real Talk, Whole Life is hosted by Stacy Toth, bestselling diet culture author turned anti-diet health at any size educator. Her goal is to create a safe space for all to explore their own version of wellness without the elitist self-focused woo woo. Previously The Whole View and The Paleo View, this evolution of the podcast is a reflection of the growth we all go through exploring being middle aged. Expect a wide variety of guests on an even greater variety of topics, but always inclusive ways for non-toxic living (mental and physical).
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Aug 5, 2025 • 22min
Cleaning House: the Politics of Clean Living w/ Lindsay Dahl
Lindsay Dahl returns to talk about her newly released book, Cleaning House—a witty, grounded, and practical guide to detoxing your home and your mindset.
We dive into the often-messy intersection of clean living, personal values, and public policy. From bipartisan wins to grassroots grit, Lindsay shares how everyday people can take action, stay hopeful, and find community in the chaos. This is your invitation to let go of perfection, lean into pragmatism, and maybe… still snack on Cheez-Its.
0:10 – Welcome and Lindsay’s book release!
1:30 – The deeper meaning behind clean living and navigating complexity and division
4:00 – Finding common ground, shared values across different communities
7:00 – Accountability in systems and leadership
8:30 – The power of individual advocacy
10:00 – Challenges and roadblocks in progress
10:45 – Small actions with big impact and what it takes to stay engaged
12:20 – What the book offers readers
13:30 – Letting go of perfection
15:00 – The importance of community
15:45 – Making this work more accessible
17:20 – Reading and reflecting together and the role of storytelling
19:50 – Encouragement from leaders in the field
21:00 – A hopeful path forward
19:50 – Recognition and support from leading environmental voices
21:00 – Ending with hope, encouragement, and gratitude
Find Lindsay:
lindsaydahl.com
instagram.com/lindsay_dahl
linkedin.com/in/lindsay-dahl-3617076
Get Lindsay's new book Cleaning House: The Fight to Rid Our Homes of Toxic Chemicals almost anywhere books are sold!
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jul 28, 2025 • 44min
Introducing our Monthly Book Report, Atmosphere by TJR
We're kicking off our first-ever book report episode—and yes, we’re calling it that on purpose. Because books have always been part of our whole life. I’m joined by my favorite reading partner: my husband, Matt. Together, we dive into stories that make us laugh, think, and ugly-cry in public.
We talk about what we’re reading (Margot's Got Money Troubles and Atmosphere, spoiler-free, promise). We also chat about how books shape our worldview, challenge our biases, and sometimes leave us sobbing on a treadmill—or doing laundry while quietly falling apart.
Whether you read with your partner or solo, whether you love audiobooks or prefer paperbacks, this episode is an invitation to think differently about fiction—and how the right story at the right time can shift everything.
0:00 | Why We’re Talking About Books
1:15 | Fiction That Surprises and Stretches Us
4:30 | Letting Go of Judgment (Even the Quiet Kind)
6:45 | Systems, Safety, and How We Care for Others
8:30 | How and Why We Read (Audiobooks, Shared Credits & Book Clubs)
11:30 | An Author We Love (and Why She’s More Than “Chick Lit”)
13:00 | Space, Sexism, and Historical Power
17:00 | What Draws Us Into a Story (Even When It’s Not Our Thing)
19:15 | Identity, Safety, and Belonging
21:45 | Choosing Between Love and Purpose
23:30 | Emotional Payoff (Without Spoilers)
25:00 | When a Book Wrecks You—in the Best Way
27:00 | Crafting Characters That Actually Matter
30:00 | Layers of Family, Friendship, and Social Pressure
33:00 | Villains, Compassion, and Personal Growth
35:00 | What We’re Reading Now
41:00 | Our Love Story, Told in Audiobooks
43:00 | What’s Next on Our Reading List
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jul 28, 2025 • 38min
Camp Shame: Tiger King, But Make It Fat Camp
The tenacious Kelsey Snelling is back to give us the inside scoop on the viral Camp Shame podcast. What started as a documentary project over a decade ago has become a genre-blending podcast that unpacks the rise and fall of Camp Shane, the infamous weight loss camp for kids, many epsiodes in which I'm featured!
