Who We Remember

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Kjartan Jansen, cofounder of Graddha, a wealth dynamics coaching firm.Kjartan's pick: His paternal grandfather, Jan Holst JansenSound Bites- "It's fascinating to have this time to talk about."- "Norwegians aren't particularly good at talking about feelings.- "He was very stressed out."If you prefer, you can listen to the show on any of the major podcast platforms. Or use our RSS Feed to subscribe to your preferred platform. Be sure to subscribe to ensure you receive the latest episode every two weeks.SummaryIn this conversation, Jamie Yuenger and Kjartan Jansen explore the life of Kjartan's grandfather, a resistance fighter during World War II in Norway. They discuss the impact of war on personal identity, the complexities of family history, and the lessons learned from past experiences. Kjartan reflects on his grandfather's legacy and how it inspires him to stand up for what is right, while also considering the trauma that may have influenced his grandfather's decisions. The conversation delves into the importance of storytelling and understanding one's roots, as well as the aspirations for future generations.About KjartanOriginally from Norway, Kjartan is the co-founder of Graddha, a wealth dynamics coaching firm, which he runs alongside his wife, Marlis. After two decades in finance, he now helps clients define their values and navigate the complex relational landscape of significant wealth and families. He lives in the San Francisco Bay area and is a passionate surfer, skier, and mountain biker.On this episode, Kjartan will be talking about his paternal grandfather, Jan Holst Jansen. His grandfather passed away many years ago when Kjartan was young. But the story goes that his grandfather Jan was part of the Norwegian resistance during World War II, meaning his grandfather, along with many other young men, nearly 5,000 of them, fled into the Norwegian forest to evade orders to register for service under Germany during the Second World War. After the war, his grandfather was a judge. He disagreed with how many innocents were thrown in with the sympathizers and collaborators, so he quit his law practice and took over his father's furniture shop.Kjartan has been so curious about what those years and his grandfather's life were like. In fact, in preparing for this conversation, he and his father finally visited the resistance museum in Oslo.Takeaways- Kjartan's grandfather was a resistance fighter during WWII.- Norwegians historically struggle to discuss their feelings.- The trauma of war can have lasting effects on identity. Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Dirk Jungé, the former Chairman and CEO of PitcairnDirk's pick: His father, James JungéSound Bites- "Your enthusiasm for life is contagious."- "He was the first non-blood family leader."- "His humble background is important."If you prefer, you can listen to the show on any of the major podcast platforms. Or use our RSS Feed to subscribe to your preferred platform. Be sure to subscribe to ensure you receive the latest episode every two weeks.SummaryIn this conversation, Dirk Jungé shares profound insights about his father, James, who rose from humble beginnings to become a significant leader in the Pitcairn family enterprise. Dirk reflects on the values instilled in him by his father, the importance of mentorship, and the lessons learned from their close relationship. He discusses the significance of family dynamics, the principles that guided his father's life, and how these have influenced his own journey in business and personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the importance of storytelling and documenting family legacies, culminating in Dirk's recent achievement of publishing a book that captures these experiences and lessons.About DirkWith over 30 years of leadership in the family office world, Dirk’s been a driving force in the industry. As the former Chairman and CEO of Pitcairn, he helped transform his family’s business into a global leader in wealth management. But Dirk’s story is about more than just numbers. He’s a fourth-generation member of the Pitcairn family, which means he’s faced the same questions a lot of successful families wrestle with: How do you divide wealth fairly among future generations without losing the integrity of your family business? How do you make sure the legacy stays intact? Back in 1987, Dirk helped his family tackle these issues head-on when they shifted from managing their own wealth to helping other families protect theirs. Outside of the office, Dirk’s passions are passionate and varied. He’s got a love for motorcycles, adventure, and giving back through philanthropy. And if he ever gets a month off, you might find him flying a helicopter out west, riding his Harley through the mountains, or camping off the grid. His recent book Preserving Multigenerational Wealth: How to Lead a Flourishing Family EnterpriseTakeaways- Dirk's father was a mentor and role model.- Humble beginnings can lead to great achievements.- The Eisenhower principle influenced Dirk's values.- Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal growth.- Procrastination can hinder persoSend us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Jennifer East, Founder of Onida Family AdvisorsJennifer's pick: Her father, Maury EastSound Bites- "How did that matter? What was the impact? What were his emotional reactions?"- "How did you imagine that you could make all of this happen simultaneously?"