Results & Relationships

Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. Embracing reality for a new, more effective way   I deeply believe in focusing on the one thing until success (quote from my friend John Lee Dumas) and I've had multiple casts about the power of saying no. Say no, guarding … Continue reading Gratitude for others no? Benefits of making it easy for others to say no. →

VR – Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness I believe the most common way to major success is helping others. Letting go of that self-centredness that envelop us all when we are in deep stress for example. And I'm sure you feel that it's not distributed equally around … Continue reading Virtual Reality means business of Generosity, might even help move away from Self-centredness →

Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building Corporations invests enormous amounts of "could have been results" into meetings, and most of those are over the phone, web conferences and other semi-virtual ways to connect. Globalisations have increased this way of working even more. At the same time, most of us are aware of the … Continue reading Virtual Reality effects on Business and relationship building →

Help-Others and Self-Help I often think about how come the amount of teachings around "Helping Others" is not anything near the amount of exposure of people, method and processes to "Self-Help". When I looked at Categories in two different Quote-Sites I found 300 "Helping Others" Quotes and 4000 for "Self-Help". Likewise when I shopped digital … Continue reading Help-Others and Self-Help →

Your way is understandable   Sometimes it feels hard to accept the method of path taken by someone else. Accept their way, their reasoning. Doesn't mean you have to accept the results OR hurts or thinks you see in your perspective along their way, along their path, along your projection of their path. That's the … Continue reading Your way is understandable →

Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? The most brilliant minds of our era invests their time and attention in creating better and better clickbait to get everyone else to invest time and attention "ON" their clickbait and the tracking trail it generates in pursue of revenue. … Continue reading Attention Waste – Is Your Time Investments and efforts making a difference for the better? →

Information wants to be free That is one of the "Alternatives" to the info, status or just Social talk you are having right now.   Another way of seeing it is, consider this the "alternative cost" in what you COULD have compared to what you might be getting right now.   Notice the difference when … Continue reading Information wants to be free →

Relationship Power and other Powers Relationship Power. Role Power. Authority Power. Situational powers. Accidental powers. Temporary powers. Don't let unawareness put other in powerful situations for you. Don't forget that there is most often a COST for you when using a power. For example if you forget that it's your responsibility to ensure you have … Continue reading Relationship Power and other Powers →

Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection Everything has a game window, everyone you talk or don't talk to. Everything you do or don't do. Time to Market. Start backwards from when its needed, not from when its "possible" to start. Learning to speak before or after a visiting a country … Continue reading Speed determines the value of almost EVERYTHING value, and every connection →

Turning Visible – creating trust A small talk on how sometimes trying to hide something makes a crater for all to see, making it harder to see who we really are beyond it. sometimes helping too much or too little makes us less visible, Making it harder to connect to the work that matters. Making … Continue reading Turning Visible – creating trust →