Stacy and Kelsey go deep on what it means to tell the truth when shame is baked into the story. We talk about the creative shift from film to podcasting, the surprising reach of Camp Shame, and the vulnerability that surfaces when you share your story without being on camera.
Expect everything from behind-the-scenes chaos to family feuds, diet culture takedowns, and the emotional aftershocks that follow you well into adulthood. It’s messy, it’s real, and it’s necessary.
If you’ve ever felt unseen in your experience with body image, shame, or being the “before” in someone else’s narrative—this one’s for you. And if you think this conversation doesn’t apply to you… you might be the exact person who needs to listen.
0:00 | Origin Story: From Documentary to Podcast
3:00 | Safety in Audio: Vulnerability Without the Visuals
6:00 | Unexpected Reach: Who’s Really Listening?
9:00 | Audience Response: Validation, Gaslighting, and Shared Truths
12:00 | Genre-Bending: True Crime Meets Diet Culture Meets Cult
15:00 | Behind the Gates: Camp Shane's Real Impact
18:00 | The Ripple Effect: Trauma Beyond Camp Walls
21:00 | Sneaky Education: How Storytelling Sparks Awareness
24:00 | Trolls, Trolls Everywhere: Real-World Fatphobia
29:00 | You Don’t Know What Someone’s Going Through
34:00 | Call to Action + Listener Stories
Find the Camp Shame podcast on any of your favorite platforms!
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jul 28, 2025 • 43min
Snake Oil or Science: The Truth About Wellness Trends with Dr. Joshua Levitt
We’re back with science-based naturopathic doctor, Dr. Josh Levitt. No, it doesn’t have to be an oxymoron - he’s a myth-buster extraordinaire and this conversation is all about finding the truth in the mess of modern wellness. From essential oils and detoxes to gallbladder flushes and ear candles, we get into what’s actually helpful, what’s hype, and why so many people get caught in the middle.
Dr. Josh and I talk about the nuance that often gets lost in clickbait culture — how real healing usually lives in the gray space between conventional and natural medicine. He shares how his own journey (which involves a blister, a Swiss pharmacy, and a serious wake-up call) shaped his approach to integrative care. And we dig into why people fall for bad health advice, how to spot the red flags, and what you can do instead.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by conflicting health info or frustrated by medical systems that leave out the whole picture, this episode is for you.
00:00 | Meet Dr. Josh Levitt (Again)
02:30 | Medicine as a Bridge, Not a Binary
05:50 | The Problem with Extremes in Wellness
08:50 | Snake Oil: The Origin Story
12:05 | Essential Oils: Helpful or Hype?
17:15 | Buyer Beware: Scams, Grifters & the Gray Area
21:15 | Ear Candles: A Hot Mess (Literally)
26:00 | Gallbladder Flushes & Detox Culture
33:30 | Life After Gallbladder Surgery: What No One Tells You
39:15 | Why We’re Still So Sick
Find Dr. Josh:
upwellness.com
instagram.com/drjoshlevitt
tiktok.com/@drjoshlevitt
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jul 28, 2025 • 48min
Burned Out, Gassed Up (Lit?), and Still Going Strong
Author, entrepreneur, mom, previous guest, and good friend Jennifer Robins built a wellness brand while her health was quietly wrecking her life. And no, just trying harder didn’t fix it.
In this episode, Jen gets real about what it’s like to share publicly while barely holding it together behind the scenes. We talk about chronic illness, medical gaslighting, the pressure to “stay on brand” when your body is screaming for help, and the full-body burnout that finally made her say: “I’m done.” And how she’s doing now, after it all.
It’s about deciding you’re not going to pretend anymore—online or off. If you’re tired of wellness content that feels like performance art, this one’s for you.