- "Every morning for years and years, he would get up every day at 5:30 and he would go running."SummaryJennifer East discusses her father, Maury East, and the mysteries surrounding his early life. She expresses her curiosity about his emotional reactions and the impact of his experiences. Jennifer reflects on her father's determination, courage, and sense of adventure, which led him to join the Royal Canadian Air Force and become an entrepreneur in the resort business. She also shares memories of her father and the lessons she learned from him. Jennifer sees similarities between herself and her father, particularly in their internal and external adventures. She would tell her father that it's okay that there are still mysteries surrounding his past and that he accomplished incredible things despite his challenging start in life.About JenniferJennifer East is the founder of Onida Family Advisors. She is passionate about helping global families transition wealth, businesses and the values that drive their success. She believes that understanding the human dynamic – that is, what happens within us and between us – makes everything else possible. Jennifer began her professional journey as a rising generation leader in her own family business, and now guides clients to improve family dynamics, integrate diverse cultural influences and strengthen family governance practices. She also inspires the rising generation, women, and sibling/cousin teams to thrive through personal and leadership development.Takeaways- Curiosity about family history can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and others.- The impact of experiences and emotional reactions are important aspects of personal stories.- Determination and courage can help overcome obstacles and achieve success.- Lessons learned from parents can shape one's own choices and values.Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Jake Knight, Co-founder of Enclave, a community for the Rising GenJake's pick: His grandpa, Thayne Knight Sound Bites- "My grandpa was such a kind, fun, loving, gentle man."- "I would have loved to talk to my grandpa about the impact that his brother's drowning had on him.- "He loved to work hard and to help and really, at a deeper level, it's about serving others and being genuinely helpful."SummaryJake Knight shares his desire to have his grandfather's life story documented on film. He describes his grandfather as a kind, loving, and gentle man who was always present and loved to serve others. Jake recalls spending a lot of time with his grandfather Thayne and the positive impact he had on his life. He also mentions his grandfather's work ethic, attention to detail, and the importance of relationships. Jake reflects on the qualities he admires in his grandfather and how they influence his own life and leadership at Enclave.About Jake Driven by a passion for authentic connections and diverse experiences, Jake leads Enclave, a curated community for Rising Gen peers. He’s deeply committed to meaningful relationships, personal growth, and spreading kindness.Jake grew up in Utah in an environment that was both intense and confusing, with his father founding and taking a company public during his formative years. Despite the challenges, Jake’s sensitivity and adaptability have shaped the person he is today.Takeaways- The importance of documenting and preserving family life stories.- The positive impact of a loving and present grandparent.- The value of hard work and service.- The significance of relationships in personal and professional life.Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Fredda Herz Brown, Founding Principal, Author, Public Speaker, Guest Lecturer and Family-Enterprise Expert at Relative SolutionsFredda's pick: Her mother Selma Harriet NedenbergSound Bites- "Acknowledging her existence by saying her name and by honoring her and remembering her"- "She never compared us. She never said to me, 'Your sister did this, why can't you do that?''- "She wanted to choose her time, go peacefully where she still was in connection with people"SummaryIn this conversation, Fredda Herz Brown discusses her mother's life story and the impact she had on her. Fredda chose to talk about her mother because her life story was not clear and she wanted to honor her and acknowledge her existence. She also talks about the importance of saying a person's name to mark their life. Fredda describes her mother as a thoughtful and purposeful person who put a lot of energy into her children. She shares a letter her mother wrote on Mother's Day expressing her love and admiration for her children. Fredda also discusses her mother's intentional passing and how she planned for her last chapter. She reflects on the lasting impact her mother has had on her and the importance of being thoughtful about how she wants to be remembered.About FreddaFredda Herz Brown is a renowned expert in working with enterprising families and their advisors, with a notable career spanning over 35 years. As a co-founder of a prestigious postgraduate training center in family systems work, she conducted some of the early research on successful generational transitions. She is an accomplished author, speaker, and workshop facilitator. Known for her first book Reweaving the Family Tapestry, Fredda collaborated with Dr. Fran Lotery on the Family Wealth Sustainability Toolkit and most recently wrote The Essential Roadmap: Navigating Family Enterprise Sustainability, which outlines a model for family enterprise long term sustainability. Fredda is one of 5 children and mother of two, grandmother of 7, originally a nurse and then a psychologist, entrepreneur.Takeaways- The importance of acknowledging and honoring a person's existence by saying their name. - The impact a thoughtful and purposeful personSend us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Josh Kanter, founder of leafplanner, lawyer, family office executive, advisor to other multi-generational familiesJosh's pick: His father Burt KanterSound Bites- "The profound influence of a father's legacy on the life of his son."