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Apr 13, 2022 • 13min
How to Beat Mental Resistance + Wannabe Rock Stars — Tripp Lanier
If your current path is challenging or scary, does that mean you’re on the wrong path?
How can we keep mental resistance from killing our confidence?
And what does this have to do with Tripp’s wannabe rock star days?
In today’s video we discuss how to beat mental resistance. We’ll learn some basic steps to overcome self doubt and do what truly matters.
In this video:
Tripp’s wannabe rock star days
Why mental resistance shows up
The 3 commitments that keep us stuck
The cost of letting resistance win
5 steps to get back on track
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/04/how-to-beat-mental-resistance
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 30, 2022 • 13min
The Ego is Not the Enemy? — Tripp Lanier
What if our ego is not the enemy?
What if trying to kill our ego is killing our peace of mind?
And what does this have to do with Peacemaker, Team America, and goofy superheroes?
A deeper look into IFS and Richard Schwartz.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/ego-not-the-enemy
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 15, 2022 • 1h 9min
Startup Founder Mindset – David Perel’s Racing Rollercoaster Continues
Have you ever had your dream opportunity pulled out from under you?
Do you try to do everything yourself or do you train others how to help?
And if you’re moving into the next phase of your professional life, how can you leverage your existing skills to your advantage?
Professional racing driver and startup founder, David Perel is back. His last interview was one of my favorites. It’s such a crazy story full of ups and downs. I highly recommend you check that one out.
Well, since that last talk, things for him got even wilder.
Today we’re going to hear how his dream to race at Le Mans was crushed not once but twice; the emotions he felt when that dream became a reality; and how Covid challenged him to unexpectedly build a business that ended up exploding in growth.
But beyond that we’re going to drill into his mindset as a startup founder and competitor. We’ll learn how he’s had to mature and tame some of his demons in order to grow instead of become a liability to himself.
In this interview:
- Would you skip meals so you could pay to do your dream job?
- Learning to recognize opportunities
- How his opportunity jeopardized his future marriage
- Do you act on your ideas quickly or do they just fade away?
- Leveraging previous experiences and expertise
Plus:
- Do your insecurities hold you back?
- Who are you afraid will judge you?
- Finding motivation
- Dealing with loss as a professional
- The brass balls of racing drivers like Kevin Estre and Laurens Vanthoor
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/03/startup-founder-mindset-david-perel
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 1, 2022 • 14min
Kelly Slater and a Healthy Competitor Mindset — Tripp Lanier
Do you ever get burned out striving for more, more, more?
Do you ever find yourself comparing yourself or your accomplishments to others?
And what can we learn from the GOAT of professional surfing — Kelly Slater — about motivation and healthy competition?
In this short video, we explore the shadow side of our competitive nature plus the 3 steps to using our competitive drive in a healthy way.
In this video:
- Kelly Slater and the 2022 Pipeline Masters
- Burnout from competitive mindset
- Why losses can sting so bad
- Reinventing ourselves
- Another way to approach competition
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/competitor-mindset-kelly-slater
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Feb 15, 2022 • 11min
The Magical Steak Story: Dangers of a Magical Mindset — Tripp Lanier
Do some people seem to have magical powers?
Or do they just have a skill you may not have yet?
And what does this have to do with a mysterious object found in a toilet?
Today we discuss how magical thinking keeps us playing small and what we can do to build confidence and skill.
In this video:
- Putting people on a pedestal
- How magical thinking keeps us in a victim mentality
- Hiding under our mother’s skirt
- Shifting our mindset to build confidence and skill
- One of my disgusting pranks
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/02/magical-mindset
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Feb 1, 2022 • 17min
The 3 Keys to Clarity: Finding Direction and Alignment — Tripp Lanier
Do you have a gnawing feeling that you’re not “on track”?
In this short video, I discuss the 3 step process that helps me and my coaching clients find clarity, alignment, and peace of mind.
In this video:
- Why so many folks feel lost
- Why I was terrified after selling my first company
- Why waiting for the perfect plan is a trap
- How does money impact a purposeful life?
- Why procrastination isn’t always lazinesst
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/finding-clarity
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Jan 18, 2022 • 17min
Why Did They Call Me Cat Squeeze? Productivity and Outgrowing Your Life — Tripp Lanier
Have you ever wondered why some folks call me ‘cat squeeze’?
Probably not, but we’re doing to talk about it anyway.
Today we discuss outgrowing old identities, finding our aliveness, and why our need to be more productive might be more about who we are vs how much we can do.
In this short video:
- My cat’s constipation and my role in relieving him
- Constantly busy but never feeling like you’ve done enough
- Striving for more, more, more
- Leading your own life vs stuck in expectations
- 3 steps to shift into a more powerful mindset
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2022/01/outgrow-your-life
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Dec 14, 2021 • 57min
Dealbreakers: Are You Roommates or Lovers? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Are you and your main squeeze lovers or just roommates?
Is being lovers a priority or an afterthought?
And what puts the brakes on your sex life?
Today Alyson and I talk about the roles we play in our relationships — being roommates, business partners, co-parents, buddies — and how these roles kill our sex life.
We also discuss ways to put our relationship problems into perspective so that we can identify what is truly a dealbreaker.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/12/sex-life
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Nov 30, 2021 • 39min
My Wife Challenges Me to Go Big — Tripp and Alyson Lanier
Are you holding yourself back from the life and work you truly want?
Do your fears of rejection or going broke keep you playing small?
And would others think you were weird if they knew what truly lights you up?
Today, my wife Alyson challenges me to go big. In this conversation, she pushes me to be more transparent about the work I feel called to do, we explore what keeps me playing small, and you’ll hear why IFS founder Richard Schwartz probably won’t talk to me anymore.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/self-leadership-ifs
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Nov 16, 2021 • 1h
Do You Fear Your Ambition? (Part 4) – Brian Johnson
Are your goals too ambitious or are you holding yourself back?
What is the opposite of imposter syndrome?
And is there anyone in your life who challenges you to get out of your way?
Optimize and Heroic founder, Brian Johnson returns for part 4 in our series that explores his growth process for launching a company aimed at changing the world. In today’s conversation we talk about ambition, assessing risk, and ensuring that we’re operating from our inner wisdom instead of our inner Johnny Knoxville (no offense Johnny).
Brian has recently unlocked his flagship program Optimize. This incredible collection of book summaries, courses, and masterclasses is now completely free. It’s an incredible value. You can learn more by visiting optimize.me/thenewman.
In this episode:
The fear of going big
Imposter syndrome
Working with Phil Stutz on ambition
Tapping into infinite possibility
The key to confidence
Plus:
How do you build trust within yourself?
Who within you is setting your goals?
What are you called to do?
Assessing risk
Are your risks dumb or courageous?
And:
Are you willing to eat “death cookies”?
Do you only listen to people who agree with you?
Who challenges you to think big?
Is your ego an enemy or an ally?
What do you do to access your most confident self?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2021/11/brian-johnson-ambition
You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download.
https://thenewmanpodcast.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com
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