0:00 | When Tech Trouble Mirrors Life Transitions
4:30 | Scams, Social Loss, and the Quiet Grief of Losing a Digital Self
9:00 | Leaving the Internet Behind to Find Yourself
14:30 | The Problem with Platforms That Reward Pain
22:00 | Relearning Food, Health, and Forgiveness
34:30 | Childhood Trauma, Emotional Wiring & Reclaiming Peace
44:30 | Joy as Resistance: Madison’s Bracelets and the Gift of Delight
Find Jen:
instagram.com/jenniferlaurenbaileyrobins
legitbreadcompany.com
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jul 28, 2025 • 1h 4min
ADHD, Feminism, Kinship Adoption, and Your Netflix Queue
What happens when you start off talking about bad TV and end up unpacking the moment you left your PhD program to raise your sisters after your mom died? In this episode, Stacy and Daynah take the scenic route—from media criticism to the motherhood nobody plans for, plus body politics, feminist memes, and why gratitude (ugh, fine) actually works. There’s a dog named Manly, a shoutout to a very meaningful pile of office poop, and a whole lot of “this should be a book” energy.
It’s cozy chaos meets big clarity—just the way we like it.
0:00 | Homework, Hustle & What Sirens Didn’t Deliver
8:30 | The Scene That Hit Too Hard
10:00 | Losing the Life You Had for the Life That Needed You
18:00 | The Dog That Changed Everything
24:30 | What 'Hacks' Gets Right (and What It Misses)
35:00 | Cultural Criticism as Feminist Practice
50:00 | On Seasons, Survival, and Letting Things Be Simple
54:00 | Gratitude as Grounding: A Morning Practice That Stuck
58:00 | The Magic (Yes, That One)
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jun 27, 2025 • 1h 1min
Why This, Why Now?
What happens when your best friend of 22 years is a feminist pop culture critic who left social media—and you decide to give her a microphone? Pure magic. In this episode, Stacy sits down with her longtime bestie Daynah Burnett to get real about everything from TikTok slang confusion and “Love is Blind” hot takes to why reality TV might be secretly good for your emotional intelligence.
They unpack the state of media, generational drama (yes, your mom did mess up your bangs and your boundaries), emotional intelligence on screen, and why Pedro Pascal is everyone’s daddy. It’s sharp, hilarious, occasionally spicy, and exactly the kind of late-night-deep-dive-energy your group text wishes it had.
Spoiler alert: there are actual spoilers. For “The Last of Us,” “Hacks,” “Love on the Spectrum,” and probably whatever you’re watching next.
00:00 | Introducing Daynah + Friendship Origins
02:00 | English Majors, Feminism, and Cultural Criticism
06:00 | Career in Tech, Leaving Social Media, and Ethical Work
11:00 | Social Media, Teen Slang, and Digital Overload
16:00 | Pop Culture Consumption Without Social Media
21:00 | The Last of Us, Grief, and Emotional Intelligence in TV
27:00 | Generational Trauma in Media: Hacks + Representation
32:00 | Reality TV as Emotional Modeling: Love on the Spectrum
38:00 | Neurodivergent Representation + Viewer Bias Awareness
44:00 | Recommendations: The Rehearsal, Sirens, The Goat, Studio
50:00 | Book Recs, Celebrity Bios, and Pandemic Storytelling
55:00 | Celebrity Encounters + Shared Memories
58:00 | Closing Thoughts + Listener Invitation
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jun 27, 2025 • 30min
Rethinking 'Clean' Living with Lindsay Dahl
What if the most toxic thing in your home isn’t a chemical—but a mindset?
Clean living advocate and first-time author Lindsay Dahl returns to unpack the nuanced middle ground of wellness, environmental health, and personal agency. Together, we explore the emotional toll of trying to “do it all right,” the dangers of black-and-white thinking in the age of social media, and why real change takes both individual action and systemic accountability.
We talk spatulas and seed oils, fast fashion and flame retardants, fear and freedom—and why being a pragmatist in today’s digital landscape is both radical and necessary.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed by wellness culture or simply want to think more critically about what’s in your home and how it gets there, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and a call to thoughtful action.