- "The impact of a relentless pursuit by the IRS on a family and their relationships."- "The importance of preserving and sharing family stories and legacies for future generations."SummaryIn this episode of "Who We Remember," host Jamie Yuenger sits down with Josh Kanter. Josh shares the fascinating life story of his father, Burt Kanter, a renowned tax lawyer who faced a relentless pursuit by the Internal Revenue Service. Josh reflects on why he chose his dad as the most influential figure he wishes to have documented on film. He shares poignant memories of Burt's profound impact on his family and his own life, even decades after his passing. Josh paints a vivid picture of his father's vibrant personality and remarkable journey from humble beginnings, a son of Eastern European immigrants to the US, he made his way to the top of his career (and helped define the profession itself).  Burt Kanter legally represented the Pritzker family, the founder of the adult magazine, Penthouse, Bob Guiccione, as well as many Hollywood producers.About JoshJosh is a lawyer, family office executive, advisor to other multi-generational families, and recently he became an entrepreneur as well, building an information aggregation platform designed to help families like his own. A devoted husband, father, dog parent, golfer, skier, and runner, Josh is an engaging and engaged guy. He loves to help families and make their lives easier and better.When Josh was a kid, he was in awe of his father. He wanted to work with him and he wanted to be as respected as his dad was. In another way though, he grew up in his dad’s shadow and put huge expectations on himself. Coming to grips with all of that, and seeing it lead to where he is today, brings a smile to his face.Josh's stories about his dad and his relationship with him are a testament to the huge power that our mother and father's lives have on our own.Takeaways- The profound influence of a father's legacy on the life of his son.- The impact of a relentless pursuit by the IRS on a family and their relationships.- The importance of preserving and sharing family stories and legacies for future generations.Quote"I was in awe of my father, loved him, wanted to work with him, wanted to be as respected as he was. In another sense, also grew up in his shadow and put huge expectations on myself. Coming to grips with all of that, and seeing it all lead Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Christian Broyhill,  Founder at NextGen JourneysChristian's pick: Her nanny Dawn, the woman who raised her Sound Bites- "She brought fun."- "Thank you, Jesus."- "She just was love."SummaryChristian shares the story of Dawn, a woman who played a motherly role in her life. She reflects on the intertwining stories of her biological mother and Dawn, and how their love and influence shaped her. Christian describes Dawn's joy, delight, and love for simple things in life, as well as her dedication to her and her brother. She expresses her gratitude for Dawn's presence and the stability she provided. Christian also discusses her evolving perspective on her biological mother, acknowledging her struggles and the profound love she showed by allowing Dawn to raise her. She contemplates the questions she would ask Dawn if given the chance and the impact she has had on her life.About ChristianChristian operates NextGen Journeys. She guides important conversations around mental health and resiliency for family enterprises. She especially enjoys working with NextGen family members to help them discern their personal identity in light of their larger family narrative. Christian has a masters degree in clinical mental health counseling and is an accredited enneagram practitioner. When not working, Christian enjoys hiking with her daughter and singing with the Duke Evensong Singers at Duke Chapel. As a kid, Christian had a whole village of imaginary friends, and spent most of her time with Gaston, from Beauty and the Beast. He went with her everywhereTakeaways- The love and influence of a mother figure can shape a person's life and provide stability.- Delight and joy in simple things can bring lightness and positivity to difficult situations.- Understanding and compassion for the struggles of others can lead to healing and forgiveness.- The intertwining stories of different mother figures can create a complex and meaningful narrative.- The sacrifices made by a mother figure can be a profound expression of love.Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Liam McCormick, Liam's pick: His father James McCormickSound Bites"Knowing something of my past helps me make sense of who I am.""How did my grandfather make the life choices he made?""The wisdom of being content, but keep pushing."SummaryLiam McCormick discusses his desire to document the life story of his grandfather, James McCormick. Liam reflects on the importance of knowing one's family history and how it can help make sense of oneself. He shares his curiosity about his grandfather's experiences as an immigrant and his motivations for the life choices he made. Liam also expresses his desire to learn from his grandfather's wisdom and seek advice on navigating  the transitions and challenges of life. He envisions this podcast as a way to pass on family values and inspire his own children.About LiamLiam is British, but fell in love with an American woman. He and his wife have three sons together. Liam spent the first 16 years of his life working in the British army, and he later started a career in the nonprofit sector. Today, he is the executive director and senior strategist of UBS Bank's Family Advisor and Philanthropy Services. He sits on the America's team. When Liam was a kid, his family moved a lot and they moved to the Middle East. It was a hugely impressive and transformational time and experience for him with new sites, new smells, new foods and lifestyle.TakeawaysKnowing one's family history can help make sense of oneself and provide a sense of identity.Documenting the life story of a family member can pass on family values and inspire future generations.Seeking wisdom and advice from older generations can help navigate the challenges and transitions of life.Understanding the experiences of immigrants can provide insights into resilience and adaptation.Sharing personal stories and experiences can convey values and inspire others.Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Tom McCullough, Chairman and CEO of Northwood Family Office.Tom's pick: His father Fred McCulloughSound Bites- "He was a real jokester."- "This is Fred McCullough, heir to the McCullough millions."- "Humor is a very, very big part of who we are."SummaryTom McCullough reflects on his father, Fred McCullough, and the impact he had on his life. Fred was a humble and humorous person who grew up in a large family and faced poverty. He transitioned from working on a farm to becoming a successful industrial real estate salesman. Tom admires his father's humility, tenderness, and hospitality, and aspires to embody those qualities. He also values his parents' strong and loving marriage. Tom wishes he could ask his father about the secrets to their successful marriage and how he found a balance between work and life.About TomTom McCullough is a renowned figure in the field of wealth management, with a distinguished career as an author, educator, and thought leader. His insights and contributions have shaped the industry. And he's earned some incredible accolades, including best individual contribution to thought leadership in the wealth management industry for North America from 2020 out of the Family Wealth Report Awards.TakeawaysGrowing up in a large family and facing poverty shaped Fred's character and values.Fred transitioned from working on a farm to becoming a successful industrial real estate salesman.ResourcesBooks & articles by Tom McCullough:- Wealth of Wisdom 1.0 - The Top 50 Questions Wealthy Families Ask- Wealth os Wisdom 2.0 - Top Practices for Wealthy Families and Their Advisors- Family Wealth Management - Seven Imperatives for Successful Investing- The Rise of the Integrated Advisor -  [pub. The Journal of Wealth Management]Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here

We ask each of our guests a simple yet profound question: "Whose life story from your own family would you most want to have documented on film?"Today's guest: Bryn Monahan, family enterprise consultant and inheritor. Bryn's pick: Her aunt Elaine from her mom's side. Sound Bites- "She told herself a positive story instead of a negative story."- "She didn't let life get in the way of living."- "Elaine's impact: I want to make sure that I stay connected with my cousins and prioritize my family."SummaryBryn Monahan shares the story of her aunt Elaine, a vibrant and resilient woman who overcame challenges and lived life to the fullest. Elaine was deaf and battled cancer, but she never let these obstacles define her. She was known for her extroverted personality, love of parties, and zest for life. Bryn admires Elaine's mental toughness and perseverance, and she strives to embody these qualities in her own life. Elaine's impact on Bryn's family and her close relationships with her cousins have inspired Bryn to prioritize family and stay connected with her loved ones. Bryn would love to capture Elaine's story and preserve her legacy for future generations.About BrynBryn Monahan is a Family Enterprise Consultant. She's an expert in communication, leadership, and planning for the future of family enterprises. Bryn sits on the boards of Foster Holdings Inc. and FAM Legacy Solutions. Before that, she led a Family Investment Group called 5/4ths.Bryn grew up in Houston, Texas and Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. As a kid, Bryn loved climbing trees, swimming and playing basketball - basically, she was always always on the move. TakeawaysDon't let obstacles define you; choose a positive story for yourself.Embrace life and live every moment to the fullest.Prioritize family and stay connected with loved ones.Preserve the stories and legacies of our loved ones for future generations.Send us a textJoin UsVisit us at storykeep.com/podcast to learn more about how StoryKeep is preserving family histories. Subscribe on your favorite platform to catch new episodes released bi-weekly, available in both audio and video formats. Join me, Jamie Yuenger, as we go on a journey of remembrance and discovery, celebrating the stories of those we cherish. Don’t miss our enriching journey—subscribe today and be part of "Who We Remember."CreditsProduced by Jamie Yuenger and Piet Hurkmans. Our show’s musical intro and outro is taken from the track “Thursday” by the independent artist Nick Takénobu Ogawa. You can listen and support his music on bandcamp here