0:00 | Framing the Problem with Balance
2:20 | Education, Policy, and the Role of Media
5:40 | Health vs. Science: A Cultural Disconnect
8:06 | Control, Consumerism, and Systemic Change
11:25 | Fast Fashion as a Microcosm
14:12 | Inside “Cleaning House”: Book Preview
18:41 | The Cost of Speaking Up
23:38 | Reclaiming Community and Dialogue
26:25 | Closing and Call to Action
Find Lindsay:
lindsaydahl.com
instagram.com/lindsay_dahl
linkedin.com/in/lindsay-dahl-3617076
Pre-order Lindsay's book "Cleaning House: The Fight to Rid Our Homes of Toxic Chemicals" almost anywhere books are sold, releases 8/5/25
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jun 27, 2025 • 40min
Diets Didn't Work. This Did.
What if you could ditch diet culture and feel amazing in your body? In this episode, Stacy talks with the ever-wise Alicia Stafford—aka the queen of “your way” weight loss—for a conversation that’s as real as it gets. Together, they talk about the messy middle of healing from disordered eating, making peace with food (yes, even dessert!), and finding a path to wellness that actually feels good.
We’re talking orthorexia, intuitive eating, body trust, and how to let go of the toxic rules we’ve been taught to follow. This one’s part truth-telling, part pep talk, and full of those “OMG, me too!” moments. If you've ever struggled with food, body image, or just want to feel at home in your skin—pull up a chair. You’re not alone, and freedom is possible.
00:00 | Welcome + Why This Conversation Matters
03:00 | Disordered Eating Histories & Breaking the Cycle
07:45 | What "Your Way" Really Means
11:15 | Intuition, Scarcity Mindset & Food Freedom
17:00 | Letting Go of Control + Listening to Your Body
24:30 | Weight Gain, Ozempic, and Owning Your Story
28:25 | Healing Without an Audience
35:20 | The Mindset Conversation + Next Steps
DISCLAIMER: This episode contains open and personal discussions about eating disorders and weight, including orthorexia, bulimia, binge eating, and weight loss. Please listen with care, especially if you are in recovery or currently struggling. The conversation is based on lived experiences and is not intended as medical advice. If you need support, reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or a licensed mental health professional. You're worth it.
Find Alicia:
Instagram
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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Jun 27, 2025 • 43min
From Myth-Busting to Meaning
Ever feel like you're trying to hold it all together while the internet yells at you about seed oils? Same.
In this episode, Stacy and Sarah are back together—real talk style—to unpack what happens when you're burned out on busting myths and crave more meaning. From internet trolls to emotional spoons, from doomscrolling to baby goats, we cover the full spectrum of what it looks like to live in the chaos and still make space for joy.
We talk about the shift from fighting diet culture head-on to reclaiming creativity, community, and calm. Whether it's ceramics, improv, or just a well-made smoothie, this one’s about finding what fills your cup (and letting go of what drains it).
00:00 | Reclaiming Meaningful Conversations
01:10 | Trolls, Trust, and Online Fatigue
02:24 | Leaving Diet Culture Behind
05:04 | Curating Your Social Media for Mental Health
08:50 | The Cost of Doomscrolling & Emotional Bandwidth
13:15 | Ceramics, Creativity, and Self-Reclamation
23:23 | Why Creative Hobbies Are Mental Health Tools
29:05 | Setting Boundaries and Choosing Joy
32:34 | Rebuilding Community and Redefining Purpose
35:43 | Letting Go of Expectations, Embracing the Present
Find Dr. Sarah:
nutrivore.com
youtube.com/c/drsarahballantyne
instagram.com/drsarahballantyne
facebook.com/drsarahballantyne
tiktok.com/@drsarahballantyne
threads.com/@drsarahballantyne
Find Stacy:
realeverything.com
instagram.com/realstacytoth
missionmakersart.